My boyfriend cheated on me so I broke up with him.
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Hi there, I was hoping to get some support. I'm having a hard time with things.
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Ho, Can you please tell me specifically what things you are having a hard time with.
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Question
I broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated on me.
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I hear you saying that your boyfriend broke up with you. Is that correct
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
Yes, that's correct. I'm heartbroken! Wait, no. I broke up with my boyfriend. he didn't break up with me
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I am sorry to hear that. Can you tell me what led to the breakup
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I caught him cheating on me with my best friend. They were together at the movies and I caught them
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Ok, that sounds like a terrible thing. Just know that it is not your fault that this happen. It is not a reflection on you.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
Are you sure? Because I keep wondering what I did wrong for him to cheat
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You did nothing wrong, when people cheat it is their own issue they must deal with. You must be feeling horrible,but know that it will be ok, there is someone who will treat you with more respect
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Reflection of feelings
I appreciate you saying that. It makes me feel a bit better! Do you have any advice about how I can take my mind off of things?
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Do not let this affect your self esteem, as you are a valuable person. Take long walks, spend time enjoying your own company and know that you are worth it You can also try spending time just talking to others as just friends but not getting emotionally involved.
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Self-disclosure,Others
Taking a long walk is great advice. Perhaps I will try doing that more often. The fresh air always does me good. I have a lot of friends I can talk to about this but unfortunately COVID makes it difficult to see them.
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Great, it will make you feel so much better about yourself and help you put things in perspective. You will eventually see your ex-partner for who he is.
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Information
I have some weight to lose, so taking a walk would help me with that also. Added bonus!
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Great, so you can look and feel great. With COVID around, it is not the best time to go out and mingle but you can surely look around online and finds some online friends so that when social distancing is no longer an issue you can meet others
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Providing Suggestions
That's not a bad idea either. I think I'm feeling much better now
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Wonderful, I am glad I can be of assistance Have a wonderful day
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You too :)
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