It's not normal to date somebody considerably older than you
Harriet is at a college student bar when a man who is 40 years older than her says he is interested in her.
Harriet wants to respond to the man.
Harriet tells the man she is not interested in going out with him.
Harriet tells the man she will go out with him.
Harriet will be able to find someone she has more in common with.
Harriet will have a hard time relating to the man.