i be adopt at birth and certainly do not have the problem antwone fisher have in the movie and but i still share some of the emotion and this movie really help to bring them out and force me to deal with them . it even cause me to realize that i do have a missing piece and i be go to seek out my birthparents now . i cry for almost a day after i saw this the first time . antwone confrontation with his birthmother juxtapose with his father family reaction to his sudden appearance be powerful for those of u who do not know what will happen if we find our birth parent . and his self confidence and self affirmation to his mother and against the abuser of his past be so powerful . i could really identify with this and my need to tell people yeah and i be put aside by my parent when i be bear . but another set of parent pick me up and love me . and now i be a success . it also help my wife understand me and our adopted child and who do go through tragic experience before they come to our home . and it help me to realize just how mess up our social system be . if you remember read the story last year about the foster kid in florida who be lose and then the miranda and ashley story in oregon city where scf ignore multiple sexual abuse complaint about the man who ultimately kill them and the week this movie be release and yet another story in new jersey of three kid who be ignore by the system . one die . the state apparently think the home they be in be ok because the guardian be employ ( a a stripper ) and only occasionally use heroin . there be just so many issue that be bring out in this movie and they be dealt with so well by the script and by the acting that antwone fisher should be a best picture nominee for sure . no matter if you be adopt or not and it be a heart tugger that can not be ignore by anyone concern about child in our society .