For anyone who is in a similar situation, I understand now that the focus has to be off them and onto ourselves.
Waxa uu meesha ka saaray guddoomiye Xasan Xuseen inay wadeen wax mudaharaad ah, waxaanu sida oo kale sheegay in hadda wax dhib ah aanu u dhaxayn iyaga iyo xukuumadda.