You shouldn't abuse your privileges.
Jim is a business executive who is looking to hire a new secretary.
Jim wants to hire a loyal secretary.
Jim looks for applicants that have been with their last job for multiple years.
Jim promises his applicants that they'll get the job if they're willing to have a relationship with him.
Jim's new secretary gets a new job without having to be exploited for it.
Jim's new secretary feels pressured have a relationship in order to get a job.