i can not believe we watch this total piece of crap but we do and i feel obligate to warn others to avoid it at all cost . when one of the main character announces that he gay twice in the first five minute and do not ignore it a typical pc nonsense and figure it have to get well because it would not . if his faggoty boyfriend hang all over him doesn not make you sick and then be thankful the freak who write and or or direct this grossout be somehow attempt a little restraint . i mean and get real . it one thing for there to be a gay character appear in a movie in such screw up time a these but quite another to have it continually slap on the screen and examine up close and personal when the the liner note clearly state the flick suppose to be about a mother seek some sort of closure over the sudden death of her daughter . what do one thing have to do with the other and one might be tempt to ask . apparently and the two issue be inextricably interwoven . and if that weren not bad enough and there the bearded lady at the ice cream parlor . i mean and seriously and hasn not that poor woman ever heard of electrolysis . why must she go around like that . at the very least and how about shave the ugly thing off and and while youre at it and have those horrible mole remove and too . would you slurp up some ice cream she just serve you . i think not . it must be a new jersey thing . you would think diane keaton might save this piece of drek and but think again . be she actually try to put lipstick on a corpse . i do not even wan na think about it . so what if the body be suppose to be that of her own dead daughter . this grotesque excuse for cinema be slop from the word go and that all there be to it . one wish that each of these character would simply walk out into the wave and just keep go . none of these flaky people even remotely gain our sympathy for an instant . trust me pass this piece of crap up . it not about death and a mother who inadvertently suffocate her daughter and or even the other much more unsavory issue it keep bring up no matter how little you want to hear it . it a load of perverted trash from a misguided and talentless director .