You shouldn't demand too much from your partner.
Gil is worried about how his wife is managing her career.
Gil wants his wife to be professionally successful.
Gil helps his wife identify effective work strategies so that she can succeed without burning herself out.
Gil insists that his wife work more hours and take on more projects.
Gil's wife is very successful, and she feels supported and loved by Gil.
Gil's wife's career progresses, but she is tired and feels Gil does not care about her well-being.