You shouldn't cheat.
Robert and his wife Susan are playing board games with their friends, Jim and Sue.
Robert really wants to beat Jim and Sue at scrabble.
Robert consults with Sue about words they could use in scrabble and end up playing a good game.
Robert excuses himself and goes to the bathroom then uses his phone to find a high scoring word to insert in scrabble.
Robert and Sue perform well enough to win the game and the victory feels great to them.
Robert and Sue win the game but the victory feels hollow to Robert.