You shouldn't be friends with someone who harasses you.
Mindy is hanging out with her friend John, who is calling her all sorts of names.
Mindy just wants to say she has a friend.
Mindy cuts off ties with John and finds other friends who won't abuse her.
Mindy continues to hang around John and be seen with him.
Mindy's self esteem shoots up, and she becomes much happier.
Mindy loses her self esteem and becomes very depressed.