While I am certainly not a believer in the Secret, have you considered that you might be helping to create some of the things you fear?
4.Anigoon waxba ka sheegay odayga ruug cadaadiga ah ee lacagta ku bixinaya dariix"qabri" miyaanay ahayn in la is waydiiyo diinteenu ma ogashay in qubuurta la dhiso, mise lagama hadli karo arinta.