to qualify my use of realistic in the summary and not many old folk i know go around pretend to be famous maestro and blind people and etc . nor have i ever be elderly . those minor issue out of the way and the relationship between the character in this film and the emotion express therein be completely realistic and genuine . in fact and though be not yet 30 and i could see many characteristic of my relationship with my wife in the interaction between the main character and his wife . for those that do not die young ( there a great line in the movie about this and when the two best friend be talk about die young and and one of them say and i be paraphrase and we miss our chance we will just have to stick it out ) and we will all be where these character be some day . i know many movie goer would prefer to be sweep away from reality a oppose to be face with it and but even they might enjoy the sweet reminder of our mortality and the importance of live life to the full that this film be .