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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
We know. The subreddits for women are full of women complaining about this.

If you’re attractive, you can’t be nice to everyone, even if it’s in your nature, because men will misinterpret.

And if you’re ugly, men are extra mean to you because they misinterpret kindness as interest, and they’re afraid of making an uggo think they’re interested.
gpt
Tbh the same goes for men. I lost 30 lbs and got in very good shape 3 years ago and went from being ignored or given weird looks if I tried to talk to someone at a bar, to having to let down girls. This is just how the world works. It’s so much harder for unattractive people