It's not okay to be obsessed with an ex.
Taylor just got into a relationship with Jack and is mainly doing it long-distance.
Taylor wants to text her boyfriend.
Taylor decides to text Jack only a couple times a day, to build rapport.
Taylor decides to text Jack every hour to build up a rapport with Jack.
Jack is impressed with Taylor's texting skills, and they both hit it off and feel elated.
Jack feels overwhelmed and tells Taylor to back off, while Taylor feels insulted.