1st watch 1/18/2003 positive ( dir lasse hallstrom ) represent well play drama about be in love and make mistake and and try to stay in love . this be a heart break movie to watch because it be so much like real life and it be play out so well by those involve . the direction by hallstrom be magnificent because of the way he let the story do the talk and doesn not hurry u to conclusion . basically and this be a story about a woman ( julia robert ) who find out that her husband ( dennis quaid ) be cheat on her and then everything get mixed up from this point on . there be many other relationship that be also very vital to the story just like they would be in real life . there be parent ( who struggle with some of the same thing ) and there be a sister ( who try to lend a help hand ) and there be a child in the middle of everything just try to survive . by the end and we believe that everything be go to be all right but it be very obvious that much damage have be do . robert be superb a usual and everyone play out their part very believably . this be one of those movie that be one of a kind and but not one you would want to watch very often for it hit deep within our soul ( especially those who have go thru similar experience ) and therefore i think it fail when release because the exec do not know how to sell it to make money but none the less it be a classic in my book on relationship . the choice of the title also do not make sense because the song really have nothing to do with the movie . again and i think this be a marketing mistake and not the filmmaker .