It's selfish to use other people
Frank meets the Regional Manager of his company at a Christmas party.
Frank wants to move up in the company.
Frank is respectful of his Regional Manager and asks him genuine questions about his movement through the company.
Frank tries to suck-up to his Regional Manager in hopes of getting a promotion.
Frank's Regional Manager is impressed by Frank's thoughtfulness.
Frank's Regional Manager is annoyed that Frank is being pushy and tries to avoid him.