Reassure the person you care about them, you are willing to listen, and you are not going to gossip about them.
BMD le a leka mme fela mathata ke gore le mangaaga le ganne go utlwa molao wa ga tautona jaanong lona le tla utwiwa ke mang,jaanon ke le raya kere carry on le ta bona ko mmu wa sekara o tla welang teng,