i really recommend this movie to anyone . i think that theresa and simon have a very realistic relationship that i could truly see one of my friend in a relationship like theirs . like real love and they have their ups and down and their awkward moment and and their little fight and all those little thing that make it a real and believable love and not just a movie love . it not your typical fantasy life be not really like a chick flick movie . it be a good mix between comedy and the tough stuff . simon seem to really love theresa and you can really tell that they be good for each other and compliment each other . i be kinda a romantic and like the fantasy chick flick and but this one be probably one of my favorite because the relationship and situation be what love be really about and how it be to want to make that good first impression on your future in law . bernie mac play a great dad and reacts like a real father would when meet his daughter boyfriend for the first time . one of my favorite line of his be when ashton say and you know you be go to kick me out a week ago . and bernie reply and boy and i know i be go to kick you out 24 year ago when the doctor announce it be a girl . that just seem like something a real father would say . so overall and i love this movie and recommend it to anyone . don not let the chick flick part turn you away and it more realistic than most . to me and this movie be not mainly about the race issue and or any other issue other than love and the love of two people want to spend the rest of their life together and try to work their two world into one .