Turns out she can do a lot more for you than a once-a-year breast exam and pap test.

By Anthea Levi
Updated September 18, 2017

A libido that's MIA, discomfort during sex that keeps you from reaching orgasm, vaginal dryness you can't figure out: When problems crop up that put a dent in your sex life, chances are you turn to your friends for advice or hit up Dr. Google.

They might be able to help, sure, but you're ignoring the one person who is actually trained to solve your sex-related situation: your gynecologist. STD tests and breast exams aren't the only things she knows how to do. Her wheelhouse is female reproductive and sexual health, which gives her experience and insight when it comes to the physical or emotional issues that prevent you from steaming up the sheets.


Low libido



There's also a pill specifically FDA-approved to treat low libido in women. The so-called "female viagra," called Addyi, is an option, though it must be taken daily and patients can’t drink alcohol while they’re on it, says Dr. Nathan.



Vaginal dryness

Vaginal dryness is most common during and after menopause, when a woman's natural estrogen production diminishes. But almost 20% of women ages 18 to 50 experience it too, so it's definitely something gynos address.


Dr. Dweck suggests asking your gyno about vaginal moisturizers that work similar to regular skin moisturizers. Over-the-counter products like Replens can be used one to two times per week to keep your lady bits from becoming Sahara-like, and you don't have to stop the action to squeeze out some lube (and possibly ruin the moment).

“Another option is an estrogen cream, pill, or ring,” says Dr. Nathan. These moisture-replenishing products can be prescribed by your gyno. They're not right for everyone, but your doctor will let you know if they're an option for you.

Painful sex


Dr. Dweck says that internal pain can be caused by uterine fibroids, which are benign growths on or inside the uterus. Fibroids don't have to be removed, but if they interfere with your sex life, it's something your doctor will talk over with you so you know your options.

Some women with endometriosis—a condition whereby the uterine lining migrates into the pelvic cavity—also experience painful sex. So if fibroids aren't the cause of the pain, your doctor might ask you about other symptoms of endometriosis, such as super painful periods or pelvic pain all month long. The only way you'll know what's up, says Dr. Dweck, is if you schedule an appointment.