I hung out at the F95Zone devhub for a while, which was basically a sub-community of a pirate website, that mostly made incest porn using DAZ pre-made characters using the RenPy engine, before Patreon shut them down. You'd expect them to be the most depraved individuals you'd ever see, but they were mostly just genuinely sweet. When one of the (50+ year old) regulars got sent to hospital everyone worried, whenever someone doesn't show up for a while people go around and search for him/her (at a guess about 20% of the community is female, though many don't make a point of it), ping them on PM to see if they're okay, and generally fuss around like a bunch of kindergarten teachers. It was eye-opening.