So the explanation is that men hear what they want to hear, or they are tuning out their spouses.
Xushmad:bini aadamka sidiisuba waa u dhego nugul yahay qofka xushmeeya ee dhageysta ka koobiya waxa uu dareemaayo ama uu ka cabanaayo haweenkuna hadii ay ka helaan xushmad dheeri ah raggooda madaxa korkiisa ayey saartaa.