You shouldn't push your partner off the bed.
Joe needs some sleep and has a partner that snores quite loudly.
Joe wants to stop the snoring which is keeping him up.
Joe gently shakes his partner and then cuddles her romantically.
Joe pushes his partner off the bed which makes them fall but does stop the snoring.
Joe's partner awakens but is comforted by his actions.
Joe's partner awakens and is upset.