It's expected that people keep their home clean and organized.
Sally has started dating a new man, and they are spending a lot of time together.
Sally wants her boyfriend to come over to her house.
Sally spends some time getting her house cleaned and vacuumed before her boyfriend comes over.
Sally invites her boyfriend over while she has clothing and garbage strewn around the room from a party the night before.
Sally and her boyfriend have a good time, and he wants to come visit her home more often.
Sally's boyfriend thinks she is a slob, and he breaks up with her.