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23 / F / Bisexual / Available

Austin, TX

My Details

Last Online
Feb 9
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
On OkC, I'm only looking to meet women. Friends first, because I want more queer friends :) and because I dislike the pressure that comes with being on a date with someone I've never met before, being screened for future dates. Let's just hang out? because if we like each other as friends, we can keep each other as friends, and if someone feels fancy-pantsy-inspired enough to ask the other out on a date (perhaps without using the words fancy-pantsy-inspired), well, I'm sure that's really cute and fun.

I'm queer/bisexual. I have my disagreements about the latter term, but I grew up fighting for bi-visibility and against bi-erasure and still feel that those are pertinent issues for myself and others. I've recently come to terms with being poly. I've never had a completely exclusive relationship and would feel suffocated if I couldn't explore closeness with other people. Since realizing that I and most other people I've met are attracted to more than one person at any given time, I just don't see the point in limiting ourselves or lying to each other. I believe we can work to get rid of our insecurities and not hide behind the social script of monogamy because we think it's easier somehow. I'm not saying that monogamy is evil or anything like that, but like so many things, it's on a spectrum, and I am somewhere in the middle. I don't care to know exactly where. "I want to celebrate and live my life." I don't want to miss out. I don't want to fake. And I would need my primary partner and other people I become involved with to understand, as my friends have so simply known and accepted before I even did. My basic goal in life is to be honest and enjoy what my internal world and the world around me has to offer. Oh, and I did just quote "Dynamite" by Taio Cruz up there...

My favorite color is yellow, because it reminds me of unabashed happiness and sunshine.

The awesomest, most exhilarating thing I've ever done is skydiving, and the simply happiest, most perfect road trip I've ever been on was through the desert in New Mexico. I would LOVE to see the mountains in Colorado in person one day.

My drink of choice is whiskey and ginger. -ale or beer, doesn't matter. Heck, I've had a shot of whiskey and ginger tea as a chaser, and that was unbelievably smooth and tasty... and funny.

I like clubbing, board games, scary movies, hula hoops, singing badly, books, being surrounded by pretty lights, and beloved friends. "In the Ayer" and "Ignition (Remix)" are still two of my jams.
What I’m doing with my life
Working at the main center for domestic violence and sexual assault survivors in Austin! Case manager/advocate, learning about resources in Austin, admiring the resiliency of the human spirit, hating paperwork. I'm an AmeriCorps member, so this job ends in August for me. By then I'll be a few steps closer to knowing exactly what I want to do. I'm saving for the future, in case I decide to go to grad school to become a counselor, and I know that it's survivors of domestic and sexual violence whom I want to continue to help in one way or another.
I’m really good at
I can make a really weird squish-like suctiony sound with my left foot if I bounce on it rapidly. I can raise either eye brow all by itself. I remember way too many details about cartoons that I grew up watching, but apparently not of much else, because I suck at trivia. I'm good at drawing, though I haven't done a lot of that in a while. I'm good at adapting to different social situations, carrying a conversation, and dancing. I'm good at listening when a person needs to vent and confide in someone, but I want to warn that a friend is not a therapist, particularly when you need one. I'm also good at listening to unique and strange and wonderful thoughts and sharing them in kind. We can do that all day.
The first things people usually notice about me
I smile. I talk. A lot. I may hug you too soon.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Vampire Chronicles (especially Interview with the Vampire), The Unbearable Lightness of Being, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy series, Wicked, Breakfast at Tiffany's,
Ender's Game, Ella Enchanted.

Movies: Breakfast at Tiffany's, Before Sunset, The Incredibles, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Anastasia, Cabin in the Woods, Titanic, The Pink Panther (1963), horror movies we gotta laugh at, anything with my 1960's screen goddesses.

Shows: FINISHED BUFFY. ;_; Coupling, The Office, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, Sailor Moon(!!!!!), 30 Rock, Arrested Development, RuPaul's Drag Race, Pushing Daisies, Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, Doctor Who, Courage the Cowardly Dog.

Music: Sam Cooke, The Black Keys, Muse, The Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Lana Del Rey, Lady GaGa, Queen, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Radiohead, The Beach Boys, ABBA, Florence and the Machine, '80s rock and pop, '90s, '60s, etc.

Food: ...especially if there's cheese or broccoli/kale/spinach in it. Or mushrooms. Or if it's bread. Or... if it's delicious.
The six things I could never do without
Striking colors
Cheese, like for real, I could never be vegan
My family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Oh like you can't guess.
On a typical Friday night I am
Downtown with friends, or watching Netflix and hilarious YouTube videos with my little sisters, or at a birthday party. There are way too many birthday parties.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My first orgasm was an old Polynex vibrator borrowed from a friend who found it in her mother's or grandmother's attic.

No worries. I kept my clothes on. >:p
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
You should message me if
-you want to chill, do something fun
-you want to talk about things you dream about, think about, make you happy, make you anxious, make you crazy, make you ordinary. I think things that make people anxious are especially interesting right now.
-you're around my age and want/need more queer girl friends too
-you want to get a bunch of queer girls together for the mixer of THE DECADE (......) cuz YEAH.? I need to start going to those Capital Q Socials. Oh yeah, message me if you want to go to one of those.