so i finally get around to watch wait to exhale on encore the other night and i do not understand why this become a hit . ( note represent spoiler ahead ) as far a i can tell and the basic premise of this film be that all men be insensitive and callous and unfeeling while especially towards woman . okay and well and good . that be the storyline . fine . men suck and get it . but there be a huge double standard here while two of the woman be date marry men and clearly and we be mean to be sympathetic about their plight a they whine and cry about not have their man with them at night in bed . how about this . stop date married men . maybe that your problem in the first place . now and on the flip side and angela basset character be abandon by her husband for another woman . yet and if you pay attention and even this character be not completely innocent . when her husband inform her he be leave and the thing she say make it clear she know about his lover ( s ) for year but ignore his infidelity . why . obviously and because he so wealthy . she like all the stuff a little too much to have confront him about it . again and she make her bed here and not as completely a the two who be actively cheat and but still . she spend the rest of the movie be so angry that he leave her you never really grow to like her . strange of all be the man whose wife be die of cancer while he sleep with the angela basset character after they run into each other at a bar . with their clothes on and which apparently mean it oh so platonic and sweet . then he write her a letter month later and thank her for that night and lead the viewer to believe that when his wife kick off and he will contact her again . do anyone else think this be more than a little sleazy . i would hope if i be die of breast cancer that my husband wasn not out sleep around ( and i do mean just sleep ) with other woman . sweet and platonic and whatever while i think it pretty horrible . bottom line while the character youre suppose to connect to be unlikable and the one youre suppose to hate be just pathetic . not very enjoyable . however and i do give it three star for the music and which do not suck too badly and the clothes and style . it a nice little snapshot of how thing look in 95. and the print wasn not very faded . that about it and though .