I am worried with my recent trend of drinking. Have tried to control the habit but it is getting worse due to intense cravings
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so far so good.
Hello, how are you today?
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hello too. Am not so fine
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Oh? What's happening?
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Am worried about my alcohol consumption rate in the recent past. I have been trying to tame the habit but when i xkip the session i develop more cravings and drink more than before
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I see, can you explain what session you skip?
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session i mean when i skip a few days say three days
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So it sounds like you are worried you are drinking too much, and that after a few days of not drinking, you end up even drinking more than usual, am I right?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
yes that is it
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My daughter has addictions and Alcoholics Anonymous is helping her stay clean, she told me Have you looked into Alcoholics Anonymous? They have meetings on Zoom you can attend.
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Self-disclosure,Information
what is that?
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It's a self help program run by and for people who have alcohol addiction.
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Ooh, i havent tried it before. sounds a nice idea
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I can see that it would be discouraging and worrisome to you if it seems like you go one step forward and then two backward. Have you spoken to a professional about your alcohol consumption? In my city, for example, we have a community organization that helps people with alcohol or drug addiction.
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Reflection of feelings,Providing Suggestions
sure. that is my worry as well. virtual meeting may not be of great help as such
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Well my daughter had no choice, she started going during the pandemic, and many of the meetings have gone virtual. She tells me there are still some in person meetings though, perhaps you can check the AA website for your local information.
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i visited some time befor but he transfered before i had progressed and felt discouraged looking for another one since they are not many in our city
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I see. I wonder if it might be worth trying again. I think getting help is a sign of strength. Perhaps an addiction counsellor can help you break free. I know in my own life I have had some problems that were too big to deal with by myself. I had to find help. It's not a sign of weakness, it's a strength.
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Providing Suggestions,Self-disclosure
yes i too believe so but now my tight work schedule and close friends are somehow inhibiting factors and i havent got opne in our city yet
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I think it's great you are AWARE you have a problem, that's the most important and often the hardest first step, and you have accomplished that. Are your friends drinking with you? Do they know you are trying to drink less? I can understand that being busy can be a barrier, but you are WORTH making time for.
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Affirmation and Reassurance,Question,Affirmation and Reassurance
yes they know but apparently they drag me into drinkin unknowingly
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My daughter had to find new friends to stay away from the drugs...she has made some good friends at AA I know when I quit smoking I had to stay away from my smoking friends for a while until I felt strong enough to be around it.
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Self-disclosure,Self-disclosure
Wow. that`s nice of her. i really think i should do something over this. kindly give me options to explore considering my barriers at hand
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Well lets se we've talked about AA, finding an addiction counsellor, and spending time away from your dr\inking friends for a while, you can explain to them why. If they can't support you in your efforts, are they being good friends to you? Maybe you could also do an internet search to find out what services are available in your city or town I know for me, I have had to put my mental health first. I've had mental health challenges. And without my health I have nothing, so it's #1 priority for me. Perhaps giving up alcohol can become your #1 priority.
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Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions,Self-disclosure
wow. i am grateful first for making me aware of asupport systemfrom where i can find friends with a common goal coz this was my major concern considering my busy work schedule. Thankyou much for reminding me to also get to my first steps of finding a counsellor. these are worthy steps to explore. thank you so much
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you are very welcome it's been a pleasure speaking with you. I know you can get through this and achieve your goal
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Affirmation and Reassurance
i now feel confident to start off my quitiing journey. nice time
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