system
A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
As a 34 year old who venmoed my husband of 6 years $20 for milk, bread and coffee just this morning,  I don't see what the issue is.


EDIT: Okay, so a few people are asking why, and thinking there are trust issues and wondering why our finances are separate.

The reason is that both of us have been in abusive relationships in the past, and keeping our finances separate helps us feel safe. (Abusers will often use money as a means of control)

He hadn't checked his account before going to the store, so didn't realize he hadn't been paid yet, and asked me to send him some money for the groceries. It's really not a big deal.
gpt
You aren't 35 yet. In a year you better get it together.