user34187: I lose like almost 1700 games in rapid and it's bad and I feel like I'm going have a hemmorage because it's pissing me off and bad I am? is it because my intellectual disability or what?

user28283: Your last post was from February 6th with 1000 games lost. This is not even a month. Lets assume, you lose around 50 % of the games, this means, in this 24 days you played 1400 games, which averages to around 58 games a day.
Lets say, you sleep 8 hours which leaves you with 16 hours non stop play time. Even then each game could have at maximum 16 minutes of play time per game, so the game format that you are playing is for sure less than a 10 minutes game.
But 16 hours of playing a day is rather unlikely, even 8 is hard to stay focused (and motivated if, as you say, you lose a lot).
So that leaves me with the conclusion, that, even though you claim you play rapid, you probably play at bullet or blitz speed and that is just a very bad choice for a beginner. You don't have the game intuition for that yet. At that speeds you can't calculate anymore and have to 'feel' which moves will be good and this you only get by calculating first a lot.
So my recommendation, the same as you will read it anywhere when some beginner asks how to get better, is, to slow down and play fewer games. At least 10 minutes thinking per side, better yet 15 or more. Only like this you will really have a time to calculate and get an understanding of the game. Also go over your games afterwards and see where you made your mistakes and try not to repeat that anymore. But don't lazily let the engine show you where you made mistakes, but try to find it yourself first.
Also, do a lot of puzzles. Like this you will see many different positions and think them through. But you have to try to achieve a success ratio of at least 60 % I would say. If you just look at it for a second, make random moves until you accidentally find the correct one you will not get anything out of them.

34187: <p>I lose like almost 1700 games in rapid and it's bad and I feel like I'm going have a hemmorage because it's pissing me off and bad I am? is it because my intellectual disability or what?</p>
 28283: <p>Your last post was from February 6th with 1000 games lost. This is not even a month. Lets assume, you lose around 50 % of the games, this means, in this 24 days you played 1400 games, which averages to around 58 games a day.</p>
<p>Lets say, you sleep 8 hours which leaves you with 16 hours non stop play time. Even then each game could have at maximum 16 minutes of play time per game, so the game format that you are playing is for sure less than a 10 minutes game.</p>
<p>But 16 hours of playing a day is rather unlikely, even 8 is hard to stay focused (and motivated if, as you say, you lose a lot).</p>
<p>So that leaves me with the conclusion, that, even though you claim you play rapid, you probably play at bullet or blitz speed and that is just a very bad choice for a beginner. You don't have the game intuition for that yet. At that speeds you can't calculate anymore and have to 'feel' which moves will be good and this you only get by calculating first a lot.</p>
<p>So my recommendation, the same as you will read it anywhere when some beginner asks how to get better, is, to slow down and play fewer games. At least 10 minutes thinking per side, better yet 15 or more. Only like this you will really have a time to calculate and get an understanding of the game. Also go over your games afterwards and see where you made your mistakes and try not to repeat that anymore. But don't lazily let the engine show you where you made mistakes, but try to find it yourself first.</p>
<p>Also, do a lot of puzzles. Like this you will see many different positions and think them through. But you have to try to achieve a success ratio of at least 60 % I would say. If you just look at it for a second, make random moves until you accidentally find the correct one you will not get anything out of them.</p>
