My mother recently passed, a month ago due to being an alcoholic for many years.
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I very much enjoyed this task! The seeker was very honest and did an excellent job at keeping the conversation going.
I was flagged twice and told that my dialogue seemed similar to things that I had typed before. However, if you read the conversation, you'll see that this was not the case. I think this type of feedback should be given after the conversation is reviewed by someone rather than simply being based on keywords that show up.
Hello! How are you doing today?
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Hello, I'm having a very rough day, how are you?
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I'm doing well, thank you! I'm sorry to hear that you're having a rough day. Do you mind me asking what happened to make you feel that way?
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Question
My mother passed away about a month ago due to alcoholism, it has been rough attempting to cope with the many different emotions.
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I am so sorry to hear that. My brother suffers from alcoholism as well. I know how worrisome and difficult it can be. I still have a hard time dealing with my emotions. What different types of emotions are you feeling?
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Self-disclosure
I'm so sorry that it's a situation that you can relate to, its such a hard situation watching someone drink their life away no matter what you do until they eventually pass away from it. I can say my anxiety has increased immensely as well as depression. It seems that quite a bit of pressure has been placed on me because of the family business she ran and my dad who is now trying to live without her.
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Wow, that really is a lot to deal with. It seems as though you have a good understanding of what you're feeling but that you are trying to figure out how to move forward from here. It seems like you are trying to figure out how to work through your feelings as well as how to manage and deal with the pressure that has been put on you as a result. Does that sound accurate to you?
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Reflection of feelings
It definitely does, I know it feels like quite a bit now but will gradually become easier to deal with.
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That is a great attitude to have. I'm very proud of you for trying to stay positive and for reassuring yourself that it will become easier for you to deal with over time. You sound like an incredibly strong person!
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Affirmation and Reassurance
Thank you so much! That means a lot just to hear and I think it is incredibly refreshing talking to someone that has a fresh mind about all of it rather than another family member that is attempting to cope with the same situation.
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You're very welcome! I know from experience that it is usually best and much easier to talk to someone on the outside who doesn't know all of the ins and outs of what you are experiencing. Have you considered any ways in which you could start to work through what you're feeling?
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Information,Providing Suggestions
Very true, especially someone who is willing to listen and provide advice or positive conversation. Yes, I have begun a new medication that will hopefully help soon, I have also begun focusing on different hobbies that I enjoy so that I can keep my mind busy.
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It's great to hear that you are on a medication that will hopefully help you. Have you also considered speaking to an outpatient therapist or someone along those lines? That way, you could return to the same person as often as you feel necessary to continue to work through your feelings with someone who isn't directly involved with your situation. I think that focusing on different hobbies that you enjoy is an incredible way to take your mind off of everything and to keep yourself busy! What types of hobbies are you into?
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Providing Suggestions,Others
I haven't thought too much about it, but I do think it might be a great time and something that will be necessary in order for self healing and really to just express the up and down emotions that occur. I have recently fallen in love with wood working and different crafting. I enjoy being able to use my hands and become proud once i finish an accomplishment.
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I completely agree. I used to see a therapist. It was very difficult for me to do in the beginning, but once I got to know them, they provided me with coping strategies that otherwise, I never would have thought of. One of my favorites that he introduced me to was guided meditation. Have you ever heard of it?
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I have not, I think if i feel that I can open up quickly, it would be extremely beneficial.
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That sounds awesome! You should look into a relatively new craft called diamond painting. I started doing them back in 2018 and it completely turns my brain off from the outside world.
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Providing Suggestions
I have been looking at them recently and think I might just order one! Thank you for the advice!
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