You shouldn't pressure your partner to have sex with you.
Bobby has been dating Amber for a few months, but they have not had sex yet.
Bobby wants to talk about when they should have sex.
Bobby tells Amber that they should have sex whenever she feels ready.
Bobby tells Amber that she should have sex with him soon, or he'll break up with her.
Amber will feel that Bobby cares about how she feels.
Amber will feel that Bobby is pushy and not considerate of how she feels.