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Should I be upset that everyone is in denial about my pregnancy?

Ever since the day I found out I was pregnant ( I was already 4 months), up until now (33 weeks pregnant with my first baby), my entire family has acted as if my pregnancy is none of their concern. My mom still says to not to by baby things because there is still a chance of me losing the baby...and my sister just flat out walks away when I mention anything about the baby. Others have also mentioned adoption several times when I have made it clear that's not the path I want to choose. I mean who does things like that? Their comments are making me so miserable and I am so tired of it. Are they in denial or just being spiteful and mean?
Mom Answers (3)
Okay, Nefertiti... You left out some information that could help answer this question. Are you a teenager or an adult? Are you dependent upon your family/still living with them or are you out on your own? Is the baby's father involved in your life? Does he want to be involved with the baby? The answer to your question depends a lot on your current situation... But I will say this. Whether you are out of the house and a business exec or a teenage mom, for the people you love to be so distant on this subject is very insensitive and selfish on their parts. No matter your age or circumstances, you need someone who can help support you during this time. An aunt, a friend, someone.
Answered 11/29/10
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hi just to answer jedimum..I am 19 yrs.old..and I live by myself but i'll soon be looking for an apartment with the baby's father to move in...The father is much involved and is so excited and anxious as i am for the new arrival even though we are still fairly young...
Answered 12/4/10
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i agree with needing to know the answers to the questions from jedimum;; but i feel like they may just be being spiteful, for their own personal reasons... my mom didnt want me to buy any baby clothes until my 33rd week which just passed b/c i previously got an abortion.... you do need to find someone supportive tho.. or bring up your feelings to them to see if/why they're acting like that.
Answered 12/1/10
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