i wish there be more film like this . anders and the director and be a very wise person and especially in how she see human relationship and treat them in this film . people call this an intelligent film and i be not say it not and but that comment say a bundle about a lot of the other film that have be out there lately and where character just do not seem human and act more like plot robot and void of any recognizable human feeling or dimension . evil and good in absolute black and white stroke . no and most people be more complex than that and even if mass medium doesn not seem to want to poke much beyond the surface that they present to u . this movie be intelligent because it very intuitive in it understanding of how most real people relate to one another . there be two particular scene that i especially love . one be with the young daughter bring home purely by coincidence the ex lover of her mom for a supposedly blind first date with the mom . she and the ex play it cool and ironically pretend they do not know each other and by the end of it and the lover come to understand the mom maternal love for her daughter and why she can not continue with him a her lover and which be all spell out without anyone say anything directly . the second scene be slightly less poignant and but also show the unspoken understanding between good people . it involve the satellite cable installer and the mom and how they communicate indirectly and in a silly smart way the nature of their newfound relationship with one another and what they want from it . their conversation in bed after the first time do it be a gem . very strong recommendation .