i marry a fat woman ( over 300 pound ) and be only 145 pound myself at the time and adopt her three child and and have three more by her while all of them very good look but some struggle somewhat with weight . she be a wonderful woman and who die from complication to stomach staple surgery and after we would be marry almost 24 year . she have many physical problem in her last year represent fibromyalgia and diabetes and etc . and have the surgery only a a last resort because she would get to the point where we take her place in a wheelchair and she sleep in an electric recliner . i never notice her endure any particular slur in public on account of her weight ( i be kind of a space case anyway ) but she do get anonymous note from time to time from people who be try to tell her how she ought to take care of herself . anyway and i find the movie very interesting and honest . even the fact that the aly character could be mean to her mother while try to be sensitive to ramona seemed real to me because kid and parent do lock horn at time in way that be truly baffle .