It's not okay to call people names or be insulting.
Maria is in a crowded mall parking lot, and someone just parked into the spot she was trying to park in.
Maria wants to vent out her anger.
Maria loudly comments about the other driver, but keeps her windows closed so the other woman doesn't hear.
Maria yells rude things at the woman in the other car.
Maria feels better, yet the other woman has not been insulted.
The woman yells back at her, and they both feel terrible.