Each spouse writes down his overts and withholds on paper, giving the details of the specific time and place the overt/withhold was done, and what was done and/or withheld.
Babhala phansi ama-overts nama-withholds kwabo ephepheni, banikeze imininingwane yesikhathi nesikhathi sendawo i-overt/withhold nokuthi yini eyenziwe noma egodliwe.