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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
I don't think sex is as important to a woman.   

Most sex I have had has been disappointing.   I rarely get an orgasm and even if I do I don't feel happy and pleasured.  I need to feel loved to be interested.   I need to feel desire for the guy and that is rare. 

One man knew how to do it.  Very romantic.   He could flirt.  If he would wear a condom I would not care about his harem.  

I have an FWB.  He's not horrible,  but, in the two years I have seen him, I have not orgasmed yet.  He does have basic understanding and I continue because he wears a condom without complaining.

I have toys.  I have sex to keep my vaginal walls from adhering to each other.  My toys are non penatrative
gpt
A couple possibilities here:  Maybe you're asexual?  Or maybe it's time to find a new partner.  

If you're only having sex to keep your vaginal walls from adhering to each other (is that even a thing?  I'm afraid to Google) something isn't right.