If I didn't wanna participate (which was most of the time because I'm an introvert) then I just didn't.
Ọ bụrụ na achọpụtaghị m na mmemme ahụ (na-enweghị mgbakwunye ọ bụla) so na mmemme m n'okpuru ngwa m agaghị enwe ike ịbanye ma ọlị.