You may interested to know that the most practical suggestion are foumd, not in a recent book by marriage counselor, but in an ancient book that has been appreciated for centuries - the Bible.
O tla itumelela go itse gore dikakantsho tse di molemo go gaisa tsotlhe tse di leng teng, di fitlhelwa mo Baebeleng e e sa bolong go kwalwa bogologolo e bile e sa bolo go ratwa thata ke batho ka makgolokgolo a dingwaga - e seng mo bukeng nngwe e e kwadilweng bosheng ke mogakolodi mongwe wa tsa manyalo.