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Wednesday, 14 December 2011

when do you think you should lose your virginity?

okay so I was asked about what I think is the right age or the right time to lose your virginity. I think that you cant put an age on losing your virginity however I know that the age of consent is 16 but there is teens much younger than this losing their virginity. To be honest I think that the children are getting younger and younger like the age of 12. to me that is ridiclious like how can a 12 year old know when there ready to have sex. In my honest opinion I think that you have to be emotionally ready to be having sex. Like seriously how is a 12 year old supposed to be ready for the feelings that come after sex . Or what if it was just a one night stand or they had a "fuck buddy" then after a few fucks that person doesn't want anything to do with them. I think that if your thinking about losing your virginity that you should be with someone that you have complete trust and with someone that you love. Also be prepared like start thinking about contraception for eg. going on the pill. From my own personal experience I was 16 when I lost my virginity and I wasnt emotionally ready for sex and for what came next. 

Does using a condom really ruin the moment ?

Okay so how many people really think that using a condom ruins the moment ? Just by doing a bit or research I found out that many boys/men think that having to put on a condom ruins the moment. Fair enough when your ripping off each others clothes and are about to hop into to the bed to get it on the idea of having to stick something at the end of it can be pretty annoying as the buzz is killed.  but it only takes 2 seconds to stick one on the end of it ? So it shouldn't make a difference your still getting sex at the end of it. I honestly don't think that a condom ruins the moment id be more worried about an STD ruining the moment or a couple months later when you realise that there's a bun in the oven.Who honestly wants to find out that there walking around with Chlamydia and maybe a few children.  So next time you think about not using one do try think about the consequence's first. As they say 

Tuesday, 13 December 2011

Is sex really all that good ?

Is sex really all that good? everyone talks about sex and how sex is amazing. but is our expectations of sex too high that it has become over-rated. Is this due to the false image we are giving of sex of porn and and the media. Do we expect our first time to be like the movies ? in my opinion sex is over rated to an extent. Personally I don't think that sex lives up to what its like in the movies looking at them and then doing it. I don't feel all that romantic when you have to position the penis into the vagina, nothing romantic about that. From personal experiences. the very first time I had sex I didn't think it was all that great. I just remember thinking to myself after ' I hope it gets alot better than this'.  I know of course if the connection is there between you and your lover and sex can be amazing but do we but a huge emphasises on sex that when we have finally have sex do we disappoint ourselves?