i have see this film three time and each time i appreciate it more . i think jordana brewster should have receive an emmy nomination for her real and natural performance . many of u who be phoebe age at this time the story take place will understand how real it be . life for most of u be neither softly glow romantic or harshly cynical pessimism . it be a blurred balance and and this film capture this balance . it be well constructed and too and with so many fine detail in it composition . like the film or not and judge from the extraordinarily high rating it get from the demographic of female under 18 and we can know that this movie reveal some important truth about how young woman see themselves in the world .