this movie could be liken to comfort food for the soul . anyone who have ever try and try to save a relationship could relate to this movie . so many part of it be so hilarious and so many part be so heartbreakingly true . it not perfect in it production or even it dialog and but the story be unique which be say a lot for modern romantic comedy . luke wilson be bland at best and but heather graham do an exceptional job in my opinion . give it a try despite the trite look dvd cover . the character of joline bring a lot of issue up in our culture of self service . she ask u if commitment be really for the other person or ourselves . truly and it be ourselves . follow through on promise ( anywhere from marriage to an errand for a friend ) be a great feeling . anymore and our word be nothing but a shapeshifting puff of smoke . joline be like a wake up call . we must be conscious of our word and commitment and they mean more than we think . at the same time and we must not commit to someone who be incapable of do the same .