In her book Talk to Me First, Deborah Roffman writes that "conversations, advertisements, movies, books, song lyrics, TV shows, texts, games, billboards, and phone and computer screens [are] so laced with sexual imagery, language, and innuendo that many [teens, preteens, and even young children] must conclude, at least unconsciously, that sex must be . . . the absolute most important thing."
Deborah Roffman o ne a kwala jaana mo bukeng ya gagwe ya Talk to Me First: "Metlotlo, dipapatso, difilimi, dibuka, mafoko a dipina, mananeo a thelebishene, melaetsa, metshameko, diboto, difouno le dikhomputara [di] tletse ditshwantsho tsa thobalano, puo e e leswe le dilo tse di dirang gore [bana le basha] ba le bantsi ba swetse ba sa lemoge gore thobalano e botlhokwa thata . . . go gaisa sengwe le sengwe."