It is good to achieve things independently.
Nadia is working on an project for a school contest that's due tomorrow.
Nadia wants to win the contest.
Nadia spends all afternoon and evening working on the project, making sure she pays attention to every little detail.
Nadia asks her parents for help to make the project extra special so that she can win.
Nadia wins the contest and feels a sense of fulfillment and accomplishment since the work reflected her own efforts.
Nadia wins the contest but doesn't learn very much since she didn't do a lot of the work herself.