Why the female flirt is wasting her time

Why the female flirt is wasting her time

Oblivious: Men don’t pick up on seductive techniques of the opposite sex

Some girls merely flutter their eyelashes.

Others snuggle up close and play footsie, while the really forward type might venture a touch on the thigh.

But whatever the method of flirting it just doesn’t work with most men, claim researchers.

The male brain, it seems, is hopeless at picking up “come-on” signals, according to a report to be published next month. This leaves men impervious to the seduction techniques of the opposite sex.

A study by scientists at Indiana University tested 280 undergraduates of both genders on their ability to spot social signals.

They were shown photographs of women and asked to categorise them as friendly, sexually interested, sad or rejecting.

The male students were far less accurate than the females at interpreting the body language, and were particularly baffled by the difference between flirty and friendly gestures.

When shown images of women making advances, men tended to misread the sexual cues as friendliness. At the same time they mistook photos of women merely being friendly for sexual interest.



“Failure to pursue could be an indicator of misperception but could easily be explained by noninterestthe scientists write in the journal Psychological Science.




Lead researcher Dr Coreen Farris reassures women, however, that all is not lost when it comes to flirting. She said: “These are average differences. Some men are very skilled in reading clues.”

Best- selling author Kathy Lette said the research proved that women are far more fluent in body language.

“It is really confusing for women,” she said.

“The average bloke either doesn’t realise that we fancy him until we are giving birth to his children in the labour ward; or he presumes all women fancy him all the time.

“God was playing some kind of prank when he developed two sexes.”