wow this movie really blow me away . it manage to tackle an extremely difficult subject with honor and love and and respect for both side of the issue . i agree with another reviewer that judith light be overlook for an oscar nomination that year . what an incredible performance . cad allen and too i think give one of his best performance to date . can you believe that this be the writer only work and so far . i hope he be work on other thing and a a writer . if anyone who work on this film read this . a big congratulation and thanks . this be what film making should be about . a film that can help to bridge gap with honesty and understanding and and self awareness .