"I don't remember him ever taking me anywhere or doing anything that a father would do with a son, going to the park or to the movies or to get ice cream," he told New York Daily News back in 2007.
"Angikhumbuli eke angiyise ndawo noma enza noma yini ubaba angayenza nendodana, aye epaki noma kumamuvi noma ayothenga u-ayisikhilimu.