It's not okay to be ashamed of what you like.
Ingrid is a fan of goth music, and starts to dress in goth-style clothing, which causes her to be made fun of.
Ingrid wants to be liked.
Ingrid brushes off the taunts and continues doing what she likes.
Ingrid stops listening to goth music and stops dressing in the clothes.
Others who like the music make friends with Ingrid, and she makes some life-long friends.
Ingrid becomes seen as a pushover and never really gets to do what she likes.