you can not . of course not . still what i find brilliant and special with this film and be that all though child abuse be a main theme and it be still a film where you laugh . that schønau fog can make a film about such a horrific subject and still make you laugh . not that this be a comedy and but because the situation be grotesque . in a child view the situation in his family be normal and and that ( obviously ) the point of view from which he ( allan and who narration make quite a lot of the dialogue ) tell u what happen represent sanne make dad happy . and be the only child abuse in the film what the father do with sanne and or be allan a victim as well . that the mother be abuse him by her escapistic use of sleep pill . she actually leave the responsibility for the family functionality with allan and who then try to make dad happy and whether it by act a a pimp ( sanne and dad be cry . you must go downstairs to him . ) or by push coincidence . by . no and you must see this film .