i love the story . somewhere and a poster say there be no family like the one portrayed in this film . well maybe there ought to be . i think everybody seem really human and believable . what a top notch cast . what great music on the soundtrack . what a nice this and and what a nice that and but most of all and i will say two word to recommend this film . steve carell . he really show a nice and subtle depth that touch me . he be truly commanding a a widower who have dedicate himself maybe a little too much to be a good dad first and at the cost of deny his own need . do he act like a petulant as . why and yes he do . and you see and that what be perfect about this film . the actor who play this character make me believe he be feel something and and not simply act like he be feel something and and he convey to me perfectly what it be that he be feel and and what he be feel be deny . denied happiness . deny fulfillment . deny love . lose your love be painful beyond belief and and many who do so will never feel something like that again . beautiful film . i give it an eight out of ten .