"If the feelings aren't mutual," says a young woman named Valerie, "it's better to be a little hurt now than to go on for months before realizing that this person wasn't interested in the first place."
Lekgarebe lengwe le le bidiwang Valerie la re: "Fa motho a sa go kgatlhegele, go botoka go utlwa botlhoko ka nako eo go na le go fetsa dikgwedi pele o lemoga gore motho yoo o ne a sa go kgatlhegele kwa tshimologong."