After `2.16.0` version, there are `PermissionError` when users use shared cache_dir
### Describe the bug

- We use shared `cache_dir` using `HF_HOME="{shared_directory}"` 
- After dataset version 2.16.0, datasets uses `filelock` package for file locking #6445 
- But, `filelock` package make `.lock` file with `644` permission
- Dataset is not available to other users except the user who created the lock file via `load_dataset`.

### Steps to reproduce the bug

1. `pip install datasets==2.16.0`
2. `export HF_HOME="{shared_directory}"`
3. download dataset with `load_dataset`
4. logout and login another user
5. `pip install datasets==2.16.0`
6. `export HF_HOME="{shared_directory}"`
7. download dataset with `load_dataset`
8. `PermissionError` occurs

### Expected behavior

- Users can share `cache_dir` using environment variable `HF_HOME`

### Environment info

- python == 3.9.10
- datasets == 2.16.0
- ubuntu 22.04
- shared_directory has ACL
![image (1)](https://github.com/huggingface/datasets/assets/106717516/5ca759db-ad0c-4883-9a97-9c8fccd00d8a)
- users are same group (developers)
