The Cold Dead Stare







11 thoughts on “The Cold Dead Stare

  1. This what the somatic lesser gym rat did at the gym. Gave me the ” The cold stare”

    Why do narcissist have blank cold empty stares, HG? Almost as if you guys have no soul.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Please see the article The Stare.

      1. Again, spot on, HG.

        You are indeed the best source to go to, when it comes to learning about narcissist.

        1. HG Tudor says:


    2. I almost felt like he was bullying me. His eyes would not unlock with my eyes at all.

  2. Jess says:

    I’m glad I read this I was going to bypass it. Thank you. I thought it was an article with a different name “The Stare.” Equally disturbing no doubt this article is new to me and uncanny. This explains a lot.

    For the empaths a valuable skill is to learn how to mirror the blank stare. It comes in handy when u are trying to avoid fueling the narcissist. If you focus on your own breath your body will focus inward, on itself,and not show as much emotion outwardly. Try it. It’s simple meditation. Our greatest weapon against them , if you have to be around them, is self awareness. It confuses, disgusts and seems to wound them at times so beware and be safe.

  3. Dandelion says:

    HG do you mean you choose our kind beacause we ARE the most predictable and unvailed kind?
    Do you maybe compare us to an already read book?

    Isn’t there anything that sometimes surprises you a bit beacause it goes out from our typical behavioural schemes?

    Are you ever attracted to a mind that you find interesting a part from the fact of gaining fuel?

    Can you also consider that when we look into your eyes we can maybe see and feel something that you don’t even know about yourself?
    And this because we are empaths while you are not and most of all because you don’t want to know but reject yourself?

  4. Challenge Fuel says:

    A question if you do not mind….
    When you receive your fuel it causes you to feel high, right? Can that high be compared somewhat to that of being high on drugs? Is that what causes the change in eye color? That is the only thing I can think of as to how the eyes can look so different. How lovely brown eyes become black and empty.

    There was a moment that I recall while intensely kissing him. I opened my eyes for a moment to see how he was reacting to me (I guess you could say it was one of my tests, I wanted to see if he was giving his all to me) and he had his eyes open which was surprising. However they were black and empty, like he was somewhere else. It was a vacant and dead look but the blackness, I will never forget it. I called him out on it but rather than address how his eyes were different looking (the blackness) I asked why he was kissing me with his eyes open.

    But anyway back to the black eyes….does something change in the body or mind that causes eyes to become black like that similar to a drug high?

    I guess I wonder about the opposite effect too. The mirroring nonsense. How can I tell after the fact if I am being mirrored? Or will be just always mirror as he is not real has nothing real to show?

    I hope my inquiries make sense.

  5. E. B. says:

    Instead of a cold dead stare, I hope you are having a cold glass of champagne, HG. Congratulations on reaching over 9 M I L L I O N hits !

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Very good EB and thank you.

      1. E. B. says:

        You are welcome.



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