after oprah and i have to submit my overdue review . we all here know what this film be about . black woman fall in love with white man . it be a sweet story that be muddle by pretentiousness and caricature . i go in with an open mind and after read all the review in imdb . com and i must admit and much good than i have expect . do that mean i be move by the performance . no . do that mean it should be nominate for oscar . no . do that mean it be a thought provoking film that be go to open up the floor for dialogue amongst great mind . no . downside represent i totally do not approve of the proving i be a down a sister scene . it be pointless and too obvious . it would have probably work much well with subtlety . but the final cut i have see doesn not show much room for correction . upside represent i can tolerate the irony of brian and kenya meeting again in the next scene at the garden party . however and do the film benefit from irony in a closely examined issue in america like race relation . downside represent kenya admit that she be be rude to brian wasn not believable for her character . she come off a a strong head and stick in her way type of girl . it come too early in the film and show u her in this sort of hooray and i survive the three ghost of christmas past and dramatic change . upside represent i do like the scene where he explain what need to be do for her garden . for me and that how real people talk no matter what their objective or unconscious desire be . it smart and it will be the only scene of subtlety from here on end in this film . downside represent donald faison character sound too ignorant to make me believe that he as educate a the film want u to believe . his cartoonish behavior only overshadow any sign of his supposed intellect . i not only do not believe that he be kenya brother and i do not believe that they live on the same block or be even in the same film . he be also offensive for no reason and annoying . didn not do much for his character . he need to stick to scrub . donald ignorance only echo throughout the film with other annoy character like mike epps character . why would he even come at brian like that when they be double dating . wasn not he new to the picture as well . who give mike epps character permission to be the designated old bro of kenya . i do not believe it . just more time to saturate the character and make their effort seem that much more irrelevant . downside represent kenya friend be these suppose success story and but they sound like dashieky and them on the corner . i know plenty of educate sister and their so use to reel it in that you will never hear them talk that ignorant and talk about have big head kidz and all that bull . they be talk crazy in the back office of a synagogue during a jewish wedding and very loud and ghetto . i do not believe it for a single second . oh and it get well . downside represent now let all agree that blair underwood character come off a the suppose i. b. m. educate and handsome and successful and whatever and right . kenya have even express to the people close to her how great he be . then why would the writer and director allow his character to totally go leave only to make the crisis that much more easy for kenya . why would they bring down the value of the telling by make him become that superficial and weirdo that we all love to dislike . doesn not that make the right choice blatantly obvious for kenya . it be an easy way out and it wasn not even believable . it would have work good if blair underwood be still a great guy until the end and exemplify the patience and sincerity and charm quality that make brian the winner and and then some . it would have work good if blair underwood character be beyond competition for brian and allow kenya to make the hard choice to follow her heart and regardless of how she would make white look right . those be the best love story and when a man or woman have to choose between two great people and leave them no choice but to follow their heart . wouldn not that have make a big statement . and why do kenya feel the need to bring brian back to the cotillion in that mexican suit . could both the writer and director have make u see how much kenya accepts brian for who he be no matter what her friend and family say in a different and more profound way . it kill the film . now she have something to prove . pity . and she use poor brian to prove it . memo to the writer and director represent back to the draw board with this one . memo to oprah represent you need to stick to talk about nothing rather than what film be good . let not forget beloved the countless other film you have put your stamp of approval on while white chick and diary of a mad black woman and madea family reunion and crash and many and many more .