It's important you be open about your sexuality
Tom is lonely and is searching for mate by joining a dating site and going on blind dates.
Tom wants to be in a romantic relationship.
Tom starts dating a woman, but is honest that he is attracted to men too, which she accepts, and they move in together.
Tom gets into a romantic relationship with a woman as a front but secretly desires to be with men, so he sneaks around has random homosexual encounters.
The woman has a warm relationship with Tom, and they end up having children.
The woman finds out he is attracted to men, leaves Tom and tells all of their friends and family he is gay.