It's unreasonable to go to extremes in your reactions.
Jim is at a restaurant, and finds that his steak is undercooked.
Jim wants to tell the server about his problem.
Jim explains that his steak is undercooked and asks if they could cook it a little longer.
Jim loudly mentions that his steak is not cooked right, and throws the plate on the floor.
The server apologizes, takes the steak back, and Jim gets a properly cooked steak that he enjoys.
Jim is kicked out of the restaurant and banned for life.