It's hurtful to strike a family member.
Denise found out her child decided to go play outside instead of finishing her homework.
Denise wants to punish her child for breaking the rules.
Denise talks to her child and tells her to go to her room as punishement.
Denise calls her child to her and spanks her for breaking the rules.
Denise's child feels the punishment is fair and talks to Denise about how she can be better.
Denise's child cries and feels violated throughout the process.