i really appreciate what jung win have do before his death . everything . i want to say that his choice for love be unselfish . if he choose da rim and that will be good for him . but da rim will need more time to recover from his death . obviously he do not want to let it happen . a he do in the film and he choose give up . so it be just temporary agony for da rim . a comparison and my life without me be very different . their behavior show big difference between eastern culture and western culture . i can not say which be well . every one can have right to choose . that be totally up to you . life be equal for everybody . we can live only once . any choice be acceptable if only you think it be fit for you . in truth the slow pace of the film can not be the excuse for reject the movie . just calm down . you will get more from the movie . one of the best korean movie i ever watch . positive .