Rather than looking to your spouse for how he or she can serve you, ask yourself how you can serve your spouse in a way that will meet their needs.
Ematshan'weni yo ehleketa leswaku u tiva ndlela leyinene yo khathalela nkataku, ha yini u nga n'wi vutisi leswaku hi swihi swilo leswi a nga tsakelaka leswaku u n'wi pfuna ha swona?