திருமண முன் உறவுகள்: குறித்து மதம் பார்வையில் என்ன [கல்யாணத்திற்கு முன்பு] உறவுகள்?

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பதில்: கேள்வி கேட்டவரை "திருமணம் முன்பாக பொருள் என்றால்,"திருமணம் ஒட்டுமொத்தந்தான் முன் ஆனால் ஒப்பந்த பிறகு, then there is no harm in such relations since she is his wife by virtue of the contract, even though they have not decorously consummated the marriage. எனினும், if it is before the marriage, such as during the period of engagement or otherwise, such contact is forbidden and impermissible. It is not allowed for a man to enjoy a non-related women’s company, either by speech, look or private company. It is confirmed the Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alaihi-wasallam) கூறினார்,

A man cannot be alone with a women except in the presence of [one of her] மஹ்ரம் . And a women cannot travel except with a மஹ்ரம் .” [1]

In sum, if that contact or association is after contract, there is no harm in it. If it is before the marriage ceremony, even if it is after the proposal and acceptance, it is not allowed. Such behaviour is forbidden for him since the women is a non-relative and non-wife until they conclude the marriage contract.

[1] Recorded Muslim.Al-Bukhari has something similar.

Shaykh Muhammad bin Saalih al-`Uthaymeen

Islamic Fatawa Regarding WomenDarussalam Pg. 195-196

10 கருத்துக்கள் to Relations Before Marriage: குறித்து மதம் பார்வையில் என்ன [கல்யாணத்திற்கு முன்பு] உறவுகள்?

  1. MeerZameer

    Dear Author, I was on a wild-goose chase for this questioner since 5 மாதங்கள்.
    Alhumdulillah, I am able to find one. But the article seems to have rich content in its grammar and is bouncing off my head.Can u pls make it simple by replying in simple language.

    I got engaged 3 months back and my marriage is due 5 மாதங்கள்.
    My parents didnot permit me saying that they have no clarity of what Islam says on this and even showed their disagreement due to some reasons. I m bound to their decision.

    But i want to know, what exactly Islam says about this. So that I can guide my youngsters with references (and even console myself).
    Pls guide me by replying whether it is permissible or not.
    Any referral links would help me much better as I don’t see any links in this article.
    Awaiting for ur response.


    • Shamayla


      First you must clear yourself about what you want to chat with you Fiance?
      நிச்சயமாக, It’s clear to everyone.
      A Non-Spiritual Thing chains to evil. So be Kind to your parents. And As it’s given in hadith, if you wanna talk to develop understanding or sharing your point of views on different things, you can do this in presence of mahram.

      You can often visit her house, in presence of her parent you can talk in respectful view and way.

      Good for both of you i think…. 🙂

    • maysoon

      Meet your fiance with her wali. அதன் ஹலால். Mention to them the hadith of the Prophet SAW. Saying its permissible to see one another and chat in halal way.

  2. Aaron

    Dear author,
    i have some parts of your article quite confusing,simple quetion i have is how does the man talk to his fiancee about a topic he would not be comfortable
    talking to her in the presence of another? Furthermore dear author why cant a relationship exist between two people before marriage,isnt the point in dating and courting to help produce a better marriage? நன்றி.

    • maysoon

      Dating and courting are two seperate things.

      In Islam we are allowed to court, with mahram, wali a male relative usually father. You can meet outside, inside, go to the park walk all together. Ask questions. Even travel together as a family so you can see each other in different scenarios.

      Dating leads to fitnah, சலனமும், lust and not love, obsession and disobeying ones family and Allah and the Prophet SAW. We are muslim and Love Allah and the prophet More then anyone more then our husbands and wives and family. If something is not permitted as Allah created us he knows us inside and out. then there is hiqma/truth correctness in it. We should not rebel and say we know better? did we creat ourselves? authobillahi.
      Without Islam we are just raging animalsfollowing our lusts and desires. FACT.

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