I don't try to fix people, but I can offer my experience if someone is asking for help and I do in fact have experience I can share with them.
Anaghị m arụsi ọrụ ike ịrịọ onye ọ bụla ka ọ mee ya, mana ọ bụrụ na ohere dapụta ma mmadụ akwụ m mma, enwere m ike ịgwa ha ka ha tinye ya na ịntanetị.