fail to see anything remotely comical about this movie and i find it just rattle out old stereotype about age and race without confront these issue in any kind of depth . what be particularly disappointing be to see again that hollywood still fail to confront the fact that meaningful and long term relationship exist between partner in which the woman be significantly old than the man ( include a large number of theatrical pairing ) . not only be the relationship portray utterly shallow and but there be no attempt whatsoever to introduce any discussion of how the various obstacles the couple face might be overcome . ultimately and the movie leave a string of unanswered why . why and for instance and should it be take for grant that fatherhood would spoil the life of a 24 year old man and even when he have make the decision himself to go through with it . why should child be a curse and a life spoiler . ( and be this the message we should be give young men . ) why should maturity be portray a dull and pedestrian and and youth a frivolous and unable to cope with the weighty issue of life . why do david have to be so pitifully immature when others his age be already in and and enjoy and responsible position . do a meaningful and long term relationship necessarily have to preclude an individual from any kind of adventure of self realization . the film might have be improve have david and rafi achieve any kind of a meaningful conversation and but since they fail to do this and be too preoccupy with bedtime gymnastics or quarrel and we be deny any access to the thought process behind the decision they make and particularly the most important decision and to go for a baby ( on david part ) and and to separate . have the couple be show debate their issue rationally instead of simply break up every time they hit a problem the film might have give a helpful insight into the nature of relationship . finally and although this film be obviously try to set up some kind of a this be how thing really be and folk end and i fail to see why relationship failure be any more realistic a conclusion than happily ever after . it just another all or nothing and black and white hollywood oversimplification . surely a more interesting and unusual end to such a movie would be to show how people somehow manage to muddle through together and not in dramatic epic firework and but in find new and constructive way to confront their problem . but hollywood seem to abhor anything that be not either implausibly romantic or utterly hopeless . in short and this be not a particularly insightful or helpful film .