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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Yeah let’s stop encouraging people to have kids for any other reason than you want to be a parent and have 18+ years of responsibility. I think we forget that while babies are cute and all, they’re tiny humans who you have a responsibility to as a parent. And please don’t ever have kids just to prove that you’re “mature”. Anyone can have kids, but it takes a mature person to understand exactly what that means before making that decision
gpt
Ive never heard the "prove that your mature" reasoning, but ill bet its shockingly common now that im thinking about it.

How about kids to "keep the marriage together" or "so I can have someone that will love me". Those are always good ones, very healthy environments for kids.