Fear concept with word eraser and pencil on white background



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21 thoughts on “F.E.A.R.

  1. I love this Jan! It is so hard when you get stuck in the fear. I am coming out of that phase and the steps you lay out are the ones needed to do it. With writing and life it is so freeing to step out of what is holding you back. Glad you shared what you learned at the conference:)

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  2. This is a wonderful post, Jan, and a reminder that we all need quiet time away to renew our spirits and vanquish our fears. I lean on prayer, but I also like moments for meditation and peace. I don’t have a beach nearby, but I have a beautiful scene I conjure in my head any time I want to escape there!

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  3. Jan- whatca wonderful blog. I turn to Jesus to help me get through FEAR, tribulations, and roadblocks. He’s my rock.
    Loved this, I’ll have to try meditation. You are so correct, there are many books published everyday, but non are like the one you write. Just like in life, many go through the same FEAR, but no one can conquer it the same way. So make your conquering unique to yourself. God made no mistakes, we are all a product of his great miracle.
    Love you.

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  4. I am so glad you enjoyed the post. It really resonated with me and when that happens, I am compelled to share. 🙂 Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving a comment. Hugs!


  5. Wonderful, Jan. I loved everything and could easily relate to your points. Your definition of F.E.A.R. is perfect; Before your blog, I’ve never thought of it as false evidence appearing real. Thank you! ♥

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  6. Excellent post, Jan. When I have a fear of moving forward I usually outflank the fear by going in a more roundabout direction. For example, stuck on a WIP. Write a short story. I must say also at my age, fear is very rare.

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    1. You make an excellent point, John. By the time we reach our “golden” years, we pretty much realize that fear is a hoax. 🙂 If only I could have known what I know now when I was young. Thank you for your comment!

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      1. I used to council that 99% of what we fear never happens and to ask the question, “If my fear comes true what is the worst that could happen?” Usually the fear falls apeart under that kind of analysis. Thanks, Jan


  7. This is so true, Jan. Every single word. Fear keeps a lot of writers in a stranglehold, unable to move forward because there is always the possibility of failure waiting to stomp on us. We have to learn to be FEARLESS. Bold, Positive. Take what you want. It’s there so grab it. An excellent blog! Love you, sister.

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    1. Thank you, sister. I appreciate your comment. We do have to learn to be fearless and take a leap of faith for what we want. I’m so glad you enjoyed the blog. I love you!


  8. You are so right Jan, about the nature of fear. It can damage our creativity, imagination, and productivity. Yes, there were great enriching sessions we attended last weekend. Along with meditation, I sit quietly in the early morning hours and focus on Jesus as I talk to him about my fears, and other concerns. For me, this sets the tone for the rest of my day and I don’t feel so nervous, rattled, or tense. Other times, I will sit on my front porch or take an early morning walk at the Dallas Arboretum, sit on a bench near a babbling brook and begin my talk. It is so refreshing!

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    1. Thank you for your comment, Judy. Yes, the Arboretum is such a peaceful sanctuary and how blessed you are to live to close. What beautiful ways to start your day!


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