You should alleviate the concerns that your partner might have.
Jake doesn't often compliment his girlfriend Alyssa on her appearance, and she often asks whether he finds her attractive or not.
Jake wants Alyssa to stop asking about his attraction to her.
Jake tells Alyssa he is very much attracted to her and starts to compliment her more often.
Jake responds to Alyssa's questions by telling her she is being ridiculous.
Alyssa finally feels secure enough in herself and her relationship to stop asking Jake about his attraction to her.
With her question unanswered, Alyssa's insecurities grow even larger.