i shared somethng with my best ffirend and she betrayed me
Hi, how are you? What would you like to discuss today?
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hi. I am not feeling too well.
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How long have you felt this way?
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i have been feeling this low for close to a month now
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Has there been a big change in your life recently?
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i was having an affair and i confided in my best friend about it. i found out that she told my other 2 friendd about it as well
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Your friend violated a confidence. That sounds difficult.
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i dont know what to do
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How long have you been married?
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10 years
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Is this the first affair that you have had? Has your spouse had any affairs?
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i started having feelings for a guy at work. I worked with him for 8 years and now he left the comapny so i was feeling very depressed and he has a girlfrend now and wont talk to me. my life feels empty. my spouse doesnt know so i shared with my best friend as i wanted her to help me bring that guy back into my life at the same time i dont want to leave my husband as for security reasons
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Ok. It is possible that he will find out. It is better that he find out from you than someone else.
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no then he will leave me and i dont want to be alone/. iam 40 and i cant have kids. my husabnd is a lawyer and we live a comfotable life he can never find out
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If 2-3 people already know, then it's possible for him to find out. Could you go to couple's therapy? That is a good forum for discussing the marriage.
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after i confrotned my firend, she said that my husband doesnt deserve me. and called me manipulative and malicious. I denied the affair and told my other firends that she is lying
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You had an affair because you were dissatisfied with your marriage. Why do you think that was?
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my husband hasnt slept with me for over 4 years
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You want intimacy and affection. What do you think caused the change in his behavior?
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i dont know, he gets mad when i touch him. he wont divorce me either as he wont want to give me money from the divorce
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You don't need permission for a divorce in the US. Where do you live?
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i live in Chicago but i wont be able to support my self and i dont want to be a divorcee i am married to a lawyer and people look up to me
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