It's harmful to ignore your significant other.
Bobby was playing a video game and his girlfriend wanted to talk to him.
Bobby wants to play his video game.
Bobby pauses his video game, listens to his girlfriend, and returns to his game later.
Bobby focuses on his video game and doesn't listen to a word his girlfriend says.
Bobby's girlfriend is happy that she has such a caring boyfriend.
Bobby's girlfriend gets annoyed with him and breaks up with him.