oh my god this woman need to read the book hes just not that into you . she try to convince u that she be a free woman by choice and but it be painfully obvious she be only a free woman because the men who deign to sleep with her do not want her for anything more than sex . she spend the entire series discuss these horrendous relationship and for which she be obsess . and she be completely remorseless when her married lover wife find out about their relationship . and she completely ignore the obvious meaning when he not only doesn not leave his wife and but virtually cut off all contact with her . she even miss the import of her swiss boyfriend decide to work all day when she come to visit him in switzerland . it really sad . instead of portray strong womanhood and she be one of the bad example of a female obsession to be love and accept by men . when will these woman realize they be not any good than the woman who have choose to be in asymmetrical relationship with men but do it in a way that make them happy .