(CNN) -- It seems like everybody loves a good scandal except the people involved in it. How must it feel to be Jill Kelley right now? Talking heads, journalists and the Chatty Cathys everywhere are telling stories about her and how she might be tied to the downfall of America's top spy, David Petraeus. National security secrets could be at stake, though no one has offered proof of a breach. Jill Kelley, honorary consul She's kept quiet, yet details of her personal life are quickly leaking out. Reports don't reveal much except that she's a socialite who threw charity events for the military community in Tampa where she lives with her oncologist husband and three kids.
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Tampa socialite Jill Kelley considered David and Holly Petraeus family friends
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Kelley and her husband founded a charity while battling lawsuits, foreclosure and debt
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She hosted big charity bash for military; Kelley's brother calls her "dedicated wife"
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