My wife of 6 years decided one day last week she wanted to end things.  This comes after finding out we cannot have anymore children.  So its a combination of the 2.
It took to long for a response.
no it went well.
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Hello! How are you today?
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not to good my wife wants to split and it was after finding out we couldnt have any more kids, we have 1 already
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Oh no, I am so sorry to hear you are going through this difficulty. I am here to help and lend a sympathetic ear.
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Thanks. Do you think there is any way to fix this?
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I think there is a way to handle any situation. Have you had an honest and open conversation with your wife on both of your feelings on the matter?
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yes very open and honest. Turns out she has some form of cancer and it is the cause of not being able to have anymore kids.
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I am so sorry to hear that your wife has cancer. I have had an ill loved one and I know how difficult that can be, not just for the person going through it but for the family too. How do you feel about not having any more kids?
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yes very stessful. I want more kids. I have only had 2 of my own, 1 with my wfie 1 with my former partner.
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I see. And is it a deal breaker for you if you cannot have any more kids? Would you be willing to stay with your wife and be content with the children you already have?
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no not a huge deal breaker. But it is at the same time. Its a hard situation
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I understand, it is a very difficult situation What is more important to you? Your relationship with your wife or having another child?
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a little of both i suppose. Its so hard to choose. I guess time will tell...
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Yes, it's tough. Maybe you should think about both scenarios and write down how it would make you feel. Picture being without your wife and how would that make you feel. Then picture being with your wife and your current family and how that would make you feel.
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thank you for your help. I appreciate it.
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Of course, I am here for whatever you need
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of course. I appreciate it so much. I want to stay with my wife, I really do. I guess there could be medication available to help perhaps.
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Maybe you can tell your wife that?
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Yeah could probably do that. We are early in this so things could go either way.
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For sure. Is there anything else I can help with?
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I hope they go good for my and my wife sake.
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me too
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