You shouldn't be rude to your significant others.
Jack is taking Sally out on a date for their anniversary.
Jack wants Sally to agree to look for a job.
Jack calmly talks with Sally about her looking for a job she agrees to look for one.
Jack starts to talk rude to Sally about her not having a job, so she agrees to get one.
Sally is happy with Jack and finds a good job in the city.
Sally is upset and decides to take a break from Jack.