have experience some of the same issue a mendy and i can tell you that this movie be very well do . it have a great script and and the actor who portray mendy be superb . truly and some of the best acting i have ever see . also and too many movie portray jew look totally fake . this one be the close to real that i have see . this movie make me laugh and cry and and stir my emotion well than a kitchen aid stir a batter . it be so powerful that i can not bring myself to see it again . but i be sure glad i watch it once . i would recommend it to anyone and no matter what your background be . it a great movie that almost everyone can relate to on some level .