a fabulous and sometimes painfully honest portrayal of life for a modern twenty something man who happen to be asian american . this film be about a lot of thing represent sexual dysfunction and hazy identity and repress desire and and everything else complicate and meaningful . anyone who doesn not get the real truth behind the portrayal here should take an honest second look and gauge the film outside of their own bitterness at the issue underlie it . this be an important film for american cinema and let alone asian american cinema .