(OPRAH.com) -- Oprah has always said that mothers have the most difficult job on earth, and actress Jenny McCarthy is one mom who has never backed down from a challenge.



Doctors removed Monica's uterus, ovaries, gallbladder and part of her colon, along with her legs and arms.



Jenny has been an outspoken advocate for parents of children with autism since her son was diagnosed with the disease two and a half years ago.



In her new book, "Mother Warriors," Jenny tells the story of other moms fighting for their special-needs kids.



So when Oprah heard about Monica, another mom fighting for her children, she thought Jenny would be just the person to get this mother warrior's story.



After going through a painful divorce, Monica met Tony when she least expected it. Monica already had a 9-year-old daughter, but soon after she and Tony got engaged, they were thrilled to be expecting another bundle of joy.



In August 2007, she had a C-section, and though she worried about complications, Monica delivered a healthy baby girl. But hours after Sofia was born, Monica began running a fever. No one was concerned at first -- Monica figured it was just hormones -- but three days later the fever hadn't broken, and Monica's abdomen was swollen and painful. iReport.com: What do you think about this story? Sound off on video



The doctors at Monica's hospital thought she might be infected with a deadly strain of bacteria. They flew her to a hospital in Boston where she was diagnosed with necrotizing fasciitis, also known as flesh-eating bacteria.



Defying the odds, Monica survived, but many of her organs didn't. The doctors removed Monica's uterus, ovaries, gallbladder and part of her colon that same day.



Within four weeks, Monica's infection had restricted the blood flow to her arms and legs. Her nurses cleaned her limbs every day, and she knew they were trying to keep her from seeing the damage. But Monica wanted to face the disease head on. "I needed to know what I was up against. I didn't want to be shielded anymore," Monica says.



Eventually, doctors told Monica they had to amputate both arms and both legs. The surgery sounded scary, but Monica was determined to put it behind her and get back to her daughters.



"I was frightened at first, but when they told me [my arms and legs] had to be amputated, it was: 'Do it. I've got to go home,'" Monica says. "[I thought,] 'I have a life to live and it's not here, and until you amputate, I can't move forward.'"



After her amputation, Monica spent two months in the hospital, where she underwent a total of 37 surgeries. As Monica grew stronger, Tony realized there was no reason to postpone their wedding any longer -- they got married in the hospital chapel in October, 2007.



Monica spent the next two months going through grueling rehabilitation.



"She's a fighter," Tony says. "If they told her two hours of physical therapy a day, she'd ask to double it up to four. She wanted to come home as soon as possible. They didn't think she'd ever walk again, but she made it happen."



Right before Christmas, Monica got what she'd been waiting for. She was given the okay to go home to her husband and two daughters.



A year later, Jenny visited Monica and her family at their home outside Boston, Massachusetts. "I had a big aha! moment after spending six hours with her. Monica accepted what is. She looked down and said: 'Okay, this is the situation. I can't change this, so I might as well surrender to it,'" Jenny says. "When she does that, she is able to move forward in peace." Oprah.com: Jenny McCarthy answers parenting questions



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question: Does she have any family?, answer: husband and two daughters. | question: What is the number of surgeries that doctors perform?, answer: 37 | question: What procedure did she have?, answer: Doctors removed Monica's uterus, ovaries, gallbladder and part of her colon, along with her legs and arms. | question: What was the number of surgeries Monica had?, answer: 37 | question: What was Monica diagnosed with?, answer: necrotizing fasciitis, | question: Does Monica have children?, answer: already had a 9-year-old daughter, | question: What does Monica now try to do?, answer: put it behind her | question: What caused the problems?, answer: a C-section, | question: Who was diagnosed with a deadly, flesh-eating bacteria after C-section?, answer: Monica