It's okay to not like your partner's tattoo idea.
Bob's wife wanted to get a tattoo that Bob thought was silly.
Bob wants to decide to tell the truth or lie.
Bob tells his wife the truth - that he doesn't like the tattoo.
Bob doesn't want to hurt her feelings, so he tells her it's a great idea.
Bob's wife is upset but in the long run she's glad that he told her the truth.
"A few years later his wife asks Bob ""why didn't you tell me this tattoo looked so stupid?""."