see the comment of winston and good . something or other ( definately forgettable a their comment ) how can a gay or lesbian family be call dysfunctional in comparison to what the heterosexual society can offer . let consider with a gay or lesbian couple a child be a choice and often a sacrifice . for a man who prefer not to be with a woman must know that it be a woman who will give birth to the child . likewise a woman who prefer to be with a woman know that they need a man sperm to create the child . no simple biological accident but a decision to bring a child into this world . a child who be want . not a discard of a biological act . there will be good love heterosexual relationship where the child be want and cherish and and love . but with a same sex relationship it be more because of the difficulty and decision need to create the new life . what be the bigot afraid of . something they have try to sweep and hide under their darken rug cover mind . gay people exist and have always exist and and will always exist . we be natural a they be documented case of homosexual animal . gay people be bear they way they be . they can not be create and nor do it mean that the child they raise will be automatically gay . but . and this be the important part . the child will grow up to be accept of gay people . and will not listen or support the bigot or the narrow minded folk who just want to spread fear . with many culture homosexual be accept at part of society with their own value and experience to offer . we be people . we bleed when we be cut . weep when we be hurt and and have feeling to our love one and to our child just a strong and just as powerful a any other human . it be also interest that one of the weapon of the bigot be to reduce someone they do not like from a person to a symbol . symbol be easy to hate . to use a a scapegoat . to bring under the one label . so next time you wish to discriminate against someone for their race and greed and religion and or sexuality . just think you would you feel in their shoe . to be the recipient of that hate . i be sure that so many injustice would be overturn overnight . just the thought from an old . and hopefully wise person . dave .