It's selfish to not care about those closest to you.
Paul is sitting on the couch at home watching a football game when his wife comes home crying.
Paul wants to greet his wife.
Paul says hi but then looks at his wife and sees she's crying, so he immediately asks her what's wrong.
"Paul doesn't take his eyes off the TV and tells his wife ""Hey honey! Great to see you!""."
Paul's wife is soothed that Paul is asking about the situation and is already starting to feel better in anticipation of telling him.
Paul's wife is annoyed that Paul is not noticing that she's crying and feels like he doesn't care about her.