You should respect people's privacy when living with them.
Joan's daughter has been secretive lately and won't tell her what is going on in her life.
Joan wants her daughter to be more open with her.
Joan asks her daughter if she'd want to go on a trip, so they can connect.
Joan decides to look through her daughter's things and her daugher walks in on her.
Joan and her daughter end up having a great time, and she now knows more about her daughter's life.
Her daughter loses even more trust and the two have a falling out.