Recently divorced my husband of eight years after finding out he married another women overseas.
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I am well! How can I help you today?
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I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian
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I am so sorry to hear that this has been going on. How recently did the divorce take place?
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two months ago
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So you have children together and want to disconnect but that is a complicating factor? It must be so tough to be going through what you are going through now, I am so sorry.
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Yes I'm fealing anxiety because hes trying to lure me in order to trap me and I believe i'm losing control. I don't have much emotional support from anyone. Unsupportive family and friends
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Have you spoken to a professional? Is this something that you are able to do through your insurance or work?
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I'm to embarassed to seek professional help I think i need time to control my emotions first
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I completely understand. I have been in situations at work that I couldn't resolve due to the exact same reasons.
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Thanks for understanding
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Is there a way that you could seek help at work without anyone finding out?
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I might be, but I'm not really close with any coworkers. I work primarily remote and when I entered my current job COVID happened and I didnt really get the chance to get to know anyone all that well
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Sometimes someone looking in from the outside can see things in a way that you might not be able to see since you are in the middle of the situation. I know that this has happened to me.
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Thanks for your input It was a nice chatting with you today
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Through work you may be able to speak to a professional counselor or therapist while just having a small co-pay.
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have a nice day
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Have a nice day as well, I hope that you can get your issues resolved.
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