ever since my girlfriend moved 0 minute away to college i find myself worrying that she s in danger or dead when i don t hear from her for a while i m still a senior in highschool during the day i m usually not worried about her safety but at night if i don t hear from her by the time i m going to bed at like 0 pm i start to agonize and worry that she s dead she doe taekwondo every evening until or 9 and then take a 0 minute trip from the dojo back to her dorm and if i don t hear from her by the time i go to bed i start to lose sleep over my anxiety this happens any time i have a reason to expect to hear from her and i don t she assures me that the school campus is safe and i have nothing to worry about she s also a very safe driver and she s tall and athletic and therefore probably difficult to kidnap but i hate to think about that i could ask her to check in with me more or to check in at certain time but i feel strongly against being overbearing or controlling and i don t want to cross her boundary i think it annoys her a little bit already how much i worry about her and how i panic if i don t hear from her but she also try to reassure me the best she can i can t seem to ever fight my anxiety with logic i only feel better after hearing from her i don t feel this way when i m with her and i didn t even feel this way when we lived in the same town but in different house any advice on how to stop worrying so much about her safety
ever since my girlfriend moved 0 minute away to college i find myself worrying that she s in danger or dead when i don t hear from her for a while i m still a senior in highschool during the day i m usually not worried about her safety but at night if i don t hear from her by the time i m going to bed at like 0pmi start to agonize and worry that she s dead she doe taekwondo every evening until or 9 and then take a 0 minute trip from the dojo back to her dorm and if i don t hear from her by the time i go to bed i start to lose sleep over my anxiety this happens any time i have a reason to expect to hear from herand i don tshe assures me that the school campus is safe and i have nothing to worry about she s also a very safe driver and she s tall and athletic and therefore probably difficult to kidnapbut i hate to think about that i could ask her to check in with me more or to check in at certain timebut i feel strongly against being overbearing or controlling and i don t want to cross her boundaryi think it annoys her a little bit already how much i worry about her and how i panic if i don t hear from her but she also try to reassure me the best she can i can t seem to ever fight my anxiety with logic i only feel better after hearing from her i don t feel this way when i m with herand i didn t even feel this way when we lived in the same town but in different house any advice on how to stop worrying so much about her safety
Desde que mi novia se mudó a 0 minuto de distancia a la universidad me encuentro preocupado de que ella está en peligro o muerto cuando no oigo de ella durante un tiempo todavía estoy un último año en la escuela secundaria durante el día yo normalmente no estoy preocupado por su seguridad, pero por la noche si no sé de ella para el momento en que me voy a la cama como 0pmi empezar a agonizar y preocuparse de que ella está muerto ella hace taekwondo cada noche hasta o 9 y luego tomar un viaje de 0 minutos desde el dojo de vuelta a su dormitorio y si no oigo de ella para el momento en que me voy a la cama empiezo a perder el sueño por mi ansiedad esto sucede cada vez que tengo una razón para esperar escuchar de ella y yo no me asegura que el campus de la escuela está a salvo y no tengo nada que preocuparse de ella también es un conductor muy seguro y es alta y atlética y por lo tanto probablemente difícil de secuestrar pero odio pensar en que podría pedirle que me visite más o para comprobar en cierto tiempo pero me siento fuertemente en contra de ser dominante o controladora y no quiero cruzar sus límites pienso que un poco y mucho me preocupar