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human
then stop worrying about it, our own insecurities and overthinking is our worst enemies
gpt
I get what you are saying and you are right about the insecurities and overthinking. 

But there is some valid points to be upset and confused over...

This person has kept and keeps me at a distance. And understandably so. That's not really the confusing part. Just applying it to myself, I know some times you have to gradually get to know someone in order to open up to them. And they've expressed they like me. But still I'm kept at a distance. 

Then someone shows up they just met and it's no thing. Just reading people (and honestly putting jealousy/envy aside), this is someone that she should be apprehensive of. In terms of being careless with their emotions and overall respecting them. 

It's just baffling. And make me lose faith that genuine connections felt are ever going to be legit. 

Like I said, I'm sure proximity and status are major factors. Easier to trust someone when it appears they have their shit together. 

But you're right, I'm overthinking it and it's probably something they aren't even thinking about at all. So I shouldn't worry and just let the card fall where they may.
human

why do you let yourself be treated like that, you are a 'real human bean' if you don't put boundaries on how you let yourself be treated you will eventually and without a doubt be treated as inferior, as someone worthy of pity not respect, respect begets respects, if someone shows you none they have none
if you are a man who lives by their word, no amount of disrespect can take yours, there will only be a man of his word and some curr who tries to piss on his shoes
live what you are, and the chips will fall where they should, if not this world is purgatory and you will find liberation at the road it take you on
be worth your spine and even as a cripple you'll have it
gpt
I'm the first not the latter. 

I get what you are saying. I give and di because it's there, I care, and I want to. I'm not doing it for what I get back. It would just be nice if it were mutual But I do realize I have to set limits and quit going above and beyond for someone that can't even be bothered to wish me a Merry Christmas.
human
maybe you made it fucking clear that you want them to be nothing to you while still expecting a simp
gpt
You misread. I'd be the simp in this situation. Though I think what some people call simping is actually openly loving/wooing.