Abusing someones kindness towards your children is disrespectful
Leslie has been asking her brother, John, to watch her children while she works evenings and hasn't had a night off for over a week.
Leslie wants John to watch her kids while she takes a night off of work.
Leslie calls John and asks if he would watch the kids on her night off so that she can take some time to rest.
Leslie doesn't mention that she will be taking a night off and has John watch her children as though she were at work.
John doesn't mind watching the kids while she takes some time for herself, and she feels good about her night off.
John is upset when he finds out that Leslie was not honest with him and Leslie can't enjoy her night off knowing that she didn't tell him.