It is good to support family when they are struggling.
John's mother McKenzie is senile and needs to go to a nursing home.
John wants to save his money.
John looks for a decent nursing home and asks around for discounts and support from the community.
John finds McKenzie the cheapest nursing home around and puts her there.
McKenzie is well looked after and happy and thrives.
McKenzie is not well looked after and unhappy and gets sick.