direct by rob reiner ( when harry meet sally ) and one of my favorite director because he depict sad reality in funny way . he pick his own project in a way that i always applaud him . this movie delineate very important difference between men and woman and their feeling and and their behavior . the key reason of the low rating and in my view and be because there be a generational conflict here . i have ask young marry people how the be movie and and they say that they do not like it . i talk to people in their forty and fifty and and they love it . their comment it usually be represent it be reality . the young couple and the one that be engage and just do not get it yet . they be in a different stage in their life . they have not be marry 15 year like the couple in this movie be . what this movie propose to do be to show what happen if people take each other for grant . they behave like sally indicate in when harry meet sally and word once say be out there and can not be take back . the movie concentrate on the conflict that lead almost to the destruction of their marriage . to bring all those conflict to light in a funny way take a lot of talent . that be why we need rob reiner . bruce willis ( the sixth sense and nobody fool ) and ben jordan and be try very hard . actually bruce willis surprise me with some of his role a i have see very few of his movie and not enjoy action movie . he be good . the reason i do not see much of his acting be because of the project he pick . they seam too violent . michelle pfeiffer ( one fine day ) be good in the part of katie jordan . the story be tell by ben perspective and she appear to be hold on to the thing that do not matter more than he be . i recommend the movie and but if you be very young you will not understand it and even kid of divorced parent do not get it . i credit the low rating to that . some people just do not get the movie because they haven not be there in their relationship . i think it be very insightful into marriage in general . i can say that because i have be happily marry for almost twenty three year . unfortunately there be ton of couple that live just like that . the question raise be can a marriage survive 15 year of marriage . yes it can and if ben and katie do . they take each other for grant most of the time . my favorite quote represent katie represent austin have a turtle that snore . ben represent no one designate you . you designate yourself . katie representyou love who we be and you could not want what we become and somehow you get use to the disconnection . favorite scene represent when katie finally recognize that friend be hard to find . this be a very good movie . .