Partners should not make each other feel upset.
Lee has been feeling depressed lately.
Lee wants her husband to know about how depressed she feels.
Lee tells her husband that she is feeling really low and asks for his help.
Lee tells her husband about her depressive thoughts and tells him she thinks he has not been helpful.
Lee's husband is happy she opened up and actively thinks of ways he can support her.
Lee's husband feels very guilty and incapable of helping her meaningfully.