You aren't required to financially support your family members
Fred just got a big signing bonus to a high-paying job and his Aunt asks if he can buy her a new car.
Fred wants to spend some of his signing bonus.
Fred buys himself a new motorcycle to drive on weekends.
Fred buys his Aunt a brand new car for thirty-thousand dollars.
Fred takes a weekend trip on his motorcycle to visit his parents.
Fred gets phone calls, emails, and letters from many of his other family members asking him for money.