My boyfriend broke up with me and he had control of all our expenses and now im broke and dont have a place to stay so I feel really depressed
The person I was speaking to seemed like they were just trying to fulfill the time limit and didn't really want to do the task, but that is alright!
Hello how are you doing today?
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Im not doing very good
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I'm so sorry to hear that, but I would love to help. What is going on?
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My boyfriend broke up with me because we kept fighting and now I have no money and no place to stay
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I am so sorry to hear that. breakups are definitely hard to go through, especially in the times we are in right now. How long were you guys together? And you were living together?
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We were together for almost 5 years and we were living together he had all the money in his name and I have nothing now
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Oh I see that was a very long relationship! I actually just got out of a 3 1/2 year one myself, so I understand how hard it is. Are you still currently staying with him until you find your own place? Or are you staying somewhere else?
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Self-disclosure
I am currently trying to find a way to get to my mom who lives about 150 miles away. Im staying with my friend for now but she said I can only stay for 2 more days Yeah break ups are the worst
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I'm glad to hear that you are with a friend right now during this hard time, and that you have a place to go! But I see the struggle is finding a way to get there.
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Yeah she is a good friend im happy that I can stay with her for the time being its just stressful trying to get to my mom
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If you are struggling on finding a way back to your moms house, it might be a good idea to loan or borrow some money from either friends or family, or open a credit card just for the time being. Then once you get back to your mom's, you can start focusing on yourself and get yourself back on your feet! IT's important to not overwhelm yourself right now, so focus on one thing at a time
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Providing Suggestions
Yeah I definitely agree. I am waiting to hear back from capitalone about getting approved for a credit card and my friend said she can loan me 70$ but the bus ticket to my mom is 150$ so I'm almost to my goal I'm working on it though. It does make me feel better to talk about it though and lay it all out it makes it easier to figure my stuff out
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That is great to hear! I know that you are probably also hurting from the breakup itself too, but I'm glad to hear that you are focusing on getting yourself to a safe place first. It's going to take a long time to fully heal again, but as long as you make sure you are stable, you will be able to get through this It also sounds like you know what you need to do, and you aren't letting yourself forget what is important. That is wonderful
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Reflection of feelings,Affirmation and Reassurance
Yeah thanks I appreciate that. I feel a lot better I hope you have an awesome day! I do understand what I need to do for sure It was just overwhelming thinking about everything and talking it and listing it out makes me feel better for sure
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