You shouldn't blame family members.
Liam is drawing a picture in the kitchen while his wife is trying to cook dinner when she accidentally bumps into him, and he ruins the picture.
Liam wants to react to being bumped.
Liam tells his wife it's his own fault that he got bumped, he shouldn't have been in the kitchen.
Liam tells his wife that she's so clumsy and that she completely ruined his almost perfect picture.
Liam's wife is happy that he's realized he needs to get out of the way, so she can cook.
Liam's wife is annoyed that Liam is blaming her when she's busy trying to make food for him.