The person who I thought was my best friend and who is God mother to my child, stabbed me in the back. She knew that I was in an emotionally abuse relationship yet she disclosed information to my partner that could have cost me my life or put my life at risk.
No. It was very interesting and engaging
Everything worked smoothly. No complaints
I'm happy I helped!
Nothing comes to mind
Hello! How are you today?
assistant
Question
Hello. I am alright and yourself? I am just a little bit upset at the situation
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I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are upset
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
I thought I could trust my best friend. I really saw her as my sister. ..but I was wrong I am not sure how to deal with this
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I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way Have you tried talking to her?
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Providing Suggestions
I have spoken to her. At first she stated that she was angry at me after speaking with my partner. Then the second time she told me that it wasn't worth telling him everything and that she was sorry, But our friendship will never be the same. I lost a best friend at the end of the day and my daughter lost her God mother
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wow, there is a lot going on for sure, I hope it assures you too know that tough times to pass. Do you have another outlet? Someone else to turn to? Maybe get a hug?
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Information
Yes I truly believe that. I have my family .. they live about an hour away but they are very good listeners
user
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Waiting for the time to pass is like torture sometimes, I know I am happy you have more support Do you have a car or a way to get there if you wanted to?
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Restatement or Paraphrasing,Question
I think the hardest thing that I am going to have to surpass is being able to trust again.
user
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well the fact that you recognize that is a big deal
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
I personally do not own a vehicle of my own. It is one that belongs to my partner. I am trying to save up to get my own
user
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Accepting the truth is the hardest That is great you have started saving
assistant
Reflection of feelings,Restatement or Paraphrasing
I figured if I don't, I would probably have a hard time getting over it you know?
user
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there are many new money saving APP's out there, some make it easy to achieve a goal, maybe that is something you could check out?
assistant
Providing Suggestions
Yeah.. but how does one go about gaining back the trust of others or getting themselves to that state of mind where they are comfortable with it again?
user
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I understand what you are saying
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
Yes for sure. I am going to look up some apps. thank you for that
user
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Opening themselves up to the opportunity to be hurt again..... that is the only way to know whether you will love or trust someone, the trickiness that is life!
assistant
Others,Reflection of feelings
Not to be hurt again ..to be open enough to trust someone again.. I hear you
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that is the sad thing, you kind of have to accept that getting hurt will always be a possibility, maybe it won't sting as much when someone has to go an prove you right.... that's my thought
assistant
Self-disclosure,Self-disclosure
Truth. I guess I just have to keep that kind of mindset. Go into things and enjoy them but proceed with caution?
user
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Yes! That is a great way to put it!
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it.
user
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Just never forget you are worthy of love, happiness, and nothing but good things
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
I feel a little brighter having spoken to someone about it. Thank you for that tip as well
user
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I am happy I could help
assistant
Others
I needed to hear that
user
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Things will look up! I am happy you let the words sink in!
assistant
Providing Suggestions,Others
I really have hope that they will :)
user
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a smile face is a good sign!
assistant
Others
I appreciate your help. Have a great day. Thank you again
user
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