You shouldn't blame others for your problems.
John gets fired at work and comes home and tells his wife Janet who asks him why he thinks he got let go.
John wants to respond to Janet's question.
John tells Janet that he thinks it's because he could do a lot more to improve his performance and vows to do so at his next job.
John tells Janet that it's because she's not a supportive wife, and if he was married to someone else he'd still have a job.
Janet is proud that her husband is taking personal responsibility and vows to help him get through it.
Janet is devastated and begins to cry as she is overwhelmed by the sudden weight John is throwing on her conscience.