i do not think i would stumble across this movie unless i buy it online but then i get a job work at a video store and there it be . it be an absolute joy to watch . i have see come of age movie before but none can come close to this one . the cinematography and music be excellent . it be funny and tearful at the same time . i recommend it to everyone . it be an obvious work of m. night full of his trademark and his certain touch . go watch it .