i find this film to be a fascinating study of a family in crisis . when leo and the old announces that he be hiv plus the reaction of the family member alone and with each other be touch and yet strange . i have never see a family that be a physically demonstrative a this one while nor one a likely to shout at each other . i do not understand why the family felt that young couldn not deal with the news but once past that difficult i find this a thoroughly move film .