I was dating this guy for about a month or so, and everything had been going well. It was my first relationship in a long time. All of a sudden, he ghosted me. No explanation. I was left thinking that I'm not built to be in a relationship.
The advice was very good. However, my partner thought I was a woman because I was talking about a love interest that's a man.
It was pretty straight forward.
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I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me.
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Who do you see online? What did he drop on you?
assistant
Question,Providing Suggestions
I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship.
user
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Can you block notifications for him? How long ago did he stop it?
assistant
Question,Information
I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, "What if he comes to his senses and wants to contact me?" A couple months ago, but I haven't gotten over him.
user
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If you block him and he wants to get in touch, he will find a way. Make him work hard
assistant
Providing Suggestions
You really think playing hard to get will work?
user
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I think if he is interested still it will, if not his loss.
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Thanks for saying that, but I still have the problem of wanting to be in a relationship.
user
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With him, or a relationship with someone?
assistant
Providing Suggestions
With him... he was perfect (or at least I thought), but also, I'm lonely, and it's hard to process not being in a relationship during the pandemic.
user
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Have you tried making other connections online? A lot of people are home during this pandemic, you may meet someone much better.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
True. What can I do to get over him in the meantime?
user
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Keep busy! Get mad instead of sad! I would not contact him if he was not contacting me. You deserve better than that!
assistant
Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions
Lol. I think I can do that!
user
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Yes, we women function better when we get pissed!
assistant
Providing Suggestions
You're right. What do I do if he contacts me again? Do I let the conversation play out and see what happens?
user
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Play it cool and be ready to make up a whole bunch of fun things you have been doing.
assistant
Reflection of feelings
That's a good idea. I can do that.
user
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Of course you can! You may find your feelings have changed. Sometimes we just want what we don't have, lol.
assistant
Others,Information
That's also true. Thanks, I will try that!
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