It's wrong to say something just to irritate other people
John and Mindy are at home together and Mindy has on a new hat she likes.
John wants to laugh and have a good time.
John tells Mindy her hat looks great and makes her look like a supermodel and laughs.
John tells Mindy her hat makes her look like a ugly man and laughs.
Mindy is happy and laughs too and feels very good about herself and adores her hat even more.
Mindy feels sad and upset hearing this and thinks about returning the hat.