Y: I have marital problems with my husband.The problem is I stopped his ex-love by taking some action which he said like he wants that love till the end which before marraige he just mentioned as past love and I just let it go. The thing is now our life is a great mess. He just reversed. Its like he says his life is over and just living and he is her memories and ignoring me as much as possible.What should I do? I am just crying and keep silent and let him go as per all elders advice. But the thing is he does not want to change and he still lingers in her memory? What should I do sir ji? Please advice.
Swami Ramswarup: I would advice you my daughter not to loose your patience. You must deal matter with your husband in a loving manner and not in anger. Elders of your parents and in-laws must also intervene, advise him to leave bad habits which is burning family life. Also, do daily worship of God to bless you. To seek God’s blessings, I advise you to do the following-

Shubh Karma




The Gayatri mantra is as follows —






omnipresent, Vishwa is the name of God.

of God is Vayu.

moon etc. So the name of God is Tej.


is Aditya.

knows every matter and behavior of whole universe without misunderstanding. So


name of God is Bhuvaha.

holding the same. So the name of God is Swaha.



and acceptable for worship.




YAHA = the God

NAHA = our,

DHIYAHA = mind(i.e., in our minds)

PRACHODYAT = by inspiration (fulfil the mind with wisdom)
















My blessings are always with you, my daughter.

Shivanshu: स्वामी जी चरण स्पर्श जी आपके उत्तर क लिये धन्यवाद..
एक परिचित द्वारा मंत्र बताय गया उन्होने कहाँ वेदों m ये एक हिमँत्र ह जो मूर्ति पूजा क समर्थन म हैं कृपया आप इसका transation देख ले
# RigVeda 5:8:5
त्वमग्ने पुरुरूपो विशेविशे वयो दधासि प्रत्नथा पुरुष्टुत ।
पुरूण्यन्ना सहसा वि राजसि त्विषिः सा ते तित्विषाणस्य नाधृषे ॥
हे इश्वर | आप ही समस्त रूप हैं, जन जन को आपने ही धारण किया हुआ है | इसलिए पुरातन काल से अप सबके द्वारा स्तुत्य हैं | समस्त अन्न तथा समस्त बल के आप स्वामी हैं | आपके द्वारा प्रदीप्त यह तेज कभी नष्ट नहीं होगा ||

Oh God, all images belongs to you, you behold every being. Hence you are praised by all. All food and power belongs to you, the fire ignited by you will never perish.
Swami Ramswarup: Samast roop ka arth yeh hai ki Hey! Ishwar aap nirakaar evum Sarvavyapak hain. Mantra ka yeh matlub nahin hai ki Ishwar kee murti hotee hai. Mantra ka devta Agni hai. Isliye mantra ka bhaav hai ki jaise agni sab jagat ko dharann karta hai, waise hee sub manushyon ko vidya ke prakash mein dharann karo.

Ved Mandir