It's good not to string people along in a relationship.
Lila is dating Ken who she doesn't think is long term material but enjoys short term benefits with.
Lila wants to talk to Ken about their relationship.
Lila tells Ken they should find other people.
Lila tells Ken she wants to keep dating him, and they have a future together.
Ken will be able to find someone who is long term material for him.
Ken will think Lila really likes him when she is only using him.