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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Truth, my mom is caring for her aging parent, out of a sense of obligation. She is a nurse (RN), and she feels that the nursing homes are usually miserable and many times even dangerous places (negligence, incompetence common unless you have lots of cash) - so, she cares for my grandmother in her home.  The experience of caring for her mom has wrecked their relationship. She resents her and feels that she is wasting what little is left of her life as she is 70+.

Mom keeps telling me "Ill kill myself before I do this to my own kids."
gpt
She needs to see that this is her choice.  She could make other choices