When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.
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Hi, How are you today?
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I'm not good today. Not good at all.
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I'm here to listen, Tell me about it
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I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself.
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Why do you think you find yourselves in this situation?
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Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned the things I couldn't. He did the things I couldn't do. I have to basically re-learn how to live by myself again. It's really scary, you know?
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I can understand your feelings right now, It's hard to ignore all those memories and moments What bothers you the most? living alone or not having him?
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It really is. I don't know how to go on. I've never been through a breakup like this before. I'm scared I'll never be able to find someone else or even think about dating anyone else. Probably living alone and being on my own. I don't really miss him honestly. I miss the comfort of having someone take care of me. We fell out of love awhile ago.
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Hmm, First of all stop being scared You can do it on your own I know that's scary for you, but what's the meaning of life without being scared and have our feelings?
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That's very true. I have to think about the future. I can do it on my own. I just have to think...this is the worst it'll ever be.
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But you should start to take control over your feelings at first, you are the boss and you give the orders! Slowly but surely you find yourself in a better mood You said you felt relieved, and that's an opportunity
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I will try. If anything, I can find myself through this instead of relying on another person. Definitely an opportunity. Thank you for hearing me and making me feel better about everything.
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You are free now, Do what makes you happy You and only you can underestimate yourself, stop doing it
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That's great advice. thank you so much.
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Don't you think anybody have ever experienced this? They did and they took control, so you can do it too
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That's very true, I'm not alone.
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I hope you feel better now and DECIDE to alter things, tomorrow is a new day
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You've made me feel a million times better, thank you so much. Tomorrow is a new day.
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And don't worry, life is full of surprises, maybe you find love one day
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You're right. I will.
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If there is anything else I can help you with
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No there is not. Thanks for taking the time to talk with me today
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Thank you for sharing your feelings with me, Good luck with your future endeavours Bye
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