It's not okay to disturb things when they are sleeping.
Mary is sleeping in bed when her husband, Jonathan walks by and notices her there.
Jonathan wants to kiss Mary.
Jonathan very gently kisses Mary on her forehead, barely touching her.
Jonathan leaps on the bed, falling on top of Mary, and plants a heavy kiss on her nose, headbutting her in the process.
Mary continues to sleep deeply and eventually wakes up feeling rested.
Mary is violently woken out of sleep and her bleeding nose makes her feel like she just got assaulted.