It's bad to stalk an ex on social media.
Jerry noticed that he and his ex had similar friends on facebook.
Jerry wants to talk to his friends on facebook.
Jerry sends messages to his friends and ignores the fact that they know his ex.
Jerry asks his friends to spy on his ex's facebook page for him.
Jerry maintains a healthy relationship with his friends even though they know his ex.
Jerry's ex finds out, and she files a restraining order against him.