I'm worried I will never find love again and I'm not getting any younger
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I am worried after breaking up with my boyfriend that I will never find love again.
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I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. Was it your boyfriend that ended the relationship and how long were you guys together?
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We were together for 3 years and he ended it suddenly.
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this actually happened to me last year. my girlfriend ended things completely out of the blue. it came to light that she felt this way for a while but didn't know how to speak to me about it.
assistant
Self-disclosure
It's such a shocker and I'm dumbfounded and sad.
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it is true that relationships can have a big impact on us especially when the end suddenly and seemingly without reason. this must be very stressful.
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Yes, I wonder if I will ever love again.
user
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it does take time to get over a breakup especially one that ends suddenly but I think once you get over the initial shockyou seem like a positive person so I believe you can get over this
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
Thanks. What should I do next?
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do you have any friends or family that you can talk to about your feelings?
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Providing Suggestions
Maybe I could talk to my friend Sam because she just broke up with her boyfriend.
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speaking to others who have had similar experiences it's always a good idea. they may be able to offer a fresh perspective that you haven't considered before
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She's worked through the process a little longer than I so maybe she could see things from a more rational perspective.
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that's good, I'd definitely reach out to her, especially when the Break-Up is so fresh. you may not be thinking clearly and a friend that understands might really help.
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Providing Suggestions
You are right. I hope this works.
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you have been through a really tough time. I do think you can get through this though and come out the other side. I believe you can do it!
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
I am glad for the encouragement. What should I do when I start to panic about being alone?
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I can tell that you are worried that you will be lonely forever and I can tell you are anxious about that.
assistant
Reflection of feelings
Yes, that is scary. Maybe some deep breaths will help me. Thanks for you support. You have helped me feel supported and cared for.
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It is a big world out there and there will be someone else that is right for you. Personally, if he cheated then it may be a good thing that you found out now and not further down the line, after you had invested even more time into the relationship.
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