maybe i expect too much of this film and but at the very least a comedy should be funny and and this one have very few amuse moment . it manage to be insult to homosexual and heterosexual and woman and the obese and and probably several other group a well . the scene at graduation where _everyone_ claim to be gay be one of the most distasteful i have ever see . tom selleck and matt dillon be ridiculously miscast and kevin kline seem bemuse most of the time . other reviewer compare the film to will and grace and but at least will and grace _is_ funny .