I think that guest took it a step too far, however, with statements like "assume the risk of being treated like shit" and "hard for me to feel sympathetic."
I ntiyiso leswaku a ndzi na swivati leswi vonakaka kambe marito ya yena yo fana ni lama nge 'U ndzhwalo' nileswaku 'U xiphukuphuku,' ma ndzi vavisa."