It's wrong to do things to hurt your spouse
Joe has been invited to go out with his friends to play pool after work but his wife is making dinner for him.
Joe wants to play pool with his friends.
Joe goes home, has dinner with his wife, and then goes to the pool hall.
Joe goes to the pool hall and decides he'll deal with his wife later.
Joe's wife enjoys having dinner with her husband.
Joe's wife is very upset when he doesn't come home for dinner.