i have to walk out on this film fifteen minute from the end . have pass through the cringe stage and into pure boredom . what really horrify me and i mean truly disturb me and be that there be people refer to this aimless drivel a wouldelightful or a amust see . i would feel deep pity for those so afflicted be it not for the distinct impression that most of the positive comment about this shallow and humourless travesty be write by industry plant . the truth be this be a lame film that do nothing to entertain nor enlighten . it be decidedly unfunny and poorly script and have all the pace and energy of cold and canned rice pudding . to be kind to ms kramer and the best one can say be it be a missed opportunity and for have read the synopsis before i watch it and i have expect something more challenging . the possible misinterpretation of a close brother and sister co dependence and the unexpected awakening of isterly sexuality and and the comic potential in such sibling rivalry ( for the affection of the same girl ) be all obvious subject for refresh comedic exploration and yet which at every turn the movie frustratingly shy away from . instead and the audience be subject to a meander series of uninspired and insipidly draw situation and with clichéd characterisation and dull performance from a cast struggle for belief and obviously in need of much tight direction . the lack of directorial control seem astound while on the one hand and moynahan and cavanagh and spacek all give very pedestrian performance and while heather graham and molly shannon the latter in particular veer towards embarrass over compensation at time . one could lay the blame for this on the director maybe sue kramer hop that if her actor over act and they will force a big laugh from the audience . but then again and the cast be a veteran one while one would expect them to do good . sue kramer really need to think carefully what kind of movie she want to make and and for whom . give the possible issue gray matter alludes to and and give her inability or unwillingness to fully explore them in the context of a comedy and perhaps she should consider write drama instead . i know it be never easy to make film about woman and woman issue and especially when one hop to reach a wide audience than woman alone and but whatever direction she take and inconsequential and flimsy character like gray be not go to cut mustard .