In fact, affinity could be defined as the "consideration of distance," since people who are far apart or close together have different ways they show affinity toward one another.
Empeleni, ukusondelana kungachazwa ngokuthi "ukucabangela ukubakude," ngoba abantu abehlukene kakhulu noma abasondelene kakhulu banezindlela ezehlukene abakhombisa ngazo ukusondelana omunye nomunye.