Either you were self-deprecating, which is a bore, or you try to explain to people, which is annoying, or you oversimplify, which is pretentious.
Loko swiendlo swa munhu wo lulama swi paluxiwa, xana na tsaka na ku khwenuta vanhu ku n'wi languta, kumbe ni yima emahlweni ka yena, ni langutisana na ntshungu ku sirhelela vubihi byakwe