some people consider it necessary that i warn you that crucial plot element be expose in my review . i feel it be more crucial that i warn you to not see this movie . here why representnever before have i felt so mislead by review from you know who ( 2 thumb up . ) and this site resident reviewer ( 3 star . ) and not to mention the jacket cover and all claiming this be to be a fun comedy . well if your idea of a comedy be watch a woman get drunk and get beat up and almost rap and live with a psychopath and turn him in to protect him from himself and others and give birth to their child alone and re marry a guy who fill with as much rage a the 1st hubby and and then and when the 1st hubby return and leave her 3 kid and 2nd hubby without so much a a i be gon na miss you then this be your kinda a comedy . so pop some corn and cuddle up and and prepare to laugh your head off . if i have know this be an edgy drama i would have be well prepare to properly judge this movie and but i keep wonder when be it go to get funny and even if only in a black comedy kind of way and like war of the rose . it never do and save for 4 line ( yes and i count them all . there be little else to do . ) and one of those involved swearing at a 9 year old and tell her to shut up and drink her beer . ( oh and and it be so endear when the 9 year old give the adult permission to swear because after all she have hear bad . ) what really get me be that all the review describe this movie like this represent hip comedy about a woman who remarry after her 1st hubby go to jail and and then 10 year later when he be release must choose between the 2. well that part about the 1st hubby go to jail doesn not happen until more than an hour into the story and and by then you have figure out that it be a no brainer she will always go with this guy and no matter who else she marry even if it john travolta . and do not bother watch this for john travolta . he doesn not make his entrance until the last 30 minute and be in only 3 major scene . so i guess the point of this movie be more of a social commentary on the irrational thinking involve with love ( she de lovely . ha ha . now i get it . oh palease . ) and deal with life difficulty in general . well i guess i be now officially un hip and because even in retrospect no and i do not get it .