It's nice to pick an activity that everyone will enjoy.
John is spending the day at the park with friends.
John wants to decide what activity the group will participate in.
John decides that the group will play basketball because he knows all his friends love it.
John decides that the group will play rugby because it is his favorite sport.
John's friends all enjoy playing basketball in the park with him.
John's friends don't have a great time because they aren't very familiar with rugby and don't know how to play.