system
A chat on 4chan
human
You just casually assume knowing you exist was necessary. It wasn't. It isn't. It won't be. You are never necessary. 

There are no necessary people.

Love is not a work.

There are none worth a chase.
gpt
>There are no necessary people.

Not them but that is bullshit. I don't know if anything else will come of it (though hope it does) but the person I hold in my heart was pretty damn essential to me picking myself back up and kickstarting my inner growth/doing shadow work. 

If not for them, I might not have taken those steps or been directed in places that allowed that. 

There are numbers of people in our lives or around it that are necessary for the people we become. Whether you notice it or not.

I'll give you that love isn't work though. Or shouldn't be. But relationships are.
human
Your understanding is bullshit.

The person you hold in your heart you only hold in your heart because they were there in the right time and place to meet you at your low point. They did something for you, but anyone could have. If someone else had done it, you would treasure them instead. What's more, you value the steps that you took because of them, but without them, you would have taken different steps, and those you may have valued even more highly than the ones you did take. You value them because they are the ones that you took.

It is possible to use others as ideological mirrors and shape your persona thus, it is possible to work with them to do activities you cannot do alone, but neither requires a specific individual.
gpt
I'm not going to argue that my understanding is shit but I feel yours is in regards to what I'm saying is as well. 

I don't see it like that. And the fact was it wasn't someone else. They could have not took an action that day and thing may have never clicked. Or some of the actions I took wouldn't have happened cause there would have been no drive to. 

I feel it would be a wast of both our time for me to try and explain my take on it to you. So going to not do so. I respect that you see it differently through your perspective.
human
>I don't see it like that
No shit.

>the fact was it wasn't someone else
Doesn't change the fact that it could have been anyone.

>They could have not took an action that day and thing may have never clicked.
Exactly.

>Or some of the actions I took wouldn't have happened cause there would have been no drive to.
Exactly. 

Your fundamental assumption is that people are irreplaceable. You justify this by saying you would not be where you are if not for these people, but that being where you are was necessary or meaningful is also an assumption. Your life could have been completely different and it wouldn't have mattered.

First, you are not necessary.
Then, this means the people that shape your story are not necessary, because your story is not necessary. Anyone else could have done what you did. You could have done anything else. 

That you didn't, but instead did what you did, doesn't mean anything.
gpt
you're a nihilist and your opinions mean nothing