It's rude to ask people to pay for your party.
Greg is hosting a party for his co-workers when he realizes that he spent way more than he's able to pay.
Greg wants to pay for the party.
Greg contacts a family member and asks for a short-term loan to cover the party costs temporarily.
Greg gets everyone's attention and announces that everyone needs to pay $20 to cover the costs of the party.
The family member gives the loan and the co-workers enjoy the party.
Greg's co-workers get upset, as Greg never told them that they had to pay.