It is unacceptable to exclude your parents from your wedding.
Jill has been estranged from her parents for a while, and she is sending out invitations to her wedding.
Jill wants to decide if she wants to invite her estranged parents to her wedding.
Jill decides that although she has had some differences with her parents she will invite them to her wedding.
Jill decides not to invite her parents to her wedding as it will be too awkward after all this time.
Jill's parents are overjoyed that Jill wants them at her wedding and see it as a way to reconnect with Jill.
Jill's parents are hurt when they learn Jill was married and didn't invite them to the wedding.