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User avatar #8 - monkee (03/20/2013) [-]
How do I tell if a guy likes me or just wants to be friends? There's a guy I've been spending some time with where everybody is convinced we're going to sleep together, but he's never even came out with a flirtatious comment. I'm very socially awkward and I'm unsure how to progress it further. Any tips?
User avatar #39 to #8 - ryanmck (03/20/2013) [-]
Wear a low cut shirt. If u catch him looking at ur tits more then 5 times then you know he's into you.
User avatar #27 to #8 - taintedangel (03/20/2013) [-]
Try making the first move. And if he is cool with it, it's safe to assume he's into you.
User avatar #16 to #8 - davvi (03/20/2013) [-]
is he the type to maybe be socially awkward as well? if so, maybe he's too shy to say/do something flirtatious
User avatar #19 to #16 - monkee (03/20/2013) [-]
Not really, he seems very outgoing and has a huge group of friends
User avatar #26 to #19 - yentabear (03/20/2013) [-]
Maybe he's much more outgoing in a crowd but shy when it comes to a one on one? I've known people tend to be like that. Maybe you have to make a move.
User avatar #20 to #19 - davvi (03/20/2013) [-]
is he flirtatious to other girls?
User avatar #21 to #20 - monkee (03/20/2013) [-]
No, in fact he made it very obvious he hasn't had any contact with girls since his last girlfriend, and that he's looking for the perfect girl before he's ready to date again. Although All of our friends have been teasing me that he fancies me etc, claiming he's said that. That's why I'm so confused.
User avatar #23 to #21 - davvi (03/20/2013) [-]
hard to say without knowing him. you should probably start being harmlessly flirtatious yourself and seeing if he responds
User avatar #9 to #8 - DrBobsPatient (03/20/2013) [-]
first off how old are you two? is he even old enough to like you?
User avatar #10 to #9 - monkee (03/20/2013) [-]
I'm 18 and he's 22, so yeah.
User avatar #11 to #10 - DrBobsPatient (03/20/2013) [-]
and how often do you guys see each other?
User avatar #12 to #11 - monkee (03/20/2013) [-]
Recently been about twice a week, I work a lot as well as college so it's basically whenever I'm free. He always stays late though, sometimes until 4 in the morning
User avatar #13 to #12 - DrBobsPatient (03/20/2013) [-]
but do you guys talk a lot in between those times?
User avatar #14 to #13 - monkee (03/20/2013) [-]
Fairly regularly, unless I have exams
User avatar #15 to #14 - DrBobsPatient (03/20/2013) [-]
who initiates the conversations majority of the time?
User avatar #17 to #15 - monkee (03/20/2013) [-]
He does, usually with an invitation to hang out
User avatar #24 to #17 - DrBobsPatient (03/20/2013) [-]
hmmm... he could probably like you, but has conflicting feelings because he knows that you two don't see each other all that often and would seem like being close friends is the better alternative, but i could be wrong. He could be too shy to ask you out, or again, just likes having you as a friend and doesn't want to ruin your friendship. just keep playing the game and see what happens. my first girlfriend and i both liked each other, but neither of us asked each other out, but we kept doing things together and eventually other people labeled us as dating (they knew we liked each other) even though we never became official, but then we just did things as a couple and never really labeled ourselves as "boyfriend and girlfriend", but we were till a few months later when she was at our house for christmas and an extended family member asked if she was my girlfriend and i told them yes, and that's how it became "official".

it seems like your situation might be similar. Only downside was that, that was in high school and we saw each other daily. If you really wanted to, you could get his pair and ask him out.
#64 to #24 - abraa ONLINE (03/20/2013) [-]
DrBob? try DrPhil
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