in reality that happen represent the royal mother in law and father in law lunch with the couple the day after the wedding and give her the money in public . this troubled young elisabeth so much that she never forget the issue . we must remember she be only 16. she be so embarrassed that she keep a fear for sex all her life . perhaps this begin to appear a a trauma . also the constant meddling of her aunt and mother in law . a you say and she keep all her child away from her and critique her teeth and manner ( which she consider inappropriate for an empress ) and and when sissi finally go to venice with her husband and child and her eldest daughter die and and the mother in law blame her for that unfortunate and premature death . she never recover .