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6 Responses to “Hear Ye, Hear Ye, Read all About it! Men are Victims to Pornography!”

  1. yumicpcake November 18, 2013 at 5:12 am #

    Lol, I do believe they are bull shittin about the whole thing. Nothing but junk pseudo science. You are completely right, it is the macho Grand Old Patriarchal garbage that raises boys and men to lack empathy. Pornography does it too. I make my voice heard every single time someone tells a boy to man up and quit crying. Children’s emotions are huge when they are small and hard for them to control. Boys will gain more control as they get older just as girls do and we should let them cry when they are hurting because those sweet little boy’s emotions are just as important as any little girl. Keep fighting the good fight…it’s hard but our numbers are always growing and even some men are joining the ranks against misogyny!!

  2. Hecuba November 21, 2013 at 7:08 pm #

    Hear hear She Has The Power because this latest male created excuse is being promoted all the time. The poor males who make the choice to view porn are now suffering from that syndrome called ‘porn addiction.’ Get the violins out women because the menz can’t help they have an addiction so therefore mustn’t be held accountable for endorsing/consuming filmed male sexual violence against women and girls.

    Oh yes the menz will claim ‘it is those porn female stars who are to blame because they tempted men to enact what these female porn stars freely did for money!! Poor menz they claim they are the rational sex and yet these men are supposedly incapable of rationality but instead are ruled by their dicks!

    Men however blame women for everything and one example is men claiming ‘the woman is responsible for allowing her male partner to subject her to violence because she didn’t leave him!’ Another example is women are responsible for preventing male sexual predators from raping them – because the male sexual predators have no agency and do not make the choice to sexually prey on women and girls.

    Given men are the ones accorded socio-economic power over women it makes sense the dominated claim they are victims – not the oppressed. Meaning of course men are the real victims whereas we women have so much power we just don’t realise it!

  3. Day Train November 23, 2013 at 12:29 pm #

    I say the reason men bully other men out of showing emotion has way more to do with the fact that they don’t want to deal with that shit, it pulls them out of their narcissism. Also worth examining is the fact that men don’t have as much to cry about in the first place.

  4. nereidafilomena December 7, 2013 at 4:01 pm #

    oh teh pour menz!

    • Jennie December 21, 2013 at 9:08 am #

      These poor male “victims” seem to not want to acknowledge the fact that MEN are directing these violent videos, and are the ones truly profiting from their distribution. The actresses are usually unfortunately in a bad position in their lives where they need quick cash. Some have drug issues. Most are under the influence of drugs or alcohol when they are being told what to do in these ridiculously violent and misogynistic videos. And the videos are just getting worse over time. Patriarchal society LOVES to blame women for ALL of society’s shortcomings and problems. Why aren’t the male “porn addicts” getting angry @ the pigs who create and write the scripts for these porn films? Because it’s easier to blame the women. The women are the ones suffering in these videos and in prostitution! The johns hardly ever get reprimanded from paying girls and women to RAPE them! What a shitty society we live in as women. I am tired of it. Some scumbags were talking graphically about women that they have “had.” I got up and moved to another subway seat! They obviously felt entitled to speak like this in the presence of women on the train. Fuck them and fuck the patriarchy!!

  5. Lisa December 1, 2014 at 9:11 pm #

    This is what has been called hyper-masculinity, this idea that men are made to be too testosterone-y and are losing their healthy emotional-ness. But I’ll direct you to the many cultures where men don’t act hyper-masculine and in these places women are still seen as inferior in almost every way except in the easiest but most tedious tasks which are then made out to be silly women things. Not to mention women are still hated and abused by men. For instance in the Sudan and in some parts of the Middle East men hold hands in a non-homosexual context (lol obviously) but in many parts of the Middle East women are viewed as servants and in Sidan they have become strongly Christian or Muslim (read femininity in men is shameful). Also, Indian men aren’t hyper-masculine (in fact, outside the west no men really are) and women in India are treated horribly.
    Radical Feminists believe that it is in the nature of men to be hateful of women and to be sexual abusers. Looking at the behavior of most nonhuman mammalian males should make this quite obvious. Men are competitive and sexually aggressive because of nature, because of evolution. Now many male species are said to have dominant males, and we misunderstand this to mean dominant over females, but this is not the case–they are mostly dominant over other males. Remember dominant is just a word male scientists attributed to these males that chase off other males and are followed/tolerated by the females. Scientists like to make it seem as if the dom male is respected and beloved by the females but mostly they are either ambivalent to him or he uses his greater size and strength to bully them. Also female animals tend to show much more diversity in their individual behavior, often displaying aggression then cooperation, selfishness then apparent altruism. Whereas the dominant males display mostly the obsession with mating and chasing other males of their property. I’m not sure about non dominant males–they aren’t talked about as much.
    This goes back to my thinking that it’s ironic when especially men will insist that males and females are inherently different. Yet they believe because men are so beholden to their natural masculine traits women are likewise equally beholden to their feminine traits. However, in the natural world females often are observed rebelling against the status qua. Examples: female lions fending off free-roaming males because they chose to keep their cubs alive rather than submit to the males lions (this is despite showing fear of the males’ larger size), the many species of animals where females always resist the males attempts to mate (think cats, otters), females monkeys chasing off a so-called dominant male who has hurt an infant. Males are never observed to be rebelling against the natural order.

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