this movie have good intention and at least in the message do not be afraid and no matter how tough it can be . fear will kill you in the end it a good message and but the container be so flawed that the message get squash by bad acting and complete lack of credibility in the feeling and dialog that deliver a if it be read out loud and stereotypes instead of breathing and living people . it abuse from effect such a slow motion to compensate for a complete lack of credibility in the acting and thus and a lack of emotional force . the suicidal part of it still remind me of a low budget film from the pre 90 and when lesbian seem to have ( at least on celluloid ) an utter incapacity of live good and happy life and and a tendency to get catch in over the top drama that often involve separation and death and or prison . have it focus on the reward of live life accord to how we feel it ( and not accord to how others think we should live it ) and it would have be less dramatic and more inspiring . but it doesn not and it focus of pain and on loss and leave the message at just a theoretical ideal . i can not see how this movie can be an inspiration to anyone to come out or overcome fear and rejection . if youre look for a really good movie that talk about overcome fear and dare to live what you feel and go back to the magnificent desert heart ( even well represent read the novel . ) .