You shouldn't control others.
Brenda is leaving to go see a movie with friends when she tells her husband Bob goodbye.
Bob wants to express his concern about Brenda leaving.
Bob tells Brenda to drive safely and to make sure to wear her seatbelt and not to drink and drive.
Bob tells Brenda that she's not leaving because he's not sure about her safety and that she's forbidden from going out.
Brenda tells Bob not to worry so much but is secretly delighted he cares so much about her well being.
Brenda is livid that Bob thinks he can tell her what to do and when to go out and feels that Bob might be undercover violent.