You should not come between a parent and child.
Valerie's friend that she had spent a lot of time with, Miranda, recently had a child.
Valerie wants to spend time with Miranda.
Valerie tells Miranda that she can come over, and they can both watch the child.
Valerie tells Miranda that she should get a nanny for the child so Miranda can go places with Valerie.
Miranda will think that Valerie is supportive of her being a mother.
Miranda will think that Valerie does not respect her being a mother.