Iam feeling depressed because of being a failure in proceeding with my carrer.
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hi..How are you today
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Hello, I'm fine thank you how are you?
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Iam facing little depression because of discontinuing my academics.
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I see, when did you stop academics?
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Last year. I got married and my husbands family is not accepting to get me proceed with my masters degree.Iam very depressed about that..
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so if I understand you correctly, you cannot continue your studies because your in-laws don't want you to?
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yes..and iam finding it difficult to cope with that..
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That sounds very disappointing, I can understand why you are feeling down about this. I had to stop university halfway through for health reasons, and was not able to go back, I found that depressing too.
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How did you manage to get out of the depression..If you dont mind,can you tell me what happened?
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it is hard to let go of a dream. it's normal to feel down about it.
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Can you suggest some remedies of how to get out of depression..
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I have mental health issues so I could not continue my studies, sadly. I take antidepressants and have a counselor. is there anyone you can talk to about your depresion, perhaps your doctor?
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Oh I cannot go to counsellor because of they are too expensive.. I want to talk about it to some one but even my parents are not very supportive of me..
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Are you in a city? Some cities have free counselors oh dear that is hard when your family is not behind you
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Yes iam in a city..I dont know about any free counsellors..How to find the info
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are you near a public library? sometimes librarians are really helpful to find community information. you could call them. do you have a family doctor?
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Providing Suggestions,Question
Oh I think we have a public library near to my houe..I can enquire about it
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or of course you could do a google search for counseling
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Providing Suggestions
sure..I can do that..thank you for your help..
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it sounds like what you are going through is a grieving proces. it's the loss of a dream that was very important to you. it will get easier over time
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I really hope so that i will be happy with my life..
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i hope you can go back to academics in the future, do you think that will be possible?
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Its not in my hands,my family should approve .But I will be positive about this ..That is the only option i have left..
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i see, may I ask where you are from?
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Iam from african continent..
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another idea just came to me, there are free university courses online that you might be able to do in your spare time, if you have any they may not get you any qualifications but they would satisfy your thirst for knowledge
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I will certainly look in to it ...Thank you for all the suggestions and help..I really appreciate it..bye..
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