Aš galvoju apie šiuos dalykus daugiausia apie tai, kad ji nori suprasti ją pagal savo sąlygas ir tuo pat metu patenkinti ir gerbti mano poreikius, ir jaučiuosi neviltis dėl to, kaip kartais tai atrodo neįmanoma
i think of these things mostly in relation to her wanting both to understand her on her own terms and simultaneously have my own needs be met and respected and i feel despairing at how impossible it seems sometimes