You should not make your partner feel uncomfortable.
John and his wife Susan are at a couples retreat attending a session with many people when John is asked to share something about his wife.
John wants to share a fact about his wife to the group.
John tells the group that his wife is a hard working woman who is very smart and loving.
John tells the group that one thing about his wife everyone should know is that she's very shy and insecure.
Susan beams with a big smile as she looks at John with love and admiration and feels confident and strong.
Susan's shyness and insecurity is made even worse, and she feels incredibly embarrassed about what John just shared.