No, we are glad to have the freedom to make choices about what kind of person to become, what course of life to pursue, what friendships to form, and so on.
Cha, siyajabula ngokuthi sinenkululeko yokuzikhethela ukuthi siyoba luhlobo luni lwabantu, iyiphi inkambo yokuphila esiyoyilandela, yibaphi abangane esiyobakhetha, njalonjalo.