It's discouraged to text women you've broken up with.
John is home alone on a Saturday night and feels bored.
John wants some company so he can have fun.
John texts one of his friends to go to a bar.
John texts his ex-girlfriend who he broke up with for another woman to go out again on a date.
John's ex-girlfriend is undisturbed and enjoys her Saturday evening.
John's ex-girlfriend is angry because John mistreated her before and feels he is using her.