I can't handle people who are negative ALL THE TIME and panic far faster than necessary when, if they just took a breath and a step back, it is not as bad as they immediately thought and actually might be better in the long run. eg; I have been forced to move out of my very crowded living situation along with 5 others. 2 took it in stride.. (granted one of them is an heir to the taco bell fortune so she's golden). The other 3 panicked, burned bridges, signed something that they will regret, and also ruined my friendship by leaving me standing alone. If they would have stopped to breath they would have realized we all have the opportunity to move into an even better situation if we all grouped together to split the cost...