It is hurtful to distance yourself from your family.
Mary had an argument with her parents after telling them about her intention to drop out of college.
Mary wants to be independent and make her own decisions.
Mary has a conversation with her parents and explains to them that she had thought this step over and asks them to believe in her.
Mary cuts off all ties with her parents and shuts off their attempts to contact her.
Mary's parents understand Mary's reasons and intentions and are proud that their daughter wants to take her life into her own hands.
Mary's parents are extremely hurt and very worried about their daughter.