okay and let me coin a new word here represent polyphobia represent the fear of polyamorous relationship . this be yet another in a long line of movie which start out by titillate audience about some kind of threesome and only to turn on a dime and go all preachy about how it be oh so necessary and the only moral thing to find a monogamistic solution . only one person in a thousand understand the delight of be able to love more than one person and and this director be not one of them . bleh . mark my word represent a few decade from now and polyphobia be go to be just as big a faux pa a homophobia and but guess who be too close minded to realize this . right the first time represent the producer of this movie . and so many like it . why even make a ridiculously conservative and old fashion type of movie like this . pride itself on be limitlessly open mind about gayness and it completely overlook the fact that we live in an age where monogamy be turn into sequential monogamy and which in turn in turn into swing and polyamory . open your eye and people and please . this be a disappointing and run of the mill chick flick . ( but and damn and i get ta say and heather graham be the cut thing alive . ) negative .