It's normal to support your friends in their lives.
Thomas is talking with his friend Chris on the phone, who just lost his dad to cancer.
Thomas wants to talk about himself.
Thomas asks Chris if he wants to talk about his dad and what he can do to help and later shares some of his own life as well.
Thomas talks over Chris about his career goals and his girlfriend.
Chris feels grateful and happier and closer to Thomas too.
Chris resents Thomas and may stop being his friend.