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My baby girl won't meet the dad

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kelly0409 wrote:

I don't know if I'm horrible but this whole pregnancy I have been alone i'am 27 weeks gone today. At 16 weeks I found out he got his ex pregnant 2 months after me :( she's now carrying twins it broke me down. I left and got into a shared accomadation for now short on money he hasn't helped me once for this baby not been to any of the baby's scan .

I'm the one that always rings him up to turn up and beg him to provide for her, he's always busy for anything but tells me he loves his daughter.

He's providing for his other kids but not mine it's breaking me down and I'm starting to hold grudges blocked him on everything as I can't do this anymore, im better of not speaking to him and stop getting all emotional.

Am I cruel?I don't want him to do anything with my daughter anymore or even know her because I don't want her to go through what I'm going through with fake promises.

Even if he tries I wouldn't because everything I'm going through today is his fault :(

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You are not horrible. You are just going protect her heart in the long run. I'm in a similar situation as you and I tried my my whole pregnancy to convince him to do stuff for his son. He refuses and tells me he will do stuff when his son is born or whenever he feels like it. But takes care of his girlfriend and her daughter. We are at the last stretch of our pregnancy we need to enjoy our pregnancy at this point. Once you stop trying and learn that he doesn't matter at this point. You will be at peace. You have done all you can. It's his loss not your daughter or yours.



Well if his name is on the birth certificate it's time to take that "boy" to court ( Don't want to call him a man). If he doesn't want to be there .. ok, make him pay up !!


Good luck !