It is considerate to break up with someone in person.
Jeff has not been happy in his relationship with his girlfriend Jenny for a long time.
Jeff wants to break up with Jenny.
Jeff goes to Jenny's house and tells her that he wants to break up with her.
Jeff sends Jenny a text message telling her that he's breaking up with her.
Jenny tells Jeff that she's not happy to hear that but at least he came to tell her in person.
Jenny feels hurt that Jeff would break up with her, and to make matters worse, it's by a text message.