It's good to give someone a thoughtful birthday gift.
Sue is meeting her friend out for her birthday.
Sue wants to surprise her friend with a gift.
Sue buys a gift that has a lot of personal meaning to her friend.
Sue buys a thoughtless gift with no personal meaning.
Sues friend is elated and gives sue a big hug.
Sues friend smiles but inside she knows that the gift wasn’t what she wanted.