Before you leave for Schoolies, it’s important to talk to your parents or carer about your plans. The State of Queensland (Schoolies) (Schoolies) Wed, 12 Sep 2018 15:46:59 +1000en-AUStaying in touch - Schoolies in touch<p>Haven't spoken to your parents about Schoolies yet? Take some time to sit down with them and come up with a plan about how you're going to keep in touch. Your parents may be worried about your safety&nbsp;&ndash; having a plan to stay in touch will help them to rest a little easier.</p> <p>It's a good idea to:</p> <ul type="disc"> <li>Set a time each day for them to call you and give them a friend&rsquo;s mobile number in case yours isn&rsquo;t charged. Make sure they don&rsquo;t call too early! After 12 years of school you&rsquo;ll want to sleep in.</li> <li>Let them know who you're staying with and where you're staying.</li> </ul><strong>Protect your friendships</strong> <p>Finishing school is a big deal and it is immediately followed by the excitement of Schoolies. We've all heard about friends who have had a bust-up at Schoolies. Make sure you stay friends by following these easy tips.</p> <ul type="disc"> <li>Agree on some ground rules with your friends before you arrive. Discuss what behaviour you will and won't tolerate, strategies for safety and your plans for the week.</li> <li>If you're concerned about a friend's choices or behaviour, try to talk to them about what's worrying you. It's never a good idea to talk about them behind their back.</li> <li>If tension starts to build, remember that these are your friends and they've shared important parts of your life, so give them some space.</li> </ul> <p>Try to resolve conflict by talking it over when you're both calm and able to focus on the problem. Tell your friend how you feel, without blaming or accusing them.</p> <ul type="disc"> <li>Allow your friend to tell you their side of the story. Listen to them, try to understand their point of view and don&rsquo;t interrupt them.</li> <li>Remember, violence is never acceptable. A fight at Schoolies could ruin a long-term friendship. Stay calm and go for a walk to cool down if you feel like things could get out of hand.</li> </ul> <p>No matter what happens, make sure you and your friends are safe at all times. Even if you're arguing, you'll be safer together than going off on your own.</p>Wed, 12 Sep 2018 15:46:59 +1000