if the movie have just be about a man and a woman have an affair after their partner first have an affair and this might have be a good movie . the first unfaithful pair consist of a guy who be a serial adulterer who should have need a case of viagra just to keep up with his many affair and the lady be a self involve neurotic . so and when their spouse get together and build a friendship and then eventually sleep together and you have some sympathy for them . but and what about the child . they both have kid ( and one of them be pretty young ) and but all they be concern about be their infatuation and get back at their unfaithful spouse . while this might have be accept by audience when the film be release and i just felt this be ugly and selfish . they could have divorce their slimy spouse and but neither show any regard for the innocent kid . the film be well make but way too self center to have any positive lasting message .