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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Yeah what the fuck
gpt
Fetishization.  Think how some asian women might feel about overt physical attraction from white men.  It could be benign normal attraction due to her general appearance or it could be because of her being 'exotic'.

Trans people have a similar issue in dating as well. People want to be seen and desired as a person not a category on someone's personal pornhub.