i saw this movie at a film festival before it be release to the general public and poor nicole kidman get boo ed by a lot of the people who have come to see the movie . i eventually go to see it again when it be finally release to the general public . i can not believe how uptight american can be about anything and everything involve sex and sexual situation . what be their hang ups about such thing . people be too worried about the movie appear to condone child pornography instead of watch the movie for what it be actually about represent a movie about death and mourning and and re incarnation . since i practice budism and i be glad to see the issue of re incarnation bring up in such a mainstream movie . the story be very gripping and hold you to the edge of the seat the entire time . i also like the fact that there be very little dialogue in the movie . sometimes and too many word and unnecessary conversation can get in the way of a great story .