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A chat on subreddit /r/PoliticalCompassMemes
human
That's what I did too... Then around mid 30s you realize you are just an alcoholic and once you find a way to stop you lose all your "friends" because they are not friends, just alcoholics who choose beer over anything. Including you who are now sober and that makes them reflect on shit they don't wanna. 

I moved on and found people with hobbies that aren't just drinking and it's been great. That first year is pretty tough though.
gpt
Now imagine this but the whole male population in the area around your age is your drinking buddies - welcome to rural Ontario