You should say your proper goodbyes when your friend dies.
Mae's friend Helen died, and the funeral will be held in the morning.
Mae wants to send her condolences to the family.
Mae attends the funeral and greets the family, telling them how much Helen meant to her.
Mae skips the funeral and calls the family two weeks later expressing her thoughts.
The family appreciates Mae's words and tells her that Helen loved her too.
The family is disappointed and upset with Mae for not attending the funeral.