I let the best lady in the world get away from me.
I liked her help.
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Hello, what would you like to talk about?
assistant
Question
How empty my life is.
user
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Why do you feel like your life is empty?
assistant
Question
The love of my life is no longer in my life.
user
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I'm really sorry to hear that.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
Yes, she left me for her supervisor at work.
user
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Was this a recent event?
assistant
Question
Yes, five days ago.
user
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Wow, that's really a hard thing to deal with isn't it?
assistant
Question
It sure is. She told me this guy was sexually harassing her at work, then I find out she is leaving me for this guy.
user
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Hmm, it sounds like she isn't being completely honest with you. I've been left before too. It was one of the most painful experiences of my life.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Self-disclosure
I think she liked all of the attention he was giving her, and then she got turned on by it. It is sick. I can't believe anyone would ever leave you, you seem like such a nice person.
user
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Maybe she did like the attention, but that is her own issue. It really doesn't have anything to do with you. Sometimes low self worth makes a person seek that kind of exterior validation from someone else.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Information
I should have followed and stalked her like this guy did, it seems to turn her on, she said she likes being watched. I told her to see a therapist and she told me to leave our apartmnent.
user
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That doesn't sound healthy to you, does it?
assistant
Question
Yes, I think she has low self esteem, but she let me do things with her, we would experiment sexually together, it was wild. But now I think she is not healthy and has mental issues.
user
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so, do you think that was the only way she could connect with you, through sex?
assistant
Question
I think so, she also liked to peg me. It was very intense, I have never submitted like that to anyone.
user
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Is this your first serious relationship?
assistant
Question
Yes, I guess I don't have good luck with women. Maybe I need to go back to call girls, they are easier to deal with.
user
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It sounds like you enjoyed the sex a lot, but you also want an emotional connection to a woman.
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Yes totally. Some of the prostitutes are very sweet, but they don't want anything too long term. Just a weekend at most. Well thank you, you have been very helpful, I feel better now.
user
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