It's expected that spouses are kind to each other.
Joe is married to Lisa and has just gotten home from a long day at work to find Lisa has burned dinner.
Joe wants to eat dinner.
Joe tells Lisa it's no big deal, and they'll just order some takeout.
Joe calls Lisa a lousy cook and complains about the food the whole time.
Lisa appreciates Joe's kindness, and the two have a nice night together.
Lisa gets very angry with him and makes him sleep on the couch.