Going through a divorce.  Wife is cheating on me.
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Hello
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How are you tonight?
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I'm hanging in there or trying to. How are you?
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I'm doing well. What can I help you with?
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I'm having a lot of anxiety and anger issues. My wife wants a divorce.
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I am very sorry to hear that. Did she give you reasons why she wants a divorce?
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I want to work on the marriage. She doesn't even want to talk. She found someone else. I'm not even sure why she was looking. She shouldnt of been talking to anyone like that.
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Just from the few messages we have exchanged I can tell you are very upset about this.
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I am so upset. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I can hardly get up and function.
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I completely understand, my ex-wife also found someone else while we were married and decided she wanted a divorce.
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Self-disclosure
I don't understand why people even get married if they are going to look for someone else. We could of just staid dating.
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Have you asked her about why she started looking for someone else? Sometimes it helps to get some closure and understand the reasons why.
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She won't talk to me. I am out of state (back home with family). She told me when I was up here. She blocked me on everything. This new person is already living with her or staying there all the time. When I call this other person answers her phone and talks trash. She won't let me talk to my wife at all. And obviously my wife does not attempt to talk to me.
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Have you reached out to others who have been through this situation? It also helps to be able to talk to people who have been through the same things as us.
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I have joined some facebook groups with other that were cheated on while married.
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That is definitely a good start! What are some hobbies you enjoy?
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I use to love to craft and sell stuff on Etsy. Since this has all gone on I have a hard time doing any of it.
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I would definitely get back into that stuff too! It helps to distract yourself with things you enjoy!
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I am trying. I try to listen to music too but every song reminds me of her.
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I had that problem as well, but doing things I enjoyed definitely helped to get my mid off of my ex-wife leaving.
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Self-disclosure
I have to listen to music that I did not with her...which is limited.
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I know this is extremely hard, but I know you can get through this!
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I wish I knew what the secret was to just not love her anymore.
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I can understand that. Try and find new music, maybe something you haven't listened to before!
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I feel like she shut off her feelings for me. I wish I knew how to do the same.
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I had a really difficult time with that as well, I just tried to make sure I stuck with my hobbies and distract myself.
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I keep trying to distract myself. It's so much easier to lay in bed and do nothing
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What other things do you like to do for fun?
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I don't even know anymore I feel like I need to find new hobbies
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I think finding new hobbies would be good. Try new things, things you haven't done before.
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I will do taht
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I think it will definitely help
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Well it was nice talking to you Thanks for listening
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