You shouldn't become addicted to alcohol.
Bob is a frequent drinker who enjoy trying new beers and wines.
Bob wants to drink to relax.
Bob never drinks more than three drinks in a day and three and tries to not drink a few times a week.
Bob drinks more and more as time progresses until he get to over 30 drinks a day.
Bob becomes a beer and wine afficianado and enjoys qulaity over quantity.
Bob is anxious and shaky every morning and the drinking is now to avoid withdrawal rather that feel pleasure.