It's rude to judge a gift given freely.
Shirley asks her coworker Janice how she likes the new oven mitt she got her as a birthday gift.
Janice wants to answer Shirley's question.
Janice tells Shirley that she loves the oven mitt and can't wait to use it.
Janice tells Shirley that the oven mitt is ugly, and she will probably never use it.
Shirley is thrilled to hear that Janice likes the gift.
Shirley is hurt and saddened that Janice doesn't appreciate her gift.