It's inconsiderate to ask people about their sexuality
Jeff was at a club, and he was talking to a man with a high pitched voice.
Jeff wanted to learn more about the man.
Jeff asks the man with the high pitched voice what his hobbies are.
Jeff asks the man with the high pitched voice if he's gay.
The man with the high pitched voice feels more comfortable around Jeff.
The man with the high pitched voice feels worried that Jeff might tell others his sexuality.