You are expected to be understanding of other people's problems.
Paula and her friend Jenny are hanging out and Jenny is telling Paula about problems in her current relationship.
Paula wants to give Jenny some advice.
Paula listens to Jenny and tries to take her perspective when telling her what she would do if she found herself in such a situation.
Paula criticizes Jenny for getting herself in such a situation and tells her what she need to do to get out of it.
Jenny appreciates Paula's advice and takes it into consideration when trying to resolve her problems.
Jenny is slightly put off by Paula's harsh attitude and decides to stop confiding in her in the future.