Spouse wants a hall pass for the holiday
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Hello
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how are you doing how are you doing
assistant
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good and you?
user
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i am good too
assistant
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My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas
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what's up with you
assistant
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Basically he wants to sleep with someone else for a change
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let me get you right, you mean you guy want to cheat on and he told you about it
assistant
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yes he wants me to know so that he doesn't feel guilty about it
user
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wow, that will be tough on you because even if you said no, he might just do it without telling you
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Exactly.... he said I can do it behind your back without you ever knowing but I would rather be honest with you
user
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i can feel your anger and disappointment. my ex cheated on me before and it hurts like hell my ex cheated on me before and it hurts like hell
assistant
Reflection of feelings,Self-disclosure,Self-disclosure
I told him I don't want that to happen but he offered whatever I wanted no matter the price and all I could think was I just want him to be faithful He told me not to take it personally because it is just lust and that he loves me only
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since when have you guys been together
assistant
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Actually, today is our 4th year anniversary
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that's a long time.
assistant
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Yes I guess he just wants a change
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have you guys seen a therapist
assistant
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No but I am thinking about i it*
user
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every relationship has it's ups and down, just make sure you guys talk to an expert and make reason out of this . therapy has help my relationship a great deal
assistant
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I will definitely look into it. You are a great listener and I feel better now that I spoke to someone about this issue
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good, and make sure you are not too visibly angry at him for telling you. just help him trough the process
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