People shouldn't put others on the spot with their problems.
Kelly is having relationship problems with Ryan.
Kelly wants to vent her frustrations and get help.
Kelly gets counseling about the relationship and Ryan agrees to go too.
Kelly complains daily to her coworkers about Ryan and often asks them to get involved.
The relationship improves and Kelly is happier now.
Kelly has a poor reputation at work and coworkers begin to avoid and exclude her.