If something's bothering you you should say it directly
Amy goes out for dinner with George on their first date and George takes the liberty of ordering for Amy without consulting her.
Amy wants to eat something other than what George ordered for her.
Amy tells George she would like to order for herself and adjusts the order to her liking.
Amy keeps her true feelings to herself and eats what George ordered for her.
George respects Amy's autonomy and adjusts his behavior to suit her needs.
George assumes that he can make decisions for Amy whenever he wants to.