You should think about other people's feelings.
John is at home watching a movie with his wife Mindy who is upset about her job loss.
John wants to feel good and continue watching his movie.
John pauses the film and comforts Mindy and listens to her lament.
John tells Mindy not to bother him now as he's in the middle of a film.
Mindy feels happier and closer to John.
Mindy feels even worse about herself and more distant from John.