i just watch the movie and i felt i could really relate to it personally . i be engage to a woman that be ten year old than me and ( i be 22 . ) besides the outlandish first meeting and the night cap and my fiancée and i have much of the same trial and error that they experience in the movie . she do not run away to new york though and but if she do i would have chase her down like max do . long story short and a great movie . the realism in the relationship throughout the movie be superb . also i like how nora stand her ground during the thanksgiving dinner and much like my fiancée defensive attitude be towards my family . definitely a movie worth watch .