You may be wondering if the things said in most of these reviews are true. To quote Han Solo, I would say, "It's true, all of it." So, how do you get through it? 1) Show Up & Participate. She might not like what you have to say, but she appreciates at attempt. 2) Be Friendly. 3) Pray you get a good group and please be good to your group. 4) Pray.