Everyone breaks up with me. They all think I'm weird, and I always screw myself.
15 minutes isn't really long enough to get into any insightful, complex conversation.
Incentivize for longer talks.
Hi, I'm Anna
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Hi there, how is life treating you right now? I am Jo, it is nice to meet you! Is there anything you'd like to talk about today?
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Question,Self-disclosure
Going through a break-up. My 3rd one this year.... Nice to meet you too It suckssssss
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Gosh you've been busy :). I am sorry to hear that though - I know how much it hurts when you split with someone, especially if it was not consensual. It's a lousy time of year for it too, isn't it?
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Self-disclosure,Reflection of feelings
I feel like a piece of crap, and childish at that. I can't maintain any of my relationships. I think I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life.
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That is a defeatist way to talk! Just because a couple of relationships fail does not mean that you will never be able to find happiness.
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Affirmation and Reassurance
Well, if past experience has any powers of prediction. I get super clingy, and do this push and pull thingy, where I break up and call them names, and then become so embarrassed it's hard to even bring it up. my last boyfriend said he thought i had borderline disorder
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I have been in that position too. I hate it when I realise that I am not being rational but I can't seem to stop myself sometimes and this has sometimes let to problems with my inter personal relationships
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Self-disclosure
Yea, that definitely seems to be part of my problem. I really thought he was different, too. And when he broke up with me, I tried to get him to spend the night with me in a hotel, and I felt so pathetic because I was practically begging for sex I think I am an addict.
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I hear you on that one too! It's horrible to feel that you are losing your self respect but I suspect that we've all done it at some point. Have you considered getting some counselling?
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Providing Suggestions
Sigh.. yes. I have seen several. I also take meds from a psychiatrist.
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I hear you saying that they are not really effective, is that true?
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Reflection of feelings
Well... one told me that I should be put down like a dog to my face. so, yea
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Okay .. I hope you reported him!!
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Others
I didn't. I was younger then. who knows. not gonna lie. maybe they're right. Sometimes I think I'm a psycho. My last therapist was always doing deep breathing exercises. It didn't help. I also have a lot of anxiety. A LOT! I even got an emotiona support dog
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I understand that as well .. I am on medication for it. A dog is a wonderful thing to have! Do you feel that it has helped you?
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Yea, he's my best friend. At least I have one boy who has to stick around. He's on a tight leash
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Dogs are very very loyal. They never cheat on you or walk out on you!
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So trueee :) I just wish I wasn't such a freak.
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I think you are probably not anywhere near as bad as you think you are you know :). Anyway I wish you all the very best for the New Year and hope that things pick up for you soon!
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Alright, bud. Thanks. You, too
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