it's wrong to blame your faults on other people.
Tom recently lost his job and worries that his stressed out family will blame him for it.
Tom wants to explain why he lost his job to his family.
Tom tells his family that, despite the mental health of his family, his job loss was his own fault.
Tom tells his family that the emotional problems of other family members caused him to lose his job.
Tom feels relieved he had the courage to admit this, and his family thanks him for it.
Tom's family begins to think less of him for not taking responsibility and Tom feels guilty.