okay and let set the stage represent i hate lifetime movie for their poor acting and cheesy script and lack of realism and and ridiculous soap opera style plot and emotion . ( and i just ain not into all that kleenex . ) can not stand mush and not much on tearjerker . but i truly can not relate with those say this be an awful movie . i laugh my tail off . hilarious . so real ( well and for the most part ) while you will laugh and you will cry and you will hold your breath and you will just want more . the moment be very real and well do and i agree that willis and pfeiffer render stellar performance . it be a romantic comedy . ( do you see it . ) such a well write script and excellently direct . virtually no complaint from start to finish . ( although and admittedly and i watch an edited version and miss all the language . ) anyone who be marry any length of time ( and especially for a number of year ) will appreciate the reality and depth of emotion and meaning in this poignant movie . sense of humor require . totally worth see again and again .