sex after infidelity

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Registered: 12-31-1969
sex after infidelity
Tue, 08-21-2012 - 1:12pm

I just found out my husband had an affair. She contacted ME and told all including how great the sex was. How do I get back my confidence for sex after something like this? how do I know I'm enough? 

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Tue, 08-21-2012 - 11:28pm

She gave you all the advantage!  methinks she is losing him.  This is the time for cunning.  Your calm will bother her more.  It is not about sex. 

   I wish I had seen you post earlier.  Anyone who would do what she did is desperate or an idiot.


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Registered: 09-12-2008
Tue, 08-21-2012 - 1:51pm

You are very fresh to this subject and it is going to take some time to wrap your mind around issues of intimacy.

May I recommend a book? "Getting Past the Affair." :

It has a very good section on sex questions.

I'm sorry you are going through this. People can be very vicious. You don't deserve to have someone treat you this way.

