You can voice a "check in" like saying, "are we ready?" or "I can't wait to marry you."
Ponhele yaasho, otava dulu okupula omunhu kutya: "Ino hala ndi uye ndi ku ulikile nghee ekonakonombibeli hali ningwa?" ile, "Onaini nefimbo peni wa hala ndi aluke tu twikile eenghundafana detu?"