If you've read that book, you'll know that in the chapter on relationships it explains that in order to attract someone who likes you, first of all you have to like yourself.
Loko u ri karhi u hlaya nhlamuselo ya rirhandzu eka ndzimana leyi nga laha henhla, xana a wu swi naveli leswaku u va ni munhu loyi a nga ta ku rhandza hi ndlela yoleyo?