New boss who is difficult
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hello! what is on your mind today?
assistant
Question
I have a new boss who is very difficult to work with and make happy
user
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is is a new job that brought the boss, or are you at the same place and just have a new boss?
assistant
Question
Same job but a new boss This is my 5 or 6 boss in 2 years
user
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wow, 5 or 6 bosses in 2 years? that is a lot. you must work in a high stress job!
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing,Affirmation and Reassurance
Yes I do and It is a lot and this one is very challenging She doesn’t know the difference between internal and external thoughts
user
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is sounds like you know your job. perhaps you should go to hr and say next time there is a turnover for that position would would like to be considered? so it sounds like your boss was hired and wasnt really prepared.
assistant
Others,Restatement or Paraphrasing
I would love to do that but given somethings that isn’t possible. I’ve tied myself and my finances to the job I’m currently doing.
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maybe you can offer to help get them on board with the way that the company has been working>
assistant
Reflection of feelings
You are correct she hasn’t worked in a corporate environment in 8 years That is a good ideas
user
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if you are honest and say youve been with the company a while and have seen things not going so smooth and offer your experience, it cant hurt you could even get a raise out of it
assistant
Reflection of feelings,Others
I wish I could get a raise off it but it isn’t how my company works. Her lack of professionalism is hurting the group
user
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i dont know how you do it. i would be really frusterated and looking for something better. you are strong!
assistant
Self-disclosure
Yes. I probably need to look for a new job but it is easy to stay at something that seems safe even if you are not happy
user
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you need to be happy. you needa chance to actually move up in your carreer. you deserve it it sounds like
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Thank you yes I do agree with you there Did you experience something similar in the past
user
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do you have a family? yes, i have had job where i felt stuck but it was security. i finnally go so miserable that i started applying to new jobs
assistant
Question,Self-disclosure
Yes I do have a family and I’m the main source of income
user
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i did phone interviews first wiith companies that i was interested in that they wer interested in me. i got an offer for an in prson with a job i really wanted and i told my job i had a docture appointment. i went to the job interview. when i got the job i did my 1 weeks notice. i was more happy, was able to negotiate a higher salary
assistant
Self-disclosure
I like that idea and process Makes it safe to apply elsewhere
user
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i am a single parent so i get it. stability and security is the most inmortant. i think sometime we forget we deserve to be happy too
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
Yes I think that is great advice and makes a lot of sense Thank you for your help!
user
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