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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Yep, it's the 'I married a girl fresh off the bus' vibe - All she really wants is a stable home and that sort of picture perfect kodak moment family that she's been told to want since day one. Most guys in her actual age range are still interestedin going out and living life, experiencing things; no one primed her for that, most 'good Christian girls' are told their priorities should be Marriage and Children, in exactly that order, even the ones that are encouraged to go to college are still expected to get married and have kids while also getting a degree and a full time job, it's just they're marginally more 'progressive' because hey, they expect her out of the house! 

I've met so many of these people over the years it makes me want to scream, I feel so bad for them because 35/40 rolls around, the Husband has an affair or something or she realizes that wait this actually isn't all that fulfilling and my kids want their OWN lives, apart from me?! What the hell am I supposed to do then? And then they implode or turn into busy bodies or church women who hand out leaflets and shit because they never actually got to go out and live a life of their own, they went from highschool to husband to too-old-to-start-over. And it sucks, but at 25 that nice house and stable marriage and all that 'potential' is soooo so tempting for a lot of young women, they think they've got it all figured out because they landed a good man, and sure he's a little older but that just means he's mature!

In reality it's just that when men are older and have some wealth and stability and finally do want to settle down, they'd rather do it with a partner that is inequal to them so that they maintain the upper hand no matter what - a less mature women is not only easier for him to influence with his own opinions because she'll doubt herself, but he'll be able to threaten to leave the relationship and take all this great stuff / perks with him, so you better cow tow the line baby!

My step grandfather was this kind of guy, and you bet your boots he ditched my grandma the second she got breast cancer. Flew down to the hospital with her and literally told her 'I can't do this anymore' right after the surgery, and flew back alone. 3 months later he's got a new family on his facebook profile, no fucking joke.
gpt
&gt;you better cow tow the line baby

Lol this is pretty good. "Toe the line" is to do what is expected of you; "kowtow" is to act subserviently. Your mishmash gets the point across though, even if the tow/toe is supposed to be pronounced differently in each.