You shouldn't hold grudges against your family.
Bill and his sister Marge haven't been on speaking terms for ten years, and today she sent him a text saying she wanted to talk.
Bill wants to respond to the text.
Bill texts her back that he would love to talk to her again, and he hopes they can put the past behind them.
Bill texts her back saying he has no interest in talking and to leave him alone.
Bill and Marge have a great conversation and are able to move forward with their relationship.
Bill and Marge never speak again and miss out on the chance to have a good relationship.