He broke up with me few years ago because we fought a lot
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Hello I'm Sean how are you today?
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Hi, I'm not good. And you?
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I'm having a fine day, tell me why your not doing so well my friend?
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My exboyfriend broke up with me because we fight a lot
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When did you break up? How long have you been dating. Why do you fight so much? Any reasons in particular? I'm very sorry that your boyfriend and you are fighting a lot. Tell me what's going on.
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Few years ago. We have been date for almost one year. We fight for many things Perhaps the fights are silly but we fight a lot, and I think it's normal to fight but not all the times
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One year is quite a while. You should know each other's pet peeves by now. can you explain some examples of reason why you fight. Birds of a feather flock together meaning that fighting with each other does not work and never will. I want to know what you fight about to see if it is silly or not. Can you give me a few "silly" examples? I wont be embarrassed. As long as he is not physical abusive most things can be worked out due to communication.
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We're looking for restaurants and I didn't want one of what he said and then we start arguing
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Try and find food that you both enjoy and compromise.
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We're cooking and instead of him helping me, he was disturbing me and then we start fighting
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say he wants pizza and you want chinese, say well you know what lets get a burger so neither of us win or loses.
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probably it's true
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Tell him that if he wants his food he needs to leave you alone. you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him. listen to me
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Yes, we're going to talk about it it's better for both of us
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go to a table and comfortable table and stare at him straight in the eye. Tell him your concerns that you are fighting too much and that it is ruining your love and relationship. STARE INTO HIS EYES and see what he says.
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The eyes is the key for everything I'll do it
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If he is evasive, the eyes are the windows into the soul. Make him promise you that you will stop fighting or else you are going to find another man who will appreciate you.
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a ultimate for him
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it's called the take-away in psychological sales.
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It's going to help me I didn't know thay
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of course it will.
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that*
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look it up. do you love this man?
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I'll look it up. Thank you yes, I love him Thank you. Bye
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Then you sit down and have a serious talk and do what I say and see what happens. EYES ARE KEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ok, I'll do it. thanks. Bye
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