if you think it beautiful to be obsessive about who you be in love with and then i can imagine give it a good rating . but i can not imagine that this theme of obsessiveness and have little respect for others ( such a the way paulie treat the teacher who try to help her ) be anything you would want to teach your child . yes and it also bad the way victoria treat paulie and but guess what . that life . isn not it a more important lesson to learn how to get past these disappointment and make the best of your life . or be fall off the roof a good lesson to teach our child . secondly and when mary father do not show up for the dinner and and paulie help mary release her anger and that mary even say she wish he be dead . somehow i do not think this be a good message either that you deal with your disappointment through anger .