I mean their reactions are hyper reactions and that kind of thing only makes the problem worse. It is a crazy thing to do, but we need to understand why in the fuck they think that would be okay, and then try to change it. I don't want to put up with that shit either, and I decidedly don't. Hence why I asked why she thought it was okay. Apparently that was too much for her so she removed me from her life completely without another word, lol.