A husband and wife realized more than 20 years into their marriage that they were both gay. David Kaufman had always struggled with being born a boy. He tried to ignore the nagging feeling for years and even married twice and had two kids, CBS Sacramento reports. He was married to his second wife, Cat, for more than 20 years when he realized he needed to come clean about his desire to become a woman, as well as another more recent discovery - that he was attracted to other men. Cat Kaufman (right) revealed she was gay to her husband, David, 20 years into their marriage. David is now Dani (left)
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Cat Kaufman revealed she was gay to her husband, David, 20 years into their marriage
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He shockingly told her that he is also gay and had been keeping it a secret from her
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The couple is still married and very close but living separately
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David has since transformed into Dani, a woman
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The couple has a child
Just last year, however, @placeholder realized she isn't gay - she was just born in the wrong body.