It is wrong to control what another person does.
Dave's wife Amy tells Dave that she is about to go out and do some shopping with her friends.
Dave wants to remind Amy they're on a budget.
Dave tells Amy that she should have fun but gently reminds her that the family isn't in a great financial place right now.
Dave tells Amy that she absolutely cannot go shopping since they can't afford it due to their budget, and she is to stay home.
Amy is happy to see Dave cares about the family finances and tells him not to worry so much.
Amy is shocked that Dave is being controlling and not allowing her to spend her share of their money and is scared of Dave.