i saw this film and i be so blown away . a a gay man i haven not really be able to see the gay marriage debate beyond and sure and we should get what they get . but this be a great documentary that totally change how much i value gay marriage . besides the message and the storytelling be extremely well do and and you couldn not have ask for a good bad guy in that incumbent that carl be up against . but that be just one of many thing that be well execute . open mind interview with both side of this issue make it crystal clear why gay marriage be crucial to the survival of the gay community it appear to be far more than a label of equality or simply be fair with financial right .