Ostensibly we're planning on an amicable, uncontested divorce. I'm concerned about the finances though because he's used to controlling those and I've got both a learning curve in front of me and a history of walking on eggshells with him about this. We both have debt, and right now my paycheck goes into our "joint" account that he puts the minimum into & uses to pay our bills. Should I see a divorce financial planner, & if so how much do they charge? And I'd like to start using a budgeting app but don't know how to do that without full access to all the bills & accounts.

Where do I begin?