It is mean to withhold sentimental items from family.
Jeff is going through his recently deceased mother's possessions.
Jeff wants to keep something to remind him of mother.
Jeff communicates with Jeff's brothers and sisters about how items should be divided between Jeff and the siblings.
Jeff decides to keep several framed photographs and decorations from his childhood without talking it over with any of his siblings.
All parties involved have equal and appropriate items and agreements are made.
Jeff's siblings will be deprived of items the siblings find comforting and nostalgic.