i love this movie . the cast be all terrific in the portrayal of their various character . judith ivey do so well portray a weak and fearful and dependent and who be passive aggressive in her complaining and self involve character and that it be a relief to see the character metamorphosis . blythe danner be equally appeal in her role a a somewhat judgmental jewish mother and devote wife and and love sister . jonathon silmerman and bob dishy and stacey glick and and lisa walz perform their role equally well . if you enjoy movie that relate to go through challenge time without loose your sense of humor and hope and you will love this movie .