i be a large scarred heterosexual male ex bouncer and ex rugby player and and ex boxer and and i love this movie . it no mystic river . it a piece of fluff . but there be room in life for fluff and and when that fluff be engagingly shot and well act by attractive and likable people and cleverly plot and full of good dialogue and there even more room for it . i be not the big tom selleck fan . but he good in this . so be julianne nicholson ( love her bald head and freckle ) and ellen degeneres and kate capshaw and even tom everett scott ( that thing you do . ) . the scenery be nice and the mood be upbeat and there heartache and wistfulness and farce and even a little redemption . any ( male ) reviewer who diss this movie be and shall we say and not perfectly confident in his masculinity . in the meantime i will continue to catch bit and piece of it without apology whenever it show up on cable .