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I don't know what to do.

I don't know what to do.

My husband has started his training and he will deploy on friday to go back to work, I have been physically and mentally tired and I don't know how I am gonna take care of my baby I just need some advice on how to get through this.
asked by oceana brooks 2 years 18 weeks ago
answers (4)

My husband inlisted in the army at 26,at that time my son bryer was young and I was working and I needed my husband to help me with the baby. I didn't wanna stand in the way of what he wanted he had always dreamed of being like his father and being in the army. I let him go I had my mom watch my son for a while but when he was 2 I had my daughter kailey so I quit. I was worried all the time about him , once he worked his 4 years he decided thats not what he wanted so he got a job close to home. The reason I am telling you this is to let you know things get better,I know your worried and its hard to keep going when you feel like that but it will get better and you will make it through.  You will figure it out as you move through life and when your husband is home it will make it all worth it.

You cand either get some help with wacthing her, either from family, friends or day care, or you can suck it up and take care of her yourself. Those are your only options. Being a stay at home mom is difficult, there's no doubt about it. But no matter what you're going through your first priority is your daughter. I know it can be lonely, it can be isolating and it's a 24 hour a day job. But, it's your life, you have to just have to do it. 

It's not easy for me to take care of a 3 year old and an 18 month old while keeping the house clean (which I generally fail at), cooking and all the meal and budget planning that goes with it, while being pregnant. But I do it because I don't really have a choice. Yes, my husband is "only" in school and is home every night, but I do my job to the best of my ability because I know I have to. 

I've had to deal with my husband being away at times and it's been weird and a little difficult. So for you, since you'll be without your husband for an extended period of time, the best thing would be to have someone else take care of your daughter for a couple of hours a day so that you can have some time to yourself.

I have my parents and siblings that can help.

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