It's good to strive to be inclusive when throwing celebrations.
As Tony develops plans for a surprise birthday party for his wife, he evaluates the guest list.
Tony must decide if he wants to invite people he would like to have at the party, or people his wife would like to have there.
Tony only considers who he believes his wife would want to see, as he populates the guest list for her party.
Tony decides to omit a few of his wife's cousins, who he finds annoying, from the guest list.
Tony's wife has a great time at her surprise party, sharing the experience with the people who mean the most to her.
His wife notices that her cousins are not there, and she regrets their absence.