Rule of thumb: If unsure, put yourself in your child's shoes, then say and do whatever you think your child would like to see and hear.
Oco ku ka lipekele lomunu o kasi oku namulãla laye, o sukila oku kuama onumbi yi popia ndoco: Nda o yongola oku linga ocina cimue okuti ku yongola oco olonjali viove vi ci kũlĩhe, yuvula oku ci linga