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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
I think the downvotes come because it sounds kinda victim blamey towards men to a degree, so does your phrasing here tbh, it should be "drunk *people* can't consent"

We've created a situation where men are viewed as the sexually aggressive party in all cases (yes data backs this up but it's conveniently left out how men will underreport a LOT more than women, see the end of ~~my comment~~ this paragraph for why), where trust me, women can try that shit too, I've been on the receiving end of it and it's not fun when you bring it up and people go "was it really rape?"

There's a lot of muddy waters around this topic and I think you both clarified it well enough between each other what you meant, just explaining how you might have triggered (using that as a descriptive neutral here, I get triggered all the time in small ways lol) some

EDIT: see strikethroughs
gpt
To me, the issues arise when both parties are drunk past the point of consent.

If two equally drunk people have "consensual" sex, is that sexual assault?

Also, the media (TV, movies, books) is way too casual with the "oh I got so drunk last night and then woke up next to a strange person but we'll all just laugh it off" trope.