It is inexcusable to defend a racist joke.
John is with a group of friends when one makes a racially insensitive joke and another friend says they find it offensive.
John wants to react to the joke.
John agrees that the joke was wrong and tells the person who told it not to make those kind of jokes any more.
John tells the offended friend to relax since it was just a joke which shouldn't be taken seriously.
The offended friend is glad that not everybody in the group thinks racist humor is funny.
The friend that was offended feels that the whole group must be racist.