I recommend saving the instant messaging until you've exchanged a few emails because it gives you more time to think about what you are going to say and to get a feel for the other person.
M nwere ike ikwu na-azọpụta ozugbo ozi ruo mgbe ị na-na na gbanwere a ole na ole ozi ịntanetị n'ihi na ọ na-enye gị oge na-eche banyere ihe ị na-aga ikwu na iji na-obi na-adị ka onye nke ọzọ.