It's nice to comfort someone when they're upset.
John's at home with his buddies when his wife Mindy walks in crying.
John wants to go with his buddies to the game.
John tells his buddies he'll meet them at the game later and comforts his wife.
John rushes out with his buddies to the game.
Mindy feels happier and loves John more.
Mindy gets more upset and resents John.