You should respect your friends decision.
Bianca has chosen a college to go to, but her close friend has chosen a different university that works better for her goals.
Bianca wants to talk with her friend about her decision.
Bianca tells her friend that she will succeed at her new school and that she hopes that her career goes well.
Bianca asks why her friend is leaving her and comments that she'll be all alone at her new school.
Bianca's friend makes efforts to keep in touch with Bianca and update her on how things are going.
Bianca's friend feels like Bianca is giving her a guilt trip and feels resentful towards her, straining the friendship.