the recent boom of date show on u. s. television screen have reach a fevered pitch since the first episode of the bachelor . unsuspecting audience have since be subject to countless clone and variation and include the bachelorette and joe millionaire and for love or money and and the execrable marry by america . hop to cash in on this trend and and simultaneously tap and exploit a new demographic and bravo have unleash the disastrous boy meet boy upon the world . and may they have mercy on u all . the premise be simple and be design to be light hearted represent an eligible gay man be court by a number of suitor and eliminate show by show until one be leave and but there a twist . half of the men be actually straight . this be not much of a big deal and but the inherent viciousness of the scenario kick in after hear the pay off represent if and at the end of the show and the gay man pick a straight man in disguise and the straight man win a cash prize . the gay man get nothing and or at least nothing more than a few parting gift and a pat on the back and and a hearty round of aren not you embarrass . well and thanks for play . just the like the equally painful queer eye for the straight guy ( another bravo program ) and this show be another example of stereotype run amok . what make it even worse and though and be the fact that straight men be play up these stereotype for cash . the producer of this show believe that all you have to do be put enough hair gel in a man hair and dress up in abercrombie and fitch with a pair of designer sandal and strip him of all body hair and fat and voila . it the gay equivalent to put a white performer in blackface and and just as offensive to those of u like myself who be genuinely gay and do not dress or act like that . it imply that gay have no variance or chance for individuality and that they can not behave like real people and only like stereotype . never mind the fact that the bank of suitor be sorely lack in any kind of diversity . all be gym tone and most be white and and all look far too scrubbed and clean . this be another example of how and instead of foster acceptance of gay a dynamic individual capable of variance and change and hollywood have again take a stereotype and run with it all the way to the bank . i feel genuinely dirty watch this show and a show any gay man who see this unabashed parade of soft core pornography masquerade a legitimate television . negative .