Monday, August 16, 2010

Admissions of a Serial Homewrecker

What married woman doesn't dream of having a perfect monogamous marriage? A marriage full of understanding, commitment, and undying love. While marriages like this exist there are those that only exist within the life of one partner. While the wife is trying everything in her power to commit to and honor the man she married, another woman has stepped in and is doing things to her husband that should remain sacred in a marriage. Basically...there is a woman out there that is and more than willing to fuck your husband.

I know one of these woman. I have known her for a long time and frequently hear about her sexcapades with all types of men. I guess you could say I've grown accustomed to hearing these stories of infidelity and random sex acts with ex's, attached men, pastors, personal trainers and of course married men. With homewreckers/sluts/hoes/bitches or whatever you want to call them coming to light and so many of us asking the same questions, I decided to do a quick interview with her to see her side of things. I'll call her Tiffany, as a way to protect her identity. Although I'm certain she wouldn't care if I revealed her.

Background info:
Tiffany is an African American 30-something self-proclaimed hoe that has been around the block more than a kid just getting off punishment during summer vacation. She works full time and lives alone. Just her and her small terrier. She was once married to a white man. She is the type of woman that simply exudes intense sexual energy. It's not necessarily from her looks, it's in her presence and the things that she says. I have seen her on the prowl first hand, and men do come after her. I'm not sure if it's because she may appear to be an easy lay or if she's using some type of voodoo. Whatever the case, she gets enough vitamin D to last all my girls a lifetime.

The obvious question is why? Why do you sleep with men in relationships and men that are married?

"Because I know they have to go back home, they can't spend the night. I like
my freedom. Relationships have schedules."

So you can't find a single man to do this with?

"No! Men say that want to remain single but later they switch the script and get mad when you go out. They start asking questions. Ding-a-lings get
caught up."

Is there any way you wouldn't mess with an attached man?

"If I'm friends with his wife or if I know her, I won't. If I even see her I loose the excitement"

Do you feel bad?

"Hell naw! I don't loose sleep. I'm not the one cheating on

So you don't feel responsible for it at all?

"He approached me. I just opened the door. I open the door every day. That doesn't mean you're supposed to walk through. And the moment you say 'divorce' I loose interest."

How do you feel about the Fantasia situation?

"I feel bad for Fanny because she didn't know that man wasn't separated.
She really wanted something from it."

Have any of these married men ever tried to lie to you about their situation?

"I ask straight up questions. So the men I've dealt with are open because
I'm open. They wear their rings."

How do they approach the topic of sex? Who brings it up

"Sometimes I do. They make innuendos...beating around the bush. They may
say, 'Would you have sex with a married man?' and I'll tell them 'Yea!' I don't
let them come to my house because I can't come to theirs. I tell them they have
to get a hotel room, which presents a problem sometimes. But when I tell them
forget it then, they always get one."

At this point most of you are probably thinking, "Damn, her karma is going to messed up." But I've known this woman for a long time and I don't think she believes karma will hit her back. Not in this lifetime. She's been married and has no plans of getting into a serious relationship ever again. She enjoys simply playing the field. Now I think that if karma does hit her, it will be in the form of an angry wife with a swinging bat.

I look at Tiffany's sexual activity with married men as something of a convenience and thrill. Something a single man simply cannot provide for her. Is it right? This blogger can't say that it is right. But it's not my lifestyle. There are women and men out there that do this everyday. This (self-proclaimed) hoe just has the balls to talk about it.


Anonymous said...


Anonymous said...

Dear Anonymous,

Thank you, I love your sweet words.

Anonymous said...

I don't agree with the homewrecker's decision at all but who am I to judge. It seems to me that she's engaging in more sexual acts with married men than the average prostitute. My only concern is that it seems she may have a psychological problem and needs to see a professional psychologist. Maybe her husband ceated on her (hence once married) so now she feels the need to retaliate. Well two wrongs won't make it right. Tiffany (fake name) please seek help! You may not believe in KARMA but KARMA believes in you. I look at it as he probably cheating with you as well as with other women too. You don't want to get caught up with something you can't cure. Peace & Love

Anonymous said...

And I like the way you handled the first comment. It is what it is. You are who you are:)

Anonymous said...

