I am nervous and anxious about my status with my friends. I am not sure what I mean to them and if I am easily replaceable.
I did not really like not knowing the information the supporter was given.
Maybe a better or more accurate timer of how much of the conversation has gone by.
Hello Are you able to see my situation I typed? Is there someone there?
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Sorry I'm here, please tell me you problems
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
Just having problems with some friends. I feel like I am being left out.
user
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Why do you think that way?
assistant
Question
They leave me out of planned outings from time to time. They also do not seem to care if I come or go when I am invited
user
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Have you asked your friends regarding this?
assistant
Reflection of feelings
I have not
user
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Okay, maybe you should ask your friends, let them know how you feel and see what they say about it
assistant
Providing Suggestions
Okay, I may try that. What do you think I should do if they are negatively receptive of it?
user
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Under any circumstances, make sure you know you are not at wrong here.I hope it will not be the case but your friends might try victim blaming So keep your stance and keep asking for the answer
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Providing Suggestions
Yeah, I don't want it to come off as an attack on my end. Maybe I should wait, see if the issue occurs continuously, note that it has been observed on multiple occasions, and then stand my ground?
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I'm pretty this has happened a few times already, hasn't it? so you have every right to be upset and confront them, you shouldn't feel like you're attacking. You are just asking for what you deserve
assistant
Question,Affirmation and Reassurance
Yes, but I feel like I need proof, you know? Like how you previously said, to make sure I am not in the wrong That's true!
user
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What you need to do is note down the occasions where they exclude you and ask exactly what happened then
assistant
Providing Suggestions
Okay makes sense Then, I can ask like, was there a reason why I was not invited on this instance? Did I do anything to offend, etc
user
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Yes, that's good, ask them if you did something that offended them and why they excluded you. If they deny, then you can tell them how you feel. If they care about your friendship they will do something to fix
assistant
Providing Suggestions
That is good advice. What is your advice if I still come out of the situation negatively (e.g. the friends do not seem to care about the friendship?)
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