How to Choose Comfortable High Heels

Co-authored by Susan Kim, Professional Stylist

Updated: April 23, 2019

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Are you tired of your heels leaving blisters on your feet? If you love the look of heels but hate the pain they bring, you can learn to pick more comfortable heels. While a pair of heels will never feel like a pair of sneakers, they can be comfortable enough to wear regularly.

Finding a Pair of Work Heels

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    Choose a broader heel for better stability. Stilettos may be what you think of when you're buying high heels, but they can also lead to discomfort. With stilettos, you're constantly balancing on a sharp point, and it can cause pain in your ankles and your knees. Instead, pick a wider heel for more stability.[1]
    • For instance, look for wedges, spool heels, stacked heels, or chunky heels.
    Susan Kim

    Susan Kim

    Professional Stylist
    Susan Kim

    Try wedges or other platform heels for the most comfort. Professional stylist Susan Kim says: "I find wedges to be the most comfortable heels. Since they have a high platform, you don't notice the angle of the heel as much. If you don't like wedges, though, any type of heel with platforms will make your shoes more comfortable. They add height toward the front of your foot, which is where you put all of your weight when you're standing."

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    Choose a heel no bigger than 3 inches (7.6 centimetres). Too much height makes your shoe uncomfortable. Pick a heel that's 3 inches (7.6 centimetres) or lower. If you want more height, you can try a platform, which can give you more height without adding extra height to the heel.[2]
    • For instance, if you have a platform of 1 inch (2.5 centimetres) with a 4-inch (10 centimetres) heel, the heel is essentially 3 inches (7.6 centimetres).
    • Kitten heels are a great choice for work. Pumps also tend to have shorter heels.
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    Pick a less pointy toe for more comfortable toes. While you make think a sharp toe on your high heels looks polished or sexy, those types of toes tend to scrunch your toes together. Instead, go for an almond-shaped toe, which is less pointy.[3]
    • Round toes are also a good choice.

Going Out in Comfortable Heels =

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    Pick heels that are centered. That is, some heels go straight down from the back of the shoe. A heel that dips slightly inward so that it is centered under your heel provides more support. That makes the shoe more comfortable.[4]
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    Make sure you're strapped in. If your shoe is constantly slipping off your feet, it's going to lead to discomfort. Instead, make sure to choose a shoe that straps securely on your feet for better comfort.[5]
    • Don't tighten the straps too much. The straps should be tight enough that you're not sliding around in the shoe but not so tight that they hurt your feet.[6]
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    Opt for platform shoes when possible. Platform shoes give you extra height overall, but you can still choose a lower heel in comparison to the platform. That way, your foot isn't bent as awkwardly, and you can walk more comfortably.[7]
    • Plus, platforms provide more support for your feet, as there's a bigger barrier between your foot and the sidewalk.[8]

Making High Heels More Comfortable

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    Buy leather shoes for a more comfortable heel. The heel of any high heel is stiffened to keep its shape. When a shoe is made of leather, it will eventually take on the shape of your foot. Other materials may remain too stiff, and they will continue to cause blisters over time.[9]
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    Look for a lining that covers the entire inside of the shoe. With cheaper shoes, the lining may just be lining the inside sole, not around the edges. However, for a more comfortable shoe, you want the lining to cover the whole inside.[10]
    • Leather is a good choice for a lining because it breathes better than vinyl or other synthetic materials. It also moves better with your foot.
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    Add some padding. If your heel doesn't have much in the way of support, adding padding can make a difference. Try a gel insert to give your feet some much-needed relief.[11]
    • Look for one that gives you some arch support, as many heels lack this feature.
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    Ask the salesperson to measure your feet. You've always assumed you're a certain size, and you may be right. However, having your feet measured can tell you if one foot is slightly larger or if you need a wider or narrower shoe. Plus, you'll know you're spot on when looking for shoes in your size.[12]
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    Go shopping at the end of the day. When you walk on your feet all day, they tend to swell slightly, meaning you have larger feet at night then you do in the morning. Therefore, it's best to try on high heels when your feet are at their largest in the evening.[13]
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    Use the power of your thumb to test the fit. Once you have the shoes on, you need to make sure you have just enough space. You should be able to measure about a thumb's width from your big toe to the end of the shoe.[14]
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    Focus on how the shoes feel. When you're trying on shoes, you may get flustered by all the salespeople and not give them a proper test. However, it's essential that you make sure they are comfortable. One test you can do is to spend a little time walking on a harder surface (such as tile) to get a sense of how that feels. You can also try closing your eyes as you walk a few steps just so you can focus solely on how your feet feel.[15]

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    • Opt for flats some days. No matter how comfortable your heels are, wearing them all the time will kill your feet. Switch them out for flats some days so your feet get a break.[16]

    Article Info

    This article was co-authored by Susan Kim. Susan Kim is the owner of Sum+Style Co., a Seattle-based personal styling company focused on innovative and approachable fashion. She has over 5 years of experience in the fashion industry, and received her AA from the Fashion Institute of Design & Merchandising.

    Categories: Buying Shoes | High Heeled Footwear

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