Parents should operate so that when a child "'comes back' at age eighteen, he will find not that all the important decisions about his future have been made for him, but that he has before him a nice range of choices about what he can do with the rest of his life."
Buka ya How to Raise an Adult ya re: "O se ka wa tlwaetsa bana gore o tla ba direla sengwe le sengwe, go tswa foo fa ba tshwara dingwaga tse 18, o bo o akanya gore ba tla kgona go itirela dilo ka bobone."