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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
This is something I was definitely thinking about, I asked my folks about how he entered my house and they said they let him in. Everything was verbal though he was being a dick. Also was not being picked up to support my team, which would have been fine(ish) imo, was made to wrestle that day. I'm fairly certain it wasn't malicious but I was thinking it might've crossed some boundaries so that's why I asked online, because I wasn't sure.
gpt
Did you mention you were injured?  Did you get excused from the event?  Did you tell anyone you weren't coming.

Yeah reddit is full of people who will tell you to report the coach, but if it looked like you were just shirking and being irresponsible, especially if it's not the first time, the coach showing up and being let in by parents isnt wild and outlandish.  It could be concern or firm mentorship, especially if tour parents are aware and involved.

"I can't and gave you notice" and "I just don't feel like it so no call no show" are very, very different things.  Coming in your room is an overstep IMO but having lived the wrestling life I could see my coaches showing up at my house if I were a junior/senior and the morning of an event I just straight up just wasn't there.