It's not okay to embarrass your friends.
Erin is hanging out with a group of friends, and they are sharing stories.
Erin wants to bring up a private story about her friend.
Erin waits until she's alone with the friend and brings up the story in private with her.
Erin brings up the story to the group to make them laugh.
Erin's friend remembers the story and has a good laugh about it.
Erin's friend becomes very embarrassed that the group finds out about the incident.