You shouldn't blame your kids for your divorce.
Tim is in court because he has sued his wife for a divorce.
Tim wants to get out of his marriage.
Tim tells the judge that the reason for the divorce is that he and his wife have grown apart.
Tim tells the judge that his children have turned his wife against him and that's why he wants a divorce.
The judge grants equal visitation rights to both Tim and  his wife, and they divorce amicably.
The judge grants the divorce but Tim's children never speak to him again.