my girlfriend dumped me. sad.
i loved it, good therapy
nope i dig it.
Hello there, how is life treating you today?
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terrible, i got dumped. the other day. im alone during a pandemic.
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Your partner has left you? I am very sorry to hear that. How long were you together for?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
7 years
user
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Wow that is a really long time. I can understand why you are feeling so lousy. Is there any chance of reconciliation?
assistant
Question
probably not. or at least i dont see that happening in the near future they cheated on me
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I remember when my partner left me after eight years I felt that I was never going to get over it. I was angry and miserable for a very long time.
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Self-disclosure
thats what im expecting to be. oh well, at least with the year we have all had i can just add this to the pile.
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Yes it has been a really terrible year for all of us. I am so sorry that this happened to you on top of everything else! I know how bad it feels but I can promise you that it will fade after time.
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Others,Affirmation and Reassurance
thanks, its been tough. i still have my dog at least.
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Ah dogs are absolutely wonderful companions aren't they? Especially when the world is so isolated right now
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she is super cuddly. this would be extremely hard without her.
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What breed of dog is she? I have two cats and they have been really helping me when I've been feeling low.
assistant
Self-disclosure
i actually dont know. she's a rescue from mexico. she's a mix breed. maybe some whipit and lab. she looks like dobby from harry potter lol
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Rescues are the best. My two are rescues and it took them a while to trust me but now they love me unconditionally. It is good that you have a pet in your life .. much better than your useless ex I think!
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haha yep. i think my dog is thrilled with having the extra bed space, as mean as that sounds
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LOL well it's good that you are able to look on the bright side about this. Have you considered making plans for the future, once the pandemic is over?
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Providing Suggestions
Yep, ill be getting back to my life and plans after. i have a bad heart condition so ive had to stay inside pretty much all year. also another messed up thing my ex did to me, cheated on me and then came back into the house. she could have passed it to me.
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I am sorry to hear about your heart condition, that obvious compounds your problems. I believe that things are going to improve in the New Year though Let's face it, there does come a time when it seems that not much can get worse
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Others
and thats when it gets worse haha
user
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Try to look on the bright side of things :) At least you can't be dumped twice ;)
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
haha thats true. thats comforting thanks
user
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I hope that one day you feel that you will be able to date and trust another person though. Don't let one bad apple put you off for life. Anyway it has been very nice to chat, I hope that I was able to be of help
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Others,Others
totally, thanks.
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