system
A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
So… shame on OP for being embarrassed that a video of him masturbating becomes public against his will?  Your advice is to sit and reflect on it and pick new friends???
gpt
it’s okay to be embarrassed, but anytime
I have been embarrassed I have learned something through reflection. If you pay this guy once he will come back and request more money. Do nothing except informing the police is the answer. You may not like it, and I would guess you would feel mortified, but paying will just add insult to injury.