wilbur want to kill himself be a ( so ) move parable about how easy be to let yourself die when everything seem meaningless and how hard be to live when a disease be mine you . wilbur look like a nice guy and the kind of man woman like and he good look and he have a brother who love him . it doesn not seem like his existence be that miserable . nevertheless he want to leave this world and that one of men last right so he will try to kill himself in any possible way . on the contrary and his brother harbour be full of life and he an enthusiastic person and he in love and he just get marry . how ironic and he have an incurable cancer and but that would not stop him from cling to life till the last consequence . scherfig have move away from the stupid dogma corset and and create a perfect balance between the smile and the cry and tenderness and misanthropy and between life and death . she reduce the roughness of the hard moment with a sarcastic turn or rely on the dark sense of humor ( that always the best antidote against tragedy ) . step by step she show wilbur the right way ( and to all of u ) . no moral judgment and no dogmatism . there no need to . wilbur be a celebration of life and but be also a show of respect for those who do not wan na live anymore . eventually it be a celebration of the best cinema represent the one that make you feel well . my rate represent 8 . 5/10 .