My boyfriend got involved with someone else and it looks like he prefers that person over me.
Good morning how r u Hope u r having a good dfay
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Hello
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How r u today
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Not really. I have been sad for a while.
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What seems to be the issue Can you talk about what is going on
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I found out that my boyfriend who I thought was serious with me got involved with someone else.
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Wow that is not a happy situation. How long ago I can assume you had been together for awhile
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It was going on for couple of months but I only found out last week.
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Had you been together for awhile
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We were together for over a year but we got serious quickly. At least that's what it seemed like because he talked marriage.
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So he wanted you and made you feel special Was the other person someone you knew as well
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Absolutely. He said all the right words. But I guess he did the same with this other girl. She was actually his ex but he told me they were done.
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Seems like he was playing the field not just you but the other as well Did he have children with his x I can understand your sadness
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He was. Except she still doesn't know about me. No children.
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Has he been contacting you lately
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It is very hard for me because I feel lost. He was a huge part of my life and I thought my future. Now I don't know what to do.
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was he your 1st love
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Not my first love but the first guy I talked marriage with. He still talks to me. It is kind of hard when you are used to talk a lot every day for over a year.
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How did you meet each other He must still care because he is talking with you, but he is also involved with his x
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His family member was a friend of mine. I think he does but it is more convenient to be with his ex.
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Has the COVID interfered with you There is another way to look at this
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Yes it has. We are in different countries and his ex is in the same country as him.
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You sound very attractive and other men would love you fro who u r So it is safe to ay the chances of seeing each other is going to be impossible for a while Would it be safe for you to try and chat with someone online that would care for you
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Thank you. I hope it will get easier with time. It just takes me a long time to fully trust someone and this experience just made it a lot worse. I think I will go stay with my family for some time. That way I won't feel lonely and I won't miss my ex as much.
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It may take a little time but watch your heart. it is very easy to break
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True. At least I can rely on my family.
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Surround yourself with family and friends. You might be surprised the person you meet wil be right there waiting
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Yes thank you for the encouragement.
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Love is a funny Thing. U don't see the true love until you are in a spot of least accommodating Step out and be patient. Don't allow feelings to control u but let your heart tell you it is real Hope this helped
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It did. I needed to talk to someone about it and I needed some encouragement. Thank you for listening to me and thank you for your help.
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Just be yourself. Have a Merry Christmas
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Will do. Thanks again, you have yourself a Merry Christmas too.
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