I am having trouble getting over the loss of a friendship that was important to me. I was very close to someone who acted as though he was my best friend but secretly didn't care for me at all. Eventually he told me so, and every time I think about it it feels like a punch in the stomach, even years later.
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Hello.
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Good Evening How is it going this evening ?
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I am doing pretty well. There's a beautiful sunset out my window. How are you?
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I am great. I love the outdoors it make you feel free and apart of something much larger than yourself.
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Absolutely. Since I got back from school I've had time to run around and climb trees and stuff and it makes me feel like a kid again. Are you able to see the details that I wrote at the top of the chat? I think they might only show up for me.
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Kool beans ! I love life/outoors just in that same way. No, I can not see what you sent initially Could you please resend it?.
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Oh. It asked me to describe the problem I was having. I said that I have had trouble getting over losing a friend who I thought was my best friend for years but eventually I found out he was only acting and he didn't really care about me at all. It's been about a year since he told me that, and whenever I think about it it makes me sad. I don't know why it's so hard for me to get over it
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Betrayal is a hard pill to swallow. I think you brave for sharing what you have been experiencing. Thank you. We all go through similar situations in all of our lives. Its not about going through those situations it about for me what did I learn and how will this make me better in the future.
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I think you're right. What do you think I can learn from it?
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Those situation sometimes shows us there was time in that friendship where we could have been over extending ourselves. Those are the times we should have been given more love and attention to our self. We learn how to love ourselves more we others don't reciprocate what we give them. I think it ultimately about being a better friend to you first.
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I think that's wise, thanks. I was definitely putting too much effort into it and I hardly noticed that he wasn't reciprocating it. I have always had a problem with that. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Hope you have a good evening. :)
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