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22 F Charlestown, MA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:46pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Working on university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Latin (Okay), Chinese (Poorly), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm in a committed relationship with TonsOfMoxie. Right now, I'm just for you brave souls who want to talk to me and can make a very good case for why I should talk back.

Usually, I really feel excited about everything I can and will do. Other times, I get bored of feeling excited all the time, so I get excited about being bored for a change.

I like nature and cities but not suburbs. I don't love to travel but I love what happens when I travel. I've had conversations that lasted a double-digit number of hours more than once.

I try to surround myself with intense people who aren't afraid to explore the world or the mind. But I envy people who can live a little more freely, and love spending time with them.

I'm very open to new ideas and people who are wrong sometimes say I'm laid-back and nonjudgmental. I believe in good judgement and keen discrimination. Why's that? Basically, I think the ability to judge is what separates humans from like, rocks. When I hear that someone is non-judgemental, I imagine their brain is perpetually full of cheery elevator music. A good quality in an elevator, but not a date.

Sometimes, I get a little insecure because I've never had insomnia, and all the cool smart people I know are like these brilliant tortured insomniacs and I totally want to jump on that bandwagon (probably just for a day). I also tend to be pretty cheerful, optimistic, and irritatingly filled with hope.

I'm a girl that doesn't like to play games. No, seriously, I hate games. Sports, chess, videogames... unless it's the Hunger Games, manufactured conflict scenarios get dumped in the idgaf hinterlands of my mental landscape. Dating games are fine though.
What I’m doing with my life
Splitting my time between travels, Stanford, and Brooklyn. Studying Ethics and Earth Systems. Maximizing utility. Criticizing utilitarianism, then feeling bad about it because I can't think of a better idea. Being surprisingly easily persuaded to try things.
I’m really good at
reading fast (like, really fast), making quick decisions, cooking ridiculously good vegetarian food, baking, having long conversations that actually go somewhere, scuba diving. Taking people more seriously than they take themselves. Eating my cuticles (those angles get rough, man). Playing the Devil's Advocate. Getting so excited I jump when I try to stand and run when I try to walk. Generally and genuinely giving a fuck (for those of you with no fucks left to give, I'm so sorry, dating must be very difficult).

One of my strongest qualities (for good or for evil) is that I really feel the need to act on my interests, like, now. If I realize I want to see/read/make something, it's likely that I'll drop everything and attempt to do so.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have nice tits, I bite my nails, and I have the burning intensity of a dying star. Seriously, I get all three.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books (the most important): Infinite Jest, East of Eden, Paradise Lost (books 1 and 2), Blood Meridian, John Williams' Augustus, The Brothers Karamazov, 1984, A Clockwork Orange, Oryx and Crake, the Oresteia, Dangerous Laughter,
Federico Garcia Lorca, Philip K. Dick, Alfred Bester, Neil Gaiman, Richard Matheson, Theodore Sturgeon, Stephen King, Brom, lotr.

Movies: The Silence of the Lambs, Natural Born Killers, Moonrise Kingdom, Requiem for a Dream, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, Django Unchained, Fight Club, The Dark Knight, Gattaca, V for Vendetta, AI, My Cousin Vinny, lotr.

Shows: South Park, Game of Thrones, Buffy the Vampire Slayer.

Music: Okay, this is going to freak people out, but music taste and preference is honestly not my thing. I love some music, like Leonard Cohen's, so much it hurts, but I can never really seem to find a consistent set of preferences in terms of genre, etc. I also probably like whatever's popular right now.

Food: vegetarian, with an emphasis on berries, chocolate, and colorful vegetables.

Other stuff I really like: Louis CK, The Last Psychiatrist, picking out rare dog breeds on the street, and real-life hero dogs.
The six things I could never do without
a pencil and paper, my lighter, my taser, and my ring. And everything they stand for.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
TonsofMoxie, geoengineering, the ethical implications of science, genetic modification and cognitive enhancement, the psychology of serial killers (and why so many of my ladyfriends are obsessed with serial killers), feral children, salvia, life in the past, life in the future...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Every time I watch the movie AI, I sob because it breaks my heart
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
you want to:

Tell me about an unusual belief you hold, and why you hold it, or....

Describe a time you did the right thing even though the people around you thought it was wrong, or...

Show me your favorite place or piece of writing or art and explain why it's your favorite, or...

Write about an unusual and intense experience that you had that you want to share with an interested stranger.

Also, if you're not annoyed that I'm on this site even though I'm seeing someone. "But seelouise, doesn't that make you an attention whore?" No, it makes you an idiot. If you only want sex and dates, click the little sexy datey options in your "looking for" button, and you won't be bothered by not-sex-and-date wanting people like me. And people who DO want other stuff can find it. Then everyone will be happy! Isn't the internet amazing?