You should get to know people for their personalities.
Randy meets Jennifer at a party and finds her attractive.
Randy wants to find out more about Jennifer.
Randy engages with Jennifer and asks about her interests, history, likes and dislikes.
Randy lets Jennifer know that she has the exact type of boobs and butt that he looks for in a woman.
Jennifer is pleased with Randy's curiosity and opened up about herself.
Jennifer brushes Randy off, because he's only interested in her for her body.