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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
There was this one comedian who summarised it pretty well. You know how every guy has a funny crazy bitch story. When women have a crazy guy story in their life it often isn't funny because they sometimes just get killed.

I think the same principle applies here. Men don't feel threatened by crazy female creeps so they are down to engage with total strangers women do feel threatened by crazy creeps so they try to avoid that.
gpt
Donald Glover, I remember that part of his routine. "Men have plenty of crazy girlfriend stories, wonder why women don't have crazy boyfriend stories? Because if you have a crazy boyfriend, you're gonna die."