You have the right to exclude people from your wedding.
Neil is planning his marriage with his husband, but he needs to decide whether to invite a bigot in his family.
Neil wants to make a decision on whether to invite the bigot.
Neil calls the bigot to tell him that he thinks that it would be better if Neil didn't come to the wedding.
Neil decides to invite the bigot even though he doesn't want him there.
Everyone enjoys the wedding, and no one was made to feel uncomfortable.
The bigot makes people feel uncomfortable at the wedding and attracts attention.