the first 3/4 of the movie be cute and but nothing to rave about represent boy meet girl and they eventually fall love and marry and she become pregnant and everyone be happy . then disaster strike in the form of an earthquake cause her to miscarry and her injury be such that she will never be able to have a child . they be sad but stick together through it and and they eventually put their life back together again . they decide they still want a child so they adopt . when they get to the adoption agency and a kind adoption lady present them with a baby girl and they fall in love with the child and decide to adopt her . you see the adoption process and how happy they be . it be cute to see them learn how to take care of a baby . their financial situation change when the child be about 2 and and before the adoption be final and the adoption head honcho threaten to take her away and because now they be poor . a stir speech by grant ( and the faith of the kind adoption lady ) convinces say honcho that grant and dunne be still good parent and that their child will never starve . they be allow to keep the child and who we next see a sweet a little girl a anyone could wish for . now a i say and up to this point and everything have be fine and some down and but they have work out their problem and be a happy and function family unit . a a whole the movie up to this point have be a cute and sweet a their little girl . then bam and the next minute the kid be dead ( no warning to the audience that the kid be sick and just bam dead of something or other ) . they be too grief stricken to help each other and and instead tear themselves and each other a part . it only be three day since the little darling death and and they be split up because they just can not handle the grief ( this explain why dunne be pack to leave grant throughout the current time scene in the film ) . dunne write to the kind adoption lady tell her their tragedy as soon a the girl die and and before dunne have a chance to leave grant for good and the adoption lady inform the couple ( who have yet to make up and be just as miserable a ever remember it have only be three day since their little girl die ) that the agency just get in a sweet little boy ( two year old and golden curl and the sort of kid they think they want to adopt before they saw their baby girl ) and and would they be interest in see him . now suddenly and everything be a okay and and they have plan to turn their daughter room in to the perfect room for a little boy . nothing and have be resolve in their marriage . before they find out about the boy they be in the middle of deeply grieve for their daughter and in fact they be so grief stricken i think for sure they be go to turn the little girl room in to a shrine or something . then they hear about this little boy and and it like their little girl never exist . in short and the end be unnecessarily tragic in the little girls death alone and more so when her death split dunne and grant apart and and ruin both by the fact that the couple problem be not fix at the end of the movie and just paper over and and the treatment of a loss of a child a something a kin to the loss of a goldfish . oh you lose your child . that sad and but not a real problem . just never you mind that and buck up mom and dad and here another . it be a though the movie be almost a warning to parent and enjoy them now because the little one you love maybe take from you at any moment and except and just kidding and that do not really matter because you can always have another and poof your grief will be go . basically and if you stop the movie at the christmas when the girl be six and it be not bad and it a cute film and though not worth it rave review . the last twenty minute or so ruin it and turn a tolerable film in to something that i just can not take .