One doesn't say: "Well you have done this to yourself," but rather say: "Look at the gift you have given yourself that has brought you to who you are."
Marka aad intaas eegto, wax baa kaaga soo baxaya, taasna waa ay ogtahay oo ma ay faragelin, waxay ku tidhi markaa ka dib, Rabbiga taladaa leh' Taladee' Dee taas aad aragtay!