I don't agree with the homewrecker part and it doesn't seem to me that she is a homewrecker from simply reading if the husband mentions "Divorce", she wants nothing to do with him and it seems that Tiffany wants them to go back home to their wife not to stay with her. Just because she is sleeping with married men, doesn't mean she has a psychological problem, hell, men do it everyday, do they all also have psychological problems and do they need to see a professional psychologist? I don't know, but for some reason, I think women always find it easier to call other women names than men. Men are whores and whores comes in all shapes and sizes as well as women. Tiffay, I don't think you are a homewrecker, I think the husbands and significant others, etc are homewreckers.

Anonymous said...

Dear Anonymous,

I do not consider myself a homewrecker due to the fact, I do not want the husband for myself, I want him to go back home to his wife. I enjoy my freedom as well I have that right. I do practice safe sex, therefore no worries no circumstances. If you think I need help, then the whole world will probably need help as well. I am comfortable in my world and in my life and it is what it is, I am just saying it out loud. I am sorry you feel that way, but it is your opinion and you are entitled. Thank you for the kind words that you did mention.

Anonymous said...

I think you are a Hoe and a Homewrecker, my husband left me for another woman and she knew of me and yet, she still went after my husband. I have no love for you Tiffany.

Tiffany said...

Dear Anonymous,

Thank you for the kind words, but if you read the blog, then you would know, if I knew you, I would NOT mess with your husband or significant other. That is a turn off for me. I hope you have a better day.

Anonymous said...

Dear Editor-in-Chief and Homewrecker: This is all bullshit. You can defend that chick all you want. She is a homewrecker. Hence you named the title of the blog "Admissions of a Serial Homewrecker". So obviously you feel that way about your "friend". Why would you compare us to men? We are women. I think she does have a psychological problem if she doesn't want to ruin a home but participates in activties that would ruin a home otherwise. Doesn't make sense. It doesn't matter if you know the woman or not. It's not right. Yes, both parties are in the wrong but why deal with someone who is already committed. Even if the married man approaches you, be a woman and send his ass away! Its womenn like the homewrecker who make men think its alright to cheat on their wives. Just dumb!

Anonymous said...

Homewrecker you said you don't mind letting the world know who you are...... then expose yourself and see how many of your friends remain your friends. You're not respected.

Dusty Reflection said...


I have to admit I am confused. I have not defended her actions. I put it out there (with her knowledge) to show one person's side of the story that you often don't hear. Sheesh don't shoot the messenger LOL. I also said in the blog that I do not personally agree with what she does. I believe karma will hit her (with a bat) but I don't think she believes this will happen. I'm not sure where I compared women to men either.


Thank you for taking the time to read the blog :)

Tiffany said...

Dear Anonymous,

You may be right, maybe the title should be changed due to the fact that I am not trying to break up your happy home, will look into that. Thank you for the suggestion. By the way, my friends do know me, you are just not one of them. As I have been anonymous, so are you. My intentiions are not to compare you with men, I was saying that men and women do the same thing, I'm just saying it aloud. You sound upset, has your husband cheated on you? If so, I'm sorry, it wasn't me, but it probably was someone similar to me, the difference is, I don't want to keep him, I just want to play and why send him back home, he knows where he lives and he knows the way and beleive me, I do send him back home.........after everything is over, said and done. Thank you again for the kind words you did mention. Tiffany

Anonymous said...

I am LMAO!!! This is a serious topic but it has more than one side...Honestly I see both! Women dont steal husbands if he sleeps with someone other than his wife its b/c he wanted to, not b/c the female made him... Now I can also say I would be PISSED if I found that out but who am I mad at, her??? Hell no she has no commitment to me, she does not give a damn about me and doesnt have to... Im mad at him because he commited to me, he is supposed to love me... Its a rough world out here and with most adults we are looking out for self and close friends and relatives, to hell with everyone else... Sounds bad but its the truth, when you applied for your job you didnt care if the other apps had 5 kids and needed it more, hell no you took the damn job!!! So if she wants some dick and your sorry ass hubby is willing to give it to her.... So be it fix your household b/c of he is cheating then you got more probs than a homewrecker...

Im just saying...

Tiffany said...

Dear Anonymous,

I could not have said it better myself than the last anonymous comment. That was all I was trying to tell the upset ladies on board, I am not the one to blame, he is, because he is the one you know, you trust, YOU sleep with every night, you confide in and the list can go on, you are not doing any of that with me. As mentioned, I am just getting some dick and he is ready to ablige me with it. Afterwards, he has to LEAVE me and go home as long as he LEAVES and I am able to sleep peacefully, satisfied and comfortably ALONE....I like it just like that. So ladies, please don't hate me, there are plenty of other women and men just like me, only you get to chat with me openly, but anonymously. Thank you all again for the kind words you did speak.

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