It's hurtful to not invite family to big events.
Jeff and Jen are planning their wedding and trying to decide what kind of ceremony they'd prefer.
Jeff wants to settle the matter.
Jeff convinces Jen to have a big wedding with as many invitees as possible.
Jeff convinces Jen to elope with him to Vegas for a private ceremony.
Jeff's family, among others, has a wonderful time at the wedding.
Jeff's family is insulted that they weren't invited to the wedding.