I learned about different cocktails I wanted to try on the podcast Before the Hangover (Susi Vidal who is a TikTok chef is one of the hosts). I think they stopped recording a while ago, but you can still find the old episodes…I like cocktails where you can taste the alcohol and there aren't too many other flavors masking it the best. I especially like gin because it reminds me of pine trees (a nice scent!) If the bar or restaurant has a cocktail menu, I try to pick something that sounds good from the menu, usually with gin bc I tend to be disappointed when I order vodka cocktails lol. If they don't, or if nothing sounds appealing, I'll go for a gin and tonic, gin daisy (gin, grenadine, soda, lemon juice, usually over ice — bartenders are not always familiar with this) or aperol spritz (not all bars have aperol, you sometimes need to ask if they can make this). I occasionally order a French 75 if I want something very light and refreshing. An espresso martini is also a fun choice if you are planning to party lol