It's bad to boss people around.
Henrik is a young child at school playing a game with all of his classmates during recess.
Henrik wants to have fun.
Henrik runs around playing with the kids reacting and adjusting with them as the game they're playing evolves.
Henrik takes control of the game deciding what each of his classmates should be doing and correcting them if they stray from his instructions.
All the kids are having fun so Henrik is able to enjoy himself among the group.
Henrik's classmates get fed up from not being able to play how they would like and Henrik is left with nobody to play with.