When you begin to adjust yourself due to other's opinions you are showing them that their opinions are more important than your own and you do not possess free will.
Loko minkarhi hinkwayo u lava leswaku ku va wena u vulavulaka eka mabulo, eka van'wana swi ta kombisa leswaku vonela ra wena hi rona ri nga ra nkoka ku tlula ra vona.