sit down to watch the 14th season of the bachelor ( on the wing of love ) and i know i would be in for an interesting time . i have watch some of the previous season of the bachelor in pass while watch an episode or two and miss the next three or so . i find that the bachelor be often appealing and intriguing and though it quality and morality be often lack . on the wing of love detail the journey take by jake and a 31 year old commercial pilot from dallas and texas and to find true love and a true a love a one can find in a season long reality drama date show . jake meet 25 beautiful girl from all over the country . he begin to get to know them a bit and but it be mostly superficial while how well can you get to know someone in a few 5 minute conversation . jake try to make his true intention know from the very beginning and at least to the audience . he note that he doesn not just want love or a good time and but he want a fiancé or wife . we can only assume that he have make this clear to the woman in the competition as well . if that be the case and it might explain and to a degree and some of the woman action . the woman be super competitive . while they do not even know jake at all yet and they be still in it to win it no matter what the cost . not only be the woman competitive and but they be also confident and catty . threat and backstabbing and and warning of watch out . all show that these woman weren not there for a good time either . jake note that he be not just look for sex appeal and but look for a connection . however and the girl pull out all the stop to try to impress jake with say sex appeal . they arrive at the mansion in skimpy dress either low cut or short . while some girl seem to maintain their sense of decorum and others miss that memo altogether . one girl and channy and note that jake be a good guy to whom she could be a naughty girl . she go on to say that jake could land on her runway anytime . she get flack from the other girl for her provocative statement which show their take on these situation . so and a reality date show couldn not be that bad and could it . besides the obvious issue of sex drive attraction and there be other issue that mar this seemingly harmless show . be this the right way to find a future mate while vie for someone attention by flaunt oneself to extreme proportion . unfortunately and however and that be what america have reduce date to these day represent pleasure and sex without commitment and a little happiness on the side . another problem be the premature emotional attachment by which many of the girl bind themselves to jake . a few girl in particular seem to be overly attach . one girl say if i do not get that first impression rise it will kill me . a mention before and they do not even know him yet and she be talk about a specific rise and not just one of the 15 rose to keep from be eliminate . michelle and in particular and seem to have some issue with attachment to jake . the other girl notice it too . after one particular michelle outburst and vienna assert that michelle have a mental breakdown and we have only be here an hour . michelle get the last rise of the evening on the first show narrowly miss elimination and be extremely emotional about it . the other girl think it be simply ridiculous . another girl also cry and but because she be eliminate . it begin with survivor and and from there it just take off reality tv . it show our entertainment interest a a country while if we weren not watch the show and give them good rating and the network would not continue to run them . the only logical conclusion that can be draw be that enough of america be hook . one thing be clear represent america ( in general ) love reality tv and it ensuing trapping . this beg me to question represent why be it that we even like reality tv . what be it about it that draw u to it . be it because we see the similarity to our own life and or be it because we want to be sure that we be more stable and less pathetic than others . whatever it be that draw u to it and we should be careful of the medium and entertainment that we allow to fill our mind . i be not say that all reality tv show be bad while however and i be say that we need to evaluate each one . episode use for critique represent season premier and episode 2 .