Parents should support what their children do.
James' son Neil comes home one day during a break from college and says he wants to drop out to become a musician.
James wants to respond to Neil's statement.
James tells his son that it's risky, but he supports his son's dreams and if there's any way he can help to let him know.
James tells his son that he's an idiot for taking such a huge risk with something unstable like music over something so solid like college.
Neil feels delighted that his dad is understanding and feels even more confident that he'll succeed with his father's support.
Neil feels let down and feels like his hopes and dreams are being crushed right in front of him by someone he loves.