It is rude to impose your food choice on others.
Tom is out at a local Italian restaurant to have dinner with his family.
Tom wants to order food.
John orders a meal for himself and allows his family to each choose their own.
Tom decides on a number of different dishes and orders them for everyone at the table.
John's family has a wonderful experience at the restaurant, and they all enjoy their food.
Tom's family doesn't enjoy the meal very much because the food he ordered didn't match their preferences.