Poll: When Gender Is A Choice, Which Do You Choose?


New member
Aug 30, 2010
Usually male playing as a female. I don't know why, but starting with Fable III, I just started making female characters more than male characters. The only exception so far has been Saints Row the Third (I think I've only played as male in that) and Saints Row IV (because I made a story for my SRIII character), but I now have my primary character that's female for SRIV.
I don't often play a male character unless I'm doing a replay, but even then, I might choose female. I've never done a male in Skyrim (5 characters, 4 times completed the main quest), Dragon Age: Origins (3 characters, completed main quest once, currently doing it again), Dragon Age II (4 characters, completed main quest three times) and Mass Effect 3 (one character, completed main quest once). Hmm. Lots of Bioware popping up there.


New member
Sep 30, 2013
Male playing whichever seems more interesting in the context of the story and setting. I don't particularly want to role-play as me in an RPG (ignoring the "how the hell am I an Orc" problem, it's escapism) so there's no real need to create a character I identify with (in fact, some of the fun is falling into another character).
May 29, 2011
I'd vote but there's nothing for "no preference". It kinda depends on the game, like if the armor for women is ridiculous then I pick male, or which genders voice acting I prefer, or the character models. The poll seems to be implying that everyone needs to have a preference to play as a particular gender based purely on the gender, which I find deeply offensive.

(no not really)


New member
Aug 23, 2013
Female. Every time. Pure Lara Croft logic...if I have the choice, I want to stare at a woman's back end and not a man's...and I don't give a shit if she's wearing a chain mail bikini either-but then again if it's me creating said avatar then any wearing of chain mail bikinis is solely my own doing in the first place.

Oh well, I bought the damn game...I'll play it how I want to thank you very much.


New member
Jul 15, 2011
Probably 2/3 male. Usually go in as the man but I don't mind changing it up for variety's sake. For example if I actually had the motivation to play all of D3's classes it would go like

Barb- Male
Wizard- Female
Witch Doctor- Male
Monk - Male
Demon Hunter - Female
Crusader(expansion) - Coin flip

RJ 17

The Sound of Silence
Nov 27, 2011
KingsGambit said:
Both over multiple playthroughs if the choice makes any difference, otherwise just male probably. Usually combine with different class/build, different romances, alignment, in-game choices, etc.

RJ 17 said:
For example, in Mass Effect, I've got about 9 FemShep's and only 2 MaleSheps. The thought that a woman is the hope of the galaxy, the most bad-ass space marine in history is really appealing. It seems to break the clichés of male protagonists being the badasses of the universe.
A woman isn't the hope of the galaxy. Shepard is the hope of the galaxy, irrespective of gender. The fact that the player can choose either, and controls dialogue, choices and combat means there's nothing about Shepard being female that makes her the hero. Shepard isn't a male hero or a female hero; Shepard is both and neither. The game plays almost identically whichever gender the player chooses, thus FemShep is not a paragon for female protagonists but an Everyman with breasts.
Wow, way to miss the point entirely. Any game that allows for gender choice is obviously written as neutrally as possible. The fact remains, however, that when you're playing as FemShep, Shepard is female...that's kinda what the "Fem" in "FemShep" stands for. As such, when you're playing as FemShep the hope of the galaxy is therefor on the shoulders of a strong, badass woman. Could it just as easily be a badass man? Sure, that's an option...but guess what: when you're playing as FemShep, you're not playing as a man.

This topic has nothing to do with well-written female or male characters. It's about your personal preference and why you prefer it.

Marcus Kehoe

New member
Mar 18, 2011
I like to role-play as myslef in these games so I choose male, looking like me is optional(luckily male shepard looked enough like me.

Angelous Wang

Lord of I Don't Care
Oct 18, 2011
Depends on the game and the level of character customisation.

In more modern or sic-fi setting games I will go with female just because it more fun to create and stare at a hot girl.

In more Dungeons and Dragons type game I will create something more lore appropriate, male Hero's tend to be more lore appropriate.

Alpha Maeko

Uh oh, better get Maeko!
Apr 14, 2010
When it's all said and done, I've usually gone through the game from start to finish with both.

But that depends on whether the first play through was any good.


The Resident Team ICO Fanboy
May 14, 2009
I'm a guy and I usually play male. Although I do occasionally play female. Especially if I'm doing multiple playthroughs of a game like Fallout New Vegas.


The Basement has been unleashed!
Feb 1, 2009
I usually play as a male for the immersion since I love to put myself in the place of characters.
I don't know, but I really like doing that. :/

Although, when I do play as a female character I have a blast.
And there are the situations where my SR characters becomes a women for the fun. :D

So basically, I don't mind playing as both, but I play as a male for the immersion.


Your sinner, in secret
Jun 24, 2013
I usually play as a female, females tend to make more interesting characters. It's a sad 'fact' but it's the truth, at least in most games I've played.


New member
Jan 17, 2010
Is a choice still even a choice when ultimately it doesn't amount to anything important?

I have grown to really quite dislike the current emphasis that Western RPG developers are placing on making each and every main character of their games a empty vessel that the player then uses to engage with the jarringly otherwise well-developed sandbox world that they've created. The best RPG experiences I find are those like Deus Ex : Human Revolution, which give you an already somewhat pre-generated character but then allow you to take that character along a journey of development and transformation from what they were at the start of the game in comparison to how they are at the end of the game. I like a happy medium between the main character being nothing more than the main character acting as your spade in sandbox and being firmly railroaded down a one track narrative.


New member
Mar 25, 2013
While it all comes down to the same problem I face pretty much hourly, I mostly stick to playing female characters when available. I don't know that I could give any other reason than 'My own gender fluctuates so wildly, and I usually prefer to identify as female, so having a female avatar temporarily focuses me.'


New member
Aug 25, 2010
In RPGs I prefer to play as male, simple because I am male. I want to be as immersed as possible. This includes when making decisions. But I like to go back and play as a woman just to see all angles of the story and character interactions. This mostly comes into play with Bioware games, though. For example, when I finally get around to doing a female Mass Effect character, she's essentially going to be Batman with his personality and making the decisions I think her would make. That's simply because, from what I've seen and played of FemShep, this is the sort of style I think would suit her.

In dragon Age Origins, I played a cheeky female dwarf; that was a lot of fun.