It's okay to be indulgent once in a while.
Tony grew up poor and his parents could not afford to buy him presents for his birthday or other holidays.
Tony wants to make sure his kids have everything he didn't growing up.
Tony has his children do chores and earn an allowance and treats them on special holidays and occassions.
Tony buys his children everything they want and then some.
Tony's children grow up with an appreciating of what they have and have a good work ethic.
Tony's children are spoiled unappreciative brats with no work ethic, and he is always in debt.