My girlfriend has a rare condition that can be very expensive to just keep her healthy. Her grandparents are supporting us and the grandmother's husband is going through dementia and making everyone stressed and could possibly die leaving 3 houses to pay off.
The person was awful, slow and no empathy what so ever. I was basically talking to a robot that was badly programmed.
No, you were fine on the technical side, it was the person.
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Hello, how are you?
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Not good.
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What's wrong, do you feel like sharing?
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Question
Well, my girlfriend and her grandmother are extremely depressed. The husband of her grandfather is driving everyone nuts with his yelling. Nothing makes him happy.
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I am so sorry to hear that. Sounds like your girlfriend and her grandmother could use some time away from her grandfather.
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Kind of hard when he is the one that owns the houses. Doesn't seem right to leave him. He is going through dementia right now. He always supported them. Just sucks now he is causing so much sadness. He sees me like a son but end of the day. I have to do right by my girlfriend. I love her and her family.
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His dementia is causing him to become upset? Your right he does need to be around family and needs love and support, and you are not doing wrong being on your girlfriend side.
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Yeah. He keeps going to the VA and they keep saying he is losing brain mass. Wish everyone else knew how to deal with him. Doesn't seem like everyone is equipped to deal with this kind of stress. My girlfriend already has enough on her plate with her chronic illness. Mostly the arguing starts when he tells her to eat 'normal' food. Which everyone has to keep reminding can kill her.
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Is there any way you guys could get a nurse that deals with patients that have dementia to help him out?
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Well, problem is that he is extremely fit and stubborn. That could be a solution. Not in his current state though... He would lose his mind. He is a veteran... so. He could lose it.
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What about getting a nurse, would make him lose his mind? It would be in his best interest to help him and others around him.
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He thinks everyone is out to get him. He was in Vietnam for years and left him with guns without ammo to protect a post. So with that in mind... who knows. Could work out. But he has tackled medical personnel before. You could imagine the trauma that encourages that crazy mindset. However, I think I got a good idea what to suggest. At least to my girlfriend and her family. You left I guess. Interesting. Okay well good bye Man.. not even a proper good bye.
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