It's good to communicate your concerns with your family.
Ray has been having suicidal thoughts, and he hasn't talked to anyone about it.
Ray wants to decide whether to talk to his family.
Ray tells his family about his struggles with mental illness.
Ray doesn't want his family to get in his way if he does decide to kill himself, so he doesn't tell them.
Ray gets something off of his chest and is in a better position to receive help.
Ray still needs serious help, and nobody is able to give it to him.