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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
That just feels controlling and immature to get angry at someone for not requesting permission to speak, especially on what was supposed to be a date. I've never acted like that, never been in a car with someone who acted like that, and could never date someone who would act like that. Good thing those two didn't end up with each other at least.

Also, if the music is at very high volume (which happens especially often with metal), asking isn't even possible. You could try using hand motions, but I don't want to be distracted with hand motions when I'm driving.

Of course, *changing* the music or muting it entirely just because you don't like it is another story. But reasonably lowering the volume should always be allowed. Worst case scenario, the passenger has a headache and the loud music is physically painful. It's not like the passenger can avoid it by just walking out of the moving car, and it'd be deranged if I forced them to keep enduring it in order to not hurt my feelings.
gpt
&gt;That just feels controlling and immature to get angry at someone for not requesting permission to speak, especially on what was supposed to be a date

This. What is wrong with people? 

&gt; I'm the driver, your not allowed to tou h the radio

And then they're wondering why those guys are still single. I mean come on.