You shouldn't obsess on how other people live their lives
Chet's gay neighbors are coming over his place to eat lunch.
Chet wants to ask his neighbors a question.
Chet asks his neighbors if they are allowed to eat meat.
Chet asks his neighbors why they're okay with being gay.
Chet's neighbors feel appreciative that Chet made sure he made food that they would like.
Chet's neighbors are offended by what Chet said and feel uncomfortable in his house.