You have the right to say "NO" to anyone who talks about or asks you to do something that makes you uncomfortable, even if it's someone you know.
U na mfanelo wo vula leswaku E-E eka munhu un'wana na un'wana loyi a endlaka kumbe ku vulavula hi swilo leswi u twaka leswaku swi hoxekile (hambi ku ri vatswari va wena).