I'm a Single Father and I Want to Go Back to School

Being a single father and going back to school may seem like a daunting task, but if you leverage your resources and are organized, you can make it work. As a single parent, you have already developed the ability to multitask and think about the big picture. Adding school to the mix offers you the opportunity to exercise these skills and do something that will enrich your life and better provide for your family in the future. Make a plan that takes your many responsibilities into account and then jump into action.

Web of Support

Developing a solid support system is essential. Think about who you most rely on as friends. You’ll need personal champions who can encourage you when things get tough. If you’ve been away from school for a while, you may be feeling insecure or uncertain about your ability to return. Having someone in your corner will remind you that you can be successful. Most colleges offer a non-traditional student center that provides extra support services for parents who are returning to school. Visit the center at your college to learn about health care, child care resources and family based opportunities on campus.

Child Care

Finding affordable child care that can flex with your schedule is essential to your ability to go back to school. If you’re eligible for financial aid, some funding assistance may be available to help pay for this service. Some colleges have on-site day care services for students. You may also be able to take online classes to minimize your time away from home and to better fit classes around your work schedule. If you have family or friends that are willing to help out, consider taking classes at night or on the weekends to accommodate their schedules.

Can You Spare Some Change

Having enough money to raise a family and attend school can be a challenge. Check out special grants available for single parents. You can also apply for financial aid by filling out the Free Application For Federal Student Aid at FAFSA.ed.gov. Set up a meeting with the financial aid office at your college to get more information about grants and loans. Some employers provide assistance for employees who are interested in a college education, as well. Research your options and apply early for various grants and scholarship opportunities to maximize your options.

Stay On Track

Effective time management is a must as a single father returning to school. In addition to balancing class and study time, you’ll also have your regular parenting responsibilities. Plot all of your tasks on a daily calendar so that you have a solid plan in place. Be sure to schedule study hours since you’ll need dedicated time to complete assignments and prepare for class. You’ll also need time for yourself so that you can re-energize and stay healthy. Try not to feel guilty about committing some of your day to your education. Going back to school will benefit you and your family when all is said and done.

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