It's good to be sensitive to someone's depression and anxiety.
Bob has noticed a negative change in his wife's mood lately.
Bob wants to address his wife's nervous and down-spirited behavior.
Bob is supportive and urges his wife to seek professional help.
Bob tells his wife to get over whatever her problem is or their marriage is over.
Bob helps his wife get the help she needs.
Bob's response sends his wife into a downward spiral.