It is wrong to intentionally exclude friends
Bob is planning a party with his wife, Wendy when she asks him if he'll invite his friend Jim.
Bob wants to answer Wendy's question.
Bob tells Wendy that of course he's inviting Jim they're best friends after all.
Bob tells Wendy that he's definitely not inviting Jim because Jim doesn't deserve to be there.
Wendy is happy to hear that Bob is going to invite Jim and that he is good at maintaining friendships.
Wendy is surprised at how mean Bob is being to Jim for seemingly no reason and feels awkward around Bob.