They are looking for their man, and if they don't see him straight away in any of the men who contact them the man gets dismissed immediately and written off without the chance of another date to explore the connection (or lack thereof) further.
Bafuna umuntu yabo, futhi uma they cha bheka kuye manjalo kunoma yiziphi madoda nabo indoda Ufika sichithiwe ngokushesha futhi ukwesulwa ngaphandle ithuba ngolunye usuku ukuhlola uxhumano (noma ukuntula yalo) eminye.