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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
It's kind of ridiculous that women wear the fanciest, most elaborate and elegant creations to stuff like this and then guys just wear the same fucking suit no matter if there's a party, a funeral or just work.
gpt
Menswear has historically been designed to avoiding showing up one’s date. In addition men’s formal suiting has borrowed many cues from military formal dress which by design inhibits individual expression in favor of group cohesion. Not saying that’s how things should stay, but that’s why. 

For me, there’s a chivalrous appeal to dressing in a quietly confident way that visually defers to my better half and allows her to feel like a queen. But sometimes I like a statement piece, too! Depends on the occasion.