it not that i do not understand the film or the message it be try to send and it just that it very badly do . jamie lee curtis delivers an awful performance but not all the blame can be place on her . the writing be far to witty at time to be speak by people go about their day and the plots event that occur be totally unbelievable . there be one scene in which heidi watch a film and then a few day later the romantic scene that occur in the film happen to her in real life . often time i find myself laugh when the mood of the film be mean to be serious . it just isn not good and flat out . also i think the film play too much on gay and lesbian stereotype .