We've been together for a long time and he decided to call it quits.
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Hi how are you today?
assistant
Question
OK a little upset
user
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I'm sorry. Can you tell me what happened?
assistant
Question
I thought I was in a good relationship and just like that he calls it quits. We went on a date and he just decided to break up with me.
user
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I understand you are upset and caught off guard. What was his reasoning?
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Question
He says he loves me but just doesn't want to be with one person now. Yes, I actually thought we we getting ready to move in together. We had been talking about it for awhile.
user
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Oh wow.... Thats horrible. How long were you with him? Sometimes people can surpise us.
assistant
Reflection of feelings
Met him 2 years ago and have been dating ever since. This is just a bad time of year do have this happen also.
user
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Just a bad year all around. I'm so sorry this has happened.. and right before christmas. Hopefully you can return his present if you got him one already. Do you have any plans for christmas? Maybe keeping yourself busy and distracted through the holidays will help.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions
Oh I will return his present I think I'm done with him. I do not think I could ever go back to the same person I would never trust him. I think that's why it feels awful. I'm probably better off finding out now before we moved in together.
user
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YES. At least you found out before such a huge life choice. Its also better you found out now at 2 years instead of 4 years.
assistant
Reflection of feelings
I agree, i don't know if I'm sad or mad. Probably a little of both.
user
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I'm sure you are filled with mixed emotions. Anyone would be. Like you said, you dont live with him. So it will be much easier to cut ties
assistant
Reflection of feelings,Reflection of feelings
Well I have some friends that I live with now and they are very good to me. So at least I won't be alone this Christmas. Thank you for you support it made me feel good to vent about it.
user
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You are very welcome. I wish you the best of luck I hope you have a Merry Christmas
assistant
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