It's not okay to abuse drugs for what ever reason.
Jane's doctor prescribes Jane some Valium to use sparingly in times of stress.
Jane wants to take some Valium to relax around her child.
Jane decides to take the recommended dose of Valium and does not abuse the drug around her children.
Jane decides to take triple the dose of Valium recommended to her to deal with her children.
Jane's children are glad that she is not stressed, and they play with her.
Jane feels woozy and passes out while her children run wild.