You should share the household chores with your partner.
Roy hates doing housework but his girlfriend, Shelly, can't stand it either, but neither of them want to live in a dirty house.
Tom wants to decide on a proposal to put forth, about the household chores.
Tom suggests that the two of them sit down and negotiate a housework schedule, to keep things in order.
Tom takes a hard line approach and refuses to do any of the household chores, because he doesn't have time for that.
Shelly agrees with this approach, and they hash out a schedule that they can both live with, and the house stays relatively clean.
Shelly tells Tom that she will not be the only one cleaning the house, leaving the two at an impasse.