


Sunday, January 18, 2009

More Myth Busting of Women by a Woman

The following description of this book makes a great deal of sense. What I can't fathom is why we men are so dense we don't recognize our spouses desire to "check out how green the pasture is" elsewhere until it is too late. Women blame everything else on hormones, including killing their spouses, children, depression et al so why wouldn't their "love" hormones create yet another imbalance in their lives leading to the destruction of the family - and by extension - the moral decline of our children and society. Caught early enough perhaps the families we have created can be saved. By that I mean those of you who can still salvage your relationship.MJM
Women's Infidelity
The only place where you'll find out the REAL reason women are cheating as much as men


Limbo is one of the most painful experiences we can go through in our relationships. I've interviewed several hundred people in this situation and I've also been there myself. When I was going through it, I felt like I had an ailment, a condition of some sort. At the time, I just knew I had something and whatever it was, it wasn't normal.

For several reasons, which I explain in my book, infidelity and marital limbo are quickly becoming the norm for women and, as I've already pointed out, women are also initiating 70 - 75% of all divorces.

I sincerely believe that the information in Women's Infidelity is crucial for both males and females, regardless of their relationship status. Furthermore, I also believe that it would be a mistake to end a relationship prior to reading this book.

-Michelle Langley, author of Women's Infidelity

The book shows that:
Women's relationships today follow a very predictable pattern:

They push men for commitment

They get what they want

They lose interest in sex

They become attracted to someone else

They start cheating

They become angry and resentful

They begin telling their partners that they need time apart




Women's relationships and marriages will continue to follow this same pattern unless we develop an accurate understanding of females ─ particularly in regard to their sexuality. In fact, after researching women's sexuality for more than ten years, I can honestly say that most of our societal beliefs about females are grossly distorted and many are completely erroneous.


My story:


Currently, women are initiating 70 - 75% of all divorces


The "stages" that women often experience during the course of their long-term relationships


Stage 1


Stage 2



Stage 3




The reason many women will give for their desire to separate is a “search for self.” They convince their husbands that they might be able to save their marriage if they canjust have time to themselves. They tell their husbands that time apart is the only hope of improving their current situation. Women at this stage want to free themselves of the restrictions of marriage and spend more time with their lovers. Most think that eventually their confusion will disappear. They think they will eventually know with certainty whether they want to stay married or get divorced and be with their lovers. Separation allows women at this stage, to enjoy the high they experience with theirlovers without giving up the security of their marriages. Husbands of Stage 3 women are often unaware that their wives are having affairs. Their lack of suspicion is typicallydue to their wife’s disinterest in sex and in their belief that their wife is a “good girl.”



Stage 4



women's infidelity

Women are cheating and relationships are ending because men and women lack necessary information. Today's relationship problems are not only solvable, but many can be easily solved ─ once you understand what the real problem is. The information in Women's Infidelityshould be common knowledge to couples, both married and unmarried, and to dating males and females. Trying to have a relationshiptoday without the information in this book is like to trying to read without knowing the letters of the alphabet. This is not an exaggeration ─it's a fact.

Women's Infidelity: Living In Limbo Explains:

Why females push males for commitment

Why females "think" they're naturally monogamous and why males think so too

Why women can't tell men what they really want

Why women like getting married but not being married

Why women lose sexual desire for their husbands and what women really do want sexually



Why women overwhelmingly initiate the majority of all divorces - even when they're married to men who love and treat them well

Why and how men unknowingly make the problem worse by doing exactly the opposite of what they need to do in order to fix the problem

Women's Infidelity II : Breaking Out of Limbo Explains:

How to get clear about what you're really doing

How to understand your feelings for your husband - what it really means when you say, "I love him, but I'm not "in" love with him

How to know if your feelings for the "other man" are real

How to know if there's a possibility for a future with the other man

How to stop your circular thinking


Reviews and Letters from Readers

"I have been reading your book all week and have found it to be completely insightful and clarifying. I have been married for 7 years and have a 3 year old at home. I have not engaged in an affair but over but over the last few months have definitely considered looking for it...Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I feel clearer now than I have for a long time. I know my whole family is going to benefit from this information."

