It's important to be direct with someone you're dating.
Jill's boyfriend wants her to join him camping, which she doesn't enjoy.
Jill wants to tell her boyfriend whether she'll go camping with him.
Jill tells her boyfriend in a straightforward manner that she doesn't like camping and doesn't want to go.
Jill doesn't tell her boyfriend how she really feels about camping and ends up going with him.
Jill stays home when her boyfriend goes camping and stays happy and comfortable.
Jill has a terrible time camping and is unhappy the whole time.