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Do you keep ending up with the same kind of man? You know the one, No job! Lives at home! No money! Just an all- round loser. You know the type!

If that does sound like your poor, miserable and pathetic love life then chances are it’s because you are asking for it!

Yeah, that’s right! You are asking for it!

Now…now…now! Hold up!......................before you throw ornaments at the screen (or whatever you are reading this on) hear me out for just one second….

You keep meeting these losers, right?

They keep appearing in your life, though you claim to not want them there, yes?

You’ve wondered to yourself ‘why do I attract these idiots all the time?’ um hmm! Then chances are the reason you are getting into these repetitive relationships is because you are asking for it……..maybe, not quite as simply as saying ‘can I have another crap relationship please?’ But you are asking for it all the same.

Let me explain, I am a firm believer in the law of attraction and the law of attraction teaches you that you get what you focus on.

A lot of people focus on what they don't want in their lives and so end up bringing into their lives the very thing(s) they tried to keep out.

So if you spend time thinking about the man that you don't want in your life, he is likely to appear before you finish reading this article.

So in essence, you should focus on the man you do want to spend your days and nights with.

How do you do that?

Create a male avatar.

Which goes a little something like this………. Think of the man you would like to date, think of everything. So, his age, height, and other features.

Then think of the kind of job he would have, followed by the places he would hang out, the clothes he would wear, magazines he would read, kind of friends he would have….you get the picture!

Create this guy in your mind and then focus your attention on meeting those types of guys in your life. If those men are not in your world, then change the activities you need to change in order to meet the people you want in your life.

You get what you focus on so focus your mind and attention on what you want.


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Written by Damian Duguid

My name is Damian Duguid and I am a confidence mindset coach. I work with kind hearted and warm individuals who are ready make a change in their lives. I work with people who want to be uplifted, live from the heart and soul and unleash their inner confidence.

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