Kai jautėmės ypač nervingi ar nusivylę, aš naudodavau tai, kad jei prieš bet kokį komentarą laimintume jo širdį, tai, ką pasakydavome po to, negalėtų būti suvokiama kaip piktavališkas neigiamas ar visiškai nemandagus.
i used when we were feeling particularly cranky or frustrated was that if we were to preface any comment with bless his her heart anything we said after that could not be perceived as malicious negative or down right rude