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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Yeah, the OP is a very immature mindset that I see repeated often. People need to realize that they're not the main characters in others' lives. It's not embarrassing to say, "Hey I heard you were having a party on Saturday, can I join?" If you think it is, the problem is you.
gpt
&gt;If you think it is, the problem is you.

What if you're only forcing people to invite you out of kindness and not because they honestly wanted to invite you in the first place?   
Or that you don't matter enough to be invited first? 

You don't have to be the main character of someone's else life, but you may want to be something else than background somedays.