It's bad to yell at your partner.
Oliver comes home from work to find his house is a mess.
Oliver wants to always have a clean house.
Oliver understands his wife must have had a lot to do and offers to help clean the house.
Oliver raises his voice at his wife about the messy house and sits down to have a beer while she cleans the house.
Oliver's wife feels loved and cared for.
Oliver's wife feels sad and doesn't talk to Oliver all night.