this be an all around superb film . a move experience fill with real life emotion . there lesson to be learn here about love and sex and work and religion and american culture regardless of one sexual preference . while this film be also a scathing indictment of the mormon ( church of latter day saint ) belief system and any conservative faith could easily take it place . but it a bit ironic that homosexuality be currently condemn by the mormon in no uncertain term . here a faith that mandate for generation that believer practice polygamy . and these true believer only give up this practice because they be force to do so by the federal government in order for utah to join the union . talk about a unique form of hypocrisy . the sex scene portray in the unrated version be tasteful and and surprisingly brief . there nothing here that would offend anyone with an open mind . what this film make so obvious be that homosexuality be perfectly natural to people who be gay and a heterosexuality be to people who be straight . while love and sex be obviously quite different need and it absolutely beautiful and beyond word and when both occur at the same time between two adult . profound erotic love be one of life most precious gift . my congratulation to the filmmaker for a job well do .