What’s It Like Dating A Prostitute?

Prostitutes are people, and like all people, they are not defined by their work. And in general, they date! Prostitutes meet men or women they find attractive and go out with them. They have sex. They form meaningful relationships.

But what is it like for the person they are dating? How do the rules change? What is it really like dating a prostitute?

We’re going to spend a few minutes today discussing the ins and outs of dating a male or female prostitute, so you can decide for yourself if it is the right thing for you.

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Prepare For An Open Relationship

If you date a prostitute or escort, you are going to have to deal with the fact that they are going to be having sex for money as part of their workday. You will not be the only one they are having sex with.

Can you wrap your head around that? There’s nothing wrong if you can’t. But if that isn’t going to work for you, then you shouldn’t be dating a prostitute.

If on the other hand that doesn’t bother you, great! One way to think about it is that all those other guys are paying hundreds to have sex with your girlfriend or boyfriend. You are getting it for free!

The other thing to think about is that she or he has no emotional connection to her clients. They are simply clients at her job. She or he saves their emotions for you.

Be Understanding About Sex

Imagine that you work as a cook at an Italian restaurant. After work, the last thing you might want to eat is spaghetti and meatballs. Well, it’s the same for escorts. Sex is their job. And this means that after working a shift at a brothel, he or she might not be that interested in messing around.

They might want to just hang out or cuddle instead. Of course, there are going to be times when they really want sex. But if they say they are not in the mood, you are going to have to be a very understanding partner.

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Be Aware Of Your Level Of Risk

Most prostitutes are on the pill. Most also make their clients wear condoms. That should keep them fairly safe. But no method is perfect. How comfortable are you with the risk of STDs and a possible unwanted pregnancy? If you are risk-averse, you might want to wear condoms. Or it might be best to find a different type of man or woman to date.

That’s fine, and it’s your choice. But it’s a choice you should make before you date a prostitute. Making them feel bad about their level of risk is going to make you look like a jerk.

Be Conscious Of Who You Are

Some men simply can’t handle sharing their girlfriend and/or the risk of STDs and pregnancy. As we said before, that’s fine. Go your own way. If you can handle it, that’s great too.

Just be aware of who you are and what you want from a relationship. Prostitutes can make great girlfriends. They are just not for everybody.

Of course, we are not advocating that anyone go to prostitutes. We are simply answering the questions people send us.