my boss does not care about my and there is no guidance complete ignorance due to the fact that I am a female in a male domain
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my boss/ director basically ignores me because I am female in a male domain, I work any time of day or night and I get nothing but grief from him anyone there
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I can understand feeling neglected in a male dominated field. Is there any one that you could discuss with that is higher up or in HR?
assistant
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No they are all male and he is the golden child anyway
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Is this a family owned company?
assistant
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no corporate
user
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That is stressful, being a female myself I can completely understand the stress and pressure. Is there any options of looking for other, possibly better, employment in your area?
assistant
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so what is the best thing for me how to handle this you think I should just quitt? I have now 10 years in with them, he just became my boss due to a merger
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i wouldn't quit if you are not prepared to, but i would weigh options of looking for somewhere that would appreciate your efforts in a work place. With 10+ years of experience any company would be more than happy to have a dedicated worker with them.
assistant
Providing Suggestions
so you think i should at least look for something new ?
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Or even inquire about transferring to another location if that would be a possibility?
assistant
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I think that might be I would just increase my commute it makes me sad though to see it come to something like this, you work and do whatever and then you get beat up
user
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if it would be more beneficial mentally it could help, and could never hurt to ask for a raise due to the situation. If there is an HR department, I would discuss with them while seeing what other positions may be opening in the area that fit your criteria employment. There is a lot of options that are becoming available that are more beneficial for employees than they imagined.
assistant
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there is an HR department maybe i should try talking to them, even though they seem not approachable.
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unfortunately, most places of employment take advantage of their good workers cause they feel they can get away with it and they will leave. But, at the end of the day, your well being is important.
assistant
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very true I think I will take your advise and see what happens maybe something good will come out of it
user
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Yes, absolutely! If they have an anonymous contact line that may be able to help ease into the conversation , I would start there. I wish you the absolute best of luck and be thinking of your well being!
assistant
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Thanks for your advise
user
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Of course. Have a good day and good luck!
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