What is the E Phase? Evaluate, Extract & Escalate!

If the D-Phase was where the boys were separated from the MEN, then the E-Phase is where the WANNABES are separated from the PROS. Up till now, a guy could run through a lot of FLASH GAME and be considered “impressive”, or at least enough to fool you into think he was good. Here in the E-Phase, keeping cool under fire, planning out his logistics, and understanding sex from a WOMAN’S perspective is where you if he’s the REAL DEAL or not. There are guys who “get lucky” and then there are real men who MAKE their luck. Continue reading

What is the D Phase? Dominant, Direct Intent, & Disqualify!

In the D Phase of the ABCDEF structure, we break down the fourth act of seduction into three main components: Dominant, Direct Intent, & Disqualify. Being a good conversationalist is simply not enough. If you are not already in her “blueprint”, then you may not be automatically placed in her sexual dating pool. You want to be attractive AND arouse her in order for her to see you as a potential lover. You accomplish this by activating one of her many Sexual Arousal Triggers. However, you still need to Disqualify because when a woman feels as though she’s getting too turned on (almost irrationally so), her body will warn her that someone is doing this to her and that she needs to be on her guard. Continue reading