You should show your spouse that you appreciate them
James and his wife both come home exhausted after working twelve-hour days to a messy house.
James wants to relax as soon as he gets home.
Recognizing they both work hard, James hires a cleaning service so neither he nor his wife have to do the cleaning.
James tells his wife that she should do all the cleaning because her job isn't as stressful as his.
James and his wife have romantic nights in with their new free time.
James' wife begins an affair with another man who respects the effort she puts in at her job.