so hollywood decides that it be time for a new romantic comedy which cover the fashionable subject of the attractive old woman take a toy boy lover . she ( uma thermon ) 37 and he ( bryan greenberg ) 23. she divorcée on the rebound from a failed marriage . he hunky stud learn about life ( and girl ) and look for fun and whilst ponder his inner soul where a great artist be struggle to be free . add his jewish family and ( especially ) his jewish mum ( meryl streep ) who want him to settle down with a nice jewish girl and you have plenty of room for some neil simon style yiddisher mama clichés . further complicate thing by have the thurmon character psychoanalyst the streep character ( i. e. her lover mum gettit . ) and let the fun begin . whilst daring ( plenty of genitalia description ) and modern the plot be also derivative . perhaps the illusion be intentional ( e. g. the scene steal from notting hill where he break into a small urban garden with his new love to sit quietly amongst the greenery and the peace ) they be none the less unoriginal . put red wine in the fridge now what movie be that from . i saw the film on a long distance flight so perhaps it be an edited edition and but most of the coitus do seem to be off screen . but the anatomical reference be up front ( to coin a phrase ) and ( i be no prude ) vulgar . want to knit a little hat for his lovely penis that sort of thing . the direction be as clichéd a the story . the usual city shot in the twilight . as far a the performance be concerned let assume ( charitably ) that the star be direct that way . funny ( not wholly intentionally ) of all be streep and about half way through the film i roar out loud ( cause some of my fellow passenger to look up ) when i realise who she remind me of it be dustin hoffman in drag in tootsie the spit image of steep mama or psychoanalyst . if you have really nothing well to do ( like me at the time ) then watch the film if you must . but good to find a good book .