You should help out your spouse when possible.
Frank is at home on the computer when Jenny arrives from the store, her arms loaded with groceries.
Frank wants the groceries to be put away.
Frank gets off of the computer and grabs some grocery bags from Jenny.
Frank tells Jenny to put the groceries away, as he's on the computer and is busy.
The groceries get put away quickly and Jenny is relieved of a burden.
Jenny gets upset and complains that she does all of the work, staring a fight.