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46 / M / Straight / Married

Pittsburgh, PA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 11
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Type
Has kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I tend to spend a couple years with each interest. I've been really into glassblowing, soaring & flying, and skiing. I hope to get back into each of those, especially glassblowing. In fact, if all I can find on OkCupid is a glassblowing partner, I'll consider that a major success.

Right now I'm into Burning Man, Dance Dance Revolution, food & wine, and tennis.

I am fun loving, intense, and decisive
What I’m doing with my life
I've been a massively multiplayer game designer for the last 10 years - it *is* my dream job, always has been, even before I was able to do it full-time. I hope to be able to do this forever.

But lately I'm feeling the need to create art. To me, great art causes strong emotions, and sometimes even creates a shift in thinking. I hope that some day my art is that good.
I’m really good at
Fun stuff: I'm really good at Dance Dance Revolution. I want to find someone to play with that can beat me.

Skill stuff: I'm a great programmer, especially algorithm design.

Important stuff: I have a knack for identifying what other people are good at, what they're doing right, and what their qualities are.
The first things people usually notice about me
I honestly don't know. In fact, if you chat with me and tell me what you first notice, I'll put it here. If it's a good thing ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Atlas Shrugged. I wouldn't say it changed me, because reading it was an affirmation of what I've always believed. For food, I really like experimental cuisine. Science cooking. Figuring out how to turn a duck into cotton candy, that sort of thing.

My favorite band is the Fiery Furnaces - they're wildly creative and take huge risks. For instance, one album was rock opera sung half by an 80 year old woman. It was spectacular.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Evolutionary psychology - explanations for human behaviors that otherwise make no sense. For instance, everyone likes to play hide & seek (especially kids, and it's true for all cultures.) You can imagine an evolutionary reason for why playing hide & seek would be fun. But "combinatorics games" like chess, go, and awari are also universal, and the explanation for that isn't so obvious, at least to me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
You should message me if
If you're a passionate, unique person you should message me. I'll respond. If we don't connect then there's no harm, right? And even though I don't have dozens of people that I'm close to, my friends are extraordinarily varied. As I write this, I'm on vacation with a couple of friends who are about twice my age. So, ask me about that.