It's bad to make your partner cry.
John sits down to eat the dinner that his girlfriend spent several hours making from scratch.
John wants to give his girlfriend his opinion of the food.
John tells his girlfriend the food tastes wonderful and is perfectly cooked.
John tells his girlfriend the food is bland and overcooked.
John's girlfriend feels appreciated and continues to cook nice meals for John.
John's girlfriend feel unappreciated, starts to cry, and doesn't talk to John for the rest of the night.