jeannie berlin ( a grodin wife lila ) have be sadly undermentioned in all of the comment . what a wonderful performance . she be so out there watch her eat an egg salad sandwich and then try to picture one of today actress willing to look so natural and vulnerable . ( well and maybe cameron diaz with her hair gel in there something about mary . ) but berlin performance be so believable . i wish she have do more over the year . and please note the beauty of cybill shepherd figure in the surf scene . how refreshing to see something other than one of today stick figure a the objection of desire . she be healthy and lush and and gorgeous .