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“You’ve put on weight, and I find you less attractive”… As every man knows, there are some things you just can’t come right out and say to your girlfriend. For obvious reasons…..


The driving force of the sexual imperative bridges the gap between the almost incompatible brain styles of the two sexes. So lust can be seen as one end of a broad continuum, which may or may not culminate in romantic love….

All women should have annual Pap smears beginning at age 21, according to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists….

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What Do Men Really Want? Actually, it’s pretty simple, but most women have the hardest time understanding men. Deep inside the heart of every man is a secret wish to be trusted…

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So, without further ado, here’s a list of the top five men I — a heterosexual — believe that all gay men think are hot.

Sometimes you meet a man who is so desperate to see more of you, you can’t help but be mightily flattered. He calls you, texts you, romances you, sends you flowers and asks to meet…

The Questions:

1. What do you think is the biggest mistake that men tend to make in relationships? (This will tell you a lot about what turns her off and also about her attitude toward men in general.)

2. Do you think that men tend to be too macho or too sensitive?

3. What are the qualities of your ideal relationship?

4. Have you ever gone out with a guy who was a Challenge? (Have her describe how he was a Challenge and how she responded to it.)

5. What’s the most important thing that men don’t understand about women that they should?

6. Have you ever had your heart broken? (The more beautiful she is, the more likely the answer will be no. It’s actually better if the answer is yes. A girl whose heart has been broken has some humility.)

7. What scares you the most about opening your heart to a man?

8. Were you usually the dumper or the dumpee in your past relationships?

9. Do you feel that you’ve ever had a truly successful relationship?

10. Why did your last relationship fail? (Note: Does she take any responsibility or was it all her ex-boyfriend’s fault?)

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