when i was in school we both joined school on same day .we were sit beside each other and became good friends from on words .we completed schooling and started living together, we settled in good jobs too .we were so happy and loved each other.But he met an colleague in office and started cheating me , because she has lot of money .That broke my heart.We separated .I went to depression in this covid time
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good evening .How are you .Thanks for sending message to support me from depression
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No problem, what seems to be causing your depression tonight?
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Question
i breakup with my childhood lover
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So if I understand correctly you just recently went through a breakup with a longtime partner?
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
yes. we are more than lovers .we grown up each other since 11 years .
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From our short chat so far I can tell you are really heartbroken about this break up.
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Reflection of feelings
thats hurting me lot .why he loves another girl with lot of money
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I know how hard this is, but I also know you can get through it!
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Affirmation and Reassurance
yes. i working in good company and earning nice pay , but still he cheated me . but how can i overcome this ? my heart is not yet all agree for this
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I recently went through the same kind of break up where my fiancé cheated on me and got pregnant with another man, so I know how much this hurts. Have you been able to talk to him about why he decided to leave you? Sometimes it helps to get closure on a situation like this,
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Self-disclosure,Providing Suggestions
is it ? how did u overcome from this yes i spoken , he saying he need more money which i have not much .only money he left me
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So what you are saying is that the only reason he left you was because you were not financially stable enough for him.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
yes. what ever i earning every month i sent to him .he sold my house too and enjoyed that money as well
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You seem like a really great person for doing all of that for him and you definitely deserve someone who is in it for much more than just money!
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Affirmation and Reassurance
but i am not in mood to trust anybody because i loved him since 15 years
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Have you been able to talk to any of your close friends or family about the situation? Sometimes it helps to talk to someone close to you about things like this.
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Providing Suggestions
i told to my mom , she said we already knew that he is a money minded .So take lite and move forthuer
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That sounds like really great advice from your mother! I also found it helped me a lot when going through my situation to get really involved in my hobbies to take my mind off things.
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Others,Providing Suggestions
yea , my parents always supported me .I would have listened their voices earlier
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It is great to have supportive parents!
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yes will start my reading habit may it willbe helped me lot
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Good idea
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thank you for ur time and support
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