

Communication – how important it is to make rather how important it is to make one understand?

I sometimes wonder communicating to someone with eye contact is only not sufficient as you want to know the person really understands what you are saying?

“Even if you do learn to speak correct English, whom are you going to speak it to?” ~ Clarence Darrow

Many times even two people with same temperament but miss the part of understanding as they often feel the person is throwing allegations and how does the person communicate where he/she should be able to communicate the mere fact and not that its an allegation but a notion or a statement that needs to be done!

“People say conversation is a lost art; how often I have wished it were” ~ Edward R. Murrow

Many times the mind’s temperament is also a big cause in misunderstanding or misinterpreting! You hate when you see you are talking and someone is just not paying attention, and still they show as if they are listening to you 😀

“When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen” ~ Ernest Hemingway

There are so many aspects to this communication and when you don’t communicate thinking its better to be calm and silent as silence is golden, you get dinked on that one too 😀

“The problem with communication … is the illusion that it has been accomplished” ~ George Bernard Shaw

Can anyone tell me if they have gone through something like this and if so what’s there best suggestion to get out of it successfully?

“The right to be heard does not automatically include the right to be taken seriously” ~ Hubert H. Humphrey

Its about healthy communication and not silence 😉

“Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing” ~ Rollo May


42 thoughts on “Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleep after

  1. Dawn:“Even if you do learn to speak correct English, whom are you going to speak it to?”-No wonder I will speak inside my heart or to my mirror.I agree, even if you eye contact others eyes wander somewhere and listen just for the sake of it. Next time, u better wink girl, they will see u and listen. Okie.. just kidding.Some never listen and few very much listen just by a few nods.Put them a query and u will know if they really listened to you.“Even if you do learn to speak correct English, whom are you going to speak it to?”-I will say leave them alone as they will not change their habits, attitude or their nature.

  2. well so true…u realise the importance of communication especially when ur in a relationship..wrong communication can create so many misunderstandings!

  3. Hi dawn!! I have to say this- You are a good communicator!! you are always up to the mark with all the wonderful quotes and pics!! It’s always a pleasure to listen( to read in fact!) to you through your blog!

  4. “The right to be heard does not automatically include the right to be taken seriously” ~ Hubert H. Humphrey I guess clarity of thoughts is very important when we wish to communicate.

  5. As your quote from Ernest Hemingwaysuggests, listening is the key and I would say that as the remedy. Listening is the bridge as it keeps the chain of communication intact and lead to thr right response. If someone is not listening and just hearing, it is better to end the delivery as it is not a conversation, but just a monologue.

  6. <>keshi<>: Yes you are right dear…many times it’s the way we communicate as we think the other end is receiving it but we are not sure of it!Hope things works out wellCheers dear<>dee<>: WOW…that means still communication exists there 😀Welcome to my blog and pls do come againCheers<>priya<>: I guess even if am clear on my communication it’s the part where they are not listening or pretending to be a good listener :D…and that’s not just enough isn’t it ?Thanks dear for you sweet commentCheers<>ekta<>: You gotcha gal! and you said it!Thanks, cheers<>rachana<>: Thank you so much dear …I really appreciate and respect the part where you show so much of confidence in me :D! Am blessed!! Thanks for being my source of inspiration dear …love ya huggggggggggzCheers<>neihal<>: Definitely dear that’s one thing we must be always clear b4 even we deliver to others! Am glad to hear such comments!Cheers<>deepak gopi<>: Thanks dear am gladCheers<>shiva<>: I totally agree with you dear! I remember for customer service they teach you first to be a good listener and it really helps when you meet any upset customer as they only want a good listener, whether there problem will be solved or not is a later issue!Thanks so much for your comments and detailsCheers


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