live in southern california and be a gay man i never really spent much time think about not be able to marry my partner or the ramification of an amendment to any state constitution ban same sex partner . this film make me laugh and cry and make me remember what be an american and gay human be be about which be equal right for all . if other state can take on this issue it give hope for place where the rest of u live and be relevant for all gay and straight people who love and know gay people . after time you learn to accept and forget the want to say in front of your loved one and the world that you be gong to marry the man you love and be able to legally call someone your husband though that be what i call my boyfriend now . thank you mike and doug for put your heart and soul and time into this project . i hope my partner and i will soon be able to marry here in california and i be now go to be more proactive about make that happen in part due to the inspiration i gain from watch this film .