so i have a mild stutter and i just had an epiphany i ve been letting my stutter control me but i found something amazing out i let my stutter define who i wa a a person instead of an aspect of myself it s so bad that when my parent talk to me like a normal person i d think to myself wow they act like i m normal despite my stutter they see past that and when i would work people would see my name tag and say oh i have a son named my name and i would think he probably doesn t stutter tho i let this define who i wa a a person and i let it really get to me i wa looking at old reddit post from other people asking how people view stutter and most people said they didn t care at all and even found it interesting some even said it wa hot cute made joke sound more natural and a a result more funny not like they found the stutter funny tho and one even said they were turned on by it and someone said something that stuck out to me they pretty much said how you perceive yourself is how others will so if i see myself a weird and anxious i will act that way and be perceived in that way but if i see myself a confident and charismatic and just act like my stutter doesn t bother me and even joke about it then others will perceive me a such this blew my mind a i thought everyone didn t pick up on my stutter at first and just thought i wa super weird but it s just me convincing myself of that so even tho this clicked i still can t just flick the switch off so how do i actually become confident with my stutter it s very mild and is fueled by anxiety so if i can get rid of my anxiety it ll in my opinion make me sound more charismatic and confident so i really wan na figure out how to just own it how do i do this
so i have a mild stutter and i just had an epiphany i ve been letting my stutter control mebut i found something amazing out i let my stutter define who i wa a a person instead of an aspect of myself it s so bad that when my parent talk to me like a normal person i d think to myself wow they act like i m normal despite my stutter they see past that and when i would work people would see my name tag and say oh i have a son named my name and i would think he probably doesn t stutter thoi let this define who i wa a a personand i let it really get to mei wa looking at old reddit post from other people asking how people view stutter and most people said they didnt care at all and even found it interesting some even said it wa hot cute made joke sound more natural and a a result more funny not like they found the stutter funny tho and one even said they were turned on by it and someone said something that stuck out to me they pretty much said how you perceive yourself is how others will so if i see myself a weird and anxious i will act that way and be perceived in that way but if i see myself a confident and charismatic and just act like my stutter doesn t bother me and even joke about it then others will perceive me a such this blew my mind ai thought everyone didn t pick up on my stutter at first and just thought i wasuper weirdbut it s just me convincing myself of that so even tho this clicked i still can t just flick the switch offso how do i actually become confident with my stutter it s very mild and is fueled by anxiety so if i can get rid of my anxiety it ll in my opinion make me sound more charismatic and confidentso i really wan na figure out how to just own it how do i do this
Así que tengo un tartamudeo suave y acabo de tener una epifanía he estado dejando que mi tartamudeo me controle pero encontré algo increíble a cabo que mi tartamudeo definiría que yo wa una persona en lugar de un aspecto de mí mismo es tan malo que cuando mi padre me habla como una persona normal me creo a mí mismo wow que actúan como yo soy normal a pesar de mi tartamudeo que ven más allá de eso y cuando yo trabajaría la gente vería mi etiqueta de nombre y decir oh tengo un hijo llamado mi nombre y yo pensaría que probablemente no tartamudeo thoi dejar que esto defina que yo soy una persona y dejo que realmente llegue a mei wa mirando al viejo puesto de reddit de otras personas preguntando cómo la gente ve tartamudeo y la mayoría de la gente dijo que no se preocupaba en todo e incluso encontró interesante algunos incluso dijo que wa hot lindo hizo broma sonido más natural y un resultado más divertido no como encontraron el tartamudeo divertido tho y uno incluso dijo que estaban excitados por ello y alguien me dijo algo que se afertó a mí muy mucho decir cómo se perciben a sí mismos es cómo otros van a ver tan raro y ansioso que voy a actuar de esa manera y percibir que