I dont know what to do with out her.
no
it was great
everything was fine
none i can think of
I dont know how to live without my girlfriend. She broke up with me suddenly.
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Ok, can you tell me how long ago this happened.
assistant
Question
a week ago.
user
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So your girlfriend broke up with you a week ago and you have no idea how to move forward. Is that correct
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
yes. she was my rock.
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You know I am sure that hurts but like they say that "time heals all wounds"
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but, i have been with her for 3 years. She is a part of my everyday life. we split household chores. now im overwhelmed
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That is a long time. Event though she was your rock, just know that you will eventually find someone new and this hurt will be no more.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
But im not sure how to survive in the time being. my life will be a disaster.
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I can feel your pain, i have had similar experience and it took quite a while to move on, but know that this too will pass
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Reflection of feelings
I dont have the time to do all she did to maintain my house. What am i supposed to do now she is gone.
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There was a time when I had a breakup that left me feeling like it was the end of the world, but i am fine now and so would you. Take some long walks but he sure to socially distance and try meeting new friends online and just talk. That will help
assistant
Self-disclosure
But what about my dishes, and bathroom cleaning that she did, and i dont have time to do? My house is already starting to look terrible since she has left.
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think about it, the added exercise will help you from getting lonely with her not being around
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But i have never done laundry. My mother did it when i lived with her. and i moved out from my mother to live with my girlfriend. How am i gonna do my laundry? I've never done it.
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If you focus too much on the break up, you will have a hard time getting over her so try to do some fun activities that you can enjoy alone so that you are safe. You can search youtube on how to do laundry and other chores, you will be ok
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Thank you for your advice. It probably isnt that hard. I just am nervous about trying to do it myself for the first time. Its starting to pile up now.
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Don't be nervous, Just take some time to learn the house chores and you'll be fine
assistant
Providing Suggestions
It'll be new, but i guess i could at least try. But i miss her so much. I dont think i can ever find someone else like her.
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You will find that someone. Hope I was able to make you feel a bit better.
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You are very positive. I wish i had your positivity.
user
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Think of the glass half full. You will do well.
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