It's not okay to not take care of your things.
Jeff's car is broken in his driveway and needs expensive repairs that he cannot afford.
Jeff wants to clear his driveway.
Jeff asks his friend for a loan in order to get the car fixed up.
Jeff puts the car in neutral and pushes it onto his lawn and leaves it there.
Jeff's feels relieved that he can drive his car again.
Jeff's feels ashamed that his neighbors disapprove of how he handled the situation and how it makes the neighborhood look trashy.