wow . at first i think who write these thing . how hard be that choice between a man who offer you and your child wealth and respectability and security a oppose to a husband who offer you only oppression and abuse and degradation and poverty . however our choice be not always a clear cut cut a one would think . indeed the wealthy gentleman be all a woman could aspire to and yet . the pull of her husband and her sexual desire for him be almost overwhelming . what to do and what to do . a a viewer you become a confused and misdirect a she be . anyway what i really come on this site to gush about be my admiration of the voice of the engish and i thought and although it be actually the voice of an irish singer in the film . look him up i find he be glen hansard and whom i have never hear of before that day . what a find . i be so grateful . wow and what a voice . what a day . thank you biff .