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  1. I see thoughts as the environment in your mind. It's the clouds, the oxygen, the nitrogen, the life in your mind. If it's damaged like you experiencing trauma, then it is most likely a sign that something is wrong. If you constantly think negative, you will become negative. In the same nature here if you keep worrying and having repetitive thoughts on the trauma, you will become the trauma and it will control you So yeah, I think it's a sign, and with the question about being an illusion is a much deeper topic that won't really help you with the trauma. What will help you is facing the trauma head on and letting the feelings out. Think of it as caring for the environment that is your mind Deal with the trauma or go to therapy if you can't
  2. You're still in control of This moment. The things you've said are in the past and don't exist anymore. Only now exists Work on this. Try your hardest so your relationships won't be gone. It can be tough but if you work on time management skills and how to build stronger relationships, you won't have to worry. No regret, sadness or emptiness will come, because it seems that these feelings all linked onto the relationship itself. Work on the relationship, you've got this Control the now, forget the future and past
  3. @Hansu Are you saying that all people of society drinks? Are you also saying that everybody is stupid? This is just one instance of stupidity in my opinion that requires no approach. Meaning, you don't need to change anything. Sorry if my post implied that the solution was to cut ties, but the intention itself was to do nothing because you can't do anything. You can't always change the opinion of others easily and if you try doing so, it's a waste of time because they're most likely not going to listen, especially if they judged you and even given you less respect for not drinking => not being open-minded
  4. I don't think you should approach the situation at all. You stated your disinterest in drinking, and if they instantly become disinterested in you, then its not worth your time with them A human being who judges you for not drinking? That's stupid as fuck
  5. Frequent thoughts, as I understand it, can happen when a memory is associated to that thought and so, it's recalled. Thats why things like a childhood toy can trigger thoughts of your childhood because you have an memory associated with that toy Try to see how your memory of the thought plays in its recalling. If there is a memory association with that thought then there's your root So perhaps it's a memory that causes the thought. But if you can't find any memory of the thought, then the above replies would probably be a better suggestion
  6. I would also suggest going on Actualized.org/blueprint It's Leo's wonderful blueprint to kick start your self-development I would focus on Life Purpose and Strategic Thinking in the blueprint first, and watch Leo's videos based on those topics.
  7. @Alf Spot on as well
  8. What he says is mostly true about masculinity I guess, but it seems like a debate rather than truth. It's one bullshit/illusion against another bullshit/illusion. SJW vs Men I feel like this guy is making an identity of masculinity and trying to protect his "masculinity". In my opinion masculinity is an energy that can be tapped in by both male and females, and calling it "toxic" is an judgment. But sure it's obviously toxic if you side only with masculinity in the same way as siding with femininity. A total balance is needed
  9. There's balance in this work. You have to work on enlightenment and your life purpose. So you study to get a good job/success and you also meditate to clear your head. If you want to play video games, go for it but balance is what keeps you from going insane. Do the studying you have to do, plan it and then do your consciousness work. Plan your entire day based on study and consciousness work. After you've done your schedule for these things, go back to playing video games, and to be honest, you won't bother playing it because of the gains you get if you just learn how to balance
  10. Perhaps try to recreate your visualizations? For example, if you want a big massive house, why don't you go to a rich area and see the mansions? Want to travel? Perhaps actually traveling to a place for a weekend, like Portugal, and see the little details in reality That can spark something right?
  11. @tedens I haven't been fair to be honest... Yes it would help people by a lot, and can even solve common problems in our society now that I think about it but it seems that it's would be applying to only one set of norms/values set by the organisation, when personal-development and consciousness should be free and expressive. An organisation to spread awareness of the consciousness would be great I guess, but I would draw the line when it tells strictly you HOW to do it
  12. I don't like the idea of the existence of an organ because that would just be a framework we impose onto something we can't understand because it's external to our thinking and yet is part of us
  13. Acknowledge all of those feelings, and soak it all up. Eventually, it will burn out; through awareness.
  14. What activities do you do to distract yourself?
  15. When people look at who they really are and accept that, then they naturally change. It's not a forced change Most people believe that they are this person/identity, but who told them or encouraged them to be this? Most likely their parents and society -> not created by themselves. People merely believed in this identity that they made by following the influence of the outside to create this authentic nature which validates the identity. The problem with this is that there isn't any investigation or questioning on the self. Also change is kinda bullshit. "Oh I'm going to change my life", well your life is already changed. Every minute you're changing, it's a dynamic mechanic. Authentic self is the self that is reading this now