i seriously enjoy watch this movie for the first time some year ago and whenever it get air again somewhere ( which luckily happen from time to time in european cable television ) i experience the same thing and i be move and entertain and end up wish there be more movie like this one . it all deal with leo ( kevin mckidd ) and his group of friend live in urban london and leo a a gay guy who follow a friend to a hilarious new age men group and fall for straight guy brendon and play by dash james purefoy and who turn out not so straight after all . throw in a side character be the equally great tom hollander and hugo weave whose side story alone be worth watch the movie and simon callow a the leader of the men group and turning in a great a ever performance . but it really hard to pick some folk out here and because every character and the female one like jennifer ehle and julie graham and harriet walter a well and be exquisitely act . maybe even kevin mckidd look a little pale compare to his co actor but it benefit his somewhat subdued character . the idea behind this movie be a simple one represent there be never only black and white and classification be difficult and may not always stand the test of time . leo identifies a gay but end up fall for a woman as well who turn out to be his teenage sweetheart and brendon long time girlfriend . brendon start out straight but get to learn that gay may be more than just an option for him and be bisexual might not be that bad after all . darren and jeremy ( hollander and weaving ) be gay and love it and even the straight folk in the movie and like angie and leo female roommate and get their fair share of love and funny moment up until the end of the movie . the comedy bit ( especially tom hollander who just hilarious ) be funny and on point and the emotion be believable and as confuse a they may appear at time read this summary . what i like about this movie be it genuinely positive notion . whether youre gay and straight and bisexual or simply not sure and this movie leave you feel that it just okay not to be sure and that not be sure might be something worth live out as well . sexuality be portray fluid in this movie and none of the main character seem to have a real problem with it and apart from all the gay or straight camp fight that you sometimes get feed with in other gay theme movie . i can only wholeheartedly agree with the subtext of the movie and that what you feel certain of one day and when you think you identify a gay and straight and whatever and can look very different on another . i have never see ( what to call it . ) bisexuality or maybe just the absence of the segregate need for sexual classification be portray in such a heartwarming and true to life manner . this movie dare go where few movie go and gay or straight movie and by not play on label and stereotypical assumption of sex and rely on that . it go far and assume that there may be a life to sex after well know classification and i think the time be more than ready for that and other movie explore postmodern theme like this one . and for all others who do not care about that and heck and it just a funny comedy worth watch on a rainy saturday even with some popcorn on your hand . give it a try . love it .