

Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past couple years there’s a really good chance you’ve been exposed to the Law of Attraction. While the concept is nothing new, the movie The Secret obviously brought it into the consciousness of the mainstream. As a teacher of the Law of Attraction for the past several years, I have noticed that while most people are interested in using the law to improve their lives, they need specific direction in terms of how to apply it into their lives. The intention of this series of articles is to teach you step-by-step, in simple and practical terms, exactly how to implement the Law of Attraction into your life so that you truly begin living a life full of love, happiness and abundance. All human beings are incredibly powerful and can create whatever reality they desire.

The attraction process as outlined here consists of 6 specific steps:


2.Set forth your intention.

3.Take inspired action.

4.Release the how.

5.Be a YES to life.

6.Allow the intention to manifest.

Let’s begin with feeling good.

Step 1: FEEL GOOD!

I honestly cannot think of anything more important than feeling good. Call me an optimist but I believe that if each person on the planet was focused on feeling good on a consistent basis most of the challenges we currently face as a society and as a planet would quickly be solved. People who feel good don’t hurt other people. People who feel good don’t wage wars. People who feel good are typically not selfish and self-serving. People who feel good are more likely to be guided by love versus fear. So on a global level, the more good feeling, happy, loving people roaming the planet, the better. On a personal level, the better you feel the more powerful you will be in terms of your ability to attract and manifest your desires.

Understanding the Law of Attraction is pretty simple. Consider that all manifestation begins with feelings. If you are feeling good you will attract what you want. If you are feeling bad you will attract what you do NOT want… period. Your state of being attracts everything to you.

You cannot attract wealth if you are feeling poor.
You cannot attract health if you are feeling sick.
You cannot attract love if you are feeling unworthy of it.
You cannot be happy if you are feeling undeserving of it.
You must see yourself as you want to BE and from that point of being, you will attract what you desire. So the key is to consciously choose to feel good and then just stay in the joy.

Unless you are one who just naturally feels good all the time (which makes you a very rare individual), there are some powerful tools you can use to cause you to consistently feel good. Let’s discuss three proven tools for you to consider:

The tool of GRATITUDE

When you consciously choose to live in a state of gratitude, you will automatically begin to feel good. It is not possible to think about the amazing things in your life and not feel good! By focusing on what is good, you will attract more good into your world. (Conversely, if you act like a victim and focus on what is bad, more bad will come flooding your way). It sounds so simple… because it is!

Try on this exercise for the next 30 days. Each morning, ideally as soon as you wake up, list out at least 10 things that you are grateful for. You can write the list down in a journal or on your computer, speak the list out loud, call a friend and share your list with them or scream it out loud on your morning walk. There is no wrong way to do this; the key is to just begin each day focused on what is working in your life. Focus on what you are grateful for. It does not matter how messed up you think your life might be, you still have plenty to be grateful for. The fact that you have the ability to read these words tells me you are doing okay. In fact, I’d bet there are millions of less fortunate people around the world who would change places with you in a second.

I have personally been doing this exercise every single day for over two years now. I type it up and e-mail it every day to my buddy Mike in Chicago and he sends me his in return. Why do it I do it? Because I know I have the option each morning to either be grateful for the new day or to whine and complain. And you know what? Gratitude feels a whole lot better than whining and complaining! Plus I understand the power of feeling good.

In fact, try it right now. List out 10 things you are grateful for. In case you need a little help to get started, consider things like: your body, your mind, your soul, your children, your spouse, your significant other, your lover, best friends, your home, your car, your pets, money in your bank account, your job, your business, your country, the weather, your mother-in-law, whatever…

Again, try it on for 30 days and just see what happens. Living in a state of gratitude is essential to successfully use the Law of Attraction.

The tool of MEDITATION

I cannot stress enough the importance of meditation. Whether you meditate to simply calm your mind and feel a little more peace or if you do it to make conscious contact with your source and experience complete, utter bliss, meditation is an important tool when it comes to feeling good.

There are obviously many forms of meditation to consider. I personally practice something called Shakipat meditation. Shakti is the life force energy that beats your heart and sustains the universe. In this simple third-eye meditation technique, you connect with that energy and feel an amazing natural high.

