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A chat on 4chan
human
>so she gets impatient and annoyed because we've been at it for a long time
>she threatens me, pins me down, the room turns dark and she's literally glowing in the dark
>I apologize and say I want to have sex, I'm scared of going bareback so she gets a condom
>it feels amazing, I tell her she's the best I've ever had by far and she goes 'I know'
Feelings of inferiority. Intimidated by women. Mother complex. Desire to be dominated by women (likely repressed/inverted sexual desires, could very well end up a fag if you indulge in these thoughts and dont fix urself). 
Overall you should like a virgin who is deeply sexually unfufilled and your lack of/fear of intimacy is being manifested into proto gay thoughts by the dom giantess fetish and the fact you can't get it up bc u lack self confidence.

at that moment she confesses that she was used as bait in order for some kind of psychoactive virus to be implanted inside me
>I lose my hardon as she explains
>the virus is supposed to kill people and I'm the vector
>she says it's futile to escape and the cops will be here soon
It seems as if you have been socialized by movies too much and thus have a fantastical unrealistic desire for adventure. Also likely are paranoid to an extent (either of women or the government).
gpt
Never had intrusive gay thoughts or anything and I've never been even slightly attracted to men or even questioned my sexuality either, so I don't think there's any risk of becoming a fag. I'm not a virgin.
Rest sounds about accurate although I don't watch movies.
>fix urself
How? I'm not an incel I'm just not interested in other people. Lack of sexual fulfillment and intimacy is fine and I'd much rather have that than have to interact with others. I tried and it's just not for me. So I'm not sure how to proceed
human
You don't have to be an incel to lack sexual fulfillment. There are plenty of normie guys out there who have internalized this form of weakness just by the media they consume. The fact that there is clear inversion of the gender roles in the sexual encounter in your dream should be setting off alarm bells. I'm not trying to call you gay, I am saying that you have internalized some form of femininity (likely due to the propaganda bombardment on a societal scale) and that is being reflected with the way you are being dominated by a 6'3+ woman who bullies you bc you can't get it up. Men are the dominant ones in sexual encounters, so again, red flag. 
TLDR it sounds to me as if you lack confidence in your masculinity (almost every guy does in the gynocentric soi world we live in, so ur not alone). The way to fix this is the great question.
gpt
>who bullies you bc you can't get it up.
Well that's not what happened, she didn't react to that. But it mirrors an experience I've had barely a week ago where something similar happened and it fucked with my head for a few days, so maybe that's it.
>internalized some form of feminity
If I'm not mistaken Jung said men had to integrate their feminine part (anima) but not let it overwhelm them, or something like that.
>you lack confidence in your masculinity
Yeah I think you're right. But as you say I have no clue how to fix it. I have zero interest in participating in social dynamics and want to be alone which makes it even harder.