I’m Married, but I Want a Boyfriend


This just happened to my marriage.








How did this go this long unnoticed?











14 thoughts on “I’m Married, but I Want a Boyfriend

  1. I feel the same! I reallyyy want a boyfriend! The first time we went on a date after 10yrs!!! I had no idea of what to say to each other. It felt awkward to be alone without the children. I know he feels the same. When u figure it out, please let us know!

      • I know exactly where you are coming from. Me and Guy have been married for 13 years. This past summer we went on our first trip alone ever! (We never had a honeymoon because I had a 2 year old and we had Brinnon 8 months later)No kids, no friends, just me and Guy. I have to admit, I was scared to take this trip. It was a 6 hour drive to the cabin in the mountains. What would we talk about? What would we do the whole week we were there? About 3 hours in, the old me and Guy started to come out and we talked and laughed and just enjoyed each other’s company. That trip was probably the best thing for our marriage. While we were on our way back we decided that we had to take more time for ourselves. It had to be a priority and we shouldn’t feel selfish for doing it. I understand it’s never going to be like dating again because let’s face it, kids and daily life just won’t let it be!!! But just taking that little time ever once in a while to go out to eat or go hunting together or just be home alone and cook a meal together and watch a movie is just what We need to keep us from being boring old married people. And Naked Tuesdays help out too LOL!!!

  2. It will happen. You are both aware and love each other. We just had our 19 the anniversary. In the last couple of years we have rekindled that exciting romance now that we have more alone time together. It has also helped us tremendously to support each other’s hobbies and alone/friend time. Those breaks help us appreciate each other so much more. Appreciate the relationship you have and the boyfriend will be there occasionally. Lingerie and role playing doesn’t hurt either😍

    • Our issue is we pour all our alone time into sex, if something were to happen to prevent us from being intimate we’d lose our minds and not know what to do with one another. Lol

  3. When I married my best friend I was so in love…. Months went by and I looked him in the eyes handed my rings over and said ‘I want my boyfriend back’, you have no idea how hard it is I’ve been trying for 14 years and still haven’t found him inside of my husband. But every day I try.

  4. It takes workin at. Your dad is still my boyfriend in every way. When yall were small we took a weekend away every 2 months just to Kindle the flame. Took long romantic walks just holding hands. His smile still makes me giddy inside after 22 years.

  5. This was a wonderful read. There are so many couples that go through this and are too proud to voice their feelings to their partner that eventually they either separate or grow so far apart there is no return. Thank you for sharing one of the most intimate situations of your life so that others may learn to be stronger.

  6. Pingback: How this Married Woman got her Boyfriend Back | Mommy MoonBlossom

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