I personally sit for approximately 1 hour each day and quite honestly it is hard to express in words how this has impacted my life. I feel a great sense of calm, peace, love and joy in my life. I feel connected to the world and everyone and everything in it. I feel grateful to simply be alive. Most importantly, in this conversation of the Law of Attraction, I feel good!!

The tool of EXERCISE

Beyond the obvious health benefits of a good exercise routine, let’s be honest: exercising makes you feel good. Maybe not always while you are doing it, but when you are done you always feel better!

So if you are committed to feeling good each day, commit to some form of exercise each morning. You can walk, run, lift weights, do yoga, make love (that got your attention)… just do something each morning to get the blood pumping and create some energy. The more energy you have, the better you will feel. I recommend exercising outside if possible… breathe in the air… connect with nature… connect with the universe, God, or source (whatever name you give to the power that created this magnificent playground we get to play in).

While there are obviously many other tools you can utilize in your quest to feel good each day, I strongly advise you to incorporate these three into your routine. In fact, the best guidance I can offer is to create a powerful morning ritual (routine) which includes gratitude, meditation and exercise. Again, try it on for yourself and see how you feel.

My advice is to make feeling good your highest goal. Live in a state of gratitude and you will undoubtedly attract to you all you desire and experience a joyous life. When you feel good, everything just flows.

Teaching Children the Law of Attraction


The latest phenomenon that is gathering great momentum is the desire of many of these same people, who are parents, wanting to share this powerful information with their children.

The most often asked question I receive is “How can I teach this powerful information to my children so that they will understand it?” My first response is always an unequivocal, “Live it! Model it!”

Parents are the number one resource of information for their children. Children gather information from their parents to form their opinions, ideas, and attitudes. Research shows that children absorb most of their information based on what they see rather than what they hear.

According to the teachings of Abraham-Hicks, the leading edge of our current society’s knowledge and understanding of the law of attraction, children are born into this physical world “knowing” all there is to know from the non-physical state we all begin as. And if left to their own devices will naturally gravitate toward what is positive.

They go on to explain that the role of parents is to encourage, inspire, and allow children to follow their own journey…making their own choices; establishing their own preferences, and forming their own opinions. Parents are to only interfere to keep their children safe from real physical or emotional harm. My mother used to say in response to requests from her five children, “If it won’t hurt you, what’s the harm?” This applied to everything from my 4 yr old brother wanting to play in a mud puddle to my 15 yr old sister’s desire for bangs falling below her eyes!

And so my second response is, “allow them to be who they are”. Parents do not need to teach their children about the law of attraction. An understanding of these principles comes with them as they enter this physical world. Parents simply need to clearly define their role, model what they hope for in their children, and then assist them along their journey to discover, by way of their own experiences, what is pleasing and joyful to them. In other words, parents need to “empower” children to live as they are innately equipped to live.

When their main source of information is modeling what is essentially second nature to them, children will automatically and effortlessly live according to the principles of the law of attraction. When they are encouraged to experience what is interesting to them, they are then blessed with opportunities to create the life they were born to live.

The single most important thing parents can do for their children is to strive to become the best person they can be by working to uncover and release their limiting beliefs, ideas, and opinions that get passed on to their children without their awareness.

We are all born “knowing”…and in time, as we grow we take on the beliefs of the significant people in our lives and as we become more of a part of this physical world, we forget what we once knew.

So, the bottom line answer to parents wanting their children to be able to live their lives from a place of confidence, courage, and a positive mindset is to begin to work toward your own remembering…

To be the Best Parent, it is important to first be the Best You!

Pregnancy & Fertility – Polycystic Ovaries Syndrome (PCOS, PCO), Androgen and the Law of Attraction

Polycystic Ovaries Syndrome (PCOS, PCO)

Polycystic Ovaries Syndrome is the most common endrocrine disorder in women of child bearing years (Broomsma et al, 2008). PCOS is associated with infertility, frequent first trimester miscarriage, and an increased risk of gestational diabetes (Goldenburg & Glueck, 2008) so it can be devastating for women.

One of the most salient issues associated with polycystic ovaries syndrome is that a woman’s body produces an excess of male hormones known as androgens.

The Law of Attraction

We know from the law of attraction that in order for something to manifest in your experience, you must be a vibrational match to it. So your beliefs/thoughts and feelings (conscious or otherwise) are in alignment with the experience of what is happening for you (in this case PCOS).

