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A chat on 4chan
human
I was a virgin until literally yesterday and i’m 23, i didn’t know he had a gf until last Friday.

What about this lacks self respect though? I don’t think i really mind getting used.
gpt
>What about this lacks self respect though?
>I don’t think i really mind getting used.
Are you for real? Also you're with a cheater and he'll cheat on you too.
human
He’s already cheating on me :( with his gf

I know to some degree i lack self respect. But, even though i know it will hurt me in the long run, i feel like temporary choices that are harmful aren’t necessarily disrespectful to oneself. Like, nothing lasts forever even a marriage for 80 years, they both will die. So if my life comes in short episodes like this, is it horrible to have one episode where i’m retarded and sleep with a guy who doesn’t care about me? I’ll care about myself in a later episode. I have many more years to take care of myself
gpt
>He’s already cheating on me :( with his gf
What? To be fair, the one in pain should be his gf
human
The thing is, before i knew he had a gf, he invited me over to his apartment and we were like touchy and shit and then he told me and i was shocked and left. Then i thought it over and, if i were the gf, that alone would’ve been inappropriate enough behavior for me to break up with him. “The seal was broken” type thing. So what more is sleeping with him?
gpt
>So what more is sleeping with him?
What more? He has someone already, be respectful with relationships, I doubt you would like that a girl fuck your bf even when she knows about you, don't do actions you won't like that others make with you

Also that could apply if you are both single and accept to fuck, but understand, he has a gf