I have had trouble all my life with depression, but this pandemic seems to be making it worse
I don't know if religion should be introduced?  I don't know. It could help some people.
Do you need "real" conversations or could you use made-up ones?  I think I could have some great conversations where I "play" both parts. I've done that for other hits on Amazon Turk.
I don't know if she stopped talking or not. She seemed happy I helped.
It's a bit confusing, to be honest.
How are you tonight?
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Hello, I've had trouble with depression all my life but it hasn't been so bad in the past few years. But lately, with the pandemic, I seem to be sinking lower and lower
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So it's been more difficult for you to remain cheerful since the plandemic?
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Well, I'm still taking my medication, but now, I seem to be anxious all the time. I really haven't been anxious for over 20 years, but this year has made me a mess!
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I actually have struggled with depression and anxiety most of my life so I can understand.
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It's great to talk to someone who actually knows what it feels like! I've had friends to tell me, "just snap out of it"
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That doesn't sound helpful at all. I have found a few things I do to keep myself from being to worried and depressed. They help a lot.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing,Self-disclosure
It isn't, but I guess it's because they don't really know what *depression* feels like. Really? What do you do? Maybe they could help me.
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True, many people do not understand depression. I actually have found it easier to find a person who DOES understand and not talk to those who don't. When I talk to those who don't, it brings me down, so I find a good friend I can confide in. I can understand being discouraged to and not knowing who will understand you.
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Self-disclosure,Reflection of feelings
Yes!! Talking to someone who doesn't know what it feels like REALLY makes me depressed! I'm wondering if it is the pandemic that is making me feel worse?
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I find it important to take care of my physical being first: eat well, drink water, exercise, get fresh air. Don't wear the mask if you can help it. Seeing smiles helps.
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I haven't been exercising nearly as much since March. Maybe I need to start walking again.
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I personally don't know anyone who has died and my nurse friends say it is no worse than the flu. So I try not to worry. What I think about is so critical. I try to pray about what I can't handle, then move on, change my thoughts. Walking is GREAT! This is a lovely time of year too!
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Others,Affirmation and Reassurance
I have a friend who did get it and almost died. He is 40 and pretty healthy. His wife and daughter got it too. They just had flu-like symptoms, but he was in the hospital for 9 days. That was almost 3 months ago and he is still feeling the effects of it.
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So to recap, find a good friend, get exercise, eat well, talk to people who will try to understand you. And of course, pray. The survival rate is 99.996% so the fact that you know no one who died is good news. I had flu like symptoms before this all happened and I still have a cough. They spray the skies too, so I try to not live in fear. There are a lot of consequences to fear, your heart beats faster, you stress yourself out, so it's important to not focus on negativity for too long.
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I like your idea of changing thoughts. That would help keep me from "going down the rabbit hole!" I had a bad cough and got tested several weeks ago just in case. But I didn't have it.
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Here is a good saying -- if you want to change your feelings, change your thinking. Feelings are like the tail on the dog, they follow thoughts. So keep your thoughts positive, cultivate an attitude of gratitude, even write a list of of things you are thankful for.
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LOL! That's great! I'll have to remember that "feelings are like the tail of the dog"! That's a cheerful way of thinking about it!
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I'm almost 60 and my husband is 66. We refuse to live in fear. These are difficult times, no doubt, but I believe if you take the time to pursue good healthy, you will be better for it, emotionally and mentally and physically. All around! Well, I hope I have encouraged you.
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Others,Self-disclosure
Yes, I think walking, changing my thoughts, praying, and taking care of myself will really help. Yes! You've really helped me out. I just turned 64 and my husband is 69. He is really, really healthy because he takes care of himself so well. He has a handicapped younger sister and he always wanted to be around to take care of her. So he has always taken care of himself! Thanks so much!
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