Why Sex Against The Wall Is The Naughtiest Position

It just screams "gotta have your body now," and yields that erotic thrill you both crave. Read our primer for tips.

Obviously, there are plenty of amazing sex positions to choose from, and we've brought you our fair share of them. But, there's one in particular that rises above the rest on the steaminess meter: getting busy against a wall. Isn't it just so convenient for a quickie?

The basic primal nature of having sex against a wall is the reason it's unbelievably torrid. "When you're so aroused that you just can't wait another second, this is an immediate solution for expressing that intensity," says Lori Buckley, PhD, sex therapist in California. "The fact that your guy is pressing you into the wall lends it an urgent, almost aggressive feel." But while this position couldn't be hotter, it's not the smoothest to put into action. Therefore, it helps to have a primer.

Maximize What Makes It So Scorching

The sense of urgency in wall sex is one of its lustiest selling points. Amplify that by leaving on some of your clothes, suggests Buckley. Begin ripping off each other's attire as soon as you walk through the door, yet don't take everything off—for example, you can have him pull down your underwear, but keep your skirt on or unbutton his shirt without stripping it off.

Also, adding to the appeal is that you're being dominated. "Some guys love to feel powerful, and since he has you pinned against the wall, he's in complete control of the pace and depth of his thrusting," explains Sari Locker, PhD, author of The Complete Idiot'’s Guide To Amazing Sex. With your man right in front of you and the wall buffering your back, your movement is restricted. You'll experience a sensation of vulnerability and confinement, which can turn out to be a huge turn-on.


Master The Position



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If you do want to get more involved, here's a fix: Have him pull you a couple inches away from the wall, until only your shoulders rest on it. Then, begin slowly circling your hips in either direction. It is a great sensation and also gives you some control.

Try A Sexy Variation


You can also regulate how far he penetrates you. If you're craving intensity, bend farther toward the floor. "He'll be able to enter you very deeply, and you'll feel increased pressure," says Locker. For shallower penetration, straighten up slightly. "Each angle grips the penis differently, providing new sensations for both of you," explains Locker. You can also stand straight up and press your entire body into the wall.


5 Hot Things To Do With Your Hands


1. Draw him close. Arch your back, and put one hand behind his neck and pull his face toward your breasts. It shows how bad you're craving him.

2. Apply pressure. Push your nails into his back or gently tug the roots of his hair. A rough touch feels wild and conveys your dire excitement for him.

3. Stroke your breasts. Watching you turn yourself on is a thrilling visual for him.

4. Hold his face. Place your palms flat against his cheeks, and gaze directly into his eyes. This way, you'll be able to see each other's enjoyment.

5. Give a sexy squeeze. Grip your guy's biceps, chest muscles, and shoulders—expressing how much you love his body gives him a confidence boost.

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