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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
That shit is lost on so many people.
gpt
The games people play instead of just saying what you think. 

This last year there was a barista who kind of broke my heart. After my divorce I read a bunch of self-help books, lost a bunch of weight and started talking to girls. It was an uphill battle and I had asked 10 or 15 girls for their number before one gave me their number. 

I work from a coffee house a lot of the time because my work can be done anywhere. Her and I played flirty eyes for almost 2 weeks before I got up the nerve to talk to her. I talked to her several times before I asked for her number. 

When she gave me her number and agreed to a date I was floored. She was the prettiest girl I had ever been around and I was over the moon about the date. 

Because I'm an observant person I had noticed things about her that I found really attractive. She was a really hard worker and got along well with all the customers. Her staff seemed to really like her as well. Not to mention she really was a 10. 

A couple of days before our date I thought it would be cute to write or a small note and bring her some flowers from my garden. I went to the drive-thru and gave her the note and the flowers. And then she ghosted me.

I was so embarrassed I didn't go back to the shop for almost a month. But when I did I asked her what I had said in the note that upset her. She told me it was because I was looking for a relationship and she wasn't. She told me she had a lot going on in her life and wasn't interested and dating. I asked her why she gave me her number and agreed to go out if she didn't want to date.