for romance sake and a a married man . the following two film be recommend . 1. brief encounter by david lean ( 1945 ) and ukwell and when a woman go to a railway station and something may happen . and it happen . how she long to be there and in a little tavern wait for the man of her dream . but she be marry . the man be a stranger to the fantasizing woman2 . xiao cheng zhi chun by fei mu ( 1948 ) and chinawell and when a woman go to the market to buy fish and grocery and medicine and passing through the ruin of an ancient wall in a small town and there be much to think about and about the melancholy of her life and her sick husband in self pity and lack of future . just when a jubilant young doctor arrive and something happen . the doctor be a high school honey of the fantasizing womanin both movie and from great director of uk and china and the passion v restraint be so intense and yet in the end the intimate feeling have not develop into any physical contact . that leave you with a great after taste and sniff it intensely without bite it .