When people who are resilient make mistakes, they do not berate themselves with self-defeating language, such as "I'm a failure" or "I'm useless."
Loko vanhu lava nga ni xivindzi va endla swihoxo, a va tiheti matimba hi ku tirhisa marito lama nga riki manene yo tanihi lama nge, "ndzi mutsandzeki" kumbe "a ndzi pfuni nchumu."