It's good to let everyone take turns in picking activities.
John tends to dominate his group of friends, so they tell him that they too want to decide what they do as a group.
John wants to respond to his friends demands.
John listens to his friends, and they begin to take turns deciding on what to do.
John refuses their request and insists that he knows what's best for the group.
John's relationship with his friends develops and grows.
John is soon left alone as his friends begin to drop him.