You shouldn't sext other people when you're in a relationship.
Justin was flirting with a girl at work today and is feeling sexually aroused, but his wife is at the grocery store.
Justin wants to have an orgasm.
Justin puts rose petals on his bed, lights some candles, and asks his wife to have sex with him when she gets home.
Justin sexts the girl he was flirting with at work and masturbates to the conversation.
Justin's wife feels very romantic and has two orgasms while having sex with Justin.
Justin's wife finds the sext conversation on Justin's phone when she comes home and kicks him out of the house.