It's not okay to make someone dependent on you.
Brad has been dating his girlfriend Marla for the past two months.
Brad wants to help Marla pay her bills.
Brad offers to help Marla pay for part of her car note.
Brad makes Marla quit her job and pays her bills himself, making her dependent on him.
Marla is able to get back on her feet with Brad's help.
When Brad and Marla break up, she has no way to pay for her bills.