You shouldn't force your family to do things.
Margaret is looking into schools to send her son to.
Margaret wants her son to go to a school that will help him be successful in the future.
Margaret asks her son what kind of school he would like to attend.
Margaret applies to the school for her son and forces him to go there when she finds out hes been accepted.
Her son tells her he would like to go to a law school and subsequently gets into one and does extremely well.
Her son hates the school, he doesn't want to do this type of work and eventually drops out.