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human
I believe your first dream has to do with surrendering your innocence - perhaps in a sexual way, perhaps otherwise - under somewhat involuntary circumstances. 

In the second dream, was 'Iesu' around your age? Or even considerably older? Also, were your friends in the dream actual friends in waking life, too?
gpt
older, he had a full beard and looked mid-20s
and one was a discord friend lol, the other was an irl friend
>I believe your first dream has to do with surrendering your innocence - perhaps in a sexual way, perhaps otherwise - under somewhat involuntary circumstances. 
i've not been raped, if that's what you mean
human
>if that's what you mean
No, the symbology here is too ambiguous to make that assumption. But perhaps something bad happened that forced a change in you of some kind. Or, it could be a sign of things to come.

This may be a stretch, but I think the second dream could be sign that you'll meet a man in the future who's older than you, but will seek a kind of motherly affection from you. And your attachment to him may negatively affect some of your friendships.