lately my best friend only long term friend ha just been brushing me off we joke for hour on end and i listen to them vent almost daily but when i brought up that i lost interest in all of my hobby again they go lmao same me a month ago and changed the subject i always put in an effort to be there for them even when i m in a low place and if i m not really able to feel empathy i tell them i refer them to help hotlines they refuse to get actual help i have given them every opportunity to get professional help by making a list of therapist in their area that take their insurance i ve given them every helpline under the sun whenever i have relative advice i give it to them but they always ignore it at one point i just stopped i stopped trying so hard and realized how much they rely on me to do everything for them they asked me a question i usually google it for them and summarize it i told them to google it they got annoyed with me so i cut them off for a few week whenever we started talking again thing were going well but of course a their type doe they eventually fell back into old habit this is strike for me and while i really don t want to lose the positive time we have together they just don t outweigh the negative i m tired i ve put in constant work and effort into being a healthy and stable a i am today and i m honestly not willing to slow down or trip up because of them i m open to any feedback or advice
lately my best friend only long term friend ha just been brushing me off we joke for hour on endand i listen to them vent almost dailybut when i brought up that i lost interest in all of my hobby again they go lmao same me a month ago and changed the subject i always put in an effort to be there for them even when i m in a low place and if i m not really able to feel empathy i tell them i refer them to help hotlines they refuse to get actual help i have given them every opportunity to get professional help by making a list of therapist in their area that take their insurance i ve given them every helpline under the sun whenever i have relative advice i give it to thembut they always ignore it at one point i just stopped i stopped trying so hard and realized how much they rely on me to do everything for them they asked me a question i usually google it for them and summarize it i told them to google it they got annoyed with meso i cut them off for a few week whenever we started talking again thing were going well but of course a their type doe they eventually fell back into old habit this is strike for me and while i really don t want to lose the positive time we have together they just don t outweigh the negative i m tired i ve put in constant work and effort into being a healthy and stable a i am today and i m honestly not willing to slow down or trip up because of themi m open to any feedback or advice
Últimamente mi mejor amigo sólo ha sido largo plazo amigo me ha estado quitando de broma por hora en extremo y escucho a ventilar casi todos los días, pero cuando me puse en que perdí interés en todo mi hobby otra vez van lmmao mismo me hace un mes y cambiado el tema siempre puse en un esfuerzo para estar allí para ellos incluso cuando estoy en un lugar bajo y si no soy realmente capaz de sentir empatía les digo que les remito para ayudar líneas directas que se niegan a conseguir ayuda real les he dado cada oportunidad de conseguir ayuda profesional haciendo una lista de terapeutas en su área que les he dado cada línea de ayuda bajo el sol les he dado cada vez que tengo consejos relativos les doy pero siempre lo ignoran en un punto me detuve tratando tan duro y me di cuenta de lo mucho que confían en mí para hacer todo por ellos me hicieron una pregunta por lo general google para ellos y les digo que les dije a google que se molestaron conmigo así que les cortaron durante unas semanas cada vez que empezamos a hablar otra cosa van bien pero de curso un tipo que finalmente volvieron a la vieja costumbre y me han perdido el tiempo que realmente quiero