Hickory, North Carolina (CNN) -- The stepmother of a missing 10-year-old girl in North Carolina said during a jailhouse visit with two relatives this week that she blames a lot of her current predicament on her husband, one of those relatives said Friday. The relative, one of two cousins who visited Monday with Elisa Baker in jail, said she was speaking publicly after a few family members met and "decided that we needed to share a few things that we do know." Elisa Baker's stepdaughter, Zahra Baker, was reported missing last month. "As we talked with her, she cried over missing Zahra and how her husband has left her to take all the blame for what has happened when he played a big part in this terrible situation," the cousin said in an exclusive interview with HLN's "Nancy Grace" producer Natisha Lance. The cousin spoke on condition of anonymity because of death threats the family has received.
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"He played a big part in this terrible situation," a cousin says in exclusive interview
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"Adam Baker has a lot of the answers"
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The cousin acknowledges she doesn't know what happened
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Elisa Baker's family is divided, the cousin says
Police on Monday confirmed that a prosthetic leg discovered last week in brush off a @placeholder road belongs to Zahra Baker, whose disappearance is now being probed as a homicide.
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