Okay :)... several months after I posted my review on Stingray Biltmore I recieved an email from one of their partners!  He offered me a $50.00 gift card and said he felt the problems I had experienced there had been rectified.  I, being a believer in 2nd chances, took a few friends to Stingray in hopes of a better experience.  I must say that the service wasn't AS bad (and it was REALLY bad the first time) but it was not great, and our bartender/server (as we sat at a booth in the bar) was definitely absent minded.  HOWEVER, the fact that one of their partners cared enough to take the time to read and respond to my email says a lot!!  If for nothing else, I can respect that and had to up the stars a bit.  I do think one of the partners or owners should find a way to eat there unnoticed, so they would recieve the same service as everyone else is actually getting there.