Lose the Gadgets
You can't really give your woman your full attention if your phone is buzzing nonstop and you're checking e-mails on your BlackBerry. "You'll obviously be distracted if there's any external stimuli, so show her that your focus is completely on her by detaching from gadgets," says Bobbie Reid, author of Clueless: Real Solutions for Men Who Don't Get It and the Women Who Love Them. She knows it's hard for you to tear yourself away from the toys, so doing so says a lot.

Make a Special Plan
Normally, you may go back and forth with "I dunno, what do you want to do?" So if you actually have a plan, it feels like more of an event. "Suggest doing an activity alone together for a few hours — whether it's going to a comedy show, bowling, or hitting up a restaurant she loves," suggests psychologist Diana Kirschner, PhD, star of MSN Webcast "Love in 90 Days Boot Camp." "She'll love that you took initiative to plan out a memorable night without making her do any of the work."

Spoon for 15
When you get into bed with your girl, you usually have one of two things on your mind: sleep or sex. Both are nice, but you will win points with her if you suggest just 15 minutes of snuggling. Okay, don't start gagging just yet. "Simply lying there and holding her, even for a short period of time, can fulfill her need for attention and affection," explains Kirschner. And let's be honest, tough guy: You love a good cuddle session yourself.

Pick Her Over Them
Don't get us wrong — we know that your nights out with the boys are essential to your manhood. After all, our girl time is important to us too. That's why it means so much to your girl when you occasionally put your buddies on the back burner to spend some quality time with her. "By choosing her over them, you're making a statement that she comes first," says Reid. "A Monday night becomes a much bigger deal if she knows you've given up watching sports with a bunch of your friends to cook dinner at her place."

Myth: Women can go a while without sex.

"I haven't had sex in two months, and I'm ready to pull all my hair out. Sure, I can take care of myself, but I'm dying for a hot, sweaty night with a sexy man!"
Tricia, 32

"Men assume that just because we turn them down sometimes, we don't need sex like they do. Wrong! Without biweekly orgasms, I seriously can't function."
Carla, 25

"Anyone can go a long time without sex if they're forced to, but I know few women who actually want to. Hey now, we're human too, and we have our own primal needs."
Heidi, 24