


Today I’m answering a question that comes up a lot:


The answer is yes. And no.





Here’s what I mean.










It’s the only thing you have control over.






Ok, your turn.





  1. Brenda


  2. Stacey


  3. Susan Seale



    I got the job.



  4. Ro


  5. Shannon Elhart


  6. Beth


  7. Shanda



  8. Torrie




    I swear…you have the best blog EVER!!!

    1. Susan Post author

      Thank you so much Torrie!! I love that you love it 😀 And that’s such a great way of looking at it. The U protecting us, by not letting anyone manifest for us. Awesome point!

  9. Stacey

    Thank you I Am currently struggling with this. My husband currently works out of state and possibly want to move from our home town. The kids and I don’t want to for numerous reasons. I try to manifest a good job to come his way here, with no luck. I now see he has to want it to and put actions behind it himself

  10. Ildiko

    My spouse is struggling to keep his jobs, and mostly unsuccessfully. this has been going on for years, and we are financially strained. I’ve tried to be very supportive. He does not believe in the law of attraction. I’ve been telling him he needs to do more, and he just told me that maybe it is my fault that bad things happen to him. I am a worrier and always see bad things coming in our financial area, and mostly because of him. Is that possible that I caused all the “misfortune” in his job situations? Eventually it is part of our financial picture, which i constantly worry about. I’ve read before that we cannot manifest for others, but i am confused. Our financial situation is connected, we are on the same bank account. Every time I do good at my work and raise my salary, his pay reduces, or he does not get enough assignments. Is he right about blaming me?

    1. Susan Post author

      Ildiko, I’m so sorry you’re going through that.

      I promise you that NO ONE is responsible for anyone else’s experience of reality. Meaning it is NOT your fault that he is having job misfortune.

      You can’t create for someone else. Reality is a reflection of each individuals belief system. And it can feel like you’re responsible if you both have similar beliefs, but I assure you his experience is all his. Life isn’t happening to you, it’s happening FROM you.

      I have a free training coming out on Jan 19th and it will help you understand all of this, especially the first video where I explain how it all works. You can get it here if you’re interested,

      Keep doing what you’re doing for yourself. You can’t make him participate, but your shifts & changes could inspire him if he sees you in action 🙂

  11. Sarah

    People say that whatever we think about, gets manifested in our life. If i think I am happy, then good things will happen to me and I i think I am sad then bad things will happen to me.So, does that mean that if I think anything about someone and that person has even a small fear or wish for that to occur, then it will get manifested in their lives? For example, I meet so many people every day and almost all of them want certain things like health, happiness and wealth and are afraid of thins like financial problems, illness, death. So, if I just think that ‘this person in front of me looks very miserable. He’s probably ill’ and he HAS a small fear that maybe I’ll fall ill sometime in the future, so does that mean he is aligned (because we’re both thinking the same thing) and that there is a possibility that he MAY fall ill. This makes it feel that I have to watch my thoughts all the time. I realize that not every thought has the power to manifest itself but how can I know which thought will manifest itself and which won’t? I am really confused about this. Also, if we can’t create in someone else’s reality, then how can our positive thoughts affect them and not negative thoughts? In the comment above, you said that Ildiko’s thoughts did not have anything to do with her husband’s job but in the post you mentioned that our positive thoughts and love (even if we just do it in our mind) can affect them.
    Your blog has helped me immensely in understanding the different aspects of the Law of Attraction. I strongly believe in the Law of Attraction but I have not been able to understand the bit about ‘manifesting for others’ and how our thoughts affect their reality. Please help me.

    1. Susan Post author

      Hi Sarah, I’m sorry for your confusion! And I know the loa can be confusing because 90% of how we create is from our subconscious and unconscious mind. Our conscious thoughts are only 10% of the game.

      Look at this way – you do not create based on one thought you create based on your belief system.

      Your beliefs dominate your thoughts which create emotions which filter your perception of reality. This is why no 2 are alike.So while you may see something for someone else they can’t experience it for themselves unless their own belief system is aligned with it also AND they allow their experience of it.

      If you haven’t watched it yet, check out my free training here : I explain a lot in those videos it may give you more clarity. I hope this helps and thanks again for you comment! XX

  12. Jennifer

    First let me tell you I just subscribed and I’m loving every bit of this. This is so interesting and informative and so on my line of thinking I just didn’t know how to put it all in words.
    Unfortunately this whole thing rings true with me, my fiancé is sick has heart disease and quite frankly we’re not sure how much life he has in him. Before me his outlook on life was very bad, he did not except his illness I mean he never wanted to die but basically acted as if it wasn’t there if that makes sense. I came along tried to make him see how important taking care of himself was which led us to numerous fights and disagreements. Without writing a book I was healthy so I thought unfortuney I fell short and had to have surgery and ended up being injured by a dr and had an organ chopped and became septic.
    After being sent home and septic poison shock setting in organ failure and primarily kidney failure 1 month in the icu a year later and 5 surgeries in this short year I’m alive and very well. I’ve fought the fought of my life this past year but my moral to this story is thru my attitude being so positive and strong and the love of another person I’ve survived when I was given a small 18 percent chance to live. In return my dedication to life and my positive attitude has given my boyfriend a whole new outlook and together I feel we’re aligned. He has started accepting his illness and doing much better and living a much healthier life.
    Today, we are both living and fighting together to keep our health straight but we know with the help of god and us together we’re gonna do it. I always try and be positive and I’m one of the happiest people ever everyone always says are you really that happy I say yes but I have to say this is by the far the best thing I’ve listened to in a long time. Very inspirational and very true. Thank you Susan this is great thank you for sharing and keep it coming.

  13. Adiga

    My best friend’s dad is planning to change her school but she wants to stay in my school and so do I. What can I do so that she stays in my school?
    Pls help

    1. Susan Post author

      Adiga, think about why you guys want to stay together. You want to focus on still being friends, being able to nothings together have each other etc. If you focus solely on where that happens you put yourself in a state of resistance.

      It’s about trusting that the U has your back. The Universe is smarter than us 🙂 There could be reasons for her going to another school that you guys don’t know about yet, but you can – together – manifest what’s underneath you being at school together.

      Make a list of all of the cool, fun things you guys get out of being in school together & decide you will still do those things no matter what happens. Maybe she’ll stay maybe she’ll go, but you’ll still have what you really want underneath the surface. <3

  14. Saba

    For several years after a move to a place that I didn’t like, I’ve tried focusing my energy on going back to the place that I did love, but without success. It was because of my father’s job that this move happened and I guess everyone else in my family was happy about it apart from me. Could their negativity towards moving back be the reason for me staying stuck? Can you tell me why this could be? Thank you for this wonderful article.


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