You shouldn't dictate other people's diets.
Tom notices Jane has been gaining a lot of weight the last few months and is near her.
Tom wants to let Jane know she is not eating healthy.
Tom tells Jane he feels like she could eat healthier but does not dictate what that entails.
"Tom demands that Jane cut down on eating, or he will, ""never see her again""."
Jane thanks Tom for the feedback, and they are able to get along the rest of the day without drama.
Jane feels like Tom is overbearing, and they get into a shouting match.