It's wrong to get involved in your friend's sex life.
Jane is hanging out with Susan, and they're talking about their boyfriends.
Jane wants to ask Susan a question.
Jane asks Susan if her boyfriend ever gets her flowers or other surprise gifts.
Jane asks Susan if her boyfriend ever performs oral sex on her or if he avoids it.
Susan is happy to answer the question and it actually recalls fond memories for her of receiving flowers.
Susan is embarrassed to even discuss the topic and is shocked her friend would get so personal.