You shouldn't say hurtful things to others.
Rebecca just got a new haircut, and she's asking her friend Ellen what she thinks of it.
Ellen wants to give Rebecca her opinion.
Ellen tells Rebecca that while she doesn't like it as much as her old haircut, she still pulls it off well.
Ellen tells Rebecca that the haircut looks really bad and that she should get it fixed.
Rebecca takes Ellen's input into consideration and decides to go back to the hairdresser to improve the hairstyle.
Rebecca's feelings are hurt, and she feels really ugly.