15 Totally Non-Sexual Things That Prove A Person Will Be Amazing In Bed

There are some things that just seem to lend themselves to good sexual performance of some kind. At this point, so many things have become so associated with certain sexual skills that the non-sexual thing and the sexual thing are practically inseparable.

For many people, it really is impossible to think of certain non-sexual skills without thinking of other sexual skills.

One redditor wanted to know of all the non-sexual skills that potentially indicated how great a person was in bed, so the user asked Reddit: "What non-sexual skill is a pretty good indicator of sexual skill?"

The responses varied widely; some of them made sense and others didn't really add up, but a few categories of skills emerged.

I don't want to give all the answers away, so check out the categories of some of the responses below and give us your non-sexual answer to this question in the comments.

Being good with animals

"Girl friend of mine said if a guy can't pet a cat, he's not good in bed. because it's all process of elimination, and every woman is different. If you can't figure out pretty quickly where/how a cat likes to be touched, you are probably not great in bed." -- themikeswitch

"When you see a person coax a cat into begging to be pet more. Gentle petting that varies in intensity, with fleeting breaks that remind the cat how little it wants you to stop." -- nonrebreather

"One time I was petting a corgi gently and two women seemed to enjoy watching!" -- KnowledgeGrabber

Being good with your tongue

"When a man can clean up the little tiny cup of jell-o shot with his tongue." -- StoicBanana


Being good at a playing an instrument

"Girls who can play the flute give amazing head. This is possibly true of all wind instruments, but I can only confirm for flautists." -- Kahzgul

"The finger dexterity of a piano player." -- Zendainc

"My girlfriend told me she's glad I'm a bass player. Took me a while to realize why." -- jdloyola

"Playing an instrument. Pick any one, and generally you're going to find sexually frustrated people willing to go at it in the sack. I should clarify that they have to be GOOD at the instrument for this to apply." -- PM_Me_Your_Ass_Feet

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Being good at sports and exercise

"Yoga. Someone who is flexible, can hold positions for a while, and is in control of their breathing." -- I_Think_I_Cant

"Squats." -- aylandgirl

"Career swimmer here. A man that has a fantastic butterfly. Very smooth hip thrusts!" -- quinndubya

Being good at communicating and listening

"Oddly enough I've found a good sense of humor and the ability to laugh at one's self is a pretty good indicator of somebody who will be good in bed. Even if they aren't experts an attitude of playfulness and not putting so much pressure on everything being perfect go a long way." -- TownieMesiah

"Listening. People that pay attention to what you say also pay attention to how you react to certain things leading them to discover what you really love." -- diegojones4


"If you can talk about sex frankly without blushing or getting self-conscious. You will never get your needs met or be able to meet your partner's needs if you can't even discuss what those needs are." -- HAPiper

"Confidence and honest conversation skills. That translates to someone not afraid to ask what you want in bed, and not afraid to tell you what they want." -- DreadfulRauw

So, wherever you are, you flute-playing, piano-playing, honest, confident, squatting, swimming, animal-petting human, congratulations on being a god in the bedroom.