how often do we live our romantic life a on the big screen and with torrid affair and passionate encounter . almost never and if what i see a normal life around me be anything to judge by . romance and a previously state and be hardly ever earthshaking affair that leave you at the top of the world or batter and bruise . romance and in it every day form and a live out million of time over around the world and be a slow and subtle and and quiet affair . something that grow in you and ever so slowly and probably without you even notice it slowly take over your be . no one can tell me when i be in love . for if someone do and i would not believe him anyway and for no one but me would know . and even then and it be just a feeling and a certain knowledge that you be feel this exalt emotion . that you want nothing but the best for someone and that you would never want to see them suffer a moment of sadness . that you be willing to take a great degree of pain for them . i would not go so far a to say be willing to die for your loved one and for we be all human and and we do not know what we be capable of in the face of death until that moment be upon u . be the love between the main character of the film and ever so subtle and understated and no less noble than that between romeo and juliet . the unstated emotion and the unsaid feeling and convey far more than any repeated shout of i love you . the restraint show by the lead actor and display ever so poignantly in the scene where he watch his love interest through the cafe window and yet never do he move to make himself know to her and be simply heart wrench to watch . would most of u be selfless enough to remain hidden and know that her emotion and feeling could not possibly be reciprocate . on another note and how will i deal with my own certain death . while i can claim i have be seriously ill and i can not in all honesty say that i have ever come close to death . will i be so calm and put all my affair in order and and leave instruction for others to take up what i leave behind . i suspect i will be calm and for i will have little choice in the matter . can i be so selfless . again and the answer will have to be in the negative . i can empathize with the anguish and know that your life be forfeit and that fate have deal you a fatal blow and and that future event and however little there be of them left and be no longer under your control . life be nothing more than a series of small event and the culmination of which may seem great for some in retrospect . but only very rarely .