I feel like my employees are working against me.
hello, how may i help you today?
assistant
Question
Hi, how are you?
user
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i am good how are you?
assistant
Question
I feel like one of my employees is gossiping and seeking attention of my bosses.
user
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why do you feel like that?
assistant
Others
I am not sure. She is telling me things that by supervisor should tell me. She is saying "He told me this...".
user
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have you asked your supervisor about it?
assistant
Others
Not yet. It just started last week. I am thinking about asking this week. He usually calls me.
user
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i can understand how you are feeling i have been through some situations like that before
assistant
Reflection of feelings
Thanks. Have you tried anything that has been helpful?
user
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what i did is just talk to the person about the situation and let them know how i was feeling
assistant
Providing Suggestions
Should I talk with my employee first or my boss?
user
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i would talk to your boss first that would be best let him know everything you are feeling just don't worry to much about the situation and don't let it stress you out everything will be okay
assistant
Providing Suggestions,Others,Affirmation and Reassurance
That sounds like a good plan. I am only stressed because it is hurtful and my employee likes to beb the center of attention.
user
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I understand what you mean about that just do not worry about people like that your main focus is doing your job people are going to talk but you have to just ignore them and move on do not worry about what people say or think about you
assistant
Self-disclosure,Information
Yeah. I am trying to detach from it but my ego is getting hurt, which usually doesn't happen.
user
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you will be okay no matter what
assistant
Self-disclosure
That means a lot. That was a nice thing to say!
user
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the only way the situation will be solved is by communicating and expressing your feelings
assistant
Providing Suggestions