My friend questioned our friendship when I did not want to hang out with her during COVID. She blocked my number when I expressed how upset I feel about what she said.
I guess when it comes to the supporters, they have to follow certain guidelines which can make them more robotic than human like.
I would like a more emotional conversation.
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Hey! How can I help?
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So I don't know if you can see the topic of my problem like I can see on my screen? If not I'll explain
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Yes please do
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So I had a long time friend who recently blocked me from everything. The reason was I refused to hang out with her during covid and she questioned our friendship. Something she said was "It's selfish of me to work rather than spend time with a special friend." So I got upset and called her out. And in response she blocked me. And I'm more upset at myself because I wanted to tell her more about how horrible of a human being she is in general. But I cannot because she blocked me on everything.
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Have you explained to her that you NEED to work, and don't be upset with yourself because you did the right thing If your friendship was strong she will surely unblock you Give her time to cool down
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Yeah I did. And she just got more upset and said I was selfish. Like she's the type who would not back down and she's lost many friends and romanics partners that way So I feel like she's not going to unblock me and get back together. I'm just really upset because I want to call her off, not because I lost a friendship. Because screw her : ) I put up with her too much.
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You are not the one who is selfish here as you have done the right thing, and she will hopefully see that
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Should I go to her house and personally tell her how I feel?
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If she doesn't then you know she wasn't worth your time in the first place And no because this will make her more angry If she is aware of how you feel, she will come back in due time
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I guess I'm the type of person who has to tell people how I feel, otherwise I won't find peace. Do you have any other suggestions how I can get passed this?
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But for now, you should find other ways to make peace with yourself, for example, hanging out with other friends and that may take your mind of it and if that isn't an option simply keeping yourself busy may help
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But I can't really hang out with anyone because of COVID. That's how this whole situation started : )
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Maybe spend more time with work, or keeping yourself occupied with other things And she will come back if she really cared about your relationship in the first place
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Yeah, work can keep my mind off all this. And that's true. Thank you for listening to my ranting.
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Your welcome, there is always someone out there for you :)
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Aw thank you! You have a good one.
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