I am getting ready to sue my mother for not believing my step dad raped me.
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Hi, what can I help you?
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I am getting ready to sue my mother and am very nervous about the ordeal.
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You're worried about being in court against your mother or are you worried about your relationship after that?
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Both
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Can you tell me about the situation, why did you decide to sue her?
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My stepdad raped me and got me pregnant and I delivered a still born and i just remember the incident happened 23 years later. So now I am suing my mother. instead of pressing charges because my sister and I dont want it in the papers
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So she knew about the incident but did nothing to help you?
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yes she did not believe me
user
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that sucks, I understand why you resent her so much I cannot help with your worry about going to court, however, i can offer some help regarding your relationship
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Affirmation and Reassurance,Others
yes it is very difficult but im not as upset as i was i cried a lot
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Crying is good, you shouldn't bottle your emotions Have to talked to anyone in your family about this beside your sister?
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yes i am kinda numb to it but I have to call the police dept tomorrow for a copy of the police report from when my step dad took the baby to them and I dont want to No nobody knows except one cousin from my biological dads side
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You should talk to someone you trust, they might be able to give you specific advice regarding your situation
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that might help, i am just nervous about this whole thing i am estranged from my family for the most part so
user
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Also, you seem to still care about your mom despite what she did. Did you consider reaching out to her after the court?
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yes i imagine that we will talk
user
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Maybe talk to your friends, it's easier for people of similar age to empathize with you
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i do not have many friends really
user
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Try to keep your cool, let her know you did it because you wanted justice.
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yes that is what i am worried about thank you that is really good line i can use when she asks me why
user
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If you still care about her, make sure to let her know you don't hate or resent her and you still hope to be able to fix your relationship
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Affirmation and Reassurance
yes but what she did you really can't move past a certain point of tolorence and forgivness so i will always wish she had believed me
user
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I understand you, it's normal to feel what you feel. It's a terrible situation and what she did really is unforgivable
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yes it is. but i basically do its just i feel that she doesn't love me
user
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I don't think she doesn't love you. Maybe she just didn't want to believe it happened You should definitely let her know that
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Reflection of feelings,Others
yes i think you are right. I think that my time is running out. i will thank you. I am going to go now.
user
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Sueing won't solve anything, you have to talk to your mom and get all the knots in your mind out good luck with your court
assistant
Affirmation and Reassurance,Others