the film humanize the gay marriage debate and focus not only on the emotional impact of marriage for individual same sex couple and but also the under dog fight face by local legislator and those in political action committee who have devote their life to the issue . frame same sex marriage a the next great civil right challenge and save marriage navigate the long and complicated political and legislative process with a human context and give a face to a topic that be often eschew a empty political rhetoric . if the film doesn not convince you of the justness of it cause and it at least offer a mean to understand the issue and measure what be at stake for gay couple who seek the right and validation offer by legally sanction marriage .