You shouldn't ignore your girlfriend.
Bob and Sue have been dating on and off for a couple of months.
Bob wants to reach max level on his World of Warcraft golblin shaman.
Bob contacts Sue frequently and shares his excitement about reaching a milestone for his online character.
Bob pretty much ignores Sue and spends most of his free time gaming.
Bob maxes out his WoW character and Sue thinks Bob is a silly boy but a good boyfriend.
Bob maxes out his WoW character but Sue dumps him for someone more attentive.