Audio dataset load everything in RAM and is very slow
Hello, I'm working with an audio dataset. I want to transcribe the audio that the dataset contain, and for that I use whisper. My issue is that the dataset load everything in the RAM when I map the dataset, obviously, when RAM usage is too high, the program crashes.

To fix this issue, I'm using writer_batch_size that I set to 10, but in this case, the mapping of the dataset is extremely slow.
To illustrate this, on 50 examples, with `writer_batch_size` set to 10, it takes 123.24 seconds to process the dataset, but without `writer_batch_size` set to 10, it takes about ten seconds to process the dataset, but then the process remains blocked (I assume that it is writing the dataset and therefore suffers from the same problem as `writer_batch_size`)

### Steps to reproduce the bug

Hug ram usage but fast (but actually slow when saving the dataset):
```py
from datasets import load_dataset
import time

ds = load_dataset("WaveGenAI/audios2", split="train[:50]")


# map the dataset
def transcribe_audio(row):
    audio = row["audio"]  # get the audio but do nothing with it
    row["transcribed"] = True
    return row


time1 = time.time()
ds = ds.map(
    transcribe_audio
) 

for row in ds:
    pass  # do nothing, just iterate to trigger the map function

print(f"Time taken: {time.time() - time1:.2f} seconds")
```

Low ram usage but very very slow:

```py
from datasets import load_dataset
import time

ds = load_dataset("WaveGenAI/audios2", split="train[:50]")


# map the dataset
def transcribe_audio(row):
    audio = row["audio"]  # get the audio but do nothing with it
    row["transcribed"] = True
    return row


time1 = time.time()
ds = ds.map(
    transcribe_audio, writer_batch_size=10
)  # set low writer_batch_size to avoid memory issues

for row in ds:
    pass  # do nothing, just iterate to trigger the map function

print(f"Time taken: {time.time() - time1:.2f} seconds")
```

### Expected behavior

I think the processing should be much faster, on only 50 audio examples, the mapping takes several minutes while nothing is done (just loading the audio).

### Environment info

- `datasets` version: 2.21.0
- Platform: Linux-6.10.5-arch1-1-x86_64-with-glibc2.40
- Python version: 3.10.4
- `huggingface_hub` version: 0.24.5
- PyArrow version: 17.0.0
- Pandas version: 1.5.3
- `fsspec` version: 2024.6.1

# Extra

The dataset has been generated by using audio folder, so I don't think anything specific in my code is causing this problem.
```py
import argparse

from datasets import load_dataset

parser = argparse.ArgumentParser()
parser.add_argument("--folder", help="folder path", default="/media/works/test/")
args = parser.parse_args()

dataset = load_dataset("audiofolder", data_dir=args.folder)

# push the dataset to hub
dataset.push_to_hub("WaveGenAI/audios")
```

Also, it's the combination of `audio = row["audio"]` and `row["transcribed"] = True` which causes problems, `row["transcribed"] = True `alone does nothing and `audio = row["audio"]` alone sometimes causes problems, sometimes not.