It's wrong to make people angry.
Sam is having a tense debate with his friend Mike about abortion, and they have opposing views.
Sam wants to end the argument.
Sam tells Mike that he understands and appreciates his viewpoint even though they don't agree on this particular issue.
Sam tells Mike that he's an idiot and his position is ridiculous.
Mike appreciates Sam's understanding attitude and feels good about their interaction.
Mike gets angry and yells back at Sam before storming away.