A relationship should not be about money.
Shelly has just started a new relationship with Nelson who makes less money than her.
Shelly wants their relationship to be a two way street.
Shelly insists that she and Nelson sit down for a conversation about their expectations within the relationship.
Shelly insists that the cost of everything is split 50-50 between her and Nelson.
Shelly and Nelson agree on boundaries and expectations that make sense for both of them and are mutually fulfilling.
Nelson is able to save less than Shelly and comes to resent her for being financially unfair and controlling.