If you are in an argument with a friend or neighbor and not speaking to one another, be the one to break the silence and say, 'I'm sorry,' even if you think they should say it first...
Loko wena ni loyi u tekaneke na yena mi nga pfumelelani hi mhaka yo karhi, u nga vuli marito lawa endzhaku u nga ta tisola, yo tanihi lama nge, "ndza ku tshika" kumbe "swa antswa ndzi tikumela munhu un'wana loyi a nga ta ndzi teka ndzi ri wa nkoka."