It's not okay to make others do things for you.
Jay has a recently purchased a boxed shed in his backyard.
Jay wants to have a shed assembled.
Jay and John work together to get the shed built in no time.
Jay asks his friend, John, to help build the shed, but instead lets John do most of the work.
Jay is happy with his shed and promises to help John in the future.
John gets pissed off and doesn't do any more favors for Jay.