It's wrong to boss around your partner in a relationship.
Helen is at home with her husband and there are a lot of chores to do.
Helen wants the chores to be done.
Helen starts to work on some of the chores letting her husband know evertything that needs to be done.
Helen directs her husband from one chore to the next until he completes them all while keeping him under the impression that he must.
Helen's husband join in, and they get everything done which leaves them with some free time with one another.
Helen's husband grows to resent his wife and their relationship falters.