Asking someone what they like is considerate.
Alex sits with a group of friends after an evening meeting of their book club.
Alex wants to go out and get something to eat.
Alex expresses to his friends that he is getting hungry and asks if anyone has any suggestions on where they could go to enjoy a meal together.
Alex informs his friends that he is going out to get some tacos and tells them that they can come along if they want.
Alex's friends discuss where they should go and decide as a group on a restaurant, everyone enjoys the evening.
Alex's friends find it rude that he decided on a type of food, without asking anyone's opinion, and invited everyone else to join him for his choice of cuisine.