Unless you're itching to keep this guy around in your life (in which case you should talk to him), you could consider just getting yourself busy and focusing on yourself.
17 Fa e le gore ka lobaka lo lo rileng ga o kgone go tila go kopana le motho yoo gotlhelele (jaaka kwa tirong), o tshwanetse go tlhomamisa gore o kopana le ene fela fa go tlhokega.