It's bad to be a physically violent person.
Tom and his neighbor Phil are having an argument over who can park where in their neighborhood.
Tom wants to park where he wants.
Tom compromises with Phil comes up with a mutually beneficial parking schedule.
Tom pushes and knocks Phil down to the ground in front of the neighbors.
The neighbors respect Tom and think he's an amicable guy.
The neighbors are afraid of Tom and call the police on him.