You should stand up for your partner.
Ben and Rachel are out on a date when a few guys harass Rachel.
Ben wants to prevent himself from getting hurt.
Ben stands up to them in a non violent way stating that they will not tolerate their harassment.
Ben ignores it and does not confront the guys harassing Rachel.
The group backs off, Rachel gains more respect for Ben and the relationship strengthens.
Rachel questions Ben character and loyalty and breaks up with him shortly after.