i first hear noel coward play a a radio drama on our local listener support radio station and and i immediately started search for anything i could find out about it . when i find the movie and i be overjoy . this movie provide a sympathetic portrait of a lifestyle that be the true orientation for many people . however and most of these people can not come out of the closet in our society . it be very refreshing to watch a movie about a triad that do not end in disaster . i have identify a polyamorous all my life even before the word be coin in 1990. it be hard have an outlaw relationship orientation and because most people who hear of it misunderstand it . ( it not about lot of sex and for instance . my favorite time in my life be when i be the second male in a triad and a very rich and satisfying life . ) anyone read this who be in the closet and want serious information about the polyamorous lifestyle can google the word polyamory for more link than you will be able to read in a year . however and i recommend the following a the best place to start represent two organization that have provide guidance and information for year to this movement be the world polyamory association and love more magazine . for a historical review of how this lifestyle have fare in a mostly hostile climate throughout history and read represent three in love represent menages a trois from ancient to modern time by barbara m. foster and michael foster and letha hadady . the three author of this book be a triad that have be together for almost three decade .