i have no trouble believe the may or october romance . it be sarandon rude and crude and arrogant and and tacky behavior at the thanksgiving dinner that make me wonder how the hero could stand her . ( sarandon so often seem to play that kind of a self righteous character . ) spader be compel in this film at least until the last ridiculous scene . that be too much and and kill the glow of the end for me . still . an engrossing movie .