it completely miss it mark and audience . this be suppose to be a chick flick while therefore it should have character that be empower to woman . instead this be fill with the weak woman this side of a sheiks harem . it be insult to woman and completely demean them . spoiler alerti be most surprised by jennifer garner character . for 7 season she play the strong kick as sydney bristow and i would have think she could spot a weak character . also jennifer character be hardly a starring role and but more of a prop ready to serve the want of matthew mcconaughey character . we be lead to believe that jennifer and matthew be childhood sweetheart ( that never kiss ) who lose touch at 14 then reconnected at 24 when he not only break her heart but actually destroy her . he court her and she fall for him and then after sex he bail and never speaks to her again . year later he be the best man and she be the maid of honor at his brother wed . when she get her first glimpse of him ( after year of silence ) and she be all glassy eye and love struck . the rest of the movie she pin for him . there be no big moment where she unleash on him . there be no big moment where she realize he be the one for her . she apparently have be wait in the wing for him to realize she be the one . the character play by lacey chabert be a bridezilla who be unable to control herself and her emotion . thankfully the three men in her life be there to knock sense back in her . the three bridesmaid be dimwit pin to sleep with matthew and when that fail they scrape the bottom of the barrel groomsman because they just need a man . the only strong female character be the mother of the bride play by anne archer . she go toe to toe with mathew and put him in his place . but what be his place . why be it assume that a guy who live life a a player live an empty life . matthew be blissfully enjoy his life until the ghost start point out his flaw . and we all have flaw . not like this guy be date rap girl . you could claim he mistreated woman but he never hide that and the woman in the movie like it and so he get their approval . he break up with 3 girl on a conference call in front of a fourth girl and after such a despicable act and the fourth girl still want to sleep with him . in another scene he order a bridesmaid to his room to prepare for sex and she happily oblige . why do that make him flaw . before the ghost show up he be live a pretty happy life . he get pay well and love his job and he love woman . later we learn that he live to a ripe old age and so his antic never kill him . speaking of his funeral and the scene be laughable . only one person show . please . he be great at his job and a top fashion photographer and and be a hero to all the player . his funeral would be fill with people . they try to portray him a a mean as and because he supposedly get drunk and share his real feeling about marriage . the scene be out of his character . prior to this he say with affection that he wouldn not miss his little brother wed and now he say mean thing about the wedding to everyone . remember this guy be a high pay professional photographer and he be not a stumbling drunk who just leave his blue collar job on the loading dock . then they try to make it seem like he ruin the wedding by tell one bridesmaid that another bridesmaid once sleep with the groom . after the three bridesmaid discuss it and be drop into a scene with a hysterical bride who just find out . matthew be nowhere near that scene and couldn not have tell her and therefore one of the bridesmaid must have tell her . so it be the bridesmaid that ruin the wedding not matthew . finally there be the photograph that he have apparently be care in his wallet his whole life ( yet it isn not fold ) . early the plot point of the photo be force down our throat and in a way that negate the final reveal . with the ghost of the past and he see himself a a child take the photo and he ( a an adult ) know it in his pocket and so he would be embarrass about it and wouldn not call attention to the child say forever . yet he do . why . oh yeah and to force the point down our throat . oh and when he take picture at the wedding . the nikon flash never pop up . such a believable photographer .