It is wrong for free load off your significant other
Joe, who recently lost his job, can no longer help pay bills with his girlfriend he lives with.
Joe wants to start a new job.
Joe starts a job that is hard but pays very well, so he can comfortably cover his rent and beyond.
Joe picks a fun job that pays little and does not allow him to contribute to bills.
Joe's girlfriend is happy that Joe is so responsible and showers him with praise.
Joe's girlfriend feels Joe is being selfish and decides to dump him and kick him out the house.