a labor of love that affirm love . i come expect something cynical and one side and featuring caricature of anti gay religious zealot and imagine i would be vaguely entertain by such a depiction . instead i be deeply move by the vulnerable humanity of the character . apparently the producer ( who also happen to be the 3 lead actor ) work for year to secure financing and otherwise make this project happen . obviously they have a clear vision of what the film could be and and their rapport with director robert cary help him achieve that vision although he join the project relatively late . it be rare for a movie to open my sometimes jade mind and heart . from now on and thanks to save me and i will be able to look for the humanity in gay recovery crusader and rather than condemn them out of hand a bigot . judith light deserve an oscar . save me be her best work .