Families are expected to attend the weddings of it's members.
James's father's brother's nephew's cousion is getting married.
James wants to make a decision.
James decides to go to the wedding and see what happens.
James decides not to go because he can't go to every wedding of every far flung relative.
James has a fun time with his family at the wedding of distant relatives.
James gets angry calls from various distant relative wo are upset.