Coronavirus is making me very panicked about leaving the house and I'm almost scared to do anything these days.
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I have an issue in that coronavirus and all the news is giving me a lot of anxiety. I really don't want to leave the house and start to panic at the thought.
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I totally understand. The pandemic is once in a lifetime event and it has turned all our lives upside down. I hope you are aware about the potential vaccines with great success rate announced my major pharma companies.
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Reflection of feelings,Information
Yes. I watch the news and it's everywhere these days. There seems no end to it.
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Yes, there seems to be some credibility to the claim - the effectiveness of the vaccine. So I would say even though it seems a lot difficult, there is some hope early next year.
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What of his vaccine doesn't work. Even the thought of leaving the house still feels me with worry and I start to feel panicked. It's like my mental Outlook has completely changed.
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I understand your concern. In fact, a lot of people have questioned the effectiveness given how fast it was developed. Are you anxious because you have to provide for your family besides yourself?
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Reflection of feelings
In fact I have been on sick leave from work since it started. My partner is understanding to a point but yes, I'll need to provide once this is all over. I'm starting to think I'll be scared of leaving the house, even when Covid gets managed and we gather back to 'normal'
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I too, have been working from home for the past 9 months. And I am the sole provider for my family. So I understand how frustrating this can be.
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it's great that you can relate. how are you managing those frustrations?
user
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The key, however, is our mindset and how we approach the problem. If you are afraid about going our during peak hours, you can step outside during non-peak hours. This is just an example. Everybody's situations and preferences vary. I am frustrated, but I cannot cultivate inaction. Because I have mouths to feed. So I have developed a mindset to tackle the problem by taking all the precautions I possible can.
assistant
Providing Suggestions,Information
so you mean maybe leave the house when it's really quiet to begin with? then slowly build on that over time. isn't this called exposure therapy. I think I have read about this
user
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In essence, I know the factors under my control, and I try to control them and work them in my favour. I make it a point not to worry too much about factors outside my control.
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I suppose it makes no sense to worry about things you can't control. I think from my perspective that's exactly the problem, not having control. I don't know why this has affected me so much?
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Because it's a new situation to most of the world's population! People take time to adjust. You take care of factors under your control - wearing a mask , social distancing when outside and washing/sanitizing hands whenever you can. Try not to pay too much attention to factors OUTSIDE your control - how many people are there and if social distancing is followed to the letter by OTHERS
assistant
Reflection of feelings,Information,Providing Suggestions
yes I know about all the guidance and it would help to follow this. I see my friends dealing with it just fine. I wonder what is making it so hard for me? perhaps I'm overthinking it and just worrying about it excessively.
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Ya, that might be the root cause. Talk with your partner and try going out when you and them feel it is safe to do so. Start cautiously, then slowly return to your "normal" outdoor times. It can be intimidating at first, but if you don't try, you may never be able to overcome the anxiety or fear.
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Providing Suggestions,Reflection of feelings
yeah I think I really need to give that go. if that doesn't work maybe there are some support groups out there?
user
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I am sure there are, but make sure those groups are social distancing as well. We are all in this together and we can definitely overcome it :)
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
So true! also I think I need to stop watching the news and obsessing about this
user
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Yes. You can distract yourself with music or comedy shows. Or a long lost hobby. After all, one good thing about COVID is, it has put more time on our plates.
assistant
Providing Suggestions
the one thing I do have is time. Thanks for talking through this with me.
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It was nice chatting with you as well. Take care and stay safe
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