You should be supportive of your partner and their choices.
Tom notices his wife Sue recently got a tattoo, when he had previously told her not to get one.
Tom wants to talk to Sue about her new tattoo.
Tom compliments Sue on her tattoo and is respectful of her choice.
Tom immediately tells Sue she must remove her tattoo and that he hates it.
Tom and Sue laugh together about previous disagreement and Sue thanks Tom.
Sue feels overwhelmed and lets Tom know that he is out of line.