It's wrong to be sadistic and brutal.
John just lost his job and is very upset when he gets home to his wife Mindy.
John wants to vent his anger.
John takes a deep breath, tells his wife he lost his job and asks if she wants to talk.
John raises his voice, tells Mindy to take her clothes off and hits her hard.
Mindy feels supportive of John and loves him even more as they get closer.
Mindy cries, resents John and thinks of leaving him and ending the marriage.