It is okay to set rules for your own house
Gigi has a group of friends and acquaintances over at her house for a party.
Gigi wants her guests to feel at home in her house.
Gigi explains to people that she always takes her shoes off before entering the house, and asks them to do the same.
Gigi is too shy to ask people to take their shoes off before entering her house.
The house is mostly clean after the party and Gigi is happy not to have too much cleanup to do.
All the floors are filthy after the party and Gigi is pretty discouraged by the extent of the cleanup she's stuck with.