Rather than pushing it away or pretending that it does not exist, why not ask what is it trying to tell you?
Kutani ematshan'weni yo n'wi sola kumbe u n'wi byela leswi a faneleke a swi vula, ha yini u nga tekeleli xikombiso xa Yesu kutani u n'wi vutisa swivutiso leswi lavaka vonelo ra yena?