Dear Miriam,

I’M just out of a 25-year marriage and feel as free as a bird. It’s lovely.

A younger man at work and another friend nearer my age seem keen on me.

Is it OK to test the water with both of them and see how I get on?

Miriam ays...

YES. Multi-dating can help you mix with the vast array of potential partners out there.

Just be truthful to the people involved. Don’t lead them on to think they have an exclusive relationship with you. That would be wrong.