You shouldn't say something hurtful to your spouse.
Millie thinks her husband is not involved enough in house chores and finds it frustrating.
Millie wants to vent out her frustration.
Millie tells her husband that she is tired of doing almost everything around the house and asks if he could help her with it.
Millie tells her husband how frustrated she is and tells him she thinks he is selfish and unhelpful.
Millie's husband understands how much she has been doing and feels glad she told him.
Millie's husband is shocked by Millie's accusations.