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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Bro be real. If you're picking up a date you should have the common courtesy to turn your music down and talk with her. If she has to turn it down herself she is not the problem.

Its also just a psycho control freak idea that your date can't touch your radio without asking
gpt
Everyone is just assuming the music is loud as fuck but she never actually said that, for all we know it was pretty quiet and she just turned it all the way down to zero.

Honestly I would just say to you that it is a perfectly reasonable expectation for people not to mess with your car, even it’s just the radio, without at least giving them a heads up.