Ive been trying to get with some of friends to hang out maybe just for a couple hours just to catch up. But no-one seems like they want to be bothered due to covid. But the other day I called this particularly person and she said that they were all out having lunch, So why wasn't I included?
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Yes, what can I do for you?
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Im trying to get a little advise about a situation that has me down. Are you having some issues responding because I didnt hear from you until almost 3mins into the chat
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It's fine here, I just got your message. Please tell me more about your issue
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Restatement or Paraphrasing
Im having some issues with friendships. It has me down. The other day I had called a couple of friends to go have lunch together since we havent seen each other in a while and everyone said No due to covid But today I called another friend and everybody were out together but didnt include me
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that really sucks how they pulled that excuse on you did your other friend tell you why they did that?
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Reflection of feelings,Question
No they just said they just thought I was busy and couldn't attend so im bitter sad about the situation and don't how to address it
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It's understandable for you to feel doubtful. I would give them another chance, suggesting a virtual happy hour and see what they say now hat they no longer have covid excuse
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Affirmation and Reassurance
I was actually thinking about that just wasn't sure about it I really thought we were better than this but I guess not
user
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you can never know people until something happens
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance
Im needing to bring some new people in my life.
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Just give it a try, if all of them have some excuses again, it's time to stop socializing with those friends exactly, it's frustrating but at the same time, a blessing in disguise. Through this you know who actually care about you
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Providing Suggestions,Affirmation and Reassurance
Im going to do observing of myself and think so over but thank you for your advice, Some observing of myself and think this over
user
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yeah, if they don't care about you, why waste your time on them? Spend that time on treating yourself a good meal or a great movie
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Providing Suggestions
Thanks will do have a good day
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you too, i hope you feel better
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