It's good to establish rules.
Jen and her husband have different viewpoints on the role faith will play in raising their kids.
Jen wants her kids to learn about faith and learn about secularism.
Jen and her husband sign an agreement detailing how much of the church's teachings their kids will be exposed to.
Jen and her husband squabble constantly over how much is too much bible study.
Jen's kids are able to experience faith and a life outside of faith equally happily.
Jen's kids feel forced to pick sides and resent both the church and secularism.