despite it awful title and this film have potential . i want to be able to like this doc and herald it a an important feminist work for open the discussion between woman of different culture on what love and marriage mean to them and but i be so put off by fox seemingly willful ignorance about her own life that it negate the film positive . fox be so self obsess and unwilling to admit her own role in the relationship she choose and the reality of how most other relationship work that i find it nearly unbearable to watch . i think there a way to eschew traditional relationship role without be so selfish or purposefully oblivious that you can not sympathize with those who adhere more to traditional role . i mean and any single adult who enter into an ongoing sexual relationship with a married person and doesn not for a second think what happen if we get discover . nor acknowledges in any way prior to be discover that say discovery might be the catalyst in the demise of the adulterous relationship be a tad delusional . and the whole i do not get married because i have see men do bad thing and i do not want to get emotionally hurt bent just seem so naive . what do marriage have to do with the capacity to be hurt emotionally . obviously fox be hurt by the fact that she couldn not talk to her lover after his wife discover their sexual relationship . the only way to not open yourself up to be emotionally hurt by relationship be to not be in any relationship and marry or otherwise . be that not common sense to liberal new york narcissist . guess not . fox annoy hubris be a shame and because if she could have just shut up about her own stupid life for a second and she might have have a good idea for a documentaryand it would have be a hell of a lot short than a tedious six hour . instead be present with someone who proclaim her alleged freedom while show u how miserable her decision to be free make her . um and hooray .