So, you should look at all the different options to find the one that suits you (and your partner).
Ọ bụrụ na ihe ọ bụla, ikike ime ihe niile dị iche iche dị iche iche kwesịrị ịkpali gị ịnwale ya na onye ị hụrụ n'anya (maọbụ n'onwe gị).