“We all spend our lives kicking the crap out of ourselves for not being this way or that way, not having this thing or that thing, not being like this person or that person.

For not living up to some standard we think applies across the board to all of us. We all spend our lives trying to follow the same path, live by the same rules.

I think we believe that happiness lies in following the same list of rules. In being more like everyone else. That?

Is wrong.

There is no list of rules.






One foot in front of the other.

You will make it.”
Shonda Rhimes, Year of Yes