You shouldn't move away from your kids.
Natalie has just been offered her dream job on the other side of the country but her husband and children don't want to move.
Natalie wants to take her dream job.
Natalie negotiates with the company to make the position a remote one with occasional travel to the cross-country office.
Natalie moves by herself to take the job and comes back to see her family a few times a year.
Natalie has a fulfilling career and is an involved parent with a good relationship with her kids.
Natalie's kids grow up not knowing their mother well and do not have much of a relationship with her.