breaking up cause husband cheating
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not that I can think of
hello
user
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Hi there. How are you doing?
assistant
Question
ok. not great how r u.
user
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I am sorry to hear that. What is going on that makes you not feel great? I am well, thanks for asking.
assistant
Question
breaking up with husband. mixed emotions on it. relieved it is out in the open, sad it has to be over.
user
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Going through a break up is never easy, especially when it is with someone you thought you would spend you life with. I understand completely. It is natural to feel sad for a while I have been divorced myself so I know it is not easy. But I can promise it gets much better
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Self-disclosure
yeah. it sucks. wish it was not this way. do not want to move on but without trust there is nothing
user
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Of course and it is normal to have mixed feelings
assistant
Reflection of feelings
I just cannot get out of this funk. why me? what did i do to make him want someone else?
user
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Have you looked into any divorce support groups in your area or online? It can help to discover that you are not alone in how you feel
assistant
Providing Suggestions
Yeah, but the only one in my area in person is cancelled. online seems impersonal. I dont mind being on my own, but like companionship. But will not trust again. I am in a no win situation. At least the kids are grown. talking does help some, just no way to fix this really. It is internalized with me.
user
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I understand. I went though a lot of feelings myself when I divorced. Blaming myself, blaming him, missing him. It took some time to work through but thankfully today it is all a distant memory. Sometimes time is the best healer. Be kind to yourself and take time for you.
assistant
Self-disclosure
yep. i guess it is too soon. 2020 is the suckiest year ever. On so many levels.
user
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I hear you on that. It has been a very unusual year in general. I think that with everything going on in the world it is more important than ever that we take me time.
assistant
Providing Suggestions
got plenty of me time. lol this is just the worst year to meet people. most of my friends were mutual marriage friends, and their pity is uncomfortable, and a few have chosen sides.
user
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I know how hurtful that can be when people chose sides. It happened in my own divorce. The best thing you can do I think is to remember not to let anyone else's misinformed opinions affect how you ultimately view yourself. None of those people were there and none of them experienced what you did.
assistant
Self-disclosure
yeah, i am ok with losing certain friends. some have surprised me some not so much. no way to meet new people or get away.
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