You should do what your partner says.
Dave’s wife has asked him to be home by 10 pm, but around 9:40 pm one of Dave's friends asks him to have one more drink at the bar.
Dave wants to reply to the offer of one more drink.
Dave tells his friend that he ought to get home and declines another drink.
Dave tells his friend to go ahead and pour him another round, and he'll stay a bit longer.
Dave's wife is delighted when he arrives home when she asked him to.
Dave's wife is angry with Dave for staying out later than he was supposed to.