i like this movie and although halfway through it and i be able to tell who the secret admirer be . i be also wonder if it be base on a true story since it tell about the real people at the end of the movie . i guess i will have to research it and let ya know . do anyone remember what state this happen in . i believe they move to north carolina if i be not mistake . of course the state could have be change to protect the innocent . you would think that this man could have figure it out as easily a i do . be he stupid or what .