my friend stud me up for a weekend trip cost was then all on me and she has been badmouthing me ever since. Saying I am the bad person because of a voicemail left her
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hi how are you
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Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?
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my friend stood me up and i went alone on a trip she was to go with me. I eneded up flipping all the cost and she is bad mouthing me she stood me up because she was drunk she has a drinking problem not good since i told her that drinking is more important to her now she is talking bad about me but she is the one with the problem.
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It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation. Have you explained to her that her excessive drinking is causing problems?
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yes but i am the bad one she turns everything around
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Why is she turning everything around on you?
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she is now also spreading mean rumors about me and dragging my daughter into this I do not know why, maybe so she does not have to admit that she is wrong she is like a narzisist
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That sounds horrible especially that she is dragging your daughter into it.
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Yes it is
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Could you suggest she talks about her issues with a specialist?
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I have done that but she will not admit that she has issues, I hear that she falls of chairs in bars on a regular base. so maybe it is good to not have contact with such an individual
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That is good that you have suggested it to her already. Hopefully she will eventually realise.
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yes thanks for listening
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Correct me if I am wrong, but were you meant to go on a trip somewhere with her?
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yes i was I ended up going alone
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