As a female, I wasn't privy to much of anything, but I know the impressions, vibes, and feelings I would get from many of the elders, and how I felt about them.
Njengowesifazane, bengingazi lutho oluningi, kepha ngiyazi ukubonakala, imizwa, nemizwa engingayithola kubadala abaningi, nokuthi ngangizizwa kanjani ngabo.