It is rude to say mean and hurtful things.
Jen brings home a new hat she just bought and models it for her husband Dave, asking him what he thinks about it.
Dave wants to respond to the question.
Dave tells Jen that she looks beautiful with her hat on and that he wishes she wore it all the time.
Dave tells Jen that she looks hideous and that she is so obese that a hat doesn't make any difference to her looks.
Jen is delighted that Dave likes her choice of hat and happily prances around the house humming.
Jen is devastated and sobs uncontrollably feeling totally unsupported and hurt by her husband.