My best friend flirted with my wife and asked if she wants to have sex with her.
I liked the interaction between the participant and I. I felt like I helped him quite a bit.
No, everything was understandable and easy.
Hi, how are you?
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Hello, not great. How are you?
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I am doing okay, thanks for asking but what's going on with you?
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My wife just told me that yesterday on a party my best friend flirted with my wife and asked her if she wants to have sex with him.
user
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Oh no and how did this make you feel?
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I am disgust and very angry to my friend We've been friend since high school
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I could imagine it did make you feel that way. This person doesn't seem like a friend as he knew that that was your wife.
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I totally agree, it's unacceptable in any society I think I am so angry now I want to smash his face
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Yes, most definitely. Your feelings are very valid in this situation. However, physical violence would not be the best solution because you could get in trouble.
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That's what my wife is also telling me. But what can I do then? I want to smash things now
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First, I would suggest that you distanced yourself or even stopped being friends with this person. Second, for the anger that you feel, there are a lot of things you could do like going running, going for a walk, or even crying It's important that you do not hold these feelings in.
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I don't want to cry sorry, I want hit something
user
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Have you considered punching a bag in the gym? That can be a great way for you to release that anger.
assistant
Providing Suggestions
It would be great, unfortunately I don't go to gym Should I ring him and tell everything I feel about him? What do you thing
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You could definitely call him and express your feelings to him as that would be another great way to get how you're feeling off of your chest.
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Providing Suggestions
I will then definitely ring him. Also I feel so sad because we have a lot of friends in common
user
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I definitely understand how you feel, I've been in the same situation where I'm not friends with a particular person but we have the same friend group. It may be hard in the beginning but the tension and awkwardness should get easier as time goes on. I would suggest that you hang out with these friends without this other friend you're having issues with.
assistant
Self-disclosure
That's for sure but then friends need to decide who to invite
user
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That's okay. Sometimes it may be you or other times it may be him that gets invited but that's how things will be since the situation transpired.
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He did a such stupid thing, now he now only myself and he is affected but also our friends
user
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That's very true. Don't bring the situation to your friends though because they had nothing to do with it. Only the friend who did the action should be affected.
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yeah true. Thank you for you help I will ring him soon
user
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No problem, I really hope that you can get a peace of mind from this situation. I wish you the best of luck!
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