It's wrong to want your partner to lose their job.
Sarah accepted a post-doctoral position in a different state but her partner has his dream job in the state they currently live in.
Sarah wants to take the position and stay with her partner.
Sarah and her partner live apart for a year, keeping the relationship long distance.
Sarah hopes every time her partner tells her he got in trouble at work it means he is closer to getting fired.
Sarah's partner loves the relationship even more because they both have the space to pursue their dreams.
Sarah's partner feels very unsupported.