I breakup with my girlfriend because she cheated me
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no it went well
it worked great
Hi there, how are we doing today?
assistant
Question
little depressed
user
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I am sorry to hear that youre feeling depressed, do you want to say whats going on?
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
yeah, i broke up with my girl y esterday
user
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Sorry to hear, if you dont mind me asking, Why did the break up happen?
assistant
Question
she cheated me by having another relationship with her cousin it feels so hurting
user
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I have been there myself with a cheating spouse, I know it is rough, especially so close to when it happened. I can assure you it does get better though.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
i can't bear her activity and when i asked about it she lies at me and afterwards showing rude attitude towards me
user
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I think the best thing you can do right now is distance yourself from her. It sounds like she is acting toxic and you do not need that right now. I am happy to help and talk with you, but might i suggest going to a local therapist or counselor?
assistant
Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions
yeah, i think so. but i can't control my sadness of being betrayed by my loved one
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It will take time, the best way to let it not control you is by talking about it. You gain control over it that way. Being betrayed by someone you love is one of the biggest heart breaks there is. You have to focus on yourself and healing that wound.
assistant
Information,Providing Suggestions
but how can i get out of it, it does so hurting. we are in a relationship of almost 4 years
user
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It will not be a quick process that i can heal right now. The best way to get out of it is to see a professional. There are many out there that work on a sliding scale or even free. They will help guide you back to yourself.
assistant
Providing Suggestions
I think so, do i need to concentrate on the activities like achieve my goal
user
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Yes do you have any specific goals right now? or even hobbies you are working on?
assistant
Information
yes i need to get a good job
user
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I know its tough out there for that as well. I had gotten furloughed but i didnt let pride get in the way and took what i could find for now. Have you worked on your resume or updated it?
assistant
Providing Suggestions,Providing Suggestions
yes am working in a restaurant as supervisor
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I worked in restaurants all my life. Its tough but rewarding. Have you looked into moving up from a supervisor? Maybe talk with your boss? Hello are you there?
assistant
Providing Suggestions,Others
yes i wants to become a hotel owner
user
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Well you have the real world experience which is good. Have you thought about doing some classes at a local community college to help with that?
assistant
Providing Suggestions
yes i will
user
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That is great news! See we already got your mind off your girlfriend. You'll be back on your feet stronger than ever soon.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
yes, i think so... thank you for your suggestions
user
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you are very welcome. Is there anything else on your mind?
assistant
Others
not now
user
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Well, that is good, Just start focusing on yourself, my friend.
assistant
Providing Suggestions
yeah, thank you my friend
user
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Great, feel free to end the chat so you can get started on bettering yourself!
assistant
Providing Suggestions
ok friend thanks a lot
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