


Show highlights:

2:19 Dr. Marty starts with an email he got from a listener. The listener is of Indian origin, with her family and mother living in Mumbai. Her mother-in-law, who her husband acknowledges can be difficult, lives with her and her husband. He agrees that his mother can be judgmental, controlling, and more. The listener is depressed and angry over the situation. Dr. Marty discusses in depth how the listener can approach this situation.

9:55 Dr. Marty reviews what is involved in healing from infidelity.

10:55 In the previous show we talked about the Traumatic stage and the Understanding stage. This show will cover more on the Understanding stage, the Repair stage, the Healing stage, and the Integration stage.

12:47 Dr. Marty explodes one of the greatest destructive myths about what it takes to heal, and keep couples together.

17:00 How is it possible to reframe negative pivotal moments in a relationship?

17:42 We review several things that can be done to help with closure.

20:18 Dr. Marty introduces a hypothetical situation with Jack and Jill Smith, about dealing with the past.

25:55 How can we talk about the past, without just repeating the same things, and getting into accusations and arguments?