It is not okay to be rude to partners.
John is trying to read in his bedroom and Mindy is watching tv in the living room.
John wants Mindy to put her tv volume down.
John asks Mindy if she can wear her headphones just for a bit, so he can finish reading.
John raises his voice and tells Mindy she's watching stupid stuff and to put it down now.
Mindy feels respected and happily helps John to read.
Mindy resents John and feels sad and lonely.