one way or the other and you can not get away from the basic message . the strong survive . those who be psychically or emotionally sensitive and leave . they leave a hole behind in the life of those who love them . a hole that be see in it finality a selfish . that what phoebe realize in the end . just prior to help wolf heal from his self blame . she can accept closure to the miss . of her sister . beautiful european scenery . a lot of truth in it about idealism and addiction to the next big moment . for a moment and i thought of the baader meinhoff gang who be around in the early 70 . i like this movie a it reflect a time when i come of age myself .