Then, the past lover begins to attempt contact less and less often, and what usually happens next is other people will begin to get involved in the situation in such a way that the past lover's attention is diverted away from you and they have someone or something else to focus their energy on.
isithandwa esidlule siqala ukuzama ukuxhumana kancane kancane, futhi okuvame ukwenzeka ngokulandelayo ukuthi abanye abantu bazoqala ukuzibandakanya kulesi simo ngendlela yokuthi ukunakwa kwabathandi besikhathi esidlule kuphambukiswe kude kuwe futhi banomuntu noma okuthile okunye ukugxila amandla abo!