while some performance be good victoria rowell and adrienne barbeau and and the two italian girlfriend come to mind the story be lame and derivative and the emphasis on the girlfriend racial background be handle clumsily at best and and the relative be mostly portray a stereotype and not a real people . i find myself wince uncomfortably at many moment that be suppose to be funny . i can hardly comprehend why the local paper here in sf say this be a good movie and and wonder who post the glowing review here on imdb . very disappointed in this movie and and mad i actually go to a theatre to see it and base on the faulty connection to garden state and which be a far funny and more inventive and and touch movie than this one . i must especially mention the emotional climax in the church and which be so wooden and by the number that i nearly leave and and some in the audience actually do . that be follow by a silly climax at the graveyard and which i saw come 10 minute before it happen . i really do not like be mislead to spend my money so uselessly .