Not every situation needs your opinion.
Steph has strong views against abortion and her friend is upset after just having one.
Steph wants to express her views on the topic.
Steph listens to her friend and later posts her opinion on an online forum.
Steph brings up her stance on the issue to her friend immediately.
Steph's friend is able to get it off her chest and move on.
Steph's friend feels even worse about what she has already done.