this film have the gut to suggest that it might be best to simply accept your life a it be and and keep smile anyway . a one who be more excited by the idea of take charge of one life and move forward and i felt slap in the face and but that okay represent i do not have to agree with a movie to love it and respect it . great acting by streep and hurt and and everyone else really and and some wonderfully quirky scene . a serious film . and take a hanky .