It's rude to tell your partner what to do.
Mark and Marissa are dating and Marissa is employed but also just a different job offer in another state.
Mark wants to help his girlfriend Marissa.
Mark asks what Marissa wants to do and tells her he'll be her sounding board if she needs him.
Mark raises his voice and tells Marissa she must take the new job over her old one.
Marissa appreciates Mark's love and concern and feels closer to him.
Marissa resents Mark's tone and pressuring and thinks of leaving him.