Monday, October 26, 2009

True Wife Confession 303 See Other

Confession #3021

more importantly, you would resent me doing anything to help someone
sister's kids, too.

Confession #3022

Dear Husband,

Confession #3023

I miss you.






Confession #3024


Confession #3025


Confession #3026


Confession #3027


Confession #3028


I don't feel guilty. I feel empowered.

Confession #3029


Confession #3030







Anonymous said...

I could've written that.
Hope you're having better luck than I am.

The Fool Of The World said...

You are so right on the money! You open my eyes to what marriage is really about. What about the old days (like 2 centuries ago). Were women oppressed or did they do it secretly?

Anonymous said...

#3021 Thanks for posting. I recently got silent treatment for donating baby items to my church where I know they will be put to good use rather than the in-law's church charity where they may not be put to good use. Glad I am not alone.

Anonymous said...

#3021, #3025, and #3028...

Me too.

Anonymous said...

Me too, 3021. If I had known how selfish he was, I wouldn't have married him. It really saddens me that he will never feel that we have enough money and stuff that we can afford to be generous. Ever.

Anonymous said...

3030, good luck to you.

3027, are you married to my husband?

Anonymous said...

3026, you'll be okay. :) I've been there, in the long distance thing, and we've lived together over a year now and just got married a month ago. If you love someone enough to put up with the distance and the loneliness, you'll be fine once you're together. There might be some smothering at first, but if you're honest with each other, you'll find a balance.

Anonymous said...

I was thinking the same thing for just about all of them. "that sounds like me, too." I guess we all are not so different after all. I have to say about th toothbrush, that woudl probably happen to me, too, the whole infection thing. Good luck

theo said...

3024 - I don't know if you're a horrible wife, but you're not a faithful one. I hasten to be clear that I'm not meaning to be all judgemental in saying that, only to urge you to take a good look at the implications of what you're doing.

Quite apart from the sex, you made a promise to your husband when you got married, that you'd throw your life in with his, and give him your heart. And you're not doing that.

You've been doing this for ten years, and maybe you can keep doing it for ten more. But I have my doubts; especially if you're feeling guilty about it. But if and when your husband finds out, he's gonna have a smoking, bleeding hole where his heart used to be. . . Is sex with the XBF really that good?

I presume that you married your husband for a reason, and that you didn't marry the BF for a reason. Is it time, maybe, for your actions to line up with your choices?

Anonymous said...

Um, "twig?” wut?

Anonymous said...

3026 - Hang in there. I met my wife 33 years ago when we were 18. College, two graduate schools - we dated long distance for 7 years. Just celebrated our 26th anniversary and we're so much happier and complete now than we were then. It can work!

Heather said...

it's amazing how much i can relate to so many of these confessions. which is kind of a sucky thing, huh?

on another note, i gave you a blog award for "honest scrap". i don't expect you to do all the forwarding. i do hope it will bring you new readers and more confessions! great, great blog!

Anonymous said...

You should be careful about picking up strangers on the road. This shouldn't be about helping people, its about your safety. You never know what people are capable of

Goddess of Madness said...

Especially killer old ladies with walkers

Kd2001 said...

3030- Your posting was truly amazing. You should be proud of yourself for sticking with your husband. So many people take marriage lightly, they believe that all their problems will disappear if they just find someone else. When the truth is anyone you are with will break your heart at least once, it's just a matter of deciding whether they are worth having your heart broken over..

Anonymous said...

Oh Oh. If I have learnt anything today it's that if I even consider toothbrush abuse (like 3 previous confessors), the alarm bells are blaring. Gross. Hopefully a level of resentment I never experience. As #3029 may now realise, that shit ain't funny, it's like Munchausens by proxy or some twisted crap. OF COURSE HE IS SICK. Sheesh.