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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
21 here, some of my peers are already married with kids and I don't know if I will ever feel ready for either. And to be frank, I'm fucking scared.  


Edit: Thanks for the replies! I am not planning on rushing or anything. I probably shouldn't be concerning myself about such things at this age as I am yet to graduate university, find a place to live away from my parents and a more pernament job. I am quite anxious about big life changes and having a kid is deffinitely one. It's not that I don't want to have children, rather I don't know if I will be able to handle the stress and responsibility that come with them. But as many of you said, \*knocks on wood\* I got plenty of time.
gpt
You still have ample time to decide. I got hitched at 33, and 1st time dad at 36.

I actually think doing either before turning 25 is plain stupid. First you need to enjoy free life without much responsibilities, and 2nd you should be mature enough.