You can tell that it feels like it's a little too personal for them, but they are asking because they love us and they care, so I just keep the responses general.
, waxan odhan karnaa waxa samaynaysa in uu noqdo bilaa sees waxa ay isku bilabilabayan sheekadooda u horaysa waan kaa helay iyo waan ku jeclahay kaliya taas baana keenaysa inuu noqdo mid hadhaw si fudud u burbura