ex girlfriend and i broke up. she calls a couple weeks later demanding i pick up the rest of my stuff from her place or she's gonna throw it away. also says i have to fuck her or i won't get it back. she even had a new boyfriend at the time. she gets off. kicks me out. tries calling again a couple weeks later asking if i want to fuck again. didn't really want to do it that first time either because she was a bitch that made my life miserable, but for some reason i felt like i was obligated to because she made me agree that i had to fuck her to get my stuff before i actually went down there. she was emotionally and physically abusive, and a manipulative person in general. i never got to spend time away from her, either with my friends or family. and whenever i did i would be guilted for it. i couldn't even spend christmas eve with my family because that bitch was crying and complaining and threatening to break up and inflict self-harm because she wanted me to be with her and her family on christmas, because, after all, her sister and her boyfriend were there and felt left out that i wasn't there as well. my mom never liked her and of course was losing her mind and tried her hardest to get me to stay with the family. ended up breaking my mom's heart for that slut. made the wrong call. i have done a lot of growing up since. never allowed myself to ever be manipulated like that again. my confidence has soared.