what a moving film . i have a dear friend who be in her sixty and for the past 15 year have tell me that people do not see her anymore and and she long for companionship . be in my late 40 i be begin to see what she have be complain about . you be no longer youthful and beautiful or touchable . when may say . this lump of a body . wow . how our body change and how we be tell it be no longer beautiful . i love when she begin to change what she wear . the colorful scarf . no longer the frumpy wife . it be a sad and wonderful picture at the same time . sad in that may betray her daughter trust . beautiful in that she find herself through the difficulty of the affair and and chooses to move on and finally have her own life . i love the character dare to even initiate the love affair . mostly i love the movie because finally it be a picture that show the intricate nature of relationship and be they familial or not . we see paula vulnerability and yet she will have what she want at all cost . ( when she tell her mum that she will have a baby for darren whether he want one or not after her mother ask if darren even want a child ) . the movie hit the mark on the how relationship can change and and yet reveals what have be there all along and dormant . may have stifle her own creativity to raise a family . a family that she do not really want and but be something you just do when she be young . i love the scene when darren call her an old tart and and she smile and say i be never call that before . it be truly a gem of a movie . and daniel craig . well and i just love him . i be pleasantly surprise . not only be he pleasant on the eye and he be a real talent . what a neat role . he be much more than any 007 that be for sure and i look forward to see him in more role of this nature . the scene where he be pleasuring may and the look he give her be sort of a look of wonder that he have such control over this woman and and also one of pleasure of be able to give this to her . he be actually enjoy give her pleasure . a wonderful scene . the contrast be the love scene with bruce . bruce be totally absorb with his own pleasure . two completely different men . ala . i wonder where be my darren .