Mel Gibson's Dad Allegations of Elder Abuse 
 
 Mel Gibson's Dad Hutton Gibson -- Allegations of Elder Abuse 
 
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 's father -- who filed for divorce Monday -- believes his wife has been abusing him, and Mel has jumped to his dad's aid ... TMZ has learned.We're told Mel and his family have been tending to 93-year-old, who is seriously ill with a panoply of ailments. Hutton is taking a slew of medications for his conditions, but we're told his wife,(who is in her 70's) believes her husband's family is prolonging his suffering and wants to discontinue all medicines to accelerate his death. She also believes that's what Hutton wants.We're told Mel has taken the lead to ensure his dad is getting his meds, and believes Joye is guilty of elder abuse by her conduct. Sources say Mel wants Joye out of his dad's house -- stat.As we first reported, Hutton personally filed for divorce and even signed the divorce docs in shaky handwriting.We're also told Joye is going to fight it out with Mel -- possibly in court.The animosity between Mel's family and Joye is intense. ||||| Alleged phone call snippet #5 between Mel Gibson and ex-girlfriend Oksana Grigorieva is out and this time they’re fighting about that thorniest of relationship woes: $$$. Apparently, crazy-rich crazy celebrities blow their top if they have to tighten their belt and sell their Lakers box seats! Poor, poor Mel. 
 
 Gibson snarls, “I spent more than $5 million dollars on you.” Now, not to take sides or anything, but doesn’t homeboy have seven kids with his ex-wife and one with Oksana? I know you financed Oksana’s singing career and whatnot, but could that really have cost more than raising his eight kids in Hollywood? Just sayin’. Mel is screaming at Oksana, “Say thank you! Say thank you now!” and she sniffs at him, “[You’re] completely off balanced.” 
 
 Then they switch over to Popular Breakup Topic #2: who has ruined whose life more. “You’ve given me nothing but grief!” Mel roars. “And bad publicity, c**t!” 
 
 We beg to disagree on that one. 
 
 Number of times Mel says “f**k,” “f**king,” “motherf**ker,” including “you f**king used me”: approximately 14 
 
 Number of times Mel calls Oksana a “bitch”: 3 
 
 Number of times Mel calls Oksana a “whore”: 1 
 
 Number of times Mel calls Oksana a “c**t”: 2 
 
 Number of times Mel calls Oksana a “gold digger”: 1 
 
 Number of times Mel yells “Look at yourself! Look what’s done! Look at your son [from another relationship], he’s a f**king mess! You f**king excuse for a mother!” 1 
 
 Then Oksana says, “You’re the worst father I’ve ever met” and appears to hang up. 
 
 As I’ve said before, Mel Gibson sounds like a textbook case of a domestic abuser: he doesn’t take responsibility for his own actions, blames everything on Oksana, calls her names, accuses her of being a bad mom, and physically threatens her. In case you missed it, here are the deets on the other snippets of Mel Gibson’s domestic abuser-y, racist and misogynist rantings: 
 
 Mel Gibson’s Screaming Rant #4 
 
 Mel Gibson’s Screaming Rant #3 
 
 Mel Gibson Screaming Rant #2 
 
 Mel Gibson Screaming Rant #1 
 
 Gawker.com ||||| Mel Gibson Gets Plea Deal in Criminal Abuse Case 
 
 Email This has taken a plea deal in his ongoing criminal case, 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 "One major reason why this case was being brought against Mel Gibson, more than a year after the alleged incident took place, is because Sasha was made available to testify at a potential criminal trial against Mel," a source close to the case tells Radar. "Sasha's involvement and cooperation in the case was absolutely essential, and because he is a minor, both of his parents had to agree to let him participate, and that took some time to make happen." Mel Gibson has taken a plea deal in his ongoing criminal case, TMZ reports. The site's sources say Mel will make a court appearance Friday and make a no contest battery plea, meaning he will not spend time in jail for a reported incident of abuse on Jan. 6, 2010. RadarOnline.com reports that Alexander "Sasha" Dalton, the son of Mel's allegedly abused baby mama Oksana Grigorieva, was set to testify as the star witness. Sasha, 13, is the child of Oksana and actor Timothy Dalton."One major reason why this case was being brought against Mel Gibson, more than a year after the alleged incident took place, is because Sasha was made available to testify at a potential criminal trial against Mel," a source close to the case tells Radar. "Sasha's involvement and cooperation in the case was absolutely essential, and because he is a minor, both of his parents had to agree to let him participate, and that took some time to make happen." 
 
 "I know from almost 20 years as a criminal defense lawyer that sometimes justice can come for a client at too high a personal price. That is particularly so for Mel, whose right to due process can only be exercised in this case with an enormous media circus attached. 
 
 
 
 Mel's priority throughout all of this has been that the best interests of his young daughter Lucia and the rest of his children be put first in any decisions made. It is with only that in mind that he asked me to approach the District Attorney with a proposal that would bring all of this to an immediate end." 
 
 "Even though Mel believed he could win the case, he struck the deal to protect his loved ones," TMZ writes.Gibson's lawyer, Blair Berk, released the following statement to TMZ:Though the criminal case appears close to an end, RadarOnline contends that Mel's image-rehab is far from over. "The way many people perceive Mel is forever changed," Radar 's Managing Editor and Executive Vice President David Perel tells. "Mel's taped rants, with racist, violent and misogynistic language, will never be erased from the public consciousness. The aftereffects will linger for a long, long time."
– So much for enjoying one's golden years. Mel Gibson's 93-year-old dad yesterday filed for divorce from his 70-something wife of 10 years. Though TMZ reports that Hutton Gibson marked the typical "irreconcilable differences" on his filing, the site also reports that the Gibsons apparently believe Teddy Joye has been abusing the patriarch. The row apparently boils down to the many medications the "seriously ill" Hutton is on. Mel & Co. want to make sure he's taking his medicine, while Teddy apparently thinks medicating him is just dragging out his pain, and wants to call it quits on the meds so he'll die faster. That apparently has the younger Gibson crying elder abuse. TMZ adds that Hutton Gibson is seeking spousal support. The million-dollar question: Is this parent-of-celeb mess juicier than this one?