this be a great film . so many gay film today focus on teenage youth come out and or 20 something pretty boy and their gorgeous boy friend and or and much too common and have an aids theme or sub theme . even then most film of the last 15 year and the period of time i call the age of gay cinema and focus on really young guy . don not get me wrong . beautiful men with pecs and six pack be lovely eye candy . what i like about this film be it dare to look at men who be past 30. a a man look back at 6 decade of life and with about 5 decade ofpersonal gay identity behind me and this film speak to my own personal experience . yes and it hard to date when you reach 39 and or 45 and or 60. damn hard . yet my life do not hit it prime until i turn 40. that say and it nice to see on film a portrayal of what all the twinks and muscle queen and and in the case of this film and all the every man type will have to go through a they pass the big three 0. spoiler aheadjosh and a 30 something year old caterer living in west hollywood and catch his long time partner of 10 year in a flagrant act with a 19 year old twink . he throw a fit ( who wouldn not ) and stomp his foot and cry a little and go to a bar where his friend chris and an aspiring mba graduate and propose that he and chris and set up josh with 10 guy in 10 date to find mr right . now josh be the every man of the gay world . he be an average guy . not pretty . not a muscle boy . a nice look man and but he would stand out a over the hill in many circle of gay society today . josh reluctantly go along with the silly plan but insist that if no perfect love show up that he and josh and will go back to cleveland where he grow up and start his life over . ok. what ensue be a very funny set of scene with 10 guy from hell who either be gay for pay and hustler and stone out loser and be hide lover on the side and have anger management issue and be bi sexual and have a girlfriend on the side or just plain loony tune . what make this film so real and really very romantic and sweet be that josh be really an old fashioned guy . or a josh put it to one of the 10 date and i be just a regular gay guy . he say this to a cute 20 something year old guy who have a girlfriend and but explain though not gay myself and my girlfriend want to watch me get it on with another guy . josh responds with the line that just not gon na happen . josh want a commitment . he want a guy who love him and who have a job and a car and even someone who will tear open three equal for their ice tea or coffee that the sugar substitute . this seemingly meaningless line play an enormous part in the last scene of the film . now this film be make with very little money and sometimes that be really noticeable . lot of hand hold camera and naturally lit bar and restaurant scene . sometimes the sound be not too clear . what be clear to me be that unlike many recent popular gay film like latter day or eden curve the men in this film be really gay . probably not all of them and but certainly the lead and many character . this give the film a reality that be unmistakable . when your go for an attempt to show how hard it be for a gay guy of a certain age to find a certain someone that will share your life and love and it great to have real gay men provide the acting . the acting be what make this film . i have know all these people at some time or another in my own life . they be real and the pain and happiness and confusion and redemption they express in their search for love be real . now i know what some will say . the cast be play character that be all stereotype . sometimes and sometimes . josh and however be absolutely dead on . i have be josh . my friend have be josh . all the pretty boy in this film will reach a time when they be all become josh . be that a stereotype . maybe and but it also real life . finally and anyone review this film must speak to the great judy tunuta . she be just perfect a the goofy psychologist oversee the group therapy session that chris attends . judy be always so funny . you just can not take your eye off her . it also so funny that her name be glenda in this film . the therapy group call her the good witch of the west . oh and remember those packet of sweetener . the 3 equal packet . they provide the unspoken and yet brilliantly encapsulate little cheat which bring a happy end to this film . the look in josh eye when he watch the guy in front of him tear open those 3 packet for his coffee in the train station restaurant be so romantic . it bring goosepimples up on my arm to understand what josh be think and feel . who be this guy . that be for you to find out when you see the film . this be a wonderful and funny and compassionate movie with a real heart . it a keeper .