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4 people had cathartic therapy:

It is very healthy to have those feelings of being willing to look at another woman as a possible date.

In your case, it shows relilience and not taking the Planner's bad behavior too personally, depsite the shock/hurt of the lack of communication/non-ending.

Now you also know how women feel when men just leave without explanation, and how wrenching it is when a woman thinks everything is going well, is good - and then it seems to literally vanish on a dime.

Smart also to take the pictures down and erase the ext messages. You are taking care of yourself by not tormenting yourself by keeping her things around.

Of course it hurts, and of course you will grieve the loss of who you hoped she would be and the relationship you hoped you would have...

It also sounds like you are not letting it take over your life - and GOOD FOR YOU !

On a work note rather than a personal one - Hope that you get a walk-in tomorrow :)


It is hard and my heart goes out to you... It is hard because of the lack of closure... no response , no word and no nothing! Sometimes it is easier to deal with a "go to hell!" than nothing... but people are insecure in how to handle things and apparetnly the planner has other issues to deal with other than being a mature, respectable person to say "hey.. let's back off a little" Hammer the final nail, enjoy yourself and things will happen... kepp smiling babe!


It's so much harder when there is no official closure.

But you don't want to keep waiting for her to call. If you settle now for her not calling you will always be settleing.

Let me just say as a personal rule I refuse to call guys at the beginning of a relationship. It goes back to my conservative roots of insisting the guy call the girl. (Sorry I didn't read very far back to see how long you have been dating the planner.)


I'm sorry, Mike.

Sounds as if she was having some difficulties within her own life, and I do believe she liked you, but something...... I detest the lack of closure, too.

But, hey, life moves along. Really:)

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