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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
I think most trans people are accepting of this, the problem is when they happen to say “I would prefer if you refer to me as “he or him” instead please” and then some people take offense to that as if it was a huge inconvenience to them.
gpt
Most trans people get it. A growing amount of nonbinary people seem to be intent on not getting it 

I'm not here to police how anyone presents. But there's a nonbinary person I've followed on social media who dresses what I personally would call femme 80% of the time, gender neutral 20% of the time. This is a person wearing a silky top with their tits on full display wearing jewelry and makeup, and then makes comments/videos about how it's inappropriate to use she/her pronouns because they identify as nonbinary. As if a random person scrolling through content is going to realize that, as if having short hair alone in 2023 is supposed to signal a degree of masculine identity (when actually it's just a popular haircut for edgy chicks).