Katie Little

"...chapter [2], alone, is worth the US cover price...what is here is impressive..."

Donna Dillman, GRIP Magazine

"I just happened across your website today and what I've found is truly enlightening. As a psychologist I did have occasion to study marriage and marriage counseling to some degree but my primary interest has always been in working with children and adolescents. Clearly there is a significant absence of information such as yours being disseminated to graduating psychologists in training. Having been down the marital breakup path, I can also clearly attest to the accuracy of your conclusions...I do thank-you for writing such an insightful and informative book and will share it with my numerous friends who are currently experiencing similar marital challenges, as well as some of my professional colleagues who are more directly involved in working with couples..."

Dr. D

I wish to congratulate you...yours is by far the most razor-sharp study of female infidelity ever done. Ever. And that’s not hyperbole...

Richard James

"I can’t thank you enough for publishing your book, which I downloaded and last night read cover to cover until 2:30am. What struck me was that many times in the book, you described my wife’s behavior – right on down to verbatim quotes – and mine in frighteningly accurate detail. I have a better understanding of what has happened. Her relationship did not get physical, but it would have eventually, I’m sure. Understanding why is a huge part of forgiving her...I’ve made more progress with your book in a few hours than we have with a therapist in 6 weeks. With any luck, you may have been a major factor in saving our marriage. Thank you, thank you, thank you."

A loving, and... less confused, husband

"I just read your book cover to cover. Two sittings... much of it with... my wife. We can never thank you enough. I believe it was key to saving our marriage."

Keith Vaughn

Before reading your book, I had been living in limbo for almost two years. I was so confused and I felt like I was going crazy. I even went to a psychologist to try and figure out what was wrong with me. I had just about given up all hope and then I heard you on the radio talking about your book. Thank you so much for writing this book. For the first time in a long time I finally feel like I'm getting back to normal again."

Justine Pace

"I heard you on the radio and I thought you may have some answers for me since I had just caught my wife cheating. I was wondering why this was happening so I ordered your book. I received your book the other day and read it cover to cover. I was amazed. It seemed to be written about my marriage."

Tom Brickner, Los Angeles

"Women's Infidelity is a MUST read for EVERY heterosexual male and female. Both are at a disadvantage in their relationships without having this information."

Thomas Astor, New York

More Letters from Readers

"This is the most honest book about women I’ve ever read. In so many ways, how we think, feel and behave is a mystery, even to us women. I applaud Michelle Langley for her willingness to say what nobody else has the courage to say."

Candice Billings, MS

"Your book was more informative than all the counseling that I have had in the past year."

Ashley Baxter

"I don't know how I can ever thank you. Your book saved my marriage. After I read it I had my wife read it. My wife and I have now not only reconciled but we also have a much more honest relationship."

Mark Brennin

"Thank you for bringing everything into focus. It took guts to put this information out there and I can't thank you enough for doing it. "

Allissa Misloch

"What I find so disturbing is that I could have been in counseling for another 10 years and I still would not have learned anything about what I learned from your books. I am grateful to you for putting this information out there for people like me who have been hurting and confused for so long."

Julie Heckner



prin said...

did you know that all your subscribe links subscribe to "comments"? I would like to subscribe to your posts. I will add you to my blogroll in the meantime. thanks.

Michael J. Murphy said...

I've moved the subscribe box to the top but you should be able to use it for both posts and comments unless it is malfunctioning.

Many currently subscribe using Google reader or MS Outlook as well as other means.

Try again and see how it goes. If it is still not working I'll try something else.

prin said...

Thanks! It's working now. Earlier I clicked all three and I just checked before coming over here to redo it and none of them had worked. Anyway thanks again.

Godless Finn said...

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