It's good to hang out with your coworkers.
Ace is about to leave work when some co-workers come and invite him out to eat.
Ace wants to get a good meal.
Ace accepts and goes out to eat with his co-workers.
Ace declines and goes home to have a nice meal with his family.
Ace and his co-workers bond during the time and become a more effective team.
Ace's co-workers bond during the meal and feel disconnected from Ace, alienating him.