Instead of trying to be positive or diffusing other people's emotions, we should listen and reserve judgment.
Ematshan'weni yo endla swilo leswaku hi ta voniwa hi van'wana kumbe ku lava ku endla swiavelo swa van'wana, hi ta va hi titsongahata hi ku lava xitsundzuxo kumbe hi teka swiringanyeto swa van'wana.