Ex girlfriend issues.
Hi! How is life treating you right now? (apologies for the delay, I was afk)
assistant
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ITs been better. I am dealing with issues in life.
user
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What sort of issues are you having? I am happy to listen
assistant
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she was giving her kids who were 12 and 15 drugs, I turned her in to CPS for it. The relationship ended in a fury and a mess.
user
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Who is she? A partner, a sister or similar? I am glad you turned her in, whoever she was.
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
girlfriend. well ex girlfriend.
user
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That is a really lousy thing for her to have done. I am glad that you did the right thing!
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
Shes pretty furious from what I know. Shes trying to stalk me and find where I moved to. I left the state i lived in over all this. shes been known to be a bit violent and crazy in her reactions.
user
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Have you considered getting a restraining order against her? That should be quite easy to do
assistant
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it would then give her my address to where I live, which is what I fear most. as she then knows right where I am. the whole reason i left was to have her not know my location.
user
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I hope that she would not be informed as to where you live though yes, I understand the dilemma. Have you spoken with the police?
assistant
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I have. I looked into it. and if i file a restraining order, it will give her my address. To supress my address it would take charges filed and things of the sort. Shes crafty.
user
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Wow that sounds like it has put you in a bind. I do understand cos once I had to flee from a boyfriend and was scared he would come after me.
assistant
Self-disclosure
She will definately come after me. I have evidence that makes her guilty that has been turned into the attorneys and cps. Shes losing custody of her daughter who is 12. The 15yr old lives with the father. so she wont lose custody, but im sure her visits will be messed up.
user
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Are you still in contact with her kids? Do you have a good relationship with them?
assistant
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I am not. I am not planning on it either. Staying away is the best plan.
user
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It might help them a lot to have someone stable in their life though?
assistant
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they have fathers. I am not involved like that. we had a short relationship and I am sure her girls will be bitter with me even tho i did the correct thing by turning her in. but the guilt from turning her in is terrible.
user
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You did the right thing. Would you have wanted the girls to end up as addicts, dead or in prison?
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
She was not a good person. So it makes it easy to not regret it. but i still feel guilty. guilt caused issues last month when this all started and came to a head. it was a mess. I was a mess. things happened.
user
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Do you think that perhaps the guilt is not entirely related to your circumstances currently?
assistant
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I dont believe so. The guilt to me sets with causing a disruption between mother and daughters. It created a large burden for me to bear.
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