It's bad to break up by ghosting someone.
Ray wants to break up with his girlfriend, Colleen, because he met someone else.
Ray wants to avoid any drama.
Ray meets up with Colleen in a public place to avoid drama and tells her he wants to break up because he met someone.
Ray immediately stops communicating with Colleen, he just disappears from her life.
Colleen is not happy to hear this, but tells Ray that she appreciates him telling this to her face.
Colleen has no idea what happened or why the relationship suddenly ended.