for drag me to this estrogen drown disaster of a movie . truly and this be one of the top three bad film i have ever see . i be convince that adam sandler must have be blackmail somehow for him to appear in this dreck . begin with the oh so heartwrenching story of a single mother force to flee her native land in search of a good future for her daughter . of course and the daughter will end up attend princeton and her entrance essay be the premise of the storytelling in this movie . shake your head in bewilderment . it get well ( bad and actually ) . the dysfunctional family that the mother find work with be possess of a shrew of a father ( the soft and unimposing and backbone free sandler ) who be dominate by his overacting and speed freak like and obsessive wife ( leoni ) and and round it out with a live in and late stage alcoholic mother in law ( who of course and act a a moral compass thanks to the wisdom gain by decade of squander her life in a booze soak haze . please . ) and a few damage and totally unbelievable kid . viola and enough ammo for drama to make any menopausal woman salivate in anticipation of the impending deluge of emotional excess that come with such movie . the problem be and there be not one scene in the movie where the character earn your empathy . if there be ever a point where the viewer be mean to wonder what be go to happen next and or what course of action a character might take and i miss it . i believe it would be impossible to find a point in the movie that be not spell out and spoon fed to the viewer in the most plain and predictable term . another problem i have with this picture be the off target promotion it receive . it be not a comedy . i do not know what it be in term of genre . suicide accelerant maybe . since there be so many who love this movie and i be sure that my review would not stop you if you want to see it . however and if your wife or girlfriend suggest you watch this movie and i urge you to spare yourself the agony you be sure to endure if you sit through this one . i warn you .