know the struggle that a lot asian go through with come out and their acceptance by their family and this movie be a breeze of fresh air . it be ok for parent to have preconceive idea and hope for their kid but a little bit of open mindedness can make everyone so happy . i watch this movie at the glbt festival at the museum of fine art in boston and where this movie be select to be screen on the closing night . it a movie i can comfortably watch with my parent without make them uncomfortable also . i also get an opportunity to hang out with ms. parmar and the director of the movie and who i interview for a magazine . a very down to earth and real person and who have kinda live the story . kudos to pratibha parmar for give me 2 hour of smile and happiness through her movie .