I married a divorcee. She was not honest with me. I felt sympathy about her previous marriage. She was not honest about her real problems. She treated me horribly. I had to leave.
the supporter became dependent
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It was really good to chat
No but we did not have 10 conversations.
Are you there, and do wish to chat?
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Question
i am here thank you
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How can I be of support to you?
assistant
Question
i am presently in a bad mood when i take into account the amount of money i gave my ex and her totally refusing to compensate me for my loss.
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The virus is keeping me isolated. Looking to chat. I will like to chat I can relate to that
assistant
Self-disclosure,Self-disclosure
go right ahead and chat i am receptive
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My x is taking me to court for past due even though there is a virus. How long have you been divorced It sucks.
assistant
Reflection of feelings,Reflection of feelings
the divorce took place three years ago. i let her handle the whole thing to save money on attorneys. i was willing to do anything to end the relationship, especially forfeit the money I gave her to improve her home $30000 so she could get it refinanced because of an impending balloon loan coming due. i thought she would be grateful but she kept after my bank account while destroying my soul. i had to escape her, whatever the cost. i paid with my emotions.
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So your x is wanting more, mine is doing so to control me
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
the sad part is that i was a young widower with a small child and when i remarried i considered myself a hero for caring for my dying wife and my son. all i ended up being was a sucker. she smelled a sucker and she went after my good side.
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I can understand the emotion part as mine had lawyer who that encouraged her to seek more. I am not wanting to be with anyone because my x is jealous and wants me alone. I desire romance but feel that supporting two wives is too much.
assistant
Reflection of feelings,Affirmation and Reassurance
lawyers are unprincipled rats who bend the truth as long as they can get away with it. wouldn't trust one as far i could push him. i only got through the worst of it at the time because i knew how to meditate and because i took extremely long walks. what a price to pay! Now my friends say, don't ever get married again. Where were they when I was closing in on this fiend?
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Long walks alone sucks. I want to so much hold a hand walking, but I know she will try to stop any involvement
assistant
Reflection of feelings
forget her. ignore her. time is valuable but waiting for the air to clear helps. i tried dating again but the pool of available ladies is really a swamp. gotta get really lucky or stay clear.
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I realize the desire to be alone, but find a female friend that wants to spend time together to keep you from feeling like you are going it alone.
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Providing Suggestions
looks like i am being the supporter here but give it time. alone is much better than being sucked down into the muck.
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