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human
Does the woman that has my heart currently feel (or is capable of feeling) the same love for me? 

Sometimes I feel like I matter but lately have felt like not at all.
gpt
>28
Preponderance of the Great
Your image is a Joyous Lake above gentle wind and wood. Thus the superior man, when he stands alone,
Is unconcerned,
And if he has to renounce the world,
He is undaunted.

When the strong are outside and weak are inside, all is well and nothing is out of balance.
The ridgepole sags to the breaking point.
It furthers one to have somewhere to go.
SUCCESS is a key word that comes up at hexagram 28.

It seems to me like its saying you need to be firm with who YOU are like a ridgepole or else it snaps at the breaking point. Only then when you are firm with who you are can you know the heart of the woman in question.
(my own view of the hexagram only matters to me. what you see may be different)
human
Thanks anon.