It is rude to dislike someones kids.
Karen is relaxing at home watching TV when her friend Phyllis calls her to come over and play cards while she watches her kids.
Karen wants to decline the request.
Karen tells Phyllis she's had a long day and just wants to stay home and relax.
Karen tells Phyllis that her kids are really annoying, and she hates them and doesn't want to be around them.
Phyllis understands and tells Karen they'll catch up another time and see each other.
Phyllis is devastated that her friend thinks so low of her children and is angry she'd just openly say that.