It's not okay to do things to embarrass another person.
John is at a lunch with coworkers when one of them, Harry spills wine on his shirt.
John wants to vocally react to the incident.
John tells Harry that it happens to us all and offers to get Harry a napkin.
John points at Harry and while laughing loudly, admonishes Harry for being an idiotic klutz and looking stupid.
Harry is happy that he doesn't have to feel shy after an accident around his friends.
Harry is very embarrassed and turns red before he manages to leave the table.