



In a recent post, I talked about how we should all follow our dreams, and ignore all the negative thoughts surrounding us.

So what about those external negative factors â€” the naysayers? Those friends and family and people in authority who tell you to stop dreaming, to be realistic, to take a more traditional path? Those who tell you that you canâ€™t do something?

You have to learn to block them out. Or, if you have a contrarian attitude about life, learn to let those naysayers fuel your determination â€” make it your desire to prove the naysayers wrong!
How do you block out naysayers? The same way you block out doubts and negative thoughts in your own head: you squash them. OK, donâ€™t literally squash another person. But when they say something negative, or something that is likely to cause doubts in your head, take that thought (in your head) and squash it. Then replace it with something positive.

If someone is constantly bringing you down and constantly making you feel like you canâ€™t do something, you might consider removing them from your life. This sounds drastic, and it can be, but the truth is that having a life full of negative people will drag you down to their level, and stop you from doing what you want to do.

Iâ€™m not saying you should give up all your friends or never see your parents again (if theyâ€™re the naysayers), but I am saying that you should pick your friends carefully. Instead, surround yourself with positive, encouraging people. If you have friends like that, you can do anythingâ€¦take my word for it.

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This is a tough situation to escape because itâ€™s self-perpetuating, as anyone stuck in negative thinking knows all too well. Negative experiences feed your negative expectations, which then attract new negative experiences. Most people who enter this pattern never escape it in their entire lives. And that goes for everyone â€“ whether youâ€™ve a PhD or GED. Yes â€¦itâ€™s just that difficult to escape. If you beat yourself up for being too negative, youâ€™re simply reinforcing the pattern, not breaking out of it.

I think our people here in the nature isle are stuck in this trap, and will remain stuck until they experience an elevation in their consciousness â€“ which will help them from making negative judgments against each other. They have to recognize that theyâ€™re trapped and that continuing to fight their own negativity while still recognizing that itâ€™s a battle that can never be won.

Think about it. If beating yourself up for being too whiny was going to work, wouldnâ€™t it have worked a long time ago? Are you any closer to a solution for all the effort youâ€™ve invested in this plan of attack? Instead of resisting the negativity head-on, acknowledge and accept its presence. The solution I like best is to stop fighting and surrender â€“ which will actually raise your consciousness.

Overcoming negativity

You can actually learn to embrace the negative thoughts running through your head and allowing them to just be. If youâ€™re caught up in negativity, your job is to develop your consciousness to the point where you can learn to stay focused on what you want, to create positively instead of destructively. It may take you more than a lifetime to accomplish that, and thatâ€™s OK. Your life is always reflecting back to you the contents of your consciousness.

If you donâ€™t like what youâ€™re experiencing, thatâ€™s because your skill at conscious creation remains underdeveloped. Thatâ€™s not a problem though because youâ€™re here to develop it. Youâ€™re experiencing exactly what youâ€™re supposed to be experiencing so you can learn. Negativity doesnâ€™t have to be a permanent condition; we still have the freedom to choose otherwise.

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