It's good to help your spouse with projects
John is at home when his wife Mindy enters and says she could use help decorating the playroom.
John wants to watch a movie.
John helps Mindy with the decorating and later watches his movie.
John tells Mindy she's on her own and watches a movie.
Mindy feels loved and happy and closer to John.
Mindy feels resentful and sad and wonders if John loves her.