Polycystic Ovaries Syndrome and the Law of Attraction

That does not mean that you has to be thinking about infertility issues or polycystic ovaries syndrome for it to appear in your reality. What is means is that the vibration of PCOS is in some way a match for what is going on in your consciousness.

We are living in a patriarchal society in which ‘maleness’ and manhood is valued more the ‘femaleness’ and womanhood. We have been taught that the expression of emotion or listening to your intuition is somewhat inferior to being strong and practical.

In this environment, it is easy to understand how a woman’s body might (unconsciously) expend more energy in producing androgen …which is vibrationally aligned to maleness (and what has been valued by society up until now) as it mirrors the messages we may have received in childhood.

How to Apply the Law of Attraction to Your Life – Honest Advice From Someone Who Wants to Help You

I am glad you are aware of the law of attraction and that you are wanting to learn how to apply the law of attraction to your life. I also want you to realize that it is through the power of the law of attraction that you have arrived at my article and I hope you can learn something from it, whether it’s something big or tiny.

The hardest part about applying to the law of attraction to your life is when you have to deal with real life issues that are right in front of your face. It is hard to think thoughts of abundance and prosperity when you are thousands of dollars in debt and the bills don’t stop pouring in.

It may be hard but it is defiantly doable. Practicing positive thinking and using the law of attraction to your advantage is no different that practicing a sport. The more you practice the better you get at it. It is easy to give up and say it doesn’t work or make up excuses for why you can’t use the law of attraction to your advantage. That isn’t going to get you anywhere.

Know and trust that this magnificent law of the universe is going to work in your favor. Leave it to the universe to give you everything you want. Trust the universe and trust the law of attraction. You are powerful beyond measure and you are more than capable of achieving anything you set your focus on.

Unfortunately in the society we live in today we are taught “no pain no gain” and that you need to work hard and suffer to get anywhere. This is complete non sense and just not true. If you truly believe and focus on your desires than you will manifest them. It is as simple as that. The problem is most people can’t believe 100% that they are going to receive something that isn’t there yet. It is hard to do but like i said if you practice it will get easier and easier.

Just practice with small things. Little things that bother you through out the day. Instead of getting worked up, just take a deep breath and think about how you would like the situation to unfold. If you always hit red lights every morning on the way to work, try one morning to set your mind on all green lights. Don’t feel like the world is against you and that you have “bad luck” for there is so such thing as luck at all.

Lawyers and The New Zealand Law Society

The history of civilised human society is in many ways the history of law where the foundations of modern law were laid in the age of enlightenment and inspired by Roman law. Theoretically, it was a gathering of ideas, values and systems which provided the framework of morale and enforceable codes of behaviour for society to adhere to. Today, law is defined as the set of rules and guidelines which are enforced by a variety of institutions authorised to do so. It provides the written mediator of society, embedding what is expected of people and their behaviour. In the present, the system of law is now divided into numerous sub groups including criminal, civil, property, trust and administrative law, among others.

Lawyers are highly trained individuals who are charged with the responsibility of interpreting the law and presenting cases in front of courts who have jurisdiction to hear and judge on such cases. In New Zealand, the term lawyer refers to both barristers and solicitors, their main roles include presenting oral arguments in courts, researching and drafting court papers, providing written and oral advocacy in administrative hearings, counselling, legal advice, drafting and negotiating contracts, conveyancing, carrying out the intent of the deceased as well as prosecuting and defending criminal suspects.

The behaviour, code of practice and behaviour are regulated by the Ministry of Justice, as well as supervising the admission, licensing and regulation of lawyers. The institutions also empower professional associations, such as law societies, who are given powers to administer the behaviour and conduct of lawyers. The New Zealand Law Society, formed in 1869 under statute, regulates lawyers within the country; although membership is voluntary. The purpose of the Law Society, as well as upholding the code of conduct, is to assist and promote the reformation of New Zealand law. The regulatory activities of the body includes issuing practice certificates to lawyers and maintaining the register of lawyers, creating and enforcing practice rules, managing a complaints service directed against lawyers, as well as operating a financial assurance scheme and fidelity fund.

For lawyers, the benefits of membership to the New Zealand Law Society is access to the full range of services mentioned previously as well as the opportunity to make a positive impact upon the law that governs us. Following the code of practice results in better customer service which leads to increased client retention, as well as increased success in tenders and panel reviews.