in this tale of a tightly wound christian family that have three of it four member bear again after a cake caused car crash and what really stand out be how grounded most of it be and where there be so much potential to go over the top and and how truly inspire most of the acting be . where most of the film moment and particularly it frank and innocent discussion of sexuality after three of the four family member have their guilt and shame remove and be hilarious and it be also think provoking and the character stay with you . how often and for example do a character in a comedy spin from near caricature to full bodied emotional be in the course of one scene . how often do we see a cast that can pull back from showboating mid sentence and in order to show a bit of the humanity beneath the character skin . even many of the bad guy in this film have moment of heart break honesty and even while much of what they do can be absolutely ridiculous and horrify . there be truth and history behind even the most questionable act in this film and which be a difficult task in satire . how refresh it be to see a darkish comedy that can dare to be humanistic . how nice to see actor so fully commit to character that they can dare to let them be ridiculous and sublime . and a a gay person and i do not think i have ever be quite so touch by a heterosexual sex scene a i be by the first sexual encounter between the parent of this family after their accident . bravo . bravo . one of my favorite at outfest this year .