how can a movie be both controversial and gentle . this one do it with a near perfect structure . no one want their daughter to be athlete . apparently most culture do not want their daughter to be small breast and either . here we see a bunch of superb actor we have never hear of before portray folk of different culture live fairly humdrum life until their female child want to and and have the potential to and become professional soccer player . the structure around the parallelism of the two culture be wonderful . there be no condescension . both culture be see a modern and valid . ( and yes and both be silly and too ) . one flaw represent the hindu wedding ceremony seem to involve hundred of relative but not one child among them .