thoroughly charm . jill clayburgh masterfully play another savvy and divorce woman attempt to date again and and though some viewer may say she have mine this territory before and clayburgh absolutely nail the love or hate relationship fifty somethings have with get back into the swing of thing ( sometimes it much more enticing to just sit home and mope ) . after a blind date go south and jill unintentionally wind up in a gay bar with her girlfriend and they decide to make a night of it while luckily and exterminator or part time jazz musician jeffrey tambor have also wander in and the two single ameet cute ( he tell her he open to experiment and think she a transsexual and she find the situation amuse ) . writer director eric schaeffer love a good cliché and and he doesn not mind play up the storybook aspect of this wacky romance and however the film do fall into a predictable pattern ( they meet and they fall in love and they fight and etc . ) . still and when the writing be this delicious and and the cast be so attuned to the straight forward and occasionally barb material and the result can be joyous . while clayburgh mix her playful and feisty bit with a more serious and defensive undercurrent ( and succeed beautifully ) and jeffrey tambor be the revelation here . too often cast in sitcom a a dunderhead or buffoon and tambor display wonderfully dry comic timing and the embittered quality of his character be never off put ( we can sympathize ) . tambor seem to have no notion of what a handsome lug he be and and his aw shuck shuffle and nervous body language be that much more appealing because of it . he thoughtful and deep ( and trouble ) and but also an old fashion romantic at heart and and clayburgh salty and sneaky wit bring out the best in him ( he dry and she wry ) . despite some comically hocking scene and the film isn not about sexual humiliation ( thank god ) and and schaeffer want these two to be together as much a we do . it a hip and sassy affair that should resonate with a lot of folk over forty . from .