You should be understanding when your parents are grieving.
Joe's grandparents passed away which has made his family sad.
Joe wants to talk with his parents about his grandparents.
Joe mentions how he enjoyed his grandparent's cooking.
Joe mentions how he thought his grandparents smelled odd.
Joe's parents will think he is kind and had a strong bond with his grandparents.
Joe's parents will think he is rude and crass.