It's wrong to tell your roommate what to do.
Jill has moved to a new city and is living with a roommate.
Jill wants to schedule cleaning the apartment.
Jill asks her roommate to help her pick dates to clean the apartment.
Jill tells her roommate the apartment cleaning is during her roommate's birthday.
Jill's roommate thinks Jill is considerate and wants to cooperate more with Jill.
Jill's roommate moves out and Jill has to pay all the rent.