It is inconsiderate to your family to not visit.
Thomas is visiting his hometown for the first time in years.
He wants to attend a friend's wedding.
Thomas decides to make extra time to see his family while visiting his hometown for the wedding.
Thomas only visits his hometown for the day of the wedding and neglects to see his family while there.
Thomas' family plans a large get-together and many family members are very excited to see him.
Thomas' mother is extremely hurt when she finds out that he was in town and didn't visit.