I'm also in a relatively small community so while I'm not a foreigner here, I am and outsider and I think understand a little of what you're experiencing.
Anigu waxa aan ahay dhexdhexaad, waxa aan ahay muwaadin ay walaalaha dibadu u siman yihiin, waxa aan ahay shaqsiyad soo dhawaynaysa hormarka oo dhan, ma ihi garab iyo koox, waxa intaas ii dheer oo aan u arkaa arintooda mid u baahan oo kaliya in meel la isugu yimaad oolaga wada hadlo iyada oo la dhan yahay.