You shouldn't marry someone you aren't attracted to.
Joey is thinking about marrying Misty because of what her status would mean for his family.
Joey wants to decide to marry Misty or not.
Joey decides that he wants to marry the girl he's actually attracted to.
Joey decides to marry Misty for her status and importance regardless of attractiveness.
Joey's family is upset but Joey couldn't be happier.
Joey's family is happy for the connections but Joey himself is not.