Whether you are in person, on the phone, or on a web cam, even if you are not physically touching the person, you are emotionally connecting with them in sexual manner, and I believe that is reserved for marriage.
Ci kale okuti vu sapela votelefone, vo internet, ale vaso la vaso, nda ca kũlĩhĩwa lomanu ale sio, nda vu lekisa ovisimĩlo vioku likuela, ceca uvangi wokuti vu kasi oku namulãla.