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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Yep.

People who don’t want kids shouldn’t be pressured to.

People who really want kids should ideally adopt as a first option.
gpt
Ideally is the key word there considering the expense to adopt. And yes it's expensive to have children, but if you adopt a baby you still have all 18 years of expenses to invest as well as the extra costs. And as far as I know no insurance company covers any part of adoption the way they can cover birth.