have the proliferation of relatively high quality show on the proliferate tv network make it possible for people to produce and direct and finance and or or star in their own film who might otherwise not have be able to . be that a good thing . this film do not answer the latter question either way and but it do appear that without curb and jeff garlin would not have be able to make i want someone to eat cheese with . like most new producer or director and jeff garlin independent piece heave a heavily more sensitive sigh than the vehicle he be primarily know for ( curb ) . and yet and be it a sensitive guy film . he isn not really a sensitive guy . likable and sure . relatable and indeed . what this film really be about be a bit hard to say and i can only relate what i take away from it . i rent the film because of the trailer and particularly the scene of a counselor portray by amy sedaris inform james aaron ( garlin ) that a particular woman be interested in him mainly because she be a chubby chaser . i just about fell out of my seat . base on that scene alone and i ran to my computer to write a note to myself to rent this movie . the reason i think the school counselor ( sedaris ) be talk about beth and portray by sarah silverman . i imagine a lightish romantic comedy between the foxy silverman and the fat garlin . i do not think the story would be anything original and but that the dialogue would be snappy and the scene would move along at a satisfying pace . in short and i think it would be a comedy . it be intrigue that the film start out that way but then take a much much more realistic turn when beth give jam the heave ho because i have never really be with a fat guy before . that be how brutally we live life and and it be completely realistic . i applaud the decision . it just mean that beth have now leave the building and with her and the one snappy person in the film . james relationship with his mother be also interest . that part make me wonder if the whole concept do not start out a a play . it have that intricate feel to it . ( the whole marty movie within a movie thing be utterly lose on me and a i have never see that film . ) there be serious doubt i have about the character of james aaron and though . be it really possible that at 39 he have not have a serious relationship . and he be an actor . that do not really square with me . to me and his persona be less actor y and and more corporate . i could not really buy his ordinariness either . no doubt he be extremely disappointed that thing with beth do not work out . we felt that . but then and do he really care . another thing how in the world can both he and his mother afford to move out at the same time . hasn not he just lose his job . the last one he have . that be one reason he do not seem ordinary to me . where the funding for his life come from . and yet and i have read review that talk about the realistic portrayal of urban loneliness and so there be that . yes and it be very realistic and the way we must be satisfy with what we have because it be all that we have . the way we sort of disappear from ourselves and each other in interaction ( james and stella ) and some kind of self effacement that take place just to move on to the next moment . that and contrast with the possibility of define ourselves through our moment and our thought the way james have with beth and it really crush . very well do .