this film start out good and pretty much stay that way and reach it high point with the oedipus joke . after that it straight down . it just lose appeal to fast and it especially do so after the first wedding . then there be some shoot out and a betrayal subplot and somehow the comedy get lose and you just have a mafia movie that be not really that good . also i find the performance of lisa kudrow too friend like and i though that deniro could not cry that convincingly and but that latter doesn not really matter to me that much and for this be a comedy . up until the oedipus joke i probably would have give this one an 8 but now see the whole film it this representa verrrrrry small ( like 6 and 5 ) positive .