Anyway, I love the fact that you touched on this because for some, it's such a huge deal and even struggle as there are some strong racial influences and pressures in our world (media, our loved ones even, friends, etc.).
Anyway, Ngiyakuthanda yokuthi wakhuluma lokhu ngoba kwezinye, kungcono into omkhulu onjalo ngisho umzukuzuku njengoba kukhona ngamanye amathonya eziqinile zobuhlanga nezingcindezi zezwe lethu (abezindaba, esibathandayo ngisho, abangane, njll). imizwa ami mutual nokwakho kanti nabanye abaningi abase amazwana.