You shouldn't tell someone what to do.
Vicki who is an experienced baker, is in the kitchen making a cheesecake for her husband Andy.
Andy wants to assist Vicki.
Andy goes into the kitchen and hands Vicki a mixing bowl, and waits for her directions on what ingredients to add.
Andy goes into the kitchen and hands Vicki a mixing bowl, but the proceeds to insist she add extra eggs.
The cheesecake comes out really good, and Andy is pleased with himself for helping.
Vicki, wanting to make Andy happy adds the extra egg, but the cheesecake turns out terrible and now Andy is disappointed.