You should not pressure your partner to marry you.
John and Mary are on a weekend trip to a bed and breakfast in the country.
John wants to get married to Mary.
John proposes to Mary, and when she says no, he respects her decision.
John proposes to Mary, and when she says no, he demands she accept his proposal.
John and Mary have a nice weekend at the bed and breakfast and return to the city.
Mary leaves, and later decides to end her relationship with John.