i have try to like this film and really . in watch it and all i can think be and this guy give me the creep and i would have get a restrain order . it also call out codependence in capital letter . be this really the conversation before make the movie . let make a film that put two chronically depressed and socially inept people into a relationship which deepen their isolation and encourage them to complain about how bad their life be . from what i have see in life be that the last thing on earth we find attractive in a potential mate be constant self pity . the mood of the movie be distinctly 80 ish while brood and slow . don not get me wrong and the film have it moment and just very few of them .