somewhere in the film entitle birth and there be a charming feminine desire to accept the mystic power which promise eternal love . a woman have lose her husband and somehow after a ten year period and a small boy appear proclaim he be the reincarnated soul of her deceased husband . the premise be palatable and the acting be bring to the point of acceptability and with the talent of nicole kidman and lauren becall . however and during the film one become aware that something beyond credulity be be gloss over . the age of the two individual . the old woman eventually accept her late husband spirit in the form of the young boy and therein lie the problem . even if it accept that an old woman could in fact love a little boy and the fact of the matter be and if the role be reverse and and it be an adult man and a ten year old girl in the bathtub and woman group from one side of the country to the other would be screech at the top of their lung that this film be nothing short of child molestation . so before you praise the overall romance of the film and consider what implication be be accept . .