There's a difference in the sub-caste level, and the guy's dad said to my friend, "Marry him over my corpse if you want, but you shan't marry him with my approval."
Otwa li twa patulula ongeshefa, ashike tate okwa li a lombwela omumwainamati wange kutya, "Ngeenge owa hala oku ka kokola ondjila, ongeshefa ohatu i pate."