You shouldn't enjoy when people cry.
John has been yelling at his wife Mindy, and she is starting to cry.
John wants to feel better about himself.
John breathes deeply, holds his wife and apologizes to her as he strokes her hair.
John says to Mindy she deserves to cry and laughs loudly as he puts on the tv.
Mindy feels closer to John and loves him even more and stops crying.
Mindy resents John even more and considers divorcing him.