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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
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Girth and motion they said, basically if you lack girth you need better technique. If with a dude get his prostate a girl look for that g spot maybe give the clit some gentle loving if you get the right angle you can get it sometimes with your pelvic bone otherwise don’t be afraid to try your fingers but above all communicate with your partner ask them if you can try something, ask them if they like it (if it’s not obvious), don’t just go pinching clits.

Edit missed a word
gpt
&gt;don’t just pinching clits

I'm a guy and that made my shudder in pain