Ive gained some weight after having my kids. I havent been able to lose or go below 150. so nothing fits, or nothing looks good on me anymore. and i feel thats why my boyfriend doesnt compliment me ever or make me feel wanted at all.
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I don't know what to do anymore. i feel completely lost.
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Can you talk more about your feelings now?
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Well i just feel ugly all the time. ive changed my eating habits and i just cant seem to lose any weight and i know or i feel as if hes just not physically attracted to me anymore and that breaks my heart
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I can completely understand your feelings. I can feel how stressed out you are about your weight. Did you try doing more exercises and control your diet?
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ive tried talking to him about it but he doesnt seem to even listen to me at all. i have changed my diet, and take walks with my kids but dont really have a gym membership. and anyone to watch my kids 5 and 3. but for some reason i cant get below 150.
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I have experienced similar situation. I talked to a consultant and he gave me some good advice on diet. Did you talk to a professional?
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mind u i was 125 and fit for the 10 years we were together before we had kids like a doctor? because my other siblings who are very much in our lives are health freaks and fanatics
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I talked to a nutritionist and it really helped. They are professionals who can look into your diet and give suggestions.
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but they dont have kids i did get a sensitivity food test that showed me what could possibly be triggering my body
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Can you hire a nanny and free your time?
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that did help me in what i should eliminate cant really afford a nanny for 2 kids at the moment
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Were you able to eliminate those foods? Some gym provides free day care and you can drop to their day care before you start exercises.
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not all completely but i have been taking a little bit out at a time. yeah not around here especially because of the pandemic in california things are really expensive here
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Did you consider moving to cheaper locations?
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not really i have family here which i want my kids to be as close as possible i would have to move to another state. but that would take a lot of consideration on both of our parts i just dont understand why my bf wont take me serious and actually listen to me when im telling him how i feel
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