If is respectful to spend time with your wifes family.
Zeke and his wife are planning their Holiday season.
Zeke wants to spend time with his parents and siblings during the holidays.
Zeke decides to split his time during the holidays between his wife's family and hers.
Zeke decides to skip his wife's family's celebrations and spend most of his time with his own family.
Zeke's wife and her family enjoy spending time with Zeke during the holidays.
Zeke's wife is disappointed and her family feels Zeke doesn't care about them.