Ask @islandxbarbie:

Advice time! Let's say.. A friend of yours announces that they're pregnant but.. They aren't really fit to be a parent in your eyes. Do you act happy and congratulate them? (You're legitimately worried about the well-being and safety of the baby.. But your friend wants you to be happy for them.)

i guess the only thing to do in this situation - first, congratulate them. once that's out the way, then go ahead to have a serious conversation about the baby and make sure they have some sort of plan set up? like, how will the baby be cared for? can they provide for the baby? etc., etc. if not, maybe talk about their options, or whatever.

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