You shouldn't grab someone that doesn't want to be grabbed
Tom and his girlfriend Julie get into a heated argument, and she stomps off in anger.
Tom wants Julie to stay and settle the argument.
Tom follows Julie and implores her to stop and listen to him.
Tom clasps Julie;s arm and stops her from leaving.
Tom is able to get Julie to stay and the two hash out their differences.
Tom's abrupt hold dislocates Julie's shoulder, and she dumps him as a result.