It is bad to hurt those you love
John just lost his job and comes home to his wife Mindy.
John wants to feel strong.
John goes to lift some weights and then takes Mindy out to dinner where he confides in her about his job.
John tells Mindy she is not smart or capable and threatens to hit her.
Mindy supports John and comforts him and feels closer to him.
Mindy loses her self-esteem and resents John and considers leaving him.