It is rude to not listen to people.
John is watching a movie at home when Mindy comes home upset and asks to talk.
John wants to finish his movie.
John pauses the movie, comforts and listens to Mindy and resumes his movie later.
John yells at Mindy to shut up and puts the movie volume louder.
Mindy feels happier and closer to John.
Mindy feels upset and cries and resents John.