If it was me, I certainly would be worried as to why I could not answer yes or no. Life is too short to maintain pride.
"Loko ndza ha ri ntsongo, a ndzo ala kunene kumbe ndzi hlamula hi ku komisa, kambe sweswi ndzi nga hlamusela kahle leswaku ha yini ndzi ta endla kumbe ndzi nga swi endli swilo swo karhi.