It's wrong to always use your parent's money for things.
Ray is in high school and is set on getting a nice car to impress his friends and have freedom.
Ray wants to buy the car.
Ray finds a job and works to save money for the car, not accepting help from anyone.
Ray begs his parents for money to get the car, asking about it at every opportunity.
Ray saves the money and creates a lifelong saving and working habit that helps him greatly.
Ray's parents continue to feed Ray's desires and have less money for themselves and real needs.