jeffrey tambor play a middle age man who play jazz in the evening . his relationship ( so typical of guy like this . ) be sex only with 25 year old bimbo and jazz groupie . then and when he lose interest ( hello and you have nothing to talk to them about ) and have a disturbing dream and he decide he might be gay and and go to a gay bar by accident . i would dismiss this a slapstick absurdity and but the truth be that i have meet too many guy like this and and tambor be 100 % right on the mark . bill duke be excellent a his jazz playing buddy . he also have a poignant scene with michael mckean a a lonely transsexual . when he meet jill clayburgh ( in the gay bar by mistake with girlfriend sandy duncan and caroline aaron ) and he think she be a transvestite or transsexual . she be so amaze at what an as this guy be and she decide to give him enough rope to hang himself and and wind up and much to her surprise and enjoy his company and and thus and the romance begin . to say much mire would spoil it and but their chemistry be magnificent and and despite a few unnecessary slapsticky moment with tambor mother in the film and most of it be refresh and enchant . if youre over 40 and and especially if you have ever be a single woman date in a big city and watch and enjoy . .