gay or straight and this film illuminate the emotional undercurrent of the gay marriage issue on many level . beyond the political talk point ( which be engage and amuse in and of themselves ) and the film point to what it mean to have the allowance of marriage a a goal or purpose in a relationship at all . and how that resonate in a person life . the film be incredibly well make and beautifully shot and tightly edit or structure . and just flat out blew me away a a shin example of what intelligent and evocative film making can be . everyone should see this film . especially those who be so vehemently oppose to the issue . everything be quite fairly lay out . not overly condemn one way or the other . a wide exposure of this film would create a more productive and human conversation on the topic so we could collectively move forward a a society without such judgment and fear . and this be all come from a very private and non politically vocal individual . congrats to all involve .