My partner just walked out on me saying he cannot do this anymore
I think it is a brilliant idea, often it is easier to share your mood and problems with a stranger
I don't think so, the idea works well as it is.
Hello, what can I help you?
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I really sad as my partner walked out on me. Any thoughts what could cheer me up?
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Was there anything that leads to this?
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Not really. I thought everything was ok between us. That is why it kind of struck me.
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That's terrible and unacceptable behavior. How long have you been together?
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Reflection of feelings,Question
I have to agree with you-it is unacceptable, considering that he didn't give me any reasons as to why he did it. We have been together for 5 years.
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That sucks. I wouldn't be able to accept either. Have you talked to your friends about this?
assistant
Reflection of feelings,Question
It is still rather raw,I have mentioned to it to a few of my friends and they deeply symphatise with me but I feel there is nothing much they can do to help me.They are as shocked as me to be honest.
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It is understandable to have that reaction. I agree with you, only us can hep ourselves. Have you tried doing activities that help distract you from having negative thoughts?
assistant
Reflection of feelings,Question
Kind of, most of it involves eating loads of ice cream LOL.
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Haha I feel you, I tend to eat a lot when depressed too. Look, it's treat yourself method. You deserve the best If you can go to the mountain or big lake, I would say try spending a few hours there. Maybe have a mini picnic by yourself and enjoy the nature.
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Self-disclosure,Others
That is a brilliant idea,I do love walking and being outdoors. :) It surely would help me to clear my mind
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Is there anything you have wanted to do but don't have the time? I always want to learn guitar and baking. This is the best time to start that
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oh yeah, I suppose I have more time now to focus on things I have always wanted to do but never kind of had time for it. I bought a high end photo camera ages ago but never really had a chance to use it properly-I guess it is time to pursue my interest in photography, and spending more time outdoors would be ideal for that! And reading! The list of books I want to read is arm long!
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That's the spirit! I know being treated like that feels horrible. However, I bet you have mourned enough, at the end of the day, a person treats you like that has no respect and you shouldn't waste time on them. It's time to invest in yourself, once you become your better version, a better partner will come to you
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Affirmation and Reassurance,Affirmation and Reassurance
I really agree with you- I am worth more than that. It is time to move on, even when it is difficult. The sad side of it is that I probably will never know what I did wrong for things to end like that. Maybe I didn't do anything wrong. That is the question what will always stay with me and that actually is the hardest bit of it all. But... I am not going to delve into it. I feel like hitting a jackpot actually hahahaha. I will be walking off those calories I get from ice cream I have been scoffing lately.So I am having the best of both worlds Who said you cannot have the cake and eat it all LOL
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Yes!Actually don't think you did wrong. Reflecting after a relationship is good but don't put all the blame on yourself. You have learned from this relationship too i believe, use that for your next one
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