Instead of trying to be positive or diffusing other people's emotions, we should listen and reserve judgment.
Nṱhani ha u ṱoḓa u vhoniwa kana u dzula ri tshi vhudza vhaṅwe zwine vha fanela u zwi ita, nga u ḓiṱukufhadza ri ḓo ṱoḓa nyeletshedzo kha vhaṅwe na u pfa zwine vha zwi amba.