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A chat on 4chan
human
i highly reccomend shadow work for lack of a better term. you would be absolutely mind blown if you knew how much your bottled up neg emotions control your life. i had the super abusive childhood myself, and it turned me full schizo. but through facing my fears and laughing at them (love them to death) now im way less schizo. but the biggest plus is once you understand your own shadow nobody can scare you anymore with theirs. its great fun to tank screaming/anger/panic/anxiety like its nothing and watch the normies flip their shit. also i can tame anyone doing this. no matter the asshole they will be bowing at my feet before long. but you have to beat those things internally first before you can do it. 

my point being everyone else is in the same boat as you, and they do not know what they do. all you are doing by hating them is projecting your own self loathing onto them.. which then they reflect back to you. we are mirrors. also you can deal with any and all hostility by asking them who did this to them. because someone did, and if you empathise instead.. boom conflict over. because everyone just reflects their past at anyone they can. 

or you could just say im manipulative, and damn good at it. its a very useful skill and much like a gun it can be used for good or evil. but you have to know what triggers YOU before you can trigger anyone else. anyways diatribe over, thanks for reading. hope it makes you think. captcha xrapy lol
gpt
You have some very good points but I doubt that most people are going to open up if you literally ask them 'who hurt you?'.