freind is a drunk and nobody told her besides me now she is mad at me
I like this task it makes me happy to give some hope to a person with trouble.
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is anyone here
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hi!!
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hi\
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how is your day?
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Question
no to good my friend is a drunk and nobody not even her husband tells her that hse is having a problem, so i did tell her now she is spreading lies about me and what a terrible person i am
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oh no that's really not good
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Affirmation and Reassurance
no I mean she really has issues she gets drunk and mean , falls of chairs in bars and that at least 3-4 times a week, her husband does not say a word since she iis in my oppinion verbally abusive to him
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ok ok I could understand now
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Affirmation and Reassurance
so what do you think i should do u still there?
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What you have did so far is absolutely correct You worry for your friend is also correct, I think you need to be with your friend in this situation whatever she says about you yeah I am here
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Reflection of feelings,Others
she does not talk to me anymore blocked me on social media, and goes around and says I am just trying to cause trouble for her
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I think you just give some time to your friend to realize what she is doing now.
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
she is going to loose custody of her child if her ex find out she is always drunk
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oh no it seems to be a big problem
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Reflection of feelings
I think so and there is no talking to her she does not admit that she has a problem, she is trying to casue issues between me and my husband
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If she is not accepting her fault directly you need to find some other way to make her realize her current situation and consecquence
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
like what for example, talking does not work? so call the cops on her?
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I don't don't calling cops as good. We need to do in some other way to make her realize .
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Self-disclosure
not sure what the best way is to deal with this, or should I just step back and let it be if even her husband does not care?
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you can talk to her mother and some other persons close to her and who really cares her
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Providing Suggestions
I might try that. Thanks for listening
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you are welcome.
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