It's good to have expectations for your spouse.
Britt's husband is now unemployed, and he doesn't have many responsibilities around the house.
Britt has to decide whether to make her husband do anything.
Britt makes her husband wash the dishes after everyone is done eating.
Britt decides that she is fine with her husband not doing anything.
Britt's husband allows Britt to get some rest, and he provides value to the household.
Britt's husband becomes dependent on her, and he becomes lazy.