What will people say?

Every human being wishes to be accepted in the society but they are considered criminals in our Indian society. They are no different from us. They’re neither abnormal nor infected by some disease.

They didn’t choose to get bullied in schools and colleges, They didn’t choose a life where they can’t speak their heart out. Do you really think that they want such a life when in reality they don’t even know what puberty exactly means.

How do we know that we are attracted to opposite gender, did we even think about that for a moment? We need to understand that it’s not their choice, it’s in their hormones. It’s already so difficult for them, and we make it worse because there is nobody out there to listen to them. As a result, they prefer being behind the closed doors and don’t come out as who they really are, pride is out of the question. Where do you think they must be sharing their secrets, problems and emotions? Scary, isn’t it?

Instead, they decide to finish everything in the blink of an eye rather than to live as a burden to every single person around them, you know why? Kyuki “log kya kahenge?” (“What will people say?”)

They came, they saw, they loved But they couldn’t conquer!


Stick to what you say!

Why do we fall in love? Why do we even have to fall for it?

Why can’t we just love somebody unconditionally and rise in love instead of falling! I know that does not make any sense but…

Falling always hurts, yes it does! There must be something that makes our heart getting attracted to somebody. There has to be a reason because of which we give priority to a particular person out of billions in the whole lot world.

We love, we trust, we expect, we promise, we confess, we do everything to maintain a relationship. Aren’t these the basic requirements for any kind of a relationship we have?

Don’t say or promise things without thinking about it, it might affect people in many ways if you forget those promises. Anyways, all I have to say is…. 

Say it only if you mean it,

Not everybody is lucky to have it.

Make those words count!!

Not me, first you!

Ego, such a small word yet makes a big difference in our lives. Ego hides a real person and shows off a disguised attitude.
Do you think Ego may spoil relationships? Yes, they deteriorate it. The moment your ego comes in your way, you tend to lose people, irrespective to emotions related to them. This usually happens when a person lacks the initiative to take a step towards working out a relationship. They fail to understand that their ego is going to ruin everything including the times of their ups and downs in life.
Ego is like a street traffic; it forces you to think about the other way around to reach your desired destination. Value people and relationships; don’t let your ego ruin it. It should be limited to your self-respect, the moment it goes beyond, you become arrogant and it’s often said that “arrogance destroys you”.

When your ego is alive, the person within you is as good as dead. The day you destroy your ego, you’re heading towards a happy life.

“Remember, a three-letter word EGO can destroy a twelve-letter term called RELATIONSHIP.”



These two words are never meant to be spoken or to be thought of. Quit from what?

Your life, your existence, your problems? There might be lots of reasons for you to quit but at least think about it this way, if you had to quit why would you be the one in that particular situation? Ever thought of it? Umm…I don’t think so!

There are people who are unable to see this beautiful world but the darkness, then there are people who can’t hear the melodious tunes but the dead silence. So why do you think it’s just you bearing whole world’s problems?

If you are living a life and reading this blog right now then thank God that you don’t have major problems like I mentioned above. You don’t need to live life to impress people around you, you just have to live for people who matter to you the most. I’m not telling that you don’t face difficulties in your life but every difficulty has its own unique solution. At times it might be tough to take decisions but c’mon face it, without those ups and downs, our life would be simple and boring.

So if you ever plan to say
“I QUIT !”
Just take a deep breath and say
“Nah! Not today.”

Don’t let them say you are foolish,
Instead make them guilty to even think that you are foolish.

That feeling !!


Our heart beats as much as it wants, loud and clear if it wants, slow and un-noticed if it wants to. It doesn’t wait for the brain to give any command or follow as per the head wants it to when it comes to feelings.

But that innocent heart doesn’t know that the world is not the same as it wants it to be. It’s cruel enough to make it feel like it’s his fault that it beats for some people. Even the cut with a knife pains less than those marks and injuries caused by words.

It takes years to develop trust in someone but it requires only few moments of action to break that into pieces.

Any relationship in this world, whether it be a relation of a mother and a son, two soul mates or best buddies they all act like a thread; but when one betrays the other, one cheats on the other or the one hurts the other with that boneless weapon, it cuts that thread in two and when we try to join that thread again it leaves a knot and makes sure we remember that knot.

Don’t ever hurt the one who cares for you the most because you might lose the moon while counting those stars! It’s hard to believe that you don’t understand me after all these years. I won’t forget this time even if you apologize for a million times.

