I'm just a bystander in regards to this situation, but my godbrother is the model of unsuccessful. My 29yr old god brother operates at genius level, however languished in university, flunking out once even after the university gave him a second try. He graduated from a college turned university with a Bachelor's in Economics, but has little to no idea what to do with it, though I suspect he'll never *actually* do anything. And it's all because he won't cut his hair, go to sleep before 4am, and stop wearing Megadeth t-shirts to professional interviews that he will never leave his parents home, will never use his degree for anything, and will work at the Costco gas bar forever, or until they finally fire him for *constantly* being late. He thinks the world needs to change, not him. Thankfully I'm sure he won't live long, since he refuses to eat anything resembling a vegetable or fruit and survives off of A&amp;W, Boston Pizza pizza, and chicken tendies and heaven forbid he do something physical outside of jerk off in the shower for an hour and a half.