My boyfriend broke up with me, but we live together and have roommates. Now he is turning the roommates against me.
i liked the anonymity which allowed me to be honest about my feelings
its very good, actually
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I am sooo pissed at my ex.
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Hai
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hi
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why? Any problem?
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well we were together for 3 years. he broke up with me a week ago but we're on the lease for the apartment and share the place with 5 other people. He moved into the room we had open. but now he's turning my roommates against me i think he's pissed because i'm dating my other ex again.
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oh, you settle elsewhere
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you think i should move?
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yes
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This place is amazing tho and my dad is the cosigner. the landlord would never let my roomies take over the lease with their credit. i'm thinking of kicking all them out, actually i dont want to. i just want to be friends witgh everyone again. we were all so close
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ok clarify your friendship value
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I have 2 roommates that actually moved here with me from my previous apartment. The rest r new but they're sweet and we've really bonded we all tripped shrooms together one night and we are like really close now
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ok, tell your friend what you think.
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it's just sooo uncomfortable to discuss. what if im just being paranoid. i mean part of me feels like they just feel awkward and arent icing me out on purpose
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clarify, what you think
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i mean no one has specifically said anything to me that was negative, but suddenly i feel like people are avoiding me. we used to hang out in the living room all the time and we would eat these big meals, but yesterday i came home and they were all cooking with my ex. they said they made enough for me but it seemed like such an after thought
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That problem would not be possible if you did not speak
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you mean if we DID speak?
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Tell them what you think in your mind and they will surely understand.
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i think i just want to know that we're all still friends, i guess. I want our house to feel like home, again.
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ok, you clarify your reasons for them.
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ok, yeah you're right. I just need to have a conversation with them. I guess. thank you
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