My girlfriend of ten years run away on our wedding day
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Hi! How's it going today?
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Question
am somewhat fine
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That doesn't sound super positive?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
so my almost supposedly wife ran out on me on our wedding
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What's going on? What made her do this?
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Question
so now am back in our apartment reminiscing all the times we had. that's my question too, I don't know why she left Maybe she had been cheating and ran to her man but why wait till the wedding day if she had a problem she could tell me before that
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Not knowing why must be hard, this sounds like it was more of her problem than yours. That's a terrible thing to do to you.
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Reflection of feelings
i don't know what to do, should i call her or just wait till she is ready to explain
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I think she definitely owes you an explanation for what she's done. That was the worst way for her to do that.
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Self-disclosure
should i move places because this place has too many memories, should i burn her things or send them to her family well she hasnt bothered to look for me so far and its been a week
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Time will help with some of that. Once you're able to make new memories in your apartment it won't be so unbearable. But maybe her hurting you this way means you don't need that explanation because she simply wasn't right for you.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
and she couldn't say no when i proposed or any day before the wedding
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As much as it hurts, it sounds like you're better off without her.
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Providing Suggestions
easier said but i guess so. i just want this year to end now.
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Unfortunately this year has been less than ideal in more ways than one.
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Reflection of feelings
i know, what a year. i just thought this will make this year atleast better after everything
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I can understand, it was something to finally look forward to. Unfortunately, everyone is dealing with all of these emotions differently and it was just too much for her. And it's hard to talk to people about our feelings because everyone is in the same or worse situation with the pandemic.
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Reflection of feelings,Providing Suggestions
exactly Everyone is worn out. plus i wouldn't want to add to their worries especially family
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Right, but it is worth talking to someone. I always feel guilty until I finally start talking and then it ends up being a support system between both parties. Not just me dumping my problems on someone else.
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you are probably right. Thanks this was actually helpful
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Glad to hear it, hopefully with time this will all make sense for you.
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i pray so too you have a lovely afternoon
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