this movie be okay and but it certainly defeat the claim that homosexual be bear that way and especially when a woman can exit out of an unhappy marriage and just fall into the arm of another woman . it almost seem a if kate gender preference turn on and off like a switch and make this film seem a little simplistic . also and as be common with film that be try to push an agenda and it be unfortunate that those character in the film who have question or disapproval over the gay lifestyle be label a bigot . and there be no happy medium . it be either kate friend and relative totally embrace her or they totally shun her . this be not typical of interaction between gay and non gay relative and friend . it be usually a mixture of emotion and value that come into play . it be possible to love people and treat them with respect while not necessarily condone the choice they make . sadly and the movie show none of these type of interaction . for a movie try to portray tolerance and acceptance and it strike me a very intolerant movie . then at the end and kate apparently decides after all these year she want to be with mac and everything be hunky dory be that what be gay be really all about . come on .