Judging people and kink shaming is wrong.
Alice is meeting a friend who has a new boyfriend and is experimenting with different arousal techniques.
Alice wants to talk about her friend's dating life.
Alice asks questions about how effective the arousal techniques are.
Alice says what her friend is doing is against nature and forbidden by a higher power.
Alice's friend will feel comfortable discussing intimate matters with Alice.
Alice's friend will cut the meeting short and avoid Alice in the future.