You're right, they are weak. I forget that most people dont get off their ass to fix themselves. I do it almost every day! You do have to take a break sometimes!  I guess I've never understood the incel game. Find your pond and fish in it. If you're 300+ lbs, fish at Walmart. I guess it's a brain game at some point.  Oh, you're dead right about them making no effort to get ahead. My ex could but rarely did. She always just said I was smarter or more educated. All it took was me reading the book! Lol!  Well, I've fought to get ahead. I've made more $ than my bosses in my last few jobs. It's degrees and experience. I've changed careers and gone from engineering into data. I lost experience in the field but now I bring a terminal degree. We'll see how it plays out. I figure if anyone (women) are too much of a pain, I'll enforce that they call me by my now legally valid prename of Dr.