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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
I mean, I don’t think planned kids are *that* planned most of the time.  People just decide they’re ready and then pull the goalie.
gpt
Yeah, this. There were things I wanted in place first. I wanted to be married, I wanted to have a house, but none of those were deal breakers. At a certain point we were just gonna get on with it, house or no house, married or not. 
Luckily, everything worked out, and our kids were absolutely not accidents