first and i do not see how the movie be on any best list or how it win any award . compare to la pianiste and which be also on a best list and la pianiste be gold . this movie lack so many thing and on so many different level and but i can not quite explain why i dislike it so much . the lead actor be annoy and i felt a though i never know what be go on and and i be bore . even though this be suppose to be some worthwhile life change that pierre be start and i want it to end . as soon a possible . why do it have to be his sister and cousin . ugh . and why do thibault get mean . he just bipolarly turned mean . and also and be it me or do i miss the whole purpose of what that guy in black be all about . who be all those people play music in the big basement of the big warehouse . why do they have all that weird equipment and the gun and all those extra room for people to live in . i mean this in all seriousness and but do incest happen a lot in french culture . european culture . i take 5 year of learn about the culture and i never hear anything about that .