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A chat on 4chan
human
Basically, you are still processing feelings of shame over doing anal, and the dream reflects a fear of judgment by outsiders if they find out (rumour spreading). This is small 'judgment day' for you, not end-of-the-world judgment day. 

I'm not as sure about the second part. Even though the girlfriend is the one you think is judging you, she also took you to a place that seemed welcoming and safe (hotel in the middle of a forest) and gave you the chance to 'clear the air' with yourself. (This is the clearing inthe forest.) 

Th theft is fear of loss of control over things if you are found out. You will have nothing and will be at the mercy of people that seem unattainably pious and pure. You still want the support of your family but fear communication is too hard or will fail.
gpt
thank yoyu so much. this helped to clear the fogginess i been feeling all day