Nonverbal Cues That Your Date Is Into You

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Learn to read these subtle body language clues and detect what your date's really thinking.

When it comes to finding a potential soul mate, getting the date is only half the battle.

These days, small talk isn't enough to determine if someone is into you, but you can rely on more innate signs based on a person's body language. Sure, a big, wide smile is a good starting point, but there are other telltale signs that can also tip you off as to whether your date is into you. 4 Signs That A First Date Is Going Really Well


1. Prolonged Eye Contact: This may seem simple enough, but sometimes people tend to forget just how much a locked stare or held gaze can actually say. A Dartmouth University study found that male participants who were asked to rate models based on a series of photos preferred those who were staring directly at the camera; those who weren't were seen as less agreeable. Think of it this way: if your date's eyes wander during the conversation, he might be bored. 

2 Dilated Pupils: Eye contact is one thing, but dilated pupils are hard to fake. Science has proven that a person's eyes dilate when she sees something she finds attractive. This could be a great way to determine if your date is into you, but be careful, because it might also be that plate of food in front of her that she's interested in, or perhaps the sign of a drug problem. Either way, the pupils provide important information. Don't Get Lost In His Eyes: The Mouth Says It All

3. The Eyebrow Lift: It sounds like a cliché out of an old classic film, but according to Yahoo Personals, when a man sees someone he's into, he might quickly lift and lower his eyebrows, wrinkling his forehead in the process. He may not even be aware of his own actions, as anthropologists have labeled the move "the eyebrow flash," so you have to be on your own toes to pick up on this one. 

4. A Whispered Tone: If your date's personal lowdown comes in the form of a softly-spoken tone, that’s a good sign. When a man talks in a low voice, he's likely indicating that his words are for you only, said Greg Hartley, former Army Special Forces interrogator and author of I Can Read You Like a Book: How to Spot the Messages and Emotions People Are Really Sending With Their Body Language. Hartley spoke to regarding men's sure-fire signals that prove they're interested. "If he's telling you something private or secret, it's a good thing—guys don't do that to women they're not into," he said. And women take note; this is the kind of move that works both ways. 

5. Spread Legs: This implies an invitation of sorts, and it's considered a primal move that men tend to do subconsciously. says men do this to make themselves appear taller, hotter, and more attractive. It can be done sitting or standing, so if those legs are slightly ajar, it's likely in your favor. 10 Quick Ways To Size Him Up

6. Relaxed Posture: Most of us, male or female, will keep close to our dates if we're interested, avoiding a lot of space between us. But a relaxed posture can reflect a comfort level that provides a great sign. A man may pull the suave upright stance and swagger to lure a woman in, but when he's at ease and having a good time, he'll likely be all rounded shoulders and soft-head tilts. 

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