It is good to try to make friends.
James sees a new female student at the school, who looks a bit lost.
James wants to help the new student.
James personally helps the female student find what she is looking for and strikes up a friendship.
James directs the female student to the front office to get help.
James and the female student are compatible and eventually begin dating.
The new student thinks that James is helpful, but cold, and gets a bad impression.