Ich bin 21 in a relationship and I can't tell you how many times I've been told that I'm "too young to be thinking about settling down," I should wait to "live life first," finish school and establish a career before I enter courtship/marriage.
Ngikhathazekile 21 othandana naye hhayi Ngingakutshela ukuthi ngizisize kangaki utshelwe ukuthi Ngingumfana "usemncane kakhulu ukuba ucabange azinze," Ngingaze ngethembe ukuthi "ukuphila bukhoma yokuqala," uqede esikoleni bese kuba futhi ukusungula umsebenzi ngaphambi ngiyifake usathandana / umshado.