first off . i would like to state i have never write a review in my life and let alone and one for imdb . i watch this movie and felt so strongly that it need a fair review on this site . there will be no major spoiler . the movie center on christopher and grace . both of whom be in their early fifty and love lorn and even though they would not admit it . through a series of strange event ( chris botch attempt to have a new sexual experience and to grace attempt to blind date ) bring both together at a gay bar . what great about the film be the writing and first and foremost . some may be put off by it candidness . some may also find it heartless at who it poke fun at . i can assure you that the writer or director eric schaeffer give everyone a chance to be the butt end of a joke . his character tend to have imperfect quality . especially his lead male character ( i. e. starve or mind the gap ) . he give such respect to the sexuality of an old man and woman that have never be represent in hollywood . they be portray a sexual and feeling creature . he show them a human being look for love and tenderness . not just the typical older man or woman who can not let go of their ex or their kid who go off to college and that what their life be about . the forever the parent without an identity of their own . these people go on with their life . like real people do . outside of the writer or director be the performer . the character be give direct and bs free dialogue . they be very open at any give moment to ask for what they want from each other . which what i would imagine one demeanor to be when reach their age . this especially come out when deal with their sexuality . jeffrey tambors portrayal a a disaffected bachelor be a quiet and sweet performance and but one that also have these moment of assertive strength that you be not use to see out of him a an actor . he usually use a a goof or some weaselly character . a a lead and the man shin . jill clayburgh be wonderful a grace and the spurn and icy divorcée that be ready to open up and love again . there be not much i know of her work and but her willingness to give herself to the role be something you do not expect on face value . bill duke be absolutely great in this film a chris best friend and music partner . he there to give chris levity and do so in a very endearing way . while the rest of cast do a fine job and the last person that really stand out be micheal mckean . i would not spoil where and how he show up and but let just say it twelve hour since i watch it and my rib still feel a little sore from laugh . the movie be sad . the movie be funny . the movie be touch . be the movie sappy . yes . but not in the way you would expect . the movie have this hollywood like end but be justified because it completely with the realm of the character and and not force . the movie make you believe that get old doesn not preclude the loss of desire and sexuality . everyone should watch this movie . teenager and adult and senior citizen and they should all watch to see that be old doesn not mean your dead from the waist down .