For example, sometimes, when it is time to go to bed, your child might say, "I want to stay up with you" and will insist on doing so, trying to show that he has the power to choose what he wants to do.
Isibonelo, kwesinye isikhathi, lapho sekuyisikhathi sokuyolala, ingane yakho ingahle ithi, "Ngifuna ukuhlala nawe" futhi izophikelela ekwenzeni lokho, izama ukukhombisa ukuthi inamandla okukhetha lokho afuna ukukwenza.