THE CHALLENGE: When you and your spouse argue, you often bring up the past, rehashing a list of old grievances that should have been settled long ago.
Loko wena ni munghana wa wena wa vukati mi holova, mi tala ku pfuxa ta khale, mi tlhela mi vulavula hi swilo swo tala leswi mi nga tshama mi dyohelana ha swona leswi a swi fanele swi lulamisiwe khale.