i just broke up with my girlfriend last week. I found her cheating
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How are you doing?
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I am pretty good. How are you?
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I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week
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What is going on?
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I ended things with my girlfriend last week.
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I am sorry to hear that, what caused you to wan to end things?
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Things have been pretty rough for the last few years. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and she lied about it The kicker is that we live together and her family is planning on coming to stay with us for xmas. they already have their flights booked and now are trying to cancel
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So from what I am hearing, you ended things with your girlfriend because she was talking to her ex and lying to you about it and you are feeling upset about it.
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yeah, plus our relationship has been rocky for the past year. I think we are just loosing interest in eachother
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I understand your situation completely. I had a recent ex that I lived with who also was talking to her ex and hanging out with him and lying to me about it.
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what did you do about it?
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The first thing I did was had a conversation to try and see why she was talking to her ex and lying to me about it. Trying to get closure is very helpful.
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yes, i could see that. We have discussed and decided to end things. Like I said, her family was planning on staying with us for xmas, so now it feels like we ruined xmas for everyone
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I know this is definitely a rough situation, but I am sure you can make it through it!
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Yes it's just been a crummy year. I'm looking forward to being done with it
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I can understand that! I think it has been a rough year for everyone!
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i agree, i just hope her family doesn't come out. She still needs to move out but I'm hoping her family doesn't come out to help her move. Or at least gives me a heads up so i can stay in a hotel while she moves out
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