It's wrong to take advantage of people's insecurities.
James is on a date with a woman who has body image issues related to obesity and low self-esteem.
James wants to try to seduce his date.
James tries to compliment his date instead of insulting her to win her over.
James tries to 'neg' his date by insulting her weight in an effort to seduce her.
James' date begins to feel a connection, and they both laugh and talk for hours.
James' date just feels insulted and the date goes horribly.