I miss my girlfriend, I feel I have no one in my life.
I liked the lady I was interacting with.
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Seeker left too early :(
Hello there and Happy Holidays! I hope you are feeling okay at the moment?
assistant
Question
I am not, this is a very hard time of the year for me.
user
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I am really sorry to hear that. Please know that I am happy to listen and to help you if I can!
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
Thank you for that. I really miss my girlfriend.
user
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I am sorry to hear that. Have you separated or can you just not be together at Christmas?
assistant
Question
We are separated. She said I was watching too much Buzzr and didn't pay enough attention to her, so she dumped me.
user
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That is not good. But relationships can be reestablished if you talk. Have you considered seeing a third party to help you both talk this out?
assistant
Providing Suggestions
We tried to see a counselor. It did go too well, the counselor took her side on everything, it was very unprofessional.
user
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I seem, so do I hear you saying that you feel that everyone is against you on this and that you feel powerless?
assistant
Restatement or Paraphrasing
It feels like that way. Even my parents seem to support her more than me. I am all alone now watching a Buzzr marathon with no one to truly support me.
user
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I am sorry that your parents are not being more supportive. I understand how hard it is when you have a break up and loved ones seem to support your ex!
assistant
Self-disclosure
Has this happened to you before?
user
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Please know that you are not alone in this situation and that there will be light at the end of the tunnel. Yes it has .. my boyfriend left me for someone else and most of our mutual friends took his side!
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Self-disclosure
I am sorry to hear that, I think your boyfriend made a big mistake leaving you, you seem like a very nice and sweet person.
user
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Thank you :) I am sure that there is someone else out there for you too if you cannot reconcile with your ex. The question is, how much do you really want to? You might be better off without her
assistant
Question
That might be true, she really blew it with me, I am a good catch.
user
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That is a good way to think! Never let something like this destroy your self esteem.
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
I agree. You know, you are very good at this. Did you end up finding a new boyfriend or husband?
user
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Yes, I am engaged now. I realise that my ex did me the biggest favour anyone ever could!
assistant
Self-disclosure
Well that is a good success story! Thank you for the motivation.
user
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Maybe you should think about talking to a counsellor or something about this, just to work through your feelings?
assistant
Providing Suggestions
Yes I will do that. Thank you for your support.
user
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