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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
I dated guys who refused to ever go to a doctor because they were manly and could tough it out.

Being an adult, whether you're a man/women/trans/etc.., is about taking responsibility. And that starts with yourself! SMH
gpt
I agree! I regret my dumb dating decisions. Thank gosh my husband isn’t like that. He doesn’t give a shit if people think he’s masculine or not.

Also, just FYI- don’t say “man/woman/trans”. Trans isn’t a separate gender, just a why to define birth sex from gender. NB or non-binary is what you’re looking for. While some non-binary people also identify as trans, many trans people already fall under the category of “man” or “woman”. So it’s not a different gender, and that phrasing can make it seem like you don’t think a trans man is actually a man or a trans woman is actually a woman.

Not trying to criticize! Just figured I’d let you know for the future :)