I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore
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I can't seem to connect with friends much anymore.
user
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That must be hard to not be with friends so much. Being social is human.
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
I miss them so much, but don't know how to connect.
user
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Have you tried calling them to express your concerns?
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Question
I did but they want to meet in person and I just can't
user
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It sounds like you are trying. Have you expressed to them why you feel the way you do?
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
I've tried to but I don't think they take the COVID seriously.
user
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That can be hard when there are different viewpoints on such a big issue.
assistant
Reflection of feelings
It sure is. Do you have any suggestions?
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Do you think that having a friend intervene and having a third party help out could help?
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Question
That could possibly work. My friend is so much more receptive to my other friend in hearing her out. Maybe she could assist.
user
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That sounds like a great idea. It sounds like you are thinking of alternate paths to work through the friendship. Your friend will appreciate all the efforts you are making to show you care.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Reflection of feelings
Yes, I'm trying my best
user
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Do you think your friends would like a card?
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Question
I think that might show I care too and be helpful.
user
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My mother-in-law often sends cards for each holiday because she can't leave her home due to illness. I know deep down she cares even though she is not in person.
assistant
Self-disclosure
You make a good point.
user
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Sometimes patience can make the difference in a relationship. Do you feel like you have any other concerns?
assistant
Reflection of feelings
I think I'm starting to feel better about the situation and trying to be more positive.
user
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I'm happy to hear that. Keep positive as you are trying hard to go down the right path and your friends will appreciate that.
assistant
Reflection of feelings