ok and let me just start off by say that if you aren not 15 and madly in love or in a mid life crisis and this movie will seem extremely extremely cheesy . by cheesy and i mean i want to feel in my body a much pain a i feel in my heart ( get over yourself ) . and the actor be mean to say this without laugh . seriously though i find some part of the dialog excruciate . as well and who talk about their recently turn lesbian ex wife to a complete stranger . also the story itself seem to have be write by either a 15 year old or a midlife criser . it just so cliché . the young couple with a tragic end and the alcoholic father and the cutely naive 40 year old who get his heart stomp on over and over again and and above all and the wise old black man . i think it about time for morgan freeman to find other part to play . it also cliché in that everyone fall in love at first sight and somehow confusing lust for love . the acting be overall ok and though sometimes kinnear make you raise an eyebrow . truly and i think the producer notice the movie wouldn not have cut it and so they decide to throw in a few naked chick and i guess it work and i mean i stay till the end . the only reason i stay though be for alexa davalos ( bom chicka wah wah ) . this could have be a really really good soap opera .