My friend didn't like it that he dumped me. She told him he was an idiot to do that.
they gave me good advice
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How can I help you
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hi. my friend told my ex boyfriend he was an idiot for dumping me. it made me feel uncomfortable since i was in the same room. now he is talking to me again. i think he might want me back
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What are your thoughts on the relationship?
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my feelings fluctuate. i resent him that he ended it. it confuses me he still wants to be in my life. he said he wanted to be friends but then asked me out again. i think he is trying to work his way back in. i know i can't keep it up unless he makes it clear he wants to be with me. i don't have time for games
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That does sound hard that he is giving mixed signals.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
yeah i don't like that. neither does my friend. why she told him he is an idiot for letting me go
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Do you think he took your friend's comments seriously?
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yes cuz that's when he wanted me to be around him more
user
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It sounds like your friend got him thinking.
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
it seemed like it did
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Do you feel his change is genuine?
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to a degree. i think he has ulterior motives too.
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What would he have to do to prove himself?
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say he wants me back or something to that effect. i'd like him to be more direct in what he wants from me
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It sounds like it would help if he were direct with you and not sending mixed signals. Is that correct? It sounds like it would help if he were direct with you and not sending mixed signals. Is that correct?
assistant
Reflection of feelings,Reflection of feelings
yes that would be nice. he tends to beat around the bush then lets me know
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Have you talked to anyone else besides your friend about your concerns? Do you think your family or other friends could give some additional support to you?
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yes i've talked to them about it. they've given me some insight into it. i know they want me to be careful. they don't want me to be hurt
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That's understandable that they want you to be careful. My parents and friends watched out for me too.
assistant
Self-disclosure
we are lucky they look out for us. they can't all be wrong if they're guiding us a certain way
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I think you hit the nail on the head that it's helpful to have that support.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
absolutely. i appreciate your help! nity nite
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Thanks. Can I assist you with anything else?
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nope. im good
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