It's wrong not to pay your ex child support.
Jay has a child with his ex, and he's in a tough financial situation after losing his job.
Jay wants to cut his costs, so he can improve his finances.
Jay arranges to make lower payments for couple months then pay more the following months.
Jay skips out on paying child support for a few months.
Jay's ex is relieved that he is still going to pay the child support.
Jay's ex thinks that he is being an uncaring father.