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A chat on 4chan
human
you're already setting your self up to be a victim after trying to get your foot through the door like a sleazy salesman, 'oh it's better than nothing to be just friends, i hint that seeing them with someone else would hurt oh and i use terms like friendzone (don't believe in them thou ;)'
transparent motherfucker, you must be baiting
gpt
Someone mentioned Friendzone prior. And it is a thing. Just something I believe someone puts themselves in as opposed to being put in. As in 'Don't blame the person that established boundaries and tells you they only see you as a friend'. Cause then that person has a choice. They either accept these boundaries or they move on. They put themselves wherever.


I'm speaking the truth. I don't know what you are getting at. Both of those things can be true. I love the person enough to want them in my life but am understandably upset to see someone else in a spot I desired to be in. Why the fuck wouldn't that hurt? 

Let's play 'putting yourself in someone else's shoes'. You're now the person I hypothetically stayed friends with. Look at the person you ended up with. The one I am hurt over. Now imagine if they told you they only seen you as a friend and went for someone else. You're telling me you wouldn't be hurt by that?

The hurt is understandable. It's my choice whether I want to stick around for that hurt. I tend to think that a friendship with this particular person is worth the hurt. But who the fuck really knows. I haven't experienced it. I can be happy for my friend but not at the way things turned out though. I know that to be true. I've lived it.
human
you think that friend of yours wants to keep someone around who is going to be a black hole of negative emotions as their friend if they ever decide to date someone else?
gpt
Who says I would be? It's something one would either eventually cope with/adjust to or bail on. 

The person being a 'negative black hole' would be the person that thinks they still stand a chance. And for me personally, nothing says 'I don't see you as a romantic life partner' more than getting with someone else. I'd either accept or move on. But that doesn't mean there wouldn't be hurt involved.
human
'sure you can date whoever you want, but i ain't giving no promises that i won't be hurt for this, so if you're a horrible bad mean person you can date other people, i am not telling you not to i am just relying on your christcucked upbringing to kick in where you don't want to hurt a person for no reason, what are you selfish??'
gpt
Yeah, dude. You are hell bent on misinterpreting anything said. So why would I continue to try to explain myself to you?

Take from it what you need to, I guess.