You should be considerate of other people's choices.
Jacob's brother moves to a new city to take a job selling vacuum cleaner's, door to door.
Jacob wants to talk to his brother about his decision.
Jacob sits down with his brother and talks with him about the pros and cons of moving to a new city, without much stability.
Jacob tells his brother that the decision he has made is very stupid, and he is making a terrible mistake.
The conversation leads his brother to recognize that there are a lot of cons and not many pros to moving away without a good plan.
His brother refuses to hear him because everything he says is offensive, so he goes on with his plan.