Just got back from deployment. Found out the girl that I was interested in does not like me anymore. I am trying to move on, but don't know where to go from here.
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Question
Hi, just broke up with my partner and I don't really know where to go from here
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So you are feeling lonely and bereft? I am sorry to hear that. Can you give me more information?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
Basic story, got back to the United States from deployment.
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Ah, so you were overseas and were conducting the relationship long distance?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
She kept me going while I was gone, but since I returned, she's been so cold to me
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Do you feel that is unfair of her to have done this whilst you were away serving your country?
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Reflection of feelings
Kind of, I know that life moves on while people are away I just don't get it though, I return and this is what I get
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But she should have understood that you were doing your duty whilst also providing for the pair of you Do you think it is possible that she has been unfaithful, or is it something else?
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Possibly, but we weren't official boyfriend/girlfriend
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Ah I see. How committed did you feel to her?
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Maybe it was my indecision to ask her about our relationship Now that I think about it, it seemed more of 80% me, 20% her
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I know, as a woman myself. that it is quite difficult when you are seeing someone but have no idea what their intentions are.
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Self-disclosure
Sure, I guess sex and cuddling is nice, but what I really want is someone to shopping with and eventually build a future
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Have you considered getting some sort of counselling, either just you or as a couple?
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Providing Suggestions
It has peaked my interest, but at the same time, I wonder how much of this is just me buried in the idea of a relationship, even though it's pretty one-sided now Should I seek counseling for a relationship that technically wasn't official?
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I am hearing you say that you still have feelings for her but you are not sure whether to totally break away or not, given that she has
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Affirmation and Reassurance
Yes. I hate how I love her, but I'm not getting the same energy back
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I can't tell you what to do but I think it might be best to go with your gut instinct.
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It will hurt, but it's definitely better just to move on, right? My gut tells me that I'm not going to take 2nd place in her heart
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It has to be your decision but I think you will know if you've made the right one.
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I really appreciate it.
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I hope that I have been able to give you some good advice and that you feel a little clearer about things now.
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Yes, this has helped tremendously
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Thank you for that .. I am glad to have been on assistance. I wish you all the very best in your future, wherever it takes you.
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I appreciate all of your feedback too. It has helped put my mind to rest.
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Thank you and best wishes!
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You too! Take care!
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