It's wrong to lose your cool around others.
James is a gym teacher and is watching his students run much slower than they should around the track.
James wants to tell his students to stop slacking off.
James shouts encouraging, and non-profane workout phrases to his students to get the to run faster.
James shouts profanities at the students, to try to get them to run faster.
James' students begin to run faster and James feels proud.
James' students become agitated and nervous and James feels guilty.