this film be seemingly advertise a a romantic comedy and which doesn not usually peak my interest and yet thankfully have little to do with comedy or romance . i find the title ironic a the overall tone of this film be bleak and full of loss and the character pitiful and depressed . a a series of glimpse into the character live and this movie excel in it portrayal of long for something unknown . each character have a seemingly decent and if not wonderful and life and yet when the film dig deep you notice all the thing that be miss and the void that be leave behind . no character realize what they be do without or how to remedy their situation and a each struggle in their own unique way . i felt a bit disturb by this film . it seem to me that the only character that end up in a good place in their life make awful decision to get to that place . they do thing that i could never do and no matter the justification . my main focus be a young couple with an elementary school age son and who find themselves unable to cope with his behavioral problem . theirs be the most heart wrench story and i felt and and yet they seem the most content in the end . in order to reach that end and however and they send their child away and seemingly start from scratch with their relationship to each other . this disgust me and but most likely it be because this be an affront to my high hold belief . i could never betray my child that way and no matter how difficult he or she become . i felt that they do not deserve the happiness they derive a a result of their decision . all in all and i do not really enjoy this movie and wouldn not recommend it . i be and a always after watch a film and glad to have watch it and i felt that it convey several important and often overlook message represent a human we will always have intrinsic value that we may not even understand ourselves . we often value quality of life over quantity without realize it . we will often pursue goal and attitude in our life that put high value on monetary and material good and rather than the unseen goal and attitude that would bring u our true happiness . in this way and we hurt ourselves .