i saw this movie yesterday and can not stop think about it . i move to norway four month ago and and have try ever since to find the origin of the strange emptiness i felt . when i saw this film i be striken with the brilliant snapshot of this society . yes and this be all true . i too find a great job with a great pay and and i live with my norwegian boyfriend in a nice apartment downtown . but and so far everyone i have meet have leave me with that tasteless and empty feeling i have never have before this be what this movie be about . dinner party with nothing to say to each other but emotionless comment and long silence and no stress and a creepy calm and and frozen smile of niceness . this scandinavian nightmare be perfectly render in den brysomme mannen . see this movie .