You shouldn't force someone to do something they don't want.
Eleanor has a daughter.
Eleanor wants her daughter to do an extracurricular activity.
Eleanor asks her daughter what activity she wants to do and signs her up for that.
Eleanor signs her daughter up for dance classes even though her daughter dislikes dance.
Eleanor's daughter is able to do something that makes her happy.
Eleanor's daughter is upset with Eleanor and does not participate fully during the classes.