It is good to not complain too much.
Heather deals with chronic pain and has friends who are free-spirited and light.
Heather wants to hang out with her friends.
Heather accepts and deals with her condition without making it the only topic of discussion with her friends.
Heather sees her friends every week, but talks about about her pain nonstop when they are together.
Heather's friends continue to come around every week.
Heather's friends find that she brings the mood down and decide not to hang out with her as often.