I am currently going through a divorce from an abusive, lying, narcissist. He has taken my kids from me by making false claims. I haven't seen them in months. My daughter is 4 and my son is 2. I miss them so much.
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How are you this evening?
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I am doing ok. I am feeling very sad . How are you?
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I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are feeling sad. What is bothering you tonight?
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I am going through a terrible divorce from an abusive narcissitic ex, But we have two young kids. I haven't seen them in months because he lied to CPS and told them I abuse my kids. I just feel very alone. I am afraid my children will forget me.
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So, just to clarify, you are going through a hard divorce with your ex-wife and this has you feeling very down..
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ex-husband yes
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Sorry about that, ex-husband. I can definitely tell this is making you feel very anxious and sad from the few messages we have exchanged.
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Yes very much so Do you have any advice?
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I recently went through a hard break up with an ex-fiancé who got pregnant from another man, so I know how difficult a situation like this can be,
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Oh my goodness My ex is out to destroy me emotionally
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Have you had a conversation with him with some sort of objective third party to try and work through the differences in seeing your children? Often times, having an objective 3rd party helps to get somewhere in a conversation.
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Yes, the court right now. They are moving so slow with Covid. I'm just worried my kids will forget me. or not love me anymore.
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Does he allow you to have any contact with your children?
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Not at this time. The court is in favor of their father. This situation is a little stickier. In July, I sent recordings of him being abusive to me, to my mother I told him I wanted a divorce and I didn't love him anymore. Next thing I know, I'm being arrested for "hitting" him, which never happened so I am trying to beat this criminal charge
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Do you have information to reach out to who is handling your court case? Reaching out to ask for updates or for help from them might help.
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That is a great idea I should try that.
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I think it would help to reach out and let them know you would like updates!
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I know that I am stronger for going through this situation.
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You definitely will be! I know it is hard now, but I know you will make it through this!
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Thank you for your support!
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Not a problem! I am glad you reached out tonight!
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Me as well. I was debating it for a while have a good evening
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You as well!
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good night
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