Stress induced by a multitude of issues happening seemingly at once. This essentially started with a problem with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months.
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Hi there, what's going on today?
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Just dealing with alot of depression lately due to issues with a lot of things. The most of which being with my ex-gf and her pregnancy. She immediately cut me off once she gave birth, so I haven't met or seen my child. It's been 7 months. We were in the process of working on an agreement outside of court and since this I've had to work with the court to get this started but it's been hard with COVID and not being able to meet with someone in person.
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Did you sign the birth certificate?
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No. That's the other thing. She didn't let me know about the birth until 2 hours after the fact. The hospital would only let one person there with her and her sister was there. I don't know if she put someone else as the father or not.
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That is absolutely horrible, and I can understand the reasoning behind your emotions now. You are a wonderful soul to care so deeply. You deserve to be a Father. Have you contacted any legal help?
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Thank you. I appreciate that. I've been in contact with the Self-Help center at the courthouse to help me with the process of getting a DNA test and getting things going on a case.
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Ok that is one step closer to justice. When is that going to take place, and did you find out if that can be expedited? Your child is so fortunate to have you. Keep fighting to win custody, I believe in you.
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There's been some issues with the paperwork which is part of why it's taking a while. Once it gets fixed and approved, it should be easy from there. There's no expediting it though I'm afraid. Thank you for that last message. It's really encouraging.
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I am proud of being able to say I spoke with someone like you today. I hope the rest of the world takes notes from you. If everyone cared like this, the world would be a better place. Thank you for being you:)
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Thanks. I'm glad to have talked to you too.
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Is there anything else going on, aside from this?
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Well, aside from that, I'm pretty stressed about school too.
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What are you studying?
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Psychology
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I studied psychology years ago, and it is eye opening. Stick with it, and pay attention. It will absolutely help your cause in court too!
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Thanks!
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Anytime! Do you do anything for fun? Any hobbies?
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I read. I also like to play video games or listen to music. Unfortunately most of my time is spent on schoolwork and taking care of other things. But when I do find some time, I usually play a video game or do some reading.
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What are some of your favorites? That is definitely one of my escapes. It is a very healthy way to cope and find some peace among the chaos.
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For reading, I like to read a variety of genres, like mysteries and self-help books. As for video games, I tend to play anything. Mostly, I've been playing to shut my brain off, so it's games like GTAV or Call of Duty.
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Can I make a suggestion? From a fellow psych buff, I recommend any of the Uncharted games or Assassin's Creed games! You will melt into another world and it takes the stress away. Leaving you more energized to deal with real world problems!
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That's a good idea. I actually just downloaded an Assassin's Creed game.
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Great minds think alike! Is there anything else you wanted to bring up with me today?
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No. But thanks for listening to me.
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