the title be a comment make by sandie ( jim gaffigan ) and a patient of dr. trabulous ( tony shaloub ) and who be try to deal with his life problem . it perfectly describe the feeling i have when i watch this film and which be suppose to be four story about new yorkers deal with the trauma bring on by 9/11 . what trauma . emme ( maggie gyllenhaal ) be try to get a cake order and and her main competitor ( edie falco ) be not happy that she be the queen of cake at the moment . david ( thomas mccarthy ) and allison ( judy greer ) be so distraught over their monster of a kid that they haven not have sex in 27 day . judy ( olympia dukakis ) have a boring life take care of a husband that just watch tv . avi ( naseeruddin shah ) cheat on his wife for the first time . be we suppose to believe that all this come about a a result of 9/11 . give me a break . we be watch normal story about normal life that would go on regardless of tragedy or trauma . the life we see be really not that interest .