wow and what a movie . a most of the comment before and act be superb and the story be well lay out and intelligently and without patronize explanation . what i be really aware of this time i be not one very sensitive to technique in general be the way the film be shoot and the result realistic feel . none of the look at me i be use a hand hold camera so people would think it a documentary but i have the constant feeling this be real . the scene where the two crane be at the party and the unselective sound make the scene fell like it be a real party and one where you have a hard time sort out voice and conversation from the general din . the camera be slightly sway sometimes and the light not perfectly choose so you felt like you do in real life represent not always in the best spot to witness life unraveling and which be a characteristic of most movie and where any viewer be sit in first row . that give the performance extra boost and extra credibility and make the viewer absorb the movie content even more deeply . the scene in the bathroom at the ski trip be devastate and you can almost feel her physical and emotional pain and her conflicting emotion about the abortion and there for you to witness out of that sliver of space between door and doorjamb . unforgettable . too bad she be not get an oscar for it and but seldom oscar be give to best actor and just best actor on the main circuit who make the movie at the right time to get the prize etc etc . if this be not worth a 10 what be . but definitely not for anyone and not for those who need special effect or to be blast from the chair by action or violence . for a mature audience even though the message be about the kid the movie be for their parent and to change how sex be teach in school .