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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Bingo

Life is also all about choices and the outcomes (and responsibilities) of those

I had a coworker who was dating a woman with two kids from her first marriage 

He would ALWAYS complain (surprise surprise)

I said something one day finally like “life is all about choices”

And he started to get really defensive and pulled out the “you don’t have kids so you don’t understand” card

So yeah I bluntly replied that neither does he, but he’s making the choice to be in a relationship with someone who does so yeah there are downsides to that 

He didn’t seem to like that very much
gpt
Yuck…he’s robbing himself AND those kids. If he thinks that those kids can’t sense that mom’s boyfriend doesn’t like them, then he should think again.