If you're a man and you get a random real friend request from a lovely female, then this is your very first tip-off that it may be a ploy.
Ọ bụrụ na ị bụ onye na-eme enyi na ịchọta ezigbo enyi gị na-arịọ site n'aka nwanyị mara mma, nke a bụ nke mbụ ị ga-eme ka ọ bụrụ ihe arụ.