You shouldn't prevent someone from getting a job.
Tim is married to Allie, their children are grown up and Allie tells Tim she's considering working.
Tim wants to tell Allie what he think about her working.
Tim tells Allie she should apply for jobs she finds interesting.
Tim tells Allie she should stay at home all day and not work.
Allie will feel supported by Tim and enthusiastic about life.
Allie will feel constrained and bored staying at home all day.