No matter how hard to want to believe it.. Humans are animals.. we fight    If my kid is being bullied I've taught him to punch people in the face.. yes it's the last resort but I'd rather he has self esteem because he has all the tools to stand up for himself.. Which after saying no.. Leave me alone.. He has every right to do.  This passive movement isn't based in reality..  sometimes a punch in the face is necessary.   Get over it.. You're clearly a pussy..