My sister-in-law is a horrible person, and she's harrassing me for jewelery from my mom, who just died.
Responses took a long time - she said the system was slow.
would be nice to know the person's name...
Hello? Please let me know if you're there... I'm not receiving any messages - are you there?
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Hello! I am here How are you today?
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Ahh! Hello...
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How are you doing?
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I'm okay - I'm just sort of frustrated with my brother's wife.
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Oh no, do you want to talk about it? What hapepned?
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She barely speaks to me - she didn't even message me on my 50th birthday - but then she texts to demand my mom's wedding ring ... because she wants to give it to her 16 year old daughter. Who will also be getting a Lexus for her birthday.
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Oh wow, that sounds incredibly frustrating. Do you speak to your brother?
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How is a diamond solitaire an appropriate gift for a 16 year old? He is so rabidly defensive of her, if I bring it up, it won't matter if he agrees with me or not - he'll take her side. And both our parents died last year - I can't lose him too.
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That's so inappropriate, my husband's brother is the same way with his kids. They are giving such inappropraite gifts for their age. Oh wow, i'm so sorry about your parents. Losing parents is so hard. Definitely need to make sure you don't lose your brother as well.
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She's the only granddaughter - she'll get the ring eventually, if she wants it (probably won't). My SIL apparently thinks that was the only valuable thing about my mom - she didn't want any of the books, or art, or photos... Are you too busy to do this right now...?
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Not at all!!!
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You're really not saying much.
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Thats' so horrible. THere is so much more valuable. YOu can keep the books and art and photos though. the interface has been slow for me , i'm so sorry ! Do you have your moms photos displayed? I found that to be a really helpful way to stay connected and show people how special they are.
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No, I should do that. I see them on my phone and computer every day, but I should have a framed one up. I just moved house, and I don't have all my stuff yet.
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It's nice to display them in pretty frames. YOu could even frame a few and give htem to your niece. She may appreciate them more if they are displayed in a nice way. You can then tell her stories about them that go with the pictures, it will make them more meaningful.
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