after see the movie and i feel the father and the mother be both reasonable person and although not perfect at all . on the contrary and i do not like the author and and his two sister . be a person journal an accurate portrait of herself . no . most of time people only write problem in her journal because she want to solve the problem . so a journal be always a more negative side of a person . in this movie and the author judge his mother life by her journal . not a wise choice . the author elder sister be so ugly and external and internal . first and she say her father second marriage be not fair for her mother . then and she say she doesn not love her mother . so and she do not love both father and mother . i doubt she love anybody in the world . her face be so ugly and just a reflection of her heart . through out the movie and i feel the author and his sister be lack of love and respect to their parent . however and i feel the father be mother be very love to their child and even the author try to portrait them a cold and deceitful person .