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Solve the following problem using Python, implementing the functions described below, one line at a time
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Description:
 def __find_object_children(self, obj) -> dict:
 """ Convert object to flattened object """

        if hasattr(obj, 'items') and \
                isinstance(obj.items, types.BuiltinFunctionType):
            return self.__construct_object(obj)
        elif isinstance(obj, (list, tuple, set)):
            return self.__construct_list(obj)
        else:
            exclude_list = []
            if hasattr(obj, '_sa_instance_state'):
                # load only deferred objects
                if len(orm.attributes.instance_state(obj).unloaded) > 0:
                    mapper = inspect(obj)
                    for column in mapper.attrs:
                        column.key
                        column.value
            if hasattr(obj, 'json_exclude_list'):
                # do not serialize any values in this list
                exclude_list = obj.json_exclude_list
            return self.__construct_object(vars(obj), exclude_list)
        return None