It is kind to give people compliments.
Jack found out his daughter just gave a difficult performance of a song at a recital.
Jack wants to give feedback on his daughters performance.
Jack tells his daughter it was very impressive of her to perform an impressive piece.
Jack tells his daughter he thinks she extended herself too much and need to stop practicing.
Jack's daughter feels accomplished and Jack is happy for his daughter.
Jack's daughter feels insulted and refuses to talk to Jack until Jack apologizes.