It's bad to guilt people into things.
Casey's son Derek wants to go play with his friends, but Casey has some family time planned.
Casey wants Derek to stay home this evening.
Casey tells Derek that she has a fun time planned and that Derek will enjoy it very much.
Casey tells Derek that he doesn't care about her and would rather run off with his friends like an ungrateful son.
Derek stays willingly and thoroughly enjoys the family time with Casey.
Derek stays home for the family event but feels resentful towards his mom for the guilt trip.