It's wrong to get upset about the little things.
Ian is walking in his house when he bangs his toe into a dining room chair.
Ian wants to let out his frustration.
Ian breathes very deeply and loudly without speaking, trying to control the pain.
Ian shouts loudly and complains for ten minutes at the chair that he walked into.
No one realizes that Ian walked into a chair or was angry at anything.
The neighbors think that Ian is verbally abusing a family member and are suspicious of him.