The things you can do if you're in the sweet spot between too rural (your closest neighbor is some old hermit 20 miles away) and too urban. Going out with friends on the dirt bike trails, hiking, camping, fishing, heading to a field for RC planes, campfires, experimenting with drinking in the woods, exploring abandoned structures, doing doughnuts with your car, tending your field/garden, just being outside to relax, heading to a local bar where you'll know everyone within a few weeks, actually seeing stars. People say there's so much to do in the city but it just boils down to going to 20 bars that are all the same loud clubby dark rooms, or hitting up that fake Thai restaurant to feel cultured. I have to pay to get to nature. I wish I was back home every day.