You shouldn't give handouts to people who don't deserve it.
Cara's brother plays video games all day and asked her for some money to help him buy a new TV.
Cara has to decide whether to give her brother money.
Cara tells his brother to get a job in order to buy a new TV.
Cara gives his brother the money that he wanted, so he can buy a TV.
Cara's brother has to feel motivated to work if he really wants a new TV.
Cara's brother, and he continues to be lazy and doesn't pay her sister back.