It is bad to think all relationships are scary.
Bobby has a friend named Jenna that he really likes.
Bobby wants to talk to Jenna on the phone.
Bobby calls Jenna and when she asks him to meet up for coffee, he agrees.
Bobby calls Jenna and when she asks him to meet up for coffee, Bobby declines because he is scared about relationships.
The get together and start dating and Bobby is happy.
Jenna never calls him again, and he loses his chance to date her.