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7 Feb
Chivalrous Men and the Victim-Princess Complex



And that’s just for starters. “We’ve gone beyond the dress-up and toys, and begun to look at the brand as a lifestyle, filling out all the other things girls need in life,” according to Mary Beech, Disney director of franchise management. Things girls need in life?










Yet there’s a downside to the Princess-Victim Complex.


But the problem goes beyond self-absorbed narcissism.




What is the truth of feminism? A fairy tale come true, or a royal deception that appeals to the most primitive instincts of men and women alike?

This is what the US male is up against-it has been festering for a long time. We are just as much fault for this as are women. Respecting women is not being a wimp-but letting them dictate your every awake moment is. I thought I would never use this word self-esteem we referring to men–I always connected that word with women. But younger men today–have been told so many things-by the media-school-parents that they don’t know how to act.

“Must get in touch with your feminine side” who in the hell came up with that –40 years ago that quote did not exist–your feminine side what the hell does that mean anyway? Not too long ago I opened a door at a grocery store for a young woman, she looked at me and said ” I am perfectly capable opening my own doors” well in my mind I said that is it–no more being helpful for the younger females–they want to have it all ——–well they got it!!

The Feminist movement has destroyed all respect between males and females-now it is “I can do anything you can do”–and males now believe it!!! I am sorry but there is a difference between males and females–(physically)–mentally you can change that belief in the male mind and the feminist have succeeded in doing just that…

Feminist movement has destroyed the US male–(there are some that have not been influenced by the propaganda taught) and that is because of men who taught their boys to be men–passing down what manhood is from their fathers and grandfathers…

My father held two sometimes three jobs to support his family–never complained or whined

He respected woman-open doors for them-stood up when a woman entered the room. Did not use curse words around woman (females) and as far as that goes around his children. Today the F word is used everywhere-around woman-children who cares

He could repair his own car -did his own repairs on our home-cut the grass-all those tasks that were required to keep our home in good condition.

He taught his three sons to hunt-to fish-to respect woman and to help them when they needed it-to respect our grandparents-older people-our teachers and taught us about our country (he fought in WWII as well as all my uncles) respect the flag, why we have our freedoms-who protected them.

My father always had time for us–when I went to war (Vietnam) how I was raised, by my mother and father how they encouraged me to play football,baseball, how my father taught me how to take pain (through example) how to stand on my own two feet, these all got me through that war and home in one piece.

My mother and father were married 49 years before he died, they stayed together through thick and thin–raised four children on a workers pay.

Today a lot of what I have listed above is missing in our society,divorce and the split up of the American family has contributed to much of the ills our nation suffers from today. American men must revisit those attributes that made American men the envy of the whole world….

Corny you say—well what I am saying is coming from a 62 year old. I have seen the flowering of the feminist movement and its negative impact on the American Male and Female, and as an American Male I do not like it.