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Wednesday, June 20, 2007

A Little Challenge, or a Big Insecurity?

Why are we women addicted to the challenge? The challenge of getting a man's attention that is.

I must admit, I am competitive, an attention fiend, and relentless in almost every aspect of my life, but when it comes to my relationships those character traits tend to amplify.

I have a big problem with a little word: No.

In my career and political life this "don't stop until I get what I want" attitude has served me extremely well. However, in my relationships, it has had quite the opposite effect.

Why is it that a woman can enter a room full of men, and all but one is vying for her attention, yet, she immediately finds herself attracted to the one whom seems uninterested?

The answer is simple: It's called control. And the need for control, traced back to its root cause, virtually always reveals insecurity.

So, next time you catch yourself going after Mr. Hard-to-Get, examine your intentions, and beware that your little challenge may be the product of a much deeper problem.

A problem of insecurity, which until solved will prohibit you from having a healthy relationship with any one at all.


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