i pay attention and enjoy the very rich expression capability of the main actress and julianne nicholson . i do not have word to describe how much have i be enchant . all the actor and actress play well . especially i notice the solid good character who have be consistent in foresee the future andy richter who play carl . i think that the idea to show a variety of friend and relative with different opinion and and the several consulting meeting and be like the real world . jay mohr who play ed and the future husband and also play very real behavior . but and i want to emphasize again the point of very rich expression repertoire which julianne nicholson be capable of and do so naturally and be overwhelm for me . indeed and the subject which this movie handle seem to me a very important and touch strongly meaningful thought of many people . i have see this movie several time and have not be bore . it raise again and again in my thought .