I was working when one of my bosses continued to bully and speak down to me
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Good afternoon. How are you?
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Im doing ok how are you
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I'm doing alright. Why just OK?
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im struggling with a coworker! He continuely talks down to me and is just mean
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I'm sorry to hear that you're having trouble with him. That can certainly be frustrating. What types of things does he say that make you feel talked down to?
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He continuly says the work that I am doing is not good enough. He always has something to say about my driving and asking me to correct things that I cant such as hitting to many potholes
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Well, in my experience, when someone is critical of you -- it says a lot more about their character than anything you did wrong. Is he your coworker or your boss?
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He is a coworker
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Have you tried bringing up your feelings and frustrations to your boss or HR representative?
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I have but he continuely says he will talk to him but its been a month now i I have not talked to a HR representative
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That would certainly be frustrating. Have you tried speaking to the coworker directly and letting him know how his comments are making you feel?
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I have and he seems to just shrug it off
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I had a similar experience at work once. I decided to ask the coworker directly what I could do to improve. Sometimes if you ask them to provide the solution they can see you actively trying. If that doesn't work, maybe you could just ask your boss if there is a possibility of not working with him and instead another coworker?
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hmm that a great strategy! I have never asked him for a solution! I Can do that for sure in regards to talking to my boss and seeing if I just cant work with him!
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