It's not polite to grab another person's private areas.
Chris is attracted to a female coworker and has to work overtime with her to finish an assignment.
Chris wants to make his attraction clear to his coworker.
Chris tells his coworker that he likes her but is happy to stay friends if she doesn't feel the same way.
Chris tells his coworker that she is very pretty and pats her on the behind.
Chris' coworker appreciates that he didn't pressure her and agrees to go on a date with him.
Chris' coworker feels violated and files a report against him to HR.