galiu priversti save nuliūdinti, fantazuodamas apie tai, kaip viskas turėtų būti, arba apgaudinėdama save, manydama, kad galiu pakeisti dalykus, kurių pakeisti tikrai negaliu
i can make myself feel sorrowful by fantasizing about the way things should be or deluding myself into believing that i could change things that are really not in my power to change