You broke me into pieces,
Still can’t believe it
Its hard to breathe
Im on my own now !!

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There are wounds which you can see bleed, which leaves a mark to make sure you don’t forget about that tragedy. They are very much painful but not more than the wounds which are not seen but felt by the only person who’s hurt.

There might be a chance that the person who cares for you the most, loves you till infinity and feels the same pain that you are going through. But, what if you don’t want that person to feel anything for you, instead you want someone else to feel that way?

It hurts, doesn’t it?

Life teaches us a new lesson every day we just need to make sure that we understand those vibes. Let me ask you, is time the only medicine to heal those wounds?

You might say yes! But if you try sharing that pain with the person who cares for you the most or the person whom you want to care for you, might heal that pain. It makes much easier for the time to recover from that damage, which holds you down from everything you want to do.

Now it’s up to you whether you want to heal your wounds or want to wait for another storm to hit you.

Scars are the part of our life.
It’s boring to have a normal life
Every mistake we commit gives us a new experience
Don’t waste it..!!

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I am sorry..!!
These were the three magical words which were used to either maintain a good relation with our loved ones or to break the same; or I could say it was used to be that way. It is also said when we hear something about someone’s loss. But we are not going to discuss about that, I am sure I don’t need to explain it because it is pretty much obvious.

So, as always let me ask you, did you ever apologize to someone for a sinful mistake and repeated it more than twice, maybe? Because you know that the person will anyways forgive you not because they want to, but they love you enough to forget about it and give it a fresh start. I bet you have.

By creating such situations you are not only playing with their heart but also you are making them realize not to trust even your loved ones. Apologising somebody needs lots of courage and it requires guts to admit a mistake.

There was a time when people meant and were truly sorry for what they have done, but now it’s more like a free pass to do it again and again until and unless the person completely breaks down and never ever willingly gets up and trusts their loved ones again!

Be the one who forgives people,
Not the one who demands that forgiveness.

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Tomorrow ?

Tomorrow is unpredictable. Nobody knows exactly what’s going to happen next, do you? Nah, I don’t think so. Tomorrow can be the most beautiful, realistic, amazing, unbelievably awesome day of our life or maybe it could be the worst, horrible, unwanted day.

Can we change our tomorrow? Or is it the day which remains unchanged no matter how hard you try to make it better?

Yes, that’s right; it’s all up to you. You create your tomorrow. You are the one responsible for the tomorrow you’ve been dreaming about. We don’t even know who is going to stay with us till tomorrow or who is going to stab you from behind and leave you just because they don’t have anything interesting to do in their life.

And then, there is a tomorrow where you expect something from the most important person in your life and you are like “c’mon just say it, god damn it.”

But you are so naive that you forget about everything and you just want things to get back to normal.

Now it is all up to you to decide whether

You want your tomorrow to be as you want or you want others to make that decision for you.!

The TRUTH is……..

It’s been 4 years that I’ve discovered myself; a part of me which was hidden deep inside my gut and now it’s starting to explode. And it’s also been 4 years since I’ve discovered about who you really are. The vibes which surround me the moment you appear in a blink of an eye are wonderful. But you know what the best part is? I always think I’m over you, in fact, I don’t need you, but then again it’s you and your smile which takes me to the world that everyone wishes for, a place so amazing which bring a spark of hope and light in my world of darkness; and when you leave at the end of the day there is this pain without a wound, like a bang without a sound, like tears without water.

You have actually become that oxygen to my body which couldn’t survive without breathing. Those fights which were never supposed to happen are the only reason that I am alive today, as I keep telling my stupid heart that we are not meant to be together you are not the perfect one for me. You know what the scares me, is that if you found out how I feel for you, I’m afraid to lose you again.

It is not at all scary in the dark when you are beside me, but it kills me with horror when you are not around me.!!

I hear you !

Before I start with my blog. Let me ask you something, does misunderstanding acquire a place in our heart all by itself or we are the one who lets them corrupt our mind? Umm…! Leave, I bet nobody would be able to answer it honestly!

Anyways I know, I am the one who is responsible for that betrayal, I am the person who could not make you happy when you deserve all the happiness in your life, I have agreed to the fact that I don’t deserve something priceless like you! I have my own reasons to believe that. Nobody could change the fact not even my soul who is buried deep inside the grave of my heart which is trying to convince me that nothing wrong has happened yet! Stop right where you are.

Just one thing to say


I’m listening to the every beat your heart beats, you just need to say it so, just say it….