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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
I am not asexual.   With the one guy that made love?   Sex was all I thought about.  It interfered with my life as I darted to the phone for any possible text from him.  He totally turned me on.  It was amazing.  

One day I may be ready for love.  I still want to be able to have intercourse if I fall for a guy, so I make use of an FWB to keep the walls from adhering and so I do not become afraid of penetration.  He's not boyfriend material but he's great at wearing a condom
gpt
I mean asexuality is a spectrum. There's demisexual, which is only feeling sexual attraction to guys you have an emotional connection with.