It is rude to refuse to help around the house.
Bill is playing video games when his wife Samantha comes and asks him to please do the dishes.
Bill wants to respond to Samantha.
Bill tells Samantha that he will do it just as soon as he can find a save point in his game, so he doesn't lose progress.
Bill tells Samantha that clearly he's busy as he's playing video games and that he doesn't have the time right now.
Samantha is happy that she will get help around the house and feels relieved that she has a partner who cares to help her.
Samantha is annoyed that Bill is being lazy and is generally infuriated that she has to do all the work.