It is bad to make your boyfriend hate himself.
Janet is sitting at home when her boyfriend Jim comes home with a new video game he just bought.
Janet wants to react to Jim buying a video game.
Janet tells Jim that the game he bought looks like it'll be a lot of fun.
Janet tells Jim that he's an undisciplined man who spends money on frivolous things and that he'll never be a success in life.
Jim is delighted that Janet commented on the game and is excited to start playing it.
Jim feels terrible and depressed as Janet's words weigh heavy on him and make him feel